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To be honest, I'm giving her a pass. How she interacts with her children and the baby especially is sweet and she's come a long way as a parent.

She's not doing strict keto so it doesn't prevent breastfeeding. I imagine with her family being what it is, emotional eating was and is an issue. I don't blame her for trying to lose weight via keto.
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Honestly I used to judge her alot before

But after reading her book I see it differently now
What she went throught was tramuatizing and I feel something she will never compelety get over no matter what

Bad childhood events haunts forever I know from my own experience
And what I went through is nothing like what she did and to he done by her MOTHER
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She really is a great Mom. She's matured so much and I have to give credit where credit is due. I'm so happy for her and I hope she's doing well in all aspects of her life <3 Her mom on the other hand, she can go to hell!
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I don't agree with alot of you. But I can agree that give credit where credit is due. I can. Give credit to her finally stepping up to be a mother. A good one..I can't 100% agree to that. A better one yes yes I can agree. Do I believe she is still selfish oh yeah. I still think she is selfish and still wants to out herself first. Do I think Eric has helped her to do better and step up as a mother? I think he has which is nice. Her daughter is so adorable and wow for Braiden look like Jared. It's such a twin of his (just a random comment haha sorry).

I've never read her book and don't plan on. Ive always been on the fence about that situation because I don't believe it. Some of you may be down my throat for that but I just don't believe her side or her mother's side. People with mental issues tend to embellish stories and make themselves out to be always a victim. So I'll just stay on the fence with the whole her book thing and her story. I was never in her shoes and there are 3 sides to every story and I'm just not touching on it anymore.

But I will agree she has got a lot better.
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I think it's ok htat she is not breastfeeding anymore, it can be a real stress for many people, it was clearly too hard for her situation.
Ellie is adorable but I can't imagine why she would choose to have another baby so early in her life if she was already having a hard time. The boys are a miniature of their dads!

I didn't notice that in the vlog Life Struggles she mentioned that Cassidy had another daughter as well, I wonder if she disappeared from social media. I remember her twitter, it was really fun.
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LindsandBaby
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wasn't gonna give this person attention but just in case anyone reads my reply.
-this isn't how you talk to someone that has a history of mental health. especially depression and anxiety. "you seriously need to seek help." how about: "i'm really worried about you and i think you should try out some therapy and see how it helps you." except this person is actually more worried about leaving a hateful comment. i already worried a million times a day about breastfeeding and not being able to continue and this person mentions my mental health not being okay and then shames me for not only that but saying i want to be away for barely an 2 hours when i haven't been since she's been born 6 weeks ago. i guess i'm not allowed to want one quiet trip to the nail salon. if you're a new mom, do NOT feel ashamed about doing things for yourself. not doing them will raise the chances of postpartum depression. ellie's pediatrician even told eric this. you're important too. i even said in the video i hadn't gotten them done for over a month. i did put it off because of my daughter and other children. not once did i make it seem like my nails are more important. i blocked this person but i'm sure they'll show up again under another fake profile like a coward."


I actually like how she responded to the hate and I agree with her here. She isn't perfect and I don't agree with all her decisions, but comparing to many other OG ytmd moms, at least she has improved as a parent, admitted to her mistakes and worked to fix them.
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LindsandBaby
3 days ago
wasn't gonna give this person attention but just in case anyone reads my reply.
-this isn't how you talk to someone that has a history of mental health. especially depression and anxiety. "you seriously need to seek help." how about: "i'm really worried about you and i think you should try out some therapy and see how it helps you." except this person is actually more worried about leaving a hateful comment. i already worried a million times a day about breastfeeding and not being able to continue and this person mentions my mental health not being okay and then shames me for not only that but saying i want to be away for barely an 2 hours when i haven't been since she's been born 6 weeks ago. i guess i'm not allowed to want one quiet trip to the nail salon. if you're a new mom, do NOT feel ashamed about doing things for yourself. not doing them will raise the chances of postpartum depression. ellie's pediatrician even told eric this. you're important too. i even said in the video i hadn't gotten them done for over a month. i did put it off because of my daughter and other children. not once did i make it seem like my nails are more important. i blocked this person but i'm sure they'll show up again under another fake profile like a coward."


I actually like how she responded to the hate and I agree with her here. She isn't perfect and I don't agree with all her decisions, but comparing to many other OG ytmd moms, at least she has improved as a parent, admitted to her mistakes and worked to fix them.

