DailyHelpFromMimi - Part 30
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If the hollisters to move with them what do you think the ownership split will be? Will they all share the mortgage or will b&m own the home and charge the rest rent? Will her family live there for free? I know there's no way to know. It just seems like all those situations could get dicey. Especially if Jimmy and Cassie are chipping in too. What happens if a baby bird ever does leave get nest? Mortgages are long term commitments.
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I moved at 39 weeks. I enjoyed moving by just using my fingers and pointing. ;P Missy has a way more involved family and we had a ton of help. But seriously, I am doubting it. Unless they already have a house and are in the closing stages... They've planned a nursery. And nothing seems to be packed. That would be the fastest move ever in history if they moved after vloggerfair. But I suppose you can always pay for people to do that stuff b
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I don't like how she talks in general. She has a lisp plus talks like deep in the back of her throat.babyspice wrote:I can't stand the way Cassie says Ollie.
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There is nothing wrong with going on a vacation or date sans kids. I will never understand why people get so upset about this. It doesn't mean you aren't "raising" your kids. My SIL drops her kids off with my in-laws every friday in the summer, so they can spend time with their grandpa. Does this mean that she's not raising her kids because she takes a day for herself/does shopping without them?jjtard wrote:my parents had two kids and took us everywhere with them, I guess thats just how I was raised that you are to step up to your responsibilities and raise your own children.
My husband and I are hoping to still go on a vacation together once a year once we have kids. My parents & in-laws LOVE spending time with their grandkids, and my SIL's go away once a year together for a short trip sans kids. Does that make them bad parents? Nope. Will that make us bad parents? Nope. If anything, I feel that it will give us a chance to connect, relax and energize ourselves.
Don't get me wrong - they do it ALL THE TIME, so I never understand their complaints about not getting out, but in general there is nothing wrong with it. I feel that most people who complain about it are unable to themselves go out on date nights. Just because you can't, doesn't mean others shouldn't go out.
(not you directly, just saying this in response to the topic)
That being said - Why does Missy have two pairs of glasses when in the water, in today's vlog?
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DailyHelpFromMimi - Part 30
Speaking to the overall "leaving kids" debate that seems to have erupted here...
Yes, it's ok to leave your kids occasionally. Yes, it's fine (and healthy even) to get a break. Some parents leave their kids a lot, and some don't.
That said...
We talk about B&M here. Missy does use these trips as a way to avoid Oliver. If she could just nap at home and hang with Mimi without him, I don't believe she'd need or want so many trips with Bryan. To Missy, it 100% is a need to avoid parenting. It wouldn't matter of Ollie enjoyed time with Auntie or cried desperately for her while she was gone. She'd go.
Remember when Bryan had been gone for that week and Missy arranged a weekend getaway for them instead of taking B home to see Ollie right away? Was that necessary?
That wasn't about Bryan or Ollie... that was 100% princess' desire to "ditch the kid" because it was hard to parent alone for those 6 days. That was selfish and I believe most mothers would be more excited for their baby to finally see Daddy.
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Yes, it's ok to leave your kids occasionally. Yes, it's fine (and healthy even) to get a break. Some parents leave their kids a lot, and some don't.
That said...
We talk about B&M here. Missy does use these trips as a way to avoid Oliver. If she could just nap at home and hang with Mimi without him, I don't believe she'd need or want so many trips with Bryan. To Missy, it 100% is a need to avoid parenting. It wouldn't matter of Ollie enjoyed time with Auntie or cried desperately for her while she was gone. She'd go.
Remember when Bryan had been gone for that week and Missy arranged a weekend getaway for them instead of taking B home to see Ollie right away? Was that necessary?
That wasn't about Bryan or Ollie... that was 100% princess' desire to "ditch the kid" because it was hard to parent alone for those 6 days. That was selfish and I believe most mothers would be more excited for their baby to finally see Daddy.
