JesssFam: And Kitty Makes Ten! (Part 92)

[CallieT]

Not a minion, not trying to defend Jess or anything but tbh I feel like the whole 'Jess is pushing dance on Lilia' thing is REALLY reaching...I'm pretty sure Lilia used to be in gymnastics but wanted to quit. And Lilia obviously loves dancing and all the outfits, I don't see any evidence Lilia is being forced into anything? Also saying a 6 year old sucks at dancing is just kind of low, like come on, what matters is that she's having fun and SHE feels special. I don't think Jess is trying to get Lilia to be a professional dancer or anything either (how could she be when Lilia needs to give her grand babies as soon as she turns 18! lol)

[sparklylover]

Yes, exactly. And with her five deductions (aka, kids) she is probably getting a hefty tax refund. Also justifies her being on MediCal (state sponsored health care that she doesn't pay for) because her "expenses" outweigh her income. So basically she can say, "Yeah, I make $7,000 a month (from that screenshot a few pages back) but I spend most of that on my "job," so I really don't make that much."

Not this again....

I don't know where you guys are getting the idea tha she is on Medi-Cal. I know for a fact that she is not. I used to be on Medi-Cal a few years ago and I researched it thouroughly.

1. She takes her kids to Sutter Health. They do not accept Medi-Cal. Most likely, she would have an assigned Medi-Cal where she would be assigned to a doctor and would be required to only go to that doctor. Sutter Health is not a participant. She would have Dignity Health or Kaiser depending on where she was assigned.

2. You cannot have more than $2500 in assets. I believe that your house is not included, but your bank account is. Since they are married, both bank accounts are counted. I seriously doubt Chris would drop a grand on a drone if they only had $2500 in the bank. Even if they do write it off.

3. I just looked it up and for her family size, she needs to be making below 50k a year. Her income alone is way over that limit, let alone if you add in Chris's income (if he has any). They look at your pay stubs and tax write offs have nothing to do with it.

4. Medi-Cal needs to be renewed yearly. You can't just keep it once you are on it. So even if she was on it before, she still needs to report her income each year. They are very strict.

5. Medi-Cal pays for everything. You don't ever need to file claims. The doctor automatically sends everything over to the Medi-Cal department and they take care of it. She wouldn't be filing claims with her insurance if she had Medi-Cal.

I am really confident that she is not on it. Sorry if this seems stupid, and I am far from a Jess minion. But in CA it is not that easy to be on state assistance.

Yeah when o brought up her system it seemed like Kaiser but I wasn't positive


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[Aboogabooga]

Not a minion, not trying to defend Jess or anything but tbh I feel like the whole 'Jess is pushing dance on Lilia' thing is REALLY reaching...I'm pretty sure Lilia used to be in gymnastics but wanted to quit. And Lilia obviously loves dancing and all the outfits, I don't see any evidence Lilia is being forced into anything? Also saying a 6 year old sucks at dancing is just kind of low, like come on, what matters is that she's having fun and SHE feels special. I don't think Jess is trying to get Lilia to be a professional dancer or anything either (how could she be when Lilia needs to give her grand babies as soon as she turns 18! lol)

I agree, especially because in a recent vlog she even mentions how she'd love for Lillia to be a 'dancer' (I use that term loosely) like she was but she's not going to force her. And that she'll keep Lillia in dance for as long as she [lillia] wants to. I think she wanted to try gymnastics a few months ago and it wasn't really brought up again but I'm sure jess told her she had to pick one or the other because at the time she was already in dance, Girl Scouts, cheer and/or swim. And so the fuck what if she sucks? Let her live. That studio is a lot like the studio I danced at as a kid. I did 7 years total and it was purely just for fun and I enjoyed getting all dressed up for recital at the end.

And I remember people saying before that jess probably wouldn't let the twins do softball because it was drakes favorite sport and well, she obviously put that pettiness aside and let them do it. So I don't see why she wouldn't do the same for her princess if she ever wanted to try something other than dance.


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[JustBeingCurious]

Gabe with Addie was the sweetest thing the fact that he just took her and held/played with her was so cute. Lilia is really lucky to have two parents who clearly get along really well for her benefit.

