CandidMommy Part 1

[FLOSSY77]

She says it should be shut down.But she liked it enough to join and talk about other moms. And who exactly is going to shut it down?
I love how people hate the site and join to say so.Then just can't resist reading/putting in two cents on couple of people before leaving.They love it!!!
Hey arr200811, when you are done reading up on Britneyandbaby don't let the door hit you in the ass.
Jeni's latest Q&A video might have brought her here.She is whining as usual.

[Arr200811]

Well people like you need to be told!!! FYI i actually like britneyandbaby and left her a nice comment I'm not a bully like the rest of u

[litnerd]

Is she seriously trying to say that animals will be animals so it's no big deal that the cat scratched Drake across the face? What happens when the cat scratches his cornea?

[ladybug]

If that cat were mine and it scratched my BABY on the face like that, it would be GONE!! Drake isn't even old enough to know better.

[TaylorKnows]

As someone that had cats from the moment she was born (they were like 3 when I came home from the hospital), getting rid of the cat is a bit extreme if they scratch your child once. We had one very sweet cat that would only bite or scratch you if you were tormenting him. We had another one that was a Grumpy Gus because he had been abused in his first home. So he was a very fluffy and grumpy cat. He would scratch me and my brother a lot, but my parents kept him until we had to put him down when he was 18. I think it all comes down to discaplining the cat and not acting like it's not a huge deal when it happens. You have to come up with someway (that's not abuse) to teach the cat it's wrong. Once my dad threw ours across the room but it was only because I was around Drakey's age and had eaten some of the cat food apparently, so the cat bit me. He never did it again though. Normally we'd spray him with water, tell him no or put him in another room for awhile. But Jeni was just like "La di da, a cat scratched his face". I really hope she's not like that with their dogs and biting...you need to learn how to tame your animals.

[sleep84]

If that cat were mine and it scratched my BABY on the face like that, it would be GONE!! Drake isn't even old enough to know better.

Also the CAT doesn't know better.
It's a good thing to be in contact with pets growing up. There are no evil animals, or dangerous cats. There are just negligent owners! The occasional scratch obviously can happen..when kids are older though!
You have to KNOW the personality of your cats. I have 5. None of the reactions that they have surprise me.

You can totally put your face in front of one, staring her with wide open eyes... she'll get a little freaked out and walk away.
One..you can't stare at, because it's like you're confronting her and she will scratch you, badly. Only on hands and forearms though. Another one, she will aim at the head (yours!). etc.... You have to get to know them!
Also you have to watch your kids so they don't do stuff that would make them react badly, like trying to grab them by the tail and waving them around like helicopters..


Arr200811: *the rest of US?* Who is "US"? Always "the others" right?
Last time I checked you were her too. So you are with US?
And we are all bullies, obviously.
So you are a BULLY as well.
Yeah, sounds totally reasonable.