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OMG...people are commenting on brittandkoreys video "if you love Vanessa you should see Britneyandbaby" and stuff like that. Wtf
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Dumbledore wrote:She hates being lonely when he's at work?! I wish he had been able to join the military, then she'd truly know what it is to be lonely when he goes away for training or deployment. He's gone for a couple hrs a day no big deal, I'm sure she still guilts him into coming over every night anyways. She's so dramatic, eventually everyone has to make sacrifices in order to better their situation. It's called being a grown up.
EXACTLY!!! After being an Army wife, going through basic and AIT then the months of training and deployments it really grinds my gears when females complain about their SO being gone a few hours a day. GET OVER IT VANESSA!!!! Strop being a creep and a stalker and make some friends, take lily to gymboree or some sort of play group. Go for a walk with her, do something!!! And yes I know, she doesn't have a car (her fault) but there is public transportation. For the love of god though, stop complaining you're "lonely".

Also, Vanessa, if you slowed down on the shopping sprees maybe he wouldn't have to work so much. Just a thought.
I am a Military Widow and so I've been through training, field rotations, deployment and so why can't
she miss him even if he's gone a couple of hours? What if something happened to him while they're apart? I never understood why Army Wifes felt they were entitle to tell people they couldn't miss there SO just because they're not military. That's just dumb!
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Lily "eases the pain" of him working? What the hell? She needs to get some damn independence.
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She can miss him all she wants. It's just annoying that she tries to gain sympathy and pity over something everyone in the world (with a significant other who is employed) has to go through. And you can't compare missing someone for 24hrs to missing someone for 6,9,12 months.
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Did it ever occur to her that if she got off her ass and got a job, maybe he wouldn't have to work so much? If she actually followed through with bar tending classes, pursued photography full time or even worked in a restaurant or the mall, that would bring in more income and help them save for a place faster. If she worked full time maybe David could cut back a little bit. I feel sorry for him. He had his whole life ahead of him and it was ruined by Madam Boobsqueeze. I wouldn't be surprised if she got pregnant on purpose. I wouldn't be surprised if she gets pregnant again within the next 12 months.
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Madam boob squeeze! OMG DYING RIGHT NOW :good1: :rofl:
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Dumbledore wrote:She hates being lonely when he's at work?! I wish he had been able to join the military, then she'd truly know what it is to be lonely when he goes away for training or deployment. He's gone for a couple hrs a day no big deal, I'm sure she still guilts him into coming over every night anyways. She's so dramatic, eventually everyone has to make sacrifices in order to better their situation. It's called being a grown up.
EXACTLY!!! After being an Army wife, going through basic and AIT then the months of training and deployments it really grinds my gears when females complain about their SO being gone a few hours a day. GET OVER IT VANESSA!!!! Strop being a creep and a stalker and make some friends, take lily to gymboree or some sort of play group. Go for a walk with her, do something!!! And yes I know, she doesn't have a car (her fault) but there is public transportation. For the love of god though, stop complaining you're "lonely".

Also, Vanessa, if you slowed down on the shopping sprees maybe he wouldn't have to work so much. Just a thought.
I am a Military Widow and so I've been through training, field rotations, deployment and so why can't
she miss him even if he's gone a couple of hours? What if something happened to him while they're apart? I never understood why Army Wifes felt they were entitle to tell people they couldn't miss there SO just because they're not military. That's just dumb!
First, sorry for your loss. :( I can't even imagine.

