I really think it's an attention thing. When you're pregnant, you just get a lot of attention. Everyone wants to know when the baby's due, what you're having, what the siblings think, etc. Even if you look like crap, people tell you how good you look. It makes you feel special, even if you don't like being the center of attention. And then you give birth and everyone wants to see the cute new baby and talk about the new baby and see pictures and then the baby becomes a toddler and then a preschooler and the attention fades. But to be on your fourth pregnancy under less than ideal conditions because you're unable to give up all that, that's pathological.smom12 wrote:I'm curious to think what you all think...why does she have many kids and apparently wants more? Is it just stupidity with birth control? Does she get pregnant to lock guys down? Addicted to pregnancy? I honestly can't figure her out.
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A mix? I think there's a lot of reasons, but personally I think there's two main factors at play. The first one is that in her mind, having a baby strengthens a relationship and ties her significant other to her. There's lots of opinions on here about if Lilia and the twins were planned or not, but regardless I think she wanted a baby with Gabe for those two reasons, she was obsessed with creating a family and didn't expect that he would ever break up with her after they had a baby. Same with Drake, when he was just her boyfriend it didn't have the same "family" feel as when she had another 2/3 kids with him. She hasn't learned yet that having children puts strain on a relationship just because things are good for a couple months doesn't mean she will be with this person forever, and this creates a cycle where she then craves another baby to love her.smom12 wrote:I'm curious to think what you all think...why does she have many kids and apparently wants more? Is it just stupidity with birth control? Does she get pregnant to lock guys down? Addicted to pregnancy? I honestly can't figure her out.
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Additionally, I think at this point she realizes that she really has nothing going for her besides being a mother, her career is a joke, she doesn't have any real hobbies, all she does is her youtube which is all about her kids. If she has a lot of kids then she can be "supermom" and at least make money off of that, whereas if she had stopped after Lilia or even the twins, she would have to face the reality of getting a job and doing something with her life. But as long as she has a baby in the house, she can stay occupied and no one can tell her to go back to school or work. I'm 99% positive that she will have another baby once baby Skube is 2-4, she will be lost without a baby.
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I think It's attention and entrapment. I agree that she planned Lilia because she didn't think Gabe would break up with her. She probably planned it perfectly in her head. She would get pregnant, baby would be due after she graduates so it won't affect her education. She hoped shortly after her and Gabe would get married and would have another baby. I also think she planned the twins (not necessarily to have twins but one of them). Stupid if she did, seeing as how her and Drake weren't even together that long. Probably just so she has a story to tell that he came to the rescue when Gabe abandoned her with a newborn. Because until Drake became a dead beat, Gabe was the dead beat. You can tell she just wanted to have babies and get married. I've always wondered if she's ever confessed to someone if she did plan her kids.
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I would add that part of it is her obsession with babies herself. I don't think she loses interest as her kids get older, but I think she likes having a cute little babies that completely rely on her. Its like the honeymoon stage of parenthood, assuming you have an easy baby, which she seems to have had.
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She did plan them, someone made a website about itdancingfireflame wrote:I think It's attention and entrapment. I agree that she planned Lilia because she didn't think Gabe would break up with her. She probably planned it perfectly in her head. She would get pregnant, baby would be due after she graduates so it won't affect her education. She hoped shortly after her and Gabe would get married and would have another baby. I also think she planned the twins (not necessarily to have twins but one of them). Stupid if she did, seeing as how her and Drake weren't even together that long. Probably just so she has a story to tell that he came to the rescue when Gabe abandoned her with a newborn. Because until Drake became a dead beat, Gabe was the dead beat. You can tell she just wanted to have babies and get married. I've always wondered if she's ever confessed to someone if she did plan her kids.
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I know she did, I just wonder if she's ever actually admitted it to a friend or someone.CypKitty wrote:She did plan them, someone made a website about itdancingfireflame wrote:I think It's attention and entrapment. I agree that she planned Lilia because she didn't think Gabe would break up with her. She probably planned it perfectly in her head. She would get pregnant, baby would be due after she graduates so it won't affect her education. She hoped shortly after her and Gabe would get married and would have another baby. I also think she planned the twins (not necessarily to have twins but one of them). Stupid if she did, seeing as how her and Drake weren't even together that long. Probably just so she has a story to tell that he came to the rescue when Gabe abandoned her with a newborn. Because until Drake became a dead beat, Gabe was the dead beat. You can tell she just wanted to have babies and get married. I've always wondered if she's ever confessed to someone if she did plan her kids.
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She got going home outfits, one boy one girl. I feel like they're both unisex! A boy could easily wear the gold and a girl could wear the light blue (I would probably but a bow on that one, although I'm typically against sticking a bow on a baby just because it's a girl). Ridiculous.
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Yeah, I'm confused on why a boy couldn't wear the glittery one? Doesn't seem like a big deal.liveyourlife22 wrote:She got going home outfits, one boy one girl. I feel like they're both unisex! A boy could easily wear the gold and a girl could wear the light blue (I would probably but a bow on that one, although I'm typically against sticking a bow on a baby just because it's a girl). Ridiculous.
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It looks like the baby is going to have the big wide nose like Chris.
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Anyone else think that the baby kind of looks like Landen if he was Chris's kid?
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I hope it's a girl. It would make her channel more interesting.