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Yes thank you! My husband and I took a 4 days vacation and leave my twins with my mom does that make me a bad mother? No! I'm 24/7 with my girls I'll do everything for them because my hubby work from Tuesday to Sunday so I basically a single mom from 8am to 5pm by the end of the day I'm so tired all I want to do is sleep and fell bad I can barely spend time with him, couples need a little bit of a break to reconnect relax and enjoy some time together without the kids and gives my mom time to spend time with the girls beside my mom is the one who always encourage for my husband to go out every time she come to town to visit we don't always go out town because we don't have $$ but at least we try to go to the movies and diner so leave my kids for 4 hour does that make me a bad mother? I don't think so, in fact I'm already planing out next year anniversary trip. Ok I write to much lol.tml43 wrote:There is nothing wrong with going on a vacation or date sans kids. I will never understand why people get so upset about this. It doesn't mean you aren't "raising" your kids. My SIL drops her kids off with my in-laws every friday in the summer, so they can spend time with their grandpa. Does this mean that she's not raising her kids because she takes a day for herself/does shopping without them?jjtard wrote:my parents had two kids and took us everywhere with them, I guess thats just how I was raised that you are to step up to your responsibilities and raise your own children.
My husband and I are hoping to still go on a vacation together once a year once we have kids. My parents & in-laws LOVE spending time with their grandkids, and my SIL's go away once a year together for a short trip sans kids. Does that make them bad parents? Nope. Will that make us bad parents? Nope. If anything, I feel that it will give us a chance to connect, relax and energize ourselves.
Don't get me wrong - they do it ALL THE TIME, so I never understand their complaints about not getting out, but in general there is nothing wrong with it. I feel that most people who complain about it are unable to themselves go out on date nights. Just because you can't, doesn't mean others shouldn't go out.
(not you directly, just saying this in response to the topic)
That being said - Why does Missy have two pairs of glasses when in the water, in today's vlog?
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I completely agree with everyone! It most definitely does NOT make you a bad mom if you leave your kids to take some time alone or with your husband. It is necessary to reconnect and have that alone time without children. It's very healthy for a relationship and every couple should do it.
I think the criticism here is that B&M are together EVERY SINGLE DAY, they have date nights ALL THE TIME, they just had Vidcon and they left Oliver...no, it wasn't a vacation, but they could use that time to reconnect and be together as a couple. They don't NEED a babymoon. They just do it because they want to "relax" and do something exciting to get views for their channel. I truly don't believe they are enjoying themselves as much as another couple would. I can totally see them running out of things to talk about and each be on their phones the whole time. That's just me speculating of course. I guess nobody really knows how they feel about each other...to me, it seems Bryan really loves Missy, and Missy just tolerates him but is not in love.
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I think the criticism here is that B&M are together EVERY SINGLE DAY, they have date nights ALL THE TIME, they just had Vidcon and they left Oliver...no, it wasn't a vacation, but they could use that time to reconnect and be together as a couple. They don't NEED a babymoon. They just do it because they want to "relax" and do something exciting to get views for their channel. I truly don't believe they are enjoying themselves as much as another couple would. I can totally see them running out of things to talk about and each be on their phones the whole time. That's just me speculating of course. I guess nobody really knows how they feel about each other...to me, it seems Bryan really loves Missy, and Missy just tolerates him but is not in love.
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Missy definitely isn't enjoying her time with Bryan as much as they'd lead you to believe.az2639 wrote:I completely agree with everyone! It most definitely does NOT make you a bad mom if you leave your kids to take some time alone or with your husband. It is necessary to reconnect and have that alone time without children. It's very healthy for a relationship and every couple should do it.
I think the criticism here is that B&M are together EVERY SINGLE DAY, they have date nights ALL THE TIME, they just had Vidcon and they left Oliver...no, it wasn't a vacation, but they could use that time to reconnect and be together as a couple. They don't NEED a babymoon. They just do it because they want to "relax" and do something exciting to get views for their channel. I truly don't believe they are enjoying themselves as much as another couple would. I can totally see them running out of things to talk about and each be on their phones the whole time. That's just me speculating of course. I guess nobody really knows how they feel about each other...to me, it seems Bryan really loves Missy, and Missy just tolerates him but is not in love.
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She hardly ever tweets, and she's been on Twitter way more the last couple of days.
I think the problem is they spend TOO MUCH time together, and they are bored and sick of eachother. Ok, maybe Bryan isn't sick of Missy, but she seems sick of him.
