2011WaysToIgnoreLily- Part 36
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I don't know why but to me Charlie doesn't seem like misersble baby, maybe I should re watch her vlogs but I don't remember him constantly screaming.
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So much of that video made me want to help poor miserable baby Charlie. She's so clueless.... I bet he's not even in the percentile she mentioned with weight or at the very low end of it and that's why
She's not saying his weight.
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Re: 2011WaysToIgnoreLily- Part 36
The saying breast is best is true to an extent but it also can be damaging for girls like V. The saying should be fed is best. V wants to breastfeed which is great. But if you are sacrificing the health of your child just to keep up with other YT moms or so that you can continue to say 100% exclusively breastfed...you need a reality check. Supplementing isn't the devil. If giving Charlie some cereal caused him to sleep the best he ever has and caused his fussing to stop that is the answer right there. His belly is empty.
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I think it's a little strange how people are 100% convinced that Charlie is starving to death. I know gossip boards are filled with speculation but people talk about it like it's a fact...
15-20th percentile is normal..he does not look starving at all. He is a very fussy baby but some kids are just like that. My second son was a very chubby baby but was always pissy. He's the same way at 2 years old. Just because he screams doesn't mean he's starving.
And did someone say babies aren't teething until a tooth actually pops through? Because that's totally incorrect.
15-20th percentile is normal..he does not look starving at all. He is a very fussy baby but some kids are just like that. My second son was a very chubby baby but was always pissy. He's the same way at 2 years old. Just because he screams doesn't mean he's starving.
And did someone say babies aren't teething until a tooth actually pops through? Because that's totally incorrect.
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The simple fact that she said he was still exclusively breastfed shows how dumb she is. Once she introduced cereal he was no longer exclusively breastfed; even if she put her breast milk in it. Hahawendydarling wrote:On the 5m update video I wanted to smack her! Boasting "we are exclusive breastfeeding. He has had NOTHING but breastmilk."
Dumbass, that is nothing to brag about when your baby is clearly needing some formula.
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I agree. I don't get the feeling that he's starved or that she's picking his face (I have 3 kids and they all scratched their face on accident as babies). He does look small and not up to date with his milestones. (His head was sooooo wobbly in his update video and he seemed spaced out like lily.) I think a large part of the complaints people have about lily and Charlie are due to Vanessa's parenting. All lily does all day long (when she's home) is watch television. She's very rarely interacted with or stimulated unless Vanessa wants her to show off that she knows her colors or animals. And I think the same is holding true for Charlie, she always has that fish tv toy in his face or something with bright flashing lights. They zone out because they are always zoned into something other than human interaction.Yogabbagabbat wrote:I think it's a little strange how people are 100% convinced that Charlie is starving to death. I know gossip boards are filled with speculation but people talk about it like it's a fact...
15-20th percentile is normal..he does not look starving at all. He is a very fussy baby but some kids are just like that. My second son was a very chubby baby but was always pissy. He's the same way at 2 years old. Just because he screams doesn't mean he's starving.
And did someone say babies aren't teething until a tooth actually pops through? Because that's totally incorrect.
Charlie is always sitting in his car seat or something.. which is why his head control hasn't developed. He's probably fussy because Vanessa is always tickling him when he's sleeping or poking at him during a Snapchat.
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I will say that I am pretty certain she was lying about Charlie's weight percentage. She hesitated for like 5 seconds before she finally said, "He's in the 10th to um the 25th percentile." Totally lying. He's in the 10th percentile. No doubt in my mind. She added on the 25th percentile so it didn't sound as bad. Which is SO STUPID because it is not a big deal. I thought my son was underweight as a baby, and he was always in the 50th for weight... but 80th for height.
I will say that I don't think he is malnourished. Small? Yes. But it isn't until the baby drops below the 2nd percentile that they are considered malnourished. But he is a small and not very cute baby.
Also... Vanessa is a mess. A big. fat. mess. Her eyebrows have always been awful. Her complexion is awful. Her makeup is awful. Her hair is FUCKING AWFUL. Seriously the weight is the least of her problems, I don't even think she is fat. I have never thought she was attractive, but she has seriously stopped trying anymore. She looks like an insane drug addict.
