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Does anyone watch her? She is a Marine wife with a newborn. Her husband Justin was just deployed on his first deployment but is returning due to heart problem and is coming back to get testing . She had just went back to her parents house with her two dogs to Utah ( she is lives in Jacksonville, NC) while her husband was gone . But, because he is coming back and she has to fly back to be with him. I really like her , her baby Lincoln is beautiful.
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The birth vlog for Lincoln is adorable but I have to say I think Lincoln is an odd name for a little girl, but to each their own :)

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6 month update other baby and she has the kid forward facing. I hate youtube sometimes. It just sad to me. If I knew her in real life I'd tell her than while it probably results in less crying on road trips it's super dangerous if they are never in an accident.
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freshEyremom wrote:6 month update other baby and she has the kid forward facing. I hate youtube sometimes. It just sad to me. If I knew her in real life I'd tell her than while it probably results in less crying on road trips it's super dangerous if they are never in an accident.

She to me is kind of boring like she goes over what she's doing in her school work then blogs While driving, which I feel like is a dangerous distraction. She chats to the camera telling it where she's going and what she has to do. In that time she rarely vlogs while doing anything outside of the house. I did notice that she vlogged during a recent target trip.

The forward facing at 6 months is CRAZY and dangerous. It makes me so mad when people take their children's safety so callously. I won't be watching to many more videos. I know he's stationed in North Carolina, and if someone reported it to their base his CO would have a talk with them. I can't wrap my head around people who don't follow the law or the instructions when it deals with their children's safety. I looked at several videos featuring Lincoln forward facing in the car (like hairstylist Heather) not once did I see a comment from anyone telling her it was wrong that Lincoln be forward facing and the harness isn't positioned correctly at times.

I know she drove to her family's while her husband was on deployment but what I would've done was have my mom or someone fly out and make the drive with me there's no way I'd attempt a cross country drive alone with an infant.


She comes off as sort of an airhead at times but then others' she's very bright.
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I found them while she was still pregnant with Lincoln, and I liked them but thought they were pretty average (in a good way, almost lol too many crazy people on YouTube so it was refreshing). They seemed like they had good heads on their shoulders, like they would be great parents. But then she forward-faced Lincoln. Immediately lost respect for her as a mom, considering it's illegal and obscenely dangerous. She addressed the issue in a vlog saying they got a second car seat and Justin is rear facing her, and it's her choice as Lincoln's mom to keep her forward facing in her vehicle. Drives me nuts because there is a ridiculous amount of car accidents in the city we live in. Hope it never happens to them and they don't have to live with the terrible potential outcomes


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sarahbearrr wrote:I found them while she was still pregnant with Lincoln, and I liked them but thought they were pretty average (in a good way, almost lol too many crazy people on YouTube so it was refreshing). They seemed like they had good heads on their shoulders, like they would be great parents. But then she forward-faced Lincoln. Immediately lost respect for her as a mom, considering it's illegal and obscenely dangerous. She addressed the issue in a vlog saying they got a second car seat and Justin is rear facing her, and it's her choice as Lincoln's mom to keep her forward facing in her vehicle. Drives me nuts because there is a ridiculous amount of car accidents in the city we live in. Hope it never happens to them and they don't have to live with the terrible potential outcomes


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She may want to check the laws, in NC it is illegal for an infant less than 20lbs and 1 year old to forward face. CPS needs to check on her or his base needs to be contacted I know they live on base in North Carolina. When your in the military you answer to them too.
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sarahbearrr wrote:I found them while she was still pregnant with Lincoln, and I liked them but thought they were pretty average (in a good way, almost lol too many crazy people on YouTube so it was refreshing). They seemed like they had good heads on their shoulders, like they would be great parents. But then she forward-faced Lincoln. Immediately lost respect for her as a mom, considering it's illegal and obscenely dangerous. She addressed the issue in a vlog saying they got a second car seat and Justin is rear facing her, and it's her choice as Lincoln's mom to keep her forward facing in her vehicle. Drives me nuts because there is a ridiculous amount of car accidents in the city we live in. Hope it never happens to them and they don't have to live with the terrible potential outcomes


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She may want to check the laws, in NC it is illegal for an infant less than 20lbs and 1 year old to forward face. CPS needs to check on her or his base needs to be contacted I know they live on base in North Carolina. When your in the military you answer to them too. At least Justin cares. Her voice kind of is annoying the way she talks sometimes in the video.

I know if someone called his base they'd talk to her and make her understand why it's not safe for her to drive like that. It's like oh nothing's ever happened to me me and my child are invincible.
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eab424 wrote:
sarahbearrr wrote:I found them while she was still pregnant with Lincoln, and I liked them but thought they were pretty average (in a good way, almost lol too many crazy people on YouTube so it was refreshing). They seemed like they had good heads on their shoulders, like they would be great parents. But then she forward-faced Lincoln. Immediately lost respect for her as a mom, considering it's illegal and obscenely dangerous. She addressed the issue in a vlog saying they got a second car seat and Justin is rear facing her, and it's her choice as Lincoln's mom to keep her forward facing in her vehicle. Drives me nuts because there is a ridiculous amount of car accidents in the city we live in. Hope it never happens to them and they don't have to live with the terrible potential outcomes


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She may want to check the laws, in NC it is illegal for an infant less than 20lbs and 1 year old to forward face. CPS needs to check on her or his base needs to be contacted I know they live on base in North Carolina. When your in the military you answer to them too. At least Justin cares. Her voice kind of is annoying the way she talks sometimes in the video.

