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2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Blackswan » Tue Dec 27, 2016 3:12 pm

Kitina13 wrote:My kids pediatrician said it's fine to take a healthy baby out, but to just try to avoid large crowds for the first three months.

My pediatrician said 1 month. I so wanted to go to the store and get ooooooh'd and aaaaaawh'd. We still waited the month though. With this baby my husband is staying home for a month so he will be taking my older son to and from preschool.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Blackswan » Tue Dec 27, 2016 3:12 pm

She hasn't been vlogging as much as I do expected her too.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Freaksngeeks » Tue Dec 27, 2016 3:19 pm

annapaulndaniel wrote:How do you not take a baby out and thus never leave the house yourself if you are breastfeeding for a whole month????? I am due in Feb and will have my husband home for two weeks but after that I will need to drop off and pick up my son from school, buy groceries etc. My Mum lives close by but I could never put all my responsibility onto her for a full month


The reasons to keep them home is because they're immune system is not like ours yet. They've been safe inside your womb & are born in a sterile hospital. Just taking them to your home has there immunity system working.
you don't want to go out too soon and risk it. Because if your newborn does get sick, it's a guaranteed stay at the hospital. Your baby has to get pricked with needles, a cathader put in. It's sad to see your newborn go through that.
After those two weeks when your hubby won't be able to help, and you have to go out, put your baby in a carrier close to you, with a blanket covering some of their head. Or in a stroller with a blanket to covering them. Make your trips quick and don't let anyone get too close. Oh and go o. Off times when the store is less crowded. But like after 3 weeks you should be fine.
We all know Vanessa was probably out showing off her newborn.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby smom12 » Tue Dec 27, 2016 4:04 pm

No worse than Jesssss taking her baby out the day after she was born, if not hours.


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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Anniekins » Tue Dec 27, 2016 4:57 pm

annapaulndaniel wrote:How do you not take a baby out and thus never leave the house yourself if you are breastfeeding for a whole month????? I am due in Feb and will have my husband home for two weeks but after that I will need to drop off and pick up my son from school, buy groceries etc. My Mum lives close by but I could never put all my responsibility onto her for a full month


I have three kids. We didn't take them to crowded places until 2 months old, after their first round of vaccinations. We went to the park or other people's houses. We didn't bring them to the mall or the grocery store. It was kind of a pain, but for 2 months I just went grocery shopping in the evening or after my husband got home from work. I breastfed, you can leave your baby for an hour or so to run an errand. Just feed them right before you leave, they'll be fine.

I thought it was pretty crazy how Vanessa was running around with the baby on all these errands. Not just for taking Charlie out, but for herself. She gave birth a week ago. Rest up.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby MommaOfThree » Tue Dec 27, 2016 5:19 pm

Anyone else notice her not overly dramatizing Charlie's illness? The baby is clearly sick, but she isn't going on and on about it in social media like she does when Lily gets sick. With Lily she will post something like, "Had to rush Lily to the ER...will update you guys later"...a week later she puts a video up saying she took Lily to the ER, in the middle of the night, for a rash.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Mamax1215 » Tue Dec 27, 2016 6:12 pm

Yogabbagabbat wrote:I guess that explains it


Omg That's so sad. I pray everything is okay with him. My kids have been so sick lately. With ear infections, the flu and now a really bad cold they both have. Mind you they are 4 and 1 so thankfully they are fighting what they have. He is so tiny I hope it's nothing serious.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby 1979 » Tue Dec 27, 2016 6:30 pm

I think it depends on where you are from as to how long it before it is "acceptable" to go out with a new baby. I was never told by our pediatrician to not go out. Full term babies are safe to go out fairly quickly and receive some protection from the mother in terms of passive immunity. I had my son out within 48 hours because I had been on bed rest for months and was about to go stir crazy if I had to wait another month.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Atrigsdad » Tue Dec 27, 2016 6:33 pm

annapaulndaniel wrote:How do you not take a baby out and thus never leave the house yourself if you are breastfeeding for a whole month????? I am due in Feb and will have my husband home for two weeks but after that I will need to drop off and pick up my son from school, buy groceries etc. My Mum lives close by but I could never put all my responsibility onto her for a full month

You gotta do what you gotta do. Obviously people think it's stupid, until your in a situation you have no other choice. I don't see the issue. I took my kids out soon after they were born and never did they get sick. If I waited for my fiance to get home I'd have maybe an hour before the stores close to food shop. I have to take my daughter to and from school every single day as well as a million other things. We live in jersey were it's much colder then sc. My son is 6 months and hasn't been sick once. My daughter didn't get her first cold until after a year old. To each their own I guess but not everyone has the luxury to stay at home for a month or two while other people do your errands.

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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby urusha90 » Tue Dec 27, 2016 6:44 pm

Personal but my baby was full term and super healthy. We ended up taking her to the store 2 weeks after birth, just to pick up some essentials. 2 days later she didn't wake up the whole night to BF which for a moment was oh that's cool, but at 5am when I thought I'd just wake her up myself, she wouldn't. She was barely breathing. We rushed to the hospital and after testing we found out she had pneumonia and had to be in the hospital for a week, 3 of those days I couldn't even hold her nor breast feed because when they tried taking her out of the incubator and tubes off, her breathing would decrease. It was horrible not being able to hold my little one when she most needed mommy, all because we took her out and she caught something from someone and couldn't fight it off herself. I guess we were just unlucky.


