TheOneWhoBlogs wrote:Does anyone else get the vibes that she grew up seeing perfect relationships with a wife and a husband and babies on TV and she rushed to get married purely because she wants to have a picture perfect life?
Like..I Get some people get married young with good intentions,But my theories on this are that she got married and it isnt what she expected,So she wants a baby,Or She (As most Teenagers think when they think they're inlove) Thinks that having a baby will make Justin love her and stay (Granted ive read here that they had marital issues) Or even she feels abandoned because Justin is always gone,So She wants to have a baby because in her mind,Thats "Hey,At least this baby will love me/KEep me company"
Just my opinion,It is very rare that someone this young tries THIS HARD For a baby for good intentions,At least where i'm from.
Totally. I've seen it many times and I've noticed it with a lot of teen moms whose parents are divorced. It's like their trying to compensate for the love or stability they needed/craved during their development years and saw people on tv and thought there was such a thing as the perfect family.
I don't want to sound like I'm reading too much into or making something out of nothing but a lot of loss parents have martial issues after it happens. I think they had this before which makes it 10 times rougher on a relationship that wasn't strong enough to begin with. I saw their draw my relationship and they got married in May 2014. They also did a video tribute to their lost embryos. Someone said "a loss is a loss any time" obviously they've never experienced a miscarriage or a stillbirth because there is a BIG difference. I'm not at all saying losing embryos isn't sad. But when you have more and most couples don't even end up using all their embryos. There's a big difference in feeling your baby kick, see them on the ultrasound screen and watching them grow month to month then being told there's a problem, bedrest early labor and stillbirth vs being told a 3 week old embryo you've never been pregnant with hasn't made it to freezing. My ex sister in law tried to tell me she now knew my sorrow because her embryos didn't make it to freezing. I had two stillbirths. Amazingly she's still alive today. She's the type that always has to somehow find something in her life that is in no way similar to compare it to your hardship. If someone's been stabbed no doubt she'll talk about her paper cut.
This is California and it seems like if you request IVF they just say ok where's your money lets do it! It seems a ton of real housewives do it and I highly doubt all of them needed it medically.
I'm not saying Rachelle and Justin needed it but I think their doctor should've told them to give it a little time. They were married for 10 months when they were told to do IVF. For a clinic to tell a 20 year old married less than a year they need to do IVF is crazy. I get diagnosises and I don't doubt them but how many stories have you heard about couples having the same diagnosis and conceiving on their own? My eldest stepson (my husband is 15 years older than I am) is actually two years older than these two are. I am so glad he is not married or thinking of marriage this early.