I agree with her about being able to take an hour or two to herself. I hate this idea that when you have a baby they need to be strapped to you 24/7 and as a mother you shouldn’t take time for yourself and you’re whole attention should be on the baby. She’s absolutely right that it’s healthy to take an hour to yourself and have some quite time. The baby was probably with her father who I am sure is more than capable of watching her for an hour or so. I’m so over the whole mum shaming thing. And I’m really glad that Lindsey is taking steps to try to stay in a healthy mental state and to not slip into postpartum depression because she does have a history of mental illness and she has 3 kids who depend on her, she needs to be in a good mental state not only for herself but for her children and her husband.


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I love watching her now, she’s grown so much, way more then all the YouTube moms of her generation.


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Those comments were totally made by her piece of shit "mom" Kristy. Kristy will never grown up and will always be jealous of Linds. No matter how hard you try Kristy, you will always be ugly on the outside and within.
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placebo wrote:"
LindsandBaby
3 days ago
wasn't gonna give this person attention but just in case anyone reads my reply.
-this isn't how you talk to someone that has a history of mental health. especially depression and anxiety. "you seriously need to seek help." how about: "i'm really worried about you and i think you should try out some therapy and see how it helps you." except this person is actually more worried about leaving a hateful comment. i already worried a million times a day about breastfeeding and not being able to continue and this person mentions my mental health not being okay and then shames me for not only that but saying i want to be away for barely an 2 hours when i haven't been since she's been born 6 weeks ago. i guess i'm not allowed to want one quiet trip to the nail salon. if you're a new mom, do NOT feel ashamed about doing things for yourself. not doing them will raise the chances of postpartum depression. ellie's pediatrician even told eric this. you're important too. i even said in the video i hadn't gotten them done for over a month. i did put it off because of my daughter and other children. not once did i make it seem like my nails are more important. i blocked this person but i'm sure they'll show up again under another fake profile like a coward."


I actually like how she responded to the hate and I agree with her here. She isn't perfect and I don't agree with all her decisions, but comparing to many other OG ytmd moms, at least she has improved as a parent, admitted to her mistakes and worked to fix them.

I agree with her about being able to take an hour or two to herself. I hate this idea that when you have a baby they need to be strapped to you 24/7 and as a mother you shouldn’t take time for yourself and you’re whole attention should be on the baby. She’s absolutely right that it’s healthy to take an hour to yourself and have some quite time. The baby was probably with her father who I am sure is more than capable of watching her for an hour or so. I’m so over the whole mum shaming thing. And I’m really glad that Lindsey is taking steps to try to stay in a healthy mental state and to not slip into postpartum depression because she does have a history of mental illness and she has 3 kids who depend on her, she needs to be in a good mental state not only for herself but for her children and her husband.


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Then maybe she shouldnt of planned to have a child when she already left a hospital due to mental illness. She jumped into having a child so fast without giving time to heal herself. Which still makes her selfish.

Although I do agree with the statement of Eric being more than capable of taking care of Ellie. He does seems like a good guy. Plus like I said previously he seems to be helping her which is what she needs.
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amycsmith19 wrote:Those comments were totally made by her piece of shit "mom" Kristy. Kristy will never grown up and will always be jealous of Linds. No matter how hard you try Kristy, you will always be ugly on the outside and within.

Well no proof it is Kristy but I wouldn't put it past ber to be doing stuff like that.
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staceybrax wrote:
placebo wrote:"
LindsandBaby
3 days ago
wasn't gonna give this person attention but just in case anyone reads my reply.
-this isn't how you talk to someone that has a history of mental health. especially depression and anxiety. "you seriously need to seek help." how about: "i'm really worried about you and i think you should try out some therapy and see how it helps you." except this person is actually more worried about leaving a hateful comment. i already worried a million times a day about breastfeeding and not being able to continue and this person mentions my mental health not being okay and then shames me for not only that but saying i want to be away for barely an 2 hours when i haven't been since she's been born 6 weeks ago. i guess i'm not allowed to want one quiet trip to the nail salon. if you're a new mom, do NOT feel ashamed about doing things for yourself. not doing them will raise the chances of postpartum depression. ellie's pediatrician even told eric this. you're important too. i even said in the video i hadn't gotten them done for over a month. i did put it off because of my daughter and other children. not once did i make it seem like my nails are more important. i blocked this person but i'm sure they'll show up again under another fake profile like a coward."


I actually like how she responded to the hate and I agree with her here. She isn't perfect and I don't agree with all her decisions, but comparing to many other OG ytmd moms, at least she has improved as a parent, admitted to her mistakes and worked to fix them.

