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alym0326 wrote:I’ve seen quite a few comments on the video asking what (if anything) did Joel get from Bonnie for Valentine’s Day, besides a morning nap.


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I’m guessing the answer would be inappropriate. I think we’ve seen enough of Joel to know that his love language isn’t material objects.

Plus I’m pretty sure he has a foot fetish, so this booties and Bonnie’s ankles would have had him revved up Image


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what happened to the couch?
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notyomama wrote:what happened to the couch?
They sold their old leather one and are getting a new one.


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HelloSweetie wrote:
alym0326 wrote:I’ve seen quite a few comments on the video asking what (if anything) did Joel get from Bonnie for Valentine’s Day, besides a morning nap.
I’m guessing the answer would be inappropriate. I think we’ve seen enough of Joel to know that his love language isn’t material objects.

Plus I’m pretty sure he has a foot fetish, so this booties and Bonnie’s ankles would have had him revved up Image
With the see through mesh top design they were (for someone with a foot fetish) like lingerie for the feet. Ewww, I need eye bleach lol :-o
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In the Valentine's Day vlog, I was super SUPER annoyed at the gift exchange moment around the table. My annoyance came from her reasoning for opening the gift in front of the kids. She said she wanted them to "see how nice their daddy is to their mommy" and then blabbed on about how this is "how they (the boys) should treat their wives and how Olivia should expect to be treated." UM. Two things:

1) I hate the idea of a gift exchange being the evidence of their love in front of their children, and also the fact that she is blatantly implementing the concept that "this is how you should show love to people. Buy them things."

2) I also HATE how it's a "this is how husbands should treat wives" concept. I feel like a marriage should work both ways. It was annoying to see that "spoiled wife, happy life" concept being thrown at their children who are so, so, so young. It seems like an unhealthy ideology to be promoting. Yes, husbands SHOULD strive to make their wives happy and to give them love, support, and joy. But WIVES should be doing the EXACT SAME THING for their husbands.

Ugh. Ugh ugh ugh.
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_SoFun_ wrote:In the Valentine's Day vlog, I was super SUPER annoyed at the gift exchange moment around the table. My annoyance came from her reasoning for opening the gift in front of the kids. She said she wanted them to "see how nice their daddy is to their mommy" and then blabbed on about how this is "how they (the boys) should treat their wives and how Olivia should expect to be treated." UM. Two things:

1) I hate the idea of a gift exchange being the evidence of their love in front of their children, and also the fact that she is blatantly implementing the concept that "this is how you should show love to people. Buy them things."

2) I also HATE how it's a "this is how husbands should treat wives" concept. I feel like a marriage should work both ways. It was annoying to see that "spoiled wife, happy life" concept being thrown at their children who are so, so, so young. It seems like an unhealthy ideology to be promoting. Yes, husbands SHOULD strive to make their wives happy and to give them love, support, and joy. But WIVES should be doing the EXACT SAME THING for their husbands.

Ugh. Ugh ugh ugh.
Yeah I think if Joel had of had gifts to open and they said this is how husband and wife should treat each other it would have across better.


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_SoFun_ wrote:In the Valentine's Day vlog, I was super SUPER annoyed at the gift exchange moment around the table. My annoyance came from her reasoning for opening the gift in front of the kids. She said she wanted them to "see how nice their daddy is to their mommy" and then blabbed on about how this is "how they (the boys) should treat their wives and how Olivia should expect to be treated." UM. Two things:

1) I hate the idea of a gift exchange being the evidence of their love in front of their children, and also the fact that she is blatantly implementing the concept that "this is how you should show love to people. Buy them things."

2) I also HATE how it's a "this is how husbands should treat wives" concept. I feel like a marriage should work both ways. It was annoying to see that "spoiled wife, happy life" concept being thrown at their children who are so, so, so young. It seems like an unhealthy ideology to be promoting. Yes, husbands SHOULD strive to make their wives happy and to give them love, support, and joy. But WIVES should be doing the EXACT SAME THING for their husbands.