I will say that I don't think he is malnourished. Small? Yes. But it isn't until the baby drops below the 2nd percentile that they are considered malnourished. But he is a small and not very cute baby.
Also... Vanessa is a mess. A big. fat. mess. Her eyebrows have always been awful. Her complexion is awful. Her makeup is awful. Her hair is FUCKING AWFUL. Seriously the weight is the least of her problems, I don't even think she is fat. I have never thought she was attractive, but she has seriously stopped trying anymore. She looks like an insane drug addict.
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I don't think he's starving to death, I just think he could use some more. He will survive with the way V is doing things, but he likely could be doing better.Yogabbagabbat wrote:I think it's a little strange how people are 100% convinced that Charlie is starving to death. I know gossip boards are filled with speculation but people talk about it like it's a fact...
15-20th percentile is normal..he does not look starving at all. He is a very fussy baby but some kids are just like that. My second son was a very chubby baby but was always pissy. He's the same way at 2 years old. Just because he screams doesn't mean he's starving.
And did someone say babies aren't teething until a tooth actually pops through? Because that's totally incorrect.
The fact that he inhaled ten spoonfuls of cereal and had a real nap afterwards for the first time in his life says something to me. Coupled with the way he looks and his constant unhappiness.
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Re: 2011WaysToIgnoreLily- Part 36
I did some research about it a little while ago and he is in 5-10 percentile. She's lying.
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There is zero chance he is 25th. My son is 5 weeks old, born at 7lbs 4oz and is now 10lbs and is considered the top end of 25th centile. Charlie was apparently 12lbs 14oz as of 4 months old. Nope.
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Sorry wendydarling, I didn't mean to actually 'reply' to you there!
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http://cdn5.kellymom.com/images/growth/growthcharts.gif
According to this chart Charlie was right above the 10th percentile at 4 months old and 12 lb 14 oz.
So.. not a lie
According to this chart Charlie was right above the 10th percentile at 4 months old and 12 lb 14 oz.
So.. not a lie
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Lol she posted a snap about how "everyone's asking her what happened to her hairline"
Who's everyone Vanessa?
Who's everyone Vanessa?
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She had a whole Snap story on what happened to her hairline, and posted a picture of her postpartum hair loss after she had Lily. Looks pretty much the same to me as now.
That sucks, I'm so thankful I never had postpartum hair loss after I had my baby :/
Also she's live on Younow
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That sucks, I'm so thankful I never had postpartum hair loss after I had my baby :/
Also she's live on Younow
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I think it's where she said '10th um 25th centile'. Can be quite a substantial difference there really. 10th is far more believable which doesn't necessarily mean he's starved but definitely a tiny tiny baby.Yogabbagabbat wrote:http://cdn5.kellymom.com/images/growth/growthcharts.gif
According to this chart Charlie was right above the 10th percentile at 4 months old and 12 lb 14 oz.
So.. not a lie
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Not that I've watched any of the videos lately but my guess is because Lily was a small baby who didn't meet milestones, Vanessa could be missing the cues for Charlie because he's normal compared to Lily.
But all in all he looks normal to me.
But all in all he looks normal to me.
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Curtain06 wrote:I think it's where she said '10th um 25th centile'. Can be quite a substantial difference there really. 10th is far more believable which doesn't necessarily mean he's starved but definitely a tiny tiny baby.Yogabbagabbat wrote:http://cdn5.kellymom.com/images/growth/growthcharts.gif
According to this chart Charlie was right above the 10th percentile at 4 months old and 12 lb 14 oz.
So.. not a lie
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Yeah when she starts trying to call him chunky and stuff I'm like "uhhh stop" lol. I just get annoyed when I see people saying she needs to drop breastfeeding because I think that's a crazy statement/assumption.
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Re: 2011WaysToIgnoreLily- Part 36
Vanessa, it's hard to take any of your Snapchat rants seriously when you're using that dog and big mouth filter. We have seen you look like a 'hot mess' a million times now, you don't need to use filters to hide that.