Second, I do not feel entitled to tell anyone who they can and can not miss. I miss my husband every single day that he has to go to work AND THEN at night when he goes to school!! The difference between her and I, I don't sit and complain on YT, FB, IG... She needs to get off the social media sites and DO SOMETHING other than complain and have a big fat Vanessa pity party!! I do not ever complain because I am far too busy with 4 children, a house that needs to be kept up, laundry that needs to be done, animals that need to be taken care of, a garden that needs to also be taken care of, errands that need to be ran ect ect ect... PLUS I know he HAS to do it, he is doing what he needs to do to take care of his family. I wouldn't dare get on a social media site and have a pity party like she does so that he can read it and feel badly for doing what he does for his family. I also wouldn't pester the crap out of him by shoving a camera in his face every chance I got. She needs to grow the hell up and find something to do other than dwell on how "lonely" she is with out him for a few hours a day. It's ridiculous. She has a toddler daughter who NEEDS her attention. She definitely shouldn't be "lonely" just because David is gone a few hours a day. This just further proves that she isn't giving Lily the attention that she needs, thus leading to what seems to be an upset/fussy/unhappy toddler most of the time.

Also, until someone has lived the military life they will never truly know what it is like to miss their SO. Like I said, I miss my husband when he is at work and school but it will NEVER EVER compare to the way I missed him when he served. It just wont.
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I don't think David will ever join the military. I just don't see it happening. I guess I'm the only one who thinks its cute when she says she misses him while hes working. :)
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pitbulllove wrote:I don't think David will ever join the military. I just don't see it happening. I guess I'm the only one who thinks its cute when she says she misses him while hes working. :)
I don't think he ever will either. When they made the video and he said he couldn't join because of budget cuts I knew he was making excuses and would never go. My husband just confirmed, I asked him if they would cut off people joining during a budget cut, (so that I didn't just make and ass of myself by saying that he was making excuses if what he said was true haha.) and he said "No, he just doesn't want to go". Which is completely fine. I don't think anyone should join unless they really want to. When you join you're basically willing to give up (because once you sign your name, you belong to the military and they do what they want with you) and possibly lose your life. Its a big life decision that shouldn't be made lightly or on a whim. With that being said, I do think the military would be a good thing for them.
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Perhaps she's lonely and feels lonely because she has no friends? Of course, logically, she would then miss David. She is not a bad person, just impulsive one and that seems to lead for her to sometimes magnify things that aren't that big.

What I'm trying to say here is that I don't think Vanessa's ever been a social wonder child. She is still living under the reign of her mother and from what I understand, that lady is strict. She lives with a strict mother, has SN child.. It actually may be that difficult for her to even try obtain new friends. That is just sad.

I also do believe that Vanessa does give Lily the attention she needs. While her mother supports her a lot, some of you need to keep in perspective how much as a mother Vanessa's already had to have gone through. It's no easy ride, I assure you.

Now, I do believe Vanessa, David and Lily would benefit if Vanessa's mother would loosen the leash a little. That seems to be one of the top contributors to any heated arguments in their lives. Vanessa's mother needs to understand Vanessa is an adult, that David's an adult and that they have a small family of their own.

I also think Vanessa would benefit of taking Lily to mom-toddler groups (if she already does, I wouldn't know). That's the easiest solution for her loneliness and I bet little Lily would thrive.
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placebo wrote: I also think Vanessa would benefit of taking Lily to mom-toddler groups (if she already does, I wouldn't know). That's the easiest solution for her loneliness and I bet little Lily would thrive.
Agree, I posted this quite a few posts back. I think it will help her tremendously!! She will get out of the house with Lily, she will be around other mothers with children and possibly make some new friends AND Lily will get to play with other children. It would be an awesome thing for both of them. She needs to get it together and stop wallowing in her own self pity. It's sad, yes, but more than that it's ridiculous. Only she can change her situation. She needs to stop spending crazy amounts of money as well so that she can help contribute to her and David getting their own place, then she will not be under her mothers roof where the reigns are pulled in tight. It's all about making good decisions to better your situation. She needs to get out of this teenage mindset and just do it.
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regarding the whole thing about Vanessa missing David while he's working;

I'm in a long distance relationship and the last time I saw my man was over 2 years ago. DONT EVEN get me started about missing someone. Some people are just so ungrateful for what they have and take it for granted. Vanessa irks me in so many ways and this is the number one reason.
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MemyselfandI wrote:Did it ever occur to her that if she got off her ass and got a job, maybe he wouldn't have to work so much? If she actually followed through with bar tending classes, pursued photography full time or even worked in a restaurant or the mall, that would bring in more income and help them save for a place faster. If she worked full time maybe David could cut back a little bit. I feel sorry for him. He had his whole life ahead of him and it was ruined by Madam Boobsqueeze. I wouldn't be surprised if she got pregnant on purpose. I wouldn't be surprised if she gets pregnant again within the next 12 months.
Woah, woah, whoah. Fuck this. It takes two to make a baby. Unless she slipped him a Viagra and knocked him over the head with a frying pan, David was fully aware of what he was doing.