[Highlighter]

Lilia said she wanted to do gymnastics right after the boys started doing it and she saw them for the first time. Whilst she is young and should get to try as much as possible before settling on something, I'm sure most of the 'desire' of wanting to do gymnastics was just because it was something new her brothers were doing. She clearly isn't sad over not doing it and perfectly happy with dance. Jess probably did give her an ultimatum but I'm sure she listenend to Lilia's choice and dance was the way forward.

On a side note, where does Jess get these baby clothes from? Style wise (not quality wise) her sons are dressed like normal 2017 kids. Lilia at least gets dressed normally by her dad and her clothing from Jess isn't *too* bad. But Addie literally gets dressed like kids were dressed in the 90s and as somebody born then, it's really not a good look.

[Blackswan]

On a side note, where does Jess get these baby clothes from? Style wise (not quality wise) her sons are dressed like normal 2017 kids. Lilia at least gets dressed normally by her dad and her clothing from Jess isn't *too* bad. But Addie literally gets dressed like kids were dressed in the 90s and as somebody born then, it's really not a good look.

Well look how Jessica dresses

[user123_]

Yep, Lilia was a beat ahead of everyone! Hahaha that's okay, not like this was a high pressure situation. Good to see her having fun!

[Highlighter]

Do you think that if Jess and Drake had had a daughter, she and Drake would have taken part in this too?

[cjl123]

Do you think that if Jess and Drake had had a daughter, she and Drake would have taken part in this too?

Drake can't even participate in his sons tball games.


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[cjl123]

Am I the only one who thinks Lilia looked a little over it all? Her face was so dead, idk if she was just focusing so hard on remembering her routine but she wasn't smiling very much.


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[cjl123]

Last post I swear, but her FAQ annoyed me so much and totally proves that she is not in as much pain as every claimed she was in. If she was in actual pain she would be research insurance claims appeals right away, she would be talking to her surgeon, finding a new surgeon, speaking with her insurance. She hasn't done anything but sit in her ass and expect it to just work itself out for her. It didn't come easy so she just stops trying. I don't feel the least bit bad for her and her, how is someone 25, a grown adult and doesn't know about basic life things like appealing insurance denials.

And omg I was dying laughing at her saying she doesn't know when to get the surgery. STFU. She has a tribe of people willing to help her, Chris doesn't even work! I'm not even mad at her that, I'm so fortunate to have my own tribe of people willing to help me but it just proves even more she's not in pain. If she was she wouldn't hesitate to pull the victim card and ask everyone for help.


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[mavenjill]

She looked like a kid dancing and having fun. Her eyes are just sort of dead naturally, my niece has those heavy kids too.

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[mavenjill]

*lids

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[missy-1010]

Omg I laughed so hard during the last routine and now I feel bad


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[nutbagmcgee]

She is a beat ahead of everyone the entire time! Yikes.

[Natxo]

It annoyed me so much when Lilia said in a bratty way that's it's not her first dance recital coz she's been there for FIVE years .. wow congrats!

[mamaya10]

She looked like she was having fun and I think her dancing was pretty good. Look at the others, they seemed lost..

[pennyajdg]

Everything Lilia does reeks of a child desperate for attention, only reason she probably hasn't told Jess and doesn't like dance (she definitely doesn't seem like it and hasn't improved over the years) is becAuse that's where she gets the most attention from Jess, oh Lilia year hair is beautiful never cut it, so of course she's never going to ask to get that mess cut , you the best dancer in the world, so of course she had to be in dance smh way to program your kids


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[Natxo]

I think compared to the other kids she was probably the best one there... she knew all the moves and most of the other kids looked like they didn't know what's going on lol

[ruby14]

I just watched the new video. Actual choreography wise, I thought Lilia did great. Rhythm wise, not so much but in some of the clips a lot of people were off also, so it was bit hard for me to tell who was right, but that it pretty common with dancers her age (seriously, I've seen my fair share of 6 year old dances, this is pretty much the norm). Lilia did seem to know the dances well, the only thing she really needs to work on is her facial expressions. I had trouble with that too when I was kid, so I promise that her facial expressions don't necessarily mean that she isn't enjoying it. I loved dance but if you look at my pictures and videos from when I was I kid, you probably wouldn't think I did. She also just needs to be a little more disciplined in her moves. She's not as sharp as she could be, but when she gets older and starts learning technique, it'll probably get better.