Ugh. Ugh ugh ugh.
Yes but but but . . . . . this is the 1950's and that's just how things are done when you live seven decades in the past.
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I guess love languages are all the rage now, and it looks like the Griffiths girls' love language is presents.
My dad did things for my mom, and brought her flowers regularly for no reason other than he loved her. And she would go out of her way to cook things she knew he liked. I cringe at the idea of telling the kids that buying the woman stuff equals love. But I also think that the kids learn more about how relationships should be by watching the way Joel and Bonnie interact on a daily basis. And I think in general, they model a pretty healthy relationship.

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lmmomSD wrote:I guess love languages are all the rage now, and it looks like the Griffiths girls' love language is presents.
My dad did things for my mom, and brought her flowers regularly for no reason other than he loved her. And she would go out of her way to cook things she knew he liked. I cringe at the idea of telling the kids that buying the woman stuff equals love. But I also think that the kids learn more about how relationships should be by watching the way Joel and Bonnie interact on a daily basis. And I think in general, they model a pretty healthy relationship.

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Exactly.

There have been quite a few vlogs where Joel has done something hard, or where he’s needed a break and Bonnie has told the kids that daddy needed a rest or deserved a day off with “the boys” because he needed it. That’s modelling love for the kids too. Joel shows love by writing love letters to Bonnie and buying gifts because he knows she likes it. They seem to have a healthy relationship based on their body language, so she’s showing her love for him in some way he appreciates.




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lmmomSD wrote:I guess love languages are all the rage now, and it looks like the Griffiths girls' love language is presents.
My dad did things for my mom, and brought her flowers regularly for no reason other than he loved her. And she would go out of her way to cook things she knew he liked. I cringe at the idea of telling the kids that buying the woman stuff equals love. But I also think that the kids learn more about how relationships should be by watching the way Joel and Bonnie interact on a daily basis. And I think in general, they model a pretty healthy relationship.

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I completely agree with you!!
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staceybrax wrote:
_SoFun_ wrote:In the Valentine's Day vlog, I was super SUPER annoyed at the gift exchange moment around the table. My annoyance came from her reasoning for opening the gift in front of the kids. She said she wanted them to "see how nice their daddy is to their mommy" and then blabbed on about how this is "how they (the boys) should treat their wives and how Olivia should expect to be treated." UM. Two things:

1) I hate the idea of a gift exchange being the evidence of their love in front of their children, and also the fact that she is blatantly implementing the concept that "this is how you should show love to people. Buy them things."

2) I also HATE how it's a "this is how husbands should treat wives" concept. I feel like a marriage should work both ways. It was annoying to see that "spoiled wife, happy life" concept being thrown at their children who are so, so, so young. It seems like an unhealthy ideology to be promoting. Yes, husbands SHOULD strive to make their wives happy and to give them love, support, and joy. But WIVES should be doing the EXACT SAME THING for their husbands.

Ugh. Ugh ugh ugh.
Yeah I think if Joel had of had gifts to open and they said this is how husband and wife should treat each other it would have across better.


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my husband is very modern young man who thinks this is disgusting the whole women serve the men and sexist roles. were very equal the way we treat each other. we never really do valentines gift, we would usually eat out. this year we didnt because we both needed to work because thats much more important that wasting time on something that is guilted to society to participate in. If we want things, we just buy them. we dont wait for something to get the hint to go buy it so we can pretend we don't know. we get things when we want to because thats the beauty of actually having a job and earning money.... you can spend it on what you like lol. we dont do christmas either same reason. but there whole thing was so one way it hurt to watch. specially when it was sooooo obvious that she specifically made a list of what she wanted on that day and where to get it, what size blah blah blah and then acted like omg, you didnt.... actually he did, because you asked him too. isnt that what he's for just like your role is to cook and please him in the bedroom once a month. get with the time granny.. its 2018 not some amish cult.
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I have to add, I think Valentine's Day is a great big crock. It's so amped up by greeting card companies, florists, candy companies and jewelers, and it seems to be getting worse every year. I would rather have one carnation from a grocery store "just because" than a dozen roses because it's Valentine's Day. I think it was silly to do the gift giving as a big production in front of the kids, and do the "this is how men should treat women" speech, but I stand by my statement that those kids see a healthier relationship modeled daily than the one silly display for Valentine's Day. A _lot_ healthier than Ellie and Jared's!