I agree with her about being able to take an hour or two to herself. I hate this idea that when you have a baby they need to be strapped to you 24/7 and as a mother you shouldn’t take time for yourself and you’re whole attention should be on the baby. She’s absolutely right that it’s healthy to take an hour to yourself and have some quite time. The baby was probably with her father who I am sure is more than capable of watching her for an hour or so. I’m so over the whole mum shaming thing. And I’m really glad that Lindsey is taking steps to try to stay in a healthy mental state and to not slip into postpartum depression because she does have a history of mental illness and she has 3 kids who depend on her, she needs to be in a good mental state not only for herself but for her children and her husband.


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Then maybe she shouldnt of planned to have a child when she already left a hospital due to mental illness. She jumped into having a child so fast without giving time to heal herself. Which still makes her selfish.

Although I do agree with the statement of Eric being more than capable of taking care of Ellie. He does seems like a good guy. Plus like I said previously he seems to be helping her which is what she needs.
I agree that she did seem to rush to have a baby, they didn’t seem to be financially ready either, but I’ll give her points for actively trying to stay in a good mental place. I don’t know why the rush to have a baby when she is still only what, 25? But not my business Image


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Anyone see her instastories about revamping her channel and deleting h r old videos. Every time she mentions her mom. I get so upset all over again for her. She’s always disliked being a mommy vlogger. And that’s being reflected in her recent videos, so maybe she does need a change


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I saw the instavideos. I don't believe everything she says. She lived on her own for a bit and still filmed videos. She obviously likes attention from YouTube. I really don't think she will last long if she doesn't do anything related to her children. She probably is tired of getting backlash of running into relationships and popping out children from 3 different men. She seems to give the vibe of hating her life right now. She should of waited to have Ellie and fixed herself. She still seems like she needs to be admitted to a physc ward again.
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I completely agree. In her new video she said she could not be herself so how could people not be questioning her credibility when she admits to faking it.
Didn't she also say in her very first video that watched Sarah wallflower and that's how she got the idea to do YouTube.??? I am not a mimi fan either BTW. I just don't believe everything that has been said.
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So she doesn’t want to be this perfect youtube mom or make any mom related YouTube content. But my questions is, what else can she bring to the table that could be interesting enough to call the attention of people? And bang! She starts drinking. Is that what she wants her children to see in few years? An emotional train wreck of a mom? Who just gave birth to her daughter but chooses to be careless. If I was her husband I would be worried for a postpartum depression. I don’t think it was a good idea for her to have another kid. She got used to having a kid for some time and giving it to the father half of the time and now is different. I think she should be seeing by a Psicologist as soon as possible. And by the way I do not believe her crazy behaviour is all due to her mom. I think she is using that to her advantage


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OK ok let me make sure I have this right, you can't afford your bills but you buying sunglasses and posting about getting a set of tits??? Is she on drugs???? My childhood was fucked up but I know right from wrong and what responsibility means.
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I love the way she interacts with her husband and kids. Her kids are the sweetest. It makes me happy to see that she has matured so much and put necessary distance between her and her mom. And it makes me happy to see that this site has sort of followed suit and turned from a bash fest into giving credit where credit is due. I don't think we were wrong for bashing her before because she was ridiculous but it's nice to see it played out and show that we're not monsters. We were just being critical of her poor choices. Anyway, I'm curious to know what Lindsey thinks of her mom watching her videos. We all know she's got Lindsey alerts out the whazoo.
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Hatethefakeones wrote: So she doesn’t want to be this perfect youtube mom or make any mom related YouTube content. But my questions is, what else can she bring to the table that could be interesting enough to call the attention of people? And bang! She starts drinking. Is that what she wants her children to see in few years? An emotional train wreck of a mom? Who just gave birth to her daughter but chooses to be careless. If I was her husband I would be worried for a postpartum depression. I don’t think it was a good idea for her to have another kid. She got used to having a kid for some time and giving it to the father half of the time and now is different. I think she should be seeing by a Psicologist as soon as possible. And by the way I do not believe her crazy behaviour is all due to her mom. I think she is using that to her advantage


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She can't really bring much unless she just talks about all her problems and daily life. Which is her being a mum.

I agree with everything you've said. I do believe her "crazy" behaviour is not all from "mummy issues". It's because she is mentally unstable and requires attention. She likes when attention is all on her. Did she ever state what she was diagnosed with when she was in the hospital? She seems bipolar.
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