I know if someone called his base they'd talk to her and make her understand why it's not safe for her to drive like that. It's like oh nothing's ever happened to me me and my child are invincible.
Oh my god. I unsubscribed MONTHS ago from them but going and seeing her INFANT forward facing just boils my blood. What a irresponsible mother. There's no other way to put it. None. With all the information out there, REGARDLESS OF THE LAW, about forward facing when they are too small how could you NOT turn her back around? SELFISHNESS. I'm glad I unsubscribed. And yes I agree as well, her voice and way her lips move just irk me. Petty on my part maybe, but it's annoying. Sorry.




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Oh my god. I unsubscribed MONTHS ago from them but going and seeing her INFANT forward facing just boils my blood. What a irresponsible mother. There's no other way to put it. None. With all the information out there, REGARDLESS OF THE LAW, about forward facing when they are too small how could you NOT turn her back around? SELFISHNESS. I'm glad I unsubscribed. And yes I agree as well, her voice and way her lips move just irk me. Petty on my part maybe, but it's annoying. Sorry.




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I completely agree. Both of my kids passed away at birth 19 months apart and it breaks my heart to see her be so immature and selfish in reguards to her daughter's safety. She was nicer about it than Hairstylest Heather was. She forward faced both of her kids before they were 1. And her house is seriously CPS messy. I mean that bad. It's gross. And she doesn't even work a full time job there's no reason the house should be than gross.

She did at least acknowledge what people were telling her about her daughter forward facing, Sort of a nice way but enough to turn a lot of people to unsubscribing. I wish she'd at least educate herself on car seat safety or visit a car seat specialist.

I don't think your petty about the voice or the lips, it's seriously distracting and she's explaining what she's going to do etc. She vlogs in the car but then doesn't when she gets to her destination. I think she's trying to be a big vlogger but being controversial isn't a good way of going about it. She's boring over all you don't see much activity which is one of the hallmarks of a good vlogger.
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Oh my god. I unsubscribed MONTHS ago from them but going and seeing her INFANT forward facing just boils my blood. What a irresponsible mother. There's no other way to put it. None. With all the information out there, REGARDLESS OF THE LAW, about forward facing when they are too small how could you NOT turn her back around? SELFISHNESS. I'm glad I unsubscribed. And yes I agree as well, her voice and way her lips move just irk me. Petty on my part maybe, but it's annoying. Sorry.

I feel the same way. I unsubscribed and stopped watching her because of it. All I saw was irresponsible parent and attention getter. Also what is crazy "I haven't watched in a while", they want another baby soon. Argh, learn how to care for the safety of the one you have first.




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nugget12 wrote:Oh my god. I unsubscribed MONTHS ago from them but going and seeing her INFANT forward facing just boils my blood. What a irresponsible mother. There's no other way to put it. None. With all the information out there, REGARDLESS OF THE LAW, about forward facing when they are too small how could you NOT turn her back around? SELFISHNESS. I'm glad I unsubscribed. And yes I agree as well, her voice and way her lips move just irk me. Petty on my part maybe, but it's annoying. Sorry.

I feel the same way. I unsubscribed and stopped watching her because of it. All I saw was irresponsible parent and attention getter. Also what is crazy "I haven't watched in a while", they want another baby soon. Argh, learn how to care for the safety of the one you have first.

That is annoying, first off when you have a child their safety should be your number 1 priority. It's clear that with Lincoln her safety isn't so important to her. It's one thing to not be aware but people nicely came to her in the comments and let her know that it wasn't safe. She gave off this "I'm her mom I know what's best BS" That saying is soooo outdated. When your in a car accident, the baby cannot withstand the amount of force in a crash when facing forward. That's why it's recommended and laws are changing because some kids have had internal decapitation. There are a few videos on YouTube about the injury.

I know what it's like to bury a child x2. My OB didn't do the blood test to see if I had a blood clotting disorder (I had it) and both times they totally missed it. It's the worst feeling in the world and morons like her have kids it' royally sucks.


There's another you tuber like her who forward faces early. She's in South Carolina and is a hair dresser. Her husband is a chiropractor and their house is always a nasty mess. I nicely pointed out that her baby wasn't old enough to forward face and I was jumped on. She never addressed the issue either.



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not sure if anyone keeps up with them but they took a seven month hiatus and are now back both looking plump as hell. she couldn't be bothered to wash her hair for this video either which makes me cringe. she's expecting her second child and they're naming it kennedy which is odd......lincoln.......kennedy......if their next child is roosevelt i am done

i watched a few of their videos back in the day but unsubscribed about 6 months ago when i noticed they weren't uploading videos anymore. i try not to judge people on their parenting but i didn't and probably still will not like her parenting style with lincoln let alone a second child. in this video they say lincoln is a handful and talk about her as if she is some sort of burden. much like the dogs they have. their dogs are always somewhere else with family as if they can't be bothered to take care of them.

they say they didn't vlog for 8 months because there was so much going on and i can understand that but it looks like they vlogged last week and thats it lol

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Apparently she did a few videos after Kennedy was born but nothing in the last several months. It's ok though because those videos were sooooo boring. I had a better time watching paint dry.
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