And I don't think the amount of time David works is relevant to Vanessa, really. He has his own bills plus half of Lily (I don't think he pays that much for her, but whatever) to pay for.
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The only thing I saw that Vanessa and Brittney 2.0 had in common was that both their boyfriends looked liked they didn't want to be there.
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I agree, you should never commit to a job if you aren't 1000000% you want to do it. More so when its something like the military. I think both her and Lily would benefit from a play group or a mommy get together, that's a great idea. I have little sympathy for David, and frankly he gets off way to easy on this thread. He knew what may or may not happen when he made the decision to have sex with Vanessa. No protection is 100%. I respect he has a job but he should be taking things a little more seriously since hes a dad.
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Ehh my husband works I don't and I miss him too while he works .. I love the man and am pregnant by him happens lol

do not see the need to compare situations as if some can not miss their significant other because another person has a situation where they have to spend A LOT more time away from their significant other

it is not a contest lol..nothing wrong with missing someone
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Dumbledore wrote:She can miss him all she wants. It's just annoying that she tries to gain sympathy and pity over something everyone in the world (with a significant other who is employed) has to go through. And you can't compare missing someone for 24hrs to missing someone for 6,9,12 months.

who said anyone was trying to compare those two situations? ... no one said it was the same she just said she misses him :?
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surferbunny wrote:
Dumbledore wrote:She can miss him all she wants. It's just annoying that she tries to gain sympathy and pity over something everyone in the world (with a significant other who is employed) has to go through. And you can't compare missing someone for 24hrs to missing someone for 6,9,12 months.


who said anyone was trying to compare those two situations? ... no one said it was the same she just said she misses him :?
It was in reply to ohgoodness. She said something about how military wives belittle others by saying they have no right to miss their significant others because they are not separated long periods of time like they are. I just pointed out that there was a difference between missing someone for a couple of hrs and missing someone for a couple of months. That's all, and I think most people would agree. The topic of military came up because David had said he was considering it.
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Also, most people (not all obviously) who have been in a long distance relationship will scoff at those who complain about missing their SO after a day or two. She's allowed to miss him, I just don't like her looking for pity by saying it pains her to not see him because he has to work. And if I remember correctly, when David was in college he used to only see Vanessa and Lily on the weekends. In her current vlogs it seems like she's with him almost everyday. Why complain now when she's had it worse?
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Dumbledore wrote:
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Dumbledore wrote:She can miss him all she wants. It's just annoying that she tries to gain sympathy and pity over something everyone in the world (with a significant other who is employed) has to go through. And you can't compare missing someone for 24hrs to missing someone for 6,9,12 months.


who said anyone was trying to compare those two situations? ... no one said it was the same she just said she misses him :?
It was in reply to ohgoodness. She said something about how military wives belittle others by saying they have no right to miss their significant others because they are not separated long periods of time like they are. I just pointed out that there was a difference between missing someone for a couple of hrs and missing someone for a couple of months. That's all, and I think most people would agree. The topic of military came up because David had said he was considering it.

... ohgoodness made a good point she still was not comparing the two, you did lol and a few others did idc that he was going to join the service he is not in the service, has no relevance on her missing him

makes no sense lol this is not a contest to act like she has no right to miss him is redick, she said she misses her man she is entitled to just as anyone else is no matter what his occupational hours are

she can say she misses him all she wants do not see how that is looking for pity saying you miss someone lol
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