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She probably thought that Gabe must stay with her, now that they have a child together. I don't know if she ever had sex-education, because if she did, I'm suprised that nobody told her that children are, first not a like a pet, but second that having children doesn't equal marriage. On the contrary, many young mothers are left alone when they get pregnant, because the boys can't handle the situation and if it's as shady as in Jessicas case, (where it clearly was a one-sided decision) I'm not surprised that it didn't work out. Yeah sure not all boys are like that, but let's face it, most 17 year-old boys can't think clear when it comes to this and the responsibility is overwhelming.dancingfireflame wrote:I know she did, I just wonder if she's ever actually admitted it to a friend or someone.CypKitty wrote:She did plan them, someone made a website about itdancingfireflame wrote:I think It's attention and entrapment. I agree that she planned Lilia because she didn't think Gabe would break up with her. She probably planned it perfectly in her head. She would get pregnant, baby would be due after she graduates so it won't affect her education. She hoped shortly after her and Gabe would get married and would have another baby. I also think she planned the twins (not necessarily to have twins but one of them). Stupid if she did, seeing as how her and Drake weren't even together that long. Probably just so she has a story to tell that he came to the rescue when Gabe abandoned her with a newborn. Because until Drake became a dead beat, Gabe was the dead beat. You can tell she just wanted to have babies and get married. I've always wondered if she's ever confessed to someone if she did plan her kids.
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A friend of mine had an almost identical dreadful idea, first because "everybody she knew got married and all of them have children young" and than because she was close to breaking up with her boyfriend for the third time and she thought that he "must stay/come back" to her if she got pregnant. Thank god she considered this idea for only two days before realizing it, but by then she had already played around with the pill and was at risk, but didn't know until I told her. Something tells me that Jessica had similar motives, only that she really went through with the entire thing, plus she left damning evidence on the internet of her stupidity.
The lack of responsibel thinking in those girls is overwhelming, they are so busy with their own insecurities and what they want, that they will just go trough with any plan as long as it gets them what they need, damn the consequences. If the consequences come shortly after they can blame, first of all, the boy and make it seem as if they are the victims and then demand help from everyone around them, since they are too young to help themselves plus they are pregant/have a young child. All of that stuff wouldn't be necessary if they wouldn't have put themselves into that position, but hey they are "young and stupid" . Ok, ok I'm done ranting
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Dear Jess, how many times can you say "breastfeeding" in the first 90 seconds of your video? Oh, and PS: "it's been soooooo long since I breastfed a tiny newborn!" No, it's been 2 years. That's not a long time.
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That's exactly what I was thinkingpinkdiamond_3 wrote:Dear Jess, how many times can you say "breastfeeding" in the first 90 seconds of your video? Oh, and PS: "it's been soooooo long since I breastfed a tiny newborn!" No, it's been 2 years. That's not a long time.
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A while back everyone was talking about how Jess really does not know how to relate to older kids. Watching her try to interact with kids on a higher level like Caden and Tommy is almost painful to watch. Jess never really thinks much further than the toddler stage.
Yes she provides well for her kids and they look happy but she still baby talks them all the time. She just loves infants.
I mostly worry about her health. I know she states over and over that her stomach is ok to handle kids. And medical facts do back her up a bit but I just don't know. Jess as far as we know has not experienced a miscarriage and all of her kids so far are very healthy. I think about the Duggar lady who (albeit was much older) that kept having kids until she had those horrible things happen to her. I don't think Jess would survive very well with a child with major health issues. And if she had a miscarriage heaven knows we would be hearing about that for the next 20 years.
All in all Jess needs to start thinking about the kids she already has including Caden and Tommy.
Yes she provides well for her kids and they look happy but she still baby talks them all the time. She just loves infants.
I mostly worry about her health. I know she states over and over that her stomach is ok to handle kids. And medical facts do back her up a bit but I just don't know. Jess as far as we know has not experienced a miscarriage and all of her kids so far are very healthy. I think about the Duggar lady who (albeit was much older) that kept having kids until she had those horrible things happen to her. I don't think Jess would survive very well with a child with major health issues. And if she had a miscarriage heaven knows we would be hearing about that for the next 20 years.
All in all Jess needs to start thinking about the kids she already has including Caden and Tommy.
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Gold is for girls now? Really? And it needs a skirt with it to prove its a girl?
FFS, like thats a unisex onesie. You could've put whatever pants with it and a beanie and people would know its a boy
FFS, like thats a unisex onesie. You could've put whatever pants with it and a beanie and people would know its a boy
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For someone who is all "screw gender stereotypes," she is trying to stereotype this baby SO HARD!
"Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there."
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Sure boys can wear gold.
But come on, sparkles are not a boy thing.
I do think the light blue one could be unisex
But come on, sparkles are not a boy thing.
I do think the light blue one could be unisex
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She 100% planned lilia and 90% planned the twins. In drakes video it's hard to follow cause he speaks like he's uneducated so its confusing to follow. He said "the twins not planned" "she may say they were" that makes no sense unless she told people in real life that they were planned, then he says "she missed a couple of pills" with quotations. Which doesn't make sense since he just said that Jessica said they were planned.
What's most surprising is that she learned nothing from what happened with her and Drake, she probably just thinks he's the problem and that chris will stick around, she should at least wait 2 years after the marriage to plan a kid, her and gabe broke up after 4 yrs,they were still young but still.
As for her not breastfeeding for "sooo long" ummm landen was weaned in feb, she got pregnant in feb....so right before getting pregnant isn't that long dummy. Maybe landen weaned cause she was already pregnant and the milk started to taste bad like with kyson
What's most surprising is that she learned nothing from what happened with her and Drake, she probably just thinks he's the problem and that chris will stick around, she should at least wait 2 years after the marriage to plan a kid, her and gabe broke up after 4 yrs,they were still young but still.
As for her not breastfeeding for "sooo long" ummm landen was weaned in feb, she got pregnant in feb....so right before getting pregnant isn't that long dummy. Maybe landen weaned cause she was already pregnant and the milk started to taste bad like with kyson