And I will say, poor Bryan. They travel so far away, go to so all these things, and Missy's reaction is always lukewarm at best. That must feel awful and like you're always trying and failing. Except for with food. Missy was excited twice this vlog. Once for her steak dinner, and the other for chocolate cake
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regarding yesterdays vlog (because i cannot daily hate watch them, but was interested in why they moved) anyways what a bunch of bologna! they only booked that hotel for one night.. year right. they tell us everything.. they would've said "heres our hotel but we're only here for the night" . Also what a RUDE jab at any subscribers who are american indian! i am by no means indian, my fiance has a little cherokee but its even half. "idk how that ended but im assuming not very good" yeah u stupid idiot... the english came over and killed the indians for their land---- what an idiot. i agree that the hotel change was 1) the bug ... 2) good wifi (but this was most likely the main reason)
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Vloggerfair is next week. Is it bad that I'm kinda hoping Oliver is bratty. I would love to see Audri Null's reaction.
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If they ARE moving very soon, that would explain Missy's sudden interest in buying the baby's entire nursery/paint colors.
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Except Missy's priority would then be "Missy's room".Cote1590 wrote:If they ARE moving very soon, that would explain Missy's sudden interest in buying the baby's entire nursery/paint colors.
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The fact that they changed all those bulbs, Bryan cleaned up the yard, cleaned out the garage, and they ordered the baby stuff made me think they had decided to stay. Unless they had to clean up so the landlord could show the place?
I wonder if it's listed anywhere?
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Check out Bryan's latest IG photo, he says after 7 years Missy finally got him a real wedding band? What did he have before, a paper clip one?
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I really like Cassie I don't see what she has done that so many people don't like her
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Here's a pic of his new ring:
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Well, Missy got a new ring when the money started rolling in, so I guess you can't fault Bryan for wanting one too.Cote1590 wrote:Here's a pic of his new ring:
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I honestly don't get how you can just replace your wedding ring though. I can see getting another ring, but a wedding ring to me is the ring you made your vows with... not one you went shopping for to "start a new chapter". That seems empty and like is grasping to me.
I totally think they are hoping to fix something in their marriage. They seem desperate and not at ease about something, and it isn't because they miss Ollie!
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Okay, so is Cassie watching Ollie or Mimi? because every clip that I see with Ollie has Mimi and Cassie in them.. I think it would be interesting to see Cassie with Ollie alone doing activities without Mimi there!
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I will eventually be replacing my wedding band. It was my husbands grandmothers that's been passed down his side of the family. Someday I'll be giving the ring to one of my children.HelloSweetie1 wrote:Well, Missy got a new ring when the money started rolling in, so I guess you can't fault Bryan for wanting one too.Cote1590 wrote:Here's a pic of his new ring:
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I honestly don't get how you can just replace your wedding ring though. I can see getting another ring, but a wedding ring to me is the ring you made your vows with... not one you went shopping for to "start a new chapter". That seems empty and like is grasping to me.
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Totes different than b&m though. I guess Bryan was feeling left out and needed something shiny!
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I got the impression the Hollisters are just going over there and using the pool, but that Cassie is watching Ollie. You know, like how Mimi is just around when Missy is supposed to be watching himthenightowl wrote:Okay, so is Cassie watching Ollie or Mimi? because every clip that I see with Ollie has Mimi and Cassie in them.. I think it would be interesting to see Cassie with Ollie alone doing activities without Mimi there!
I think they heard he had a rough night from Mimi because she's the one with enough time to call and FT Missy incessantly. Cassie is chasing Ollie around and taking care of him, so she's too damn busy to call Princess.
That, or they are all supposed to be watching him, but Mimi is actually every bit as lazy as Missy, and therefore he becomes Cassie's responsibility. I kinda hope it's that Mimi is lazy, because then there is NO WAY they will be offering to take care of both O&F that often.
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I like her too! She seems to be the only Hollister with a little independence. She's been doing. A damn good job with the vlogging and looking after Ollie. Even if she's had Mimi's help, she's doing better than Missy did with Bryan in Cambodia because she also had Mimi's help!ashleyrr2k wrote:I really like Cassie I don't see what she has done that so many people don't like her
Anyone else think Missy talked Cassie out of college and into vlogging? I hope not, but I can see it being the easier road.
I think Cassie would be a much better match for Bryan than Missy
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