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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Random19 » Tue Dec 27, 2016 9:07 pm

veronicanumi wrote:Personal but my baby was full term and super healthy. We ended up taking her to the store 2 weeks after birth, just to pick up some essentials. 2 days later she didn't wake up the whole night to BF which for a moment was oh that's cool, but at 5am when I thought I'd just wake her up myself, she wouldn't. She was barely breathing. We rushed to the hospital and after testing we found out she had pneumonia and had to be in the hospital for a week, 3 of those days I couldn't even hold her nor breast feed because when they tried taking her out of the incubator and tubes off, her breathing would decrease. It was horrible not being able to hold my little one when she most needed mommy, all because we took her out and she caught something from someone and couldn't fight it off herself. I guess we were just unlucky.


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OMG, that's so scary. So sorry you had to go through that.

I hope her little guy is okay. I'm definitely gonna be the overprotective newborn mom. Better safe than sorry.

Jess was even crazier for parading her 1 day old all over town for clothes. She's just been lucky.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby MommaOfThree » Tue Dec 27, 2016 10:18 pm

My baby was born the day before Charlie. The flu is already popping up in our town, so she has only been out of the house to go to my mom's for Christmas, and to her one week check up. I wasn't as concerned about taking my older kids out when they were a couple of weeks old bc they were born during the summer.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Romeoxsavexme » Tue Dec 27, 2016 10:43 pm

I've had two kids. One born in June. One born the end of December. I took them both out a few days old. My children are breastfed and sorry but mama isn't going to stay cooped up in the house. I kept them covered in the car seat and that was that. Both of my girls were perfectly fine and are healthy 3 and 1 year olds.


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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby sadie » Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:26 pm

I think Vanessa looks really pretty with her hair up in her snap.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby kgiff77 » Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:28 pm

sadie wrote:I think Vanessa looks really pretty with her hair up in her snap.

What's her username


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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Yogabbagabbat » Wed Dec 28, 2016 12:16 am

Meh I hate the argument "it didn't happen to my kids". of course not ALL babies are going to get sick from going out in public. But if the risk of illness is higher...why even risk it if you don't have to...?
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby hey girl hey007 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 6:56 am

If you want to see a bullshitter bullshit go watch Vanessa's snaps. "When medical things happen I tend to get more reserved"....so that's why you have a video called lily's prolapsed rectum? We all called it. Of course Charlie is going to be held on a pedestal his health is private while his sisters is not. She's such a fucking hypocrite.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Peacebewithyou » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:15 am

Is Vanessa's snapchat Vanessachat? I can't find it on snapchat.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby ladyju28 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:20 am

Peacebewithyou wrote:Is Vanessa's snapchat Vanessachat? I can't find it on snapchat.

It's vanessaschat.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby MommaOfThree » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:35 am

hey girl hey007 wrote:If you want to see a bullshitter bullshit go watch Vanessa's snaps. "When medical things happen I tend to get more reserved"....so that's why you have a video called lily's prolapsed rectum? We all called it. Of course Charlie is going to be held on a pedestal his health is private while his sisters is not. She's such a fucking hypocrite.



She processes things by keeping to herself..:..nothing but bs. This is the first time she has "secluded" herself.

Don't forget about her putting Lilly in a car seat and driving home from FL as soon as she was released from the hospital. I'm sure a car seat is the most uncomfortable place to be after experiencing a prolapsed rectum.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby hey girl hey007 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 7:43 am

MommaOfThree wrote:
hey girl hey007 wrote:If you want to see a bullshitter bullshit go watch Vanessa's snaps. "When medical things happen I tend to get more reserved"....so that's why you have a video called lily's prolapsed rectum? We all called it. Of course Charlie is going to be held on a pedestal his health is private while his sisters is not. She's such a fucking hypocrite.



She processes things by keeping to herself..:..nothing but bs. This is the first time she has "secluded" herself.

Don't forget about her putting Lilly in a car seat and driving home from FL as soon as she was released from the hospital. I'm sure a car seat is the most uncomfortable place to be after experiencing a prolapsed rectum.


She keeps saying that she didn't have time to do anything. Yet she has time any time Lily need's to be rushed off to the ER. She even stops to make an intro, tell us about her day, tell us to please excuse her face (even though she always looks like that) then goes on to say, "we're on our way". Who is she trying to fool? It's obvious baby boy, little man, buddy is the perfect child she was waiting for.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby urusha90 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 9:33 am

Oh I think she is just tired as hell. The first weeks are rough, always breastfeeding, even though she isn't BF on demand, I'm sure her life has turned a complete 180 and doesn't know what to do with herself. That's why she isn't uploading.


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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Blackswan » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:03 am

hey girl hey007 wrote:If you want to see a bullshitter bullshit go watch Vanessa's snaps. "When medical things happen I tend to get more reserved"....so that's why you have a video called lily's prolapsed rectum? We all called it. Of course Charlie is going to be held on a pedestal his health is private while his sisters is not. She's such a fucking hypocrite.
Can you link that vlog? About Lily?


Yeah all of a sudden she wants to be private.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby Blackswan » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:06 am

Also does anyone even care that Britney is gonna give birth soon? These youtubers are pushing their life expectancy. Their time is almost up.
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Re: 2011MoreLiesFromVanessa (part 33)

Postby hey girl hey007 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:13 am

Blackswan wrote:
hey girl hey007 wrote:If you want to see a bullshitter bullshit go watch Vanessa's snaps. "When medical things happen I tend to get more reserved"....so that's why you have a video called lily's prolapsed rectum? We all called it. Of course Charlie is going to be held on a pedestal his health is private while his sisters is not. She's such a fucking hypocrite.
Can you link that vlog? About Lily?


Yeah all of a sudden she wants to be private.


Either she took down the video or I can't find it, it was when they were in FL for Disney. It goes from Disney World day 5 to Are we going to Peru?
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