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lmmomSD wrote:I have to add, I think Valentine's Day is a great big crock. It's so amped up by greeting card companies, florists, candy companies and jewelers, and it seems to be getting worse every year. I would rather have one carnation from a grocery store "just because" than a dozen roses because it's Valentine's Day. I think it was silly to do the gift giving as a big production in front of the kids, and do the "this is how men should treat women" speech, but I stand by my statement that those kids see a healthier relationship modeled daily than the one silly display for Valentine's Day. A _lot_ healthier than Ellie and Jared's!

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I agree. My husband used to get me flowers from the florists every Valentine’s Day until we realized how big the markup was. Now he picks up a simple mix from Costco for $15 and we go on a weekend trip without the kids at some point in the spring. It works for us.

I don’t get him anything, and that isn’t because we live like Amish, but because he’s rather I just save the money. When I see something he’d like or he needs throughout the year I just buy it anyway.

Every couple is different. B&J seem happy. They aren’t strangers to physical contact with one another, and it isn’t in an overcompensating showy or forced way like E&J. I think they are modelling a functional relationship for the kids, whereas E&J are struggling enough behind closed doors that their 4 year old just wishes for them to have happiness Image

The Valentine’s Day gifts aren’t a problem unless the relationship is already on a shallow and unhealthy foundation.


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Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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alym0326 wrote:Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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"Stepmom", says it all to me +I've watched to many episodes of Dateline ID where normal looking people aren't always who they appear to be on the surface. I really hope they find that poor child.
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Namm wrote:
alym0326 wrote:Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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"Stepmom", says it all to me +I've watched to many episodes of Dateline ID where normal looking people aren't always who they appear to be on the surface. I really hope they find that poor child.
Yeah, who takes a "3 hour nap" when they're responsible for small children? Unless substance abuse is involved, and she passed out.
We got really lucky. We had a baby sitter who was on pain meds for a real medical problem but didn't tell us-- she fell asleep and my 2 year old son got locked out of the house. Our neighbors heard him crying and woke her up. Scary...

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Namm wrote:
alym0326 wrote:Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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"Stepmom", says it all to me +I've watched to many episodes of Dateline ID where normal looking people aren't always who they appear to be on the surface. I really hope they find that poor child.


How dare you say something like that?! "Stepmom says it all to me" is an unbelievably horrible thing to say. I am a stepmom and I was raised by a stepmom! I love both my children the same and my stepmom was/still is one of the most beautiful human beings that existed in my life after my mother passed away, and for you to imply that a "stepmom" is the cause of a child gone missing JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A STEPMOM is such an ignorant thing to say. And to top it off you're using some TV show as proof?! How unbelievably rude, ignorant, jaded, shallow and stupid to say. Shame on you!! There is a lot more I want to call you and believe me none of it is clean, but I am better than to curse at somebody with the mental age of a fucking ostrich.

You got me so angry I registered here for the sole reason that I can tell you what an idiotic thing to say that was.
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Namm wrote:
alym0326 wrote:Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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"Stepmom", says it all to me +I've watched to many episodes of Dateline ID where normal looking people aren't always who they appear to be on the surface. I really hope they find that poor child.
Stepmom says it all to you? Image Not three hour nap while supposed to be caring for a five year old...? I’m a stepmom and care for my stepdaughter better than her mother could ever begin to. Just cause there are some crappy stepparents out there, that’s a crummy thing to say. There are also plenty of crappy birth parents.


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Mischa wrote:
Namm wrote:
alym0326 wrote:Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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"Stepmom", says it all to me +I've watched to many episodes of Dateline ID where normal looking people aren't always who they appear to be on the surface. I really hope they find that poor child.


How dare you say something like that?! "Stepmom says it all to me" is an unbelievably horrible thing to say. I am a stepmom and I was raised by a stepmom! I love both my children the same and my stepmom was/still is one of the most beautiful human beings that existed in my life after my mother passed away, and for you to imply that a "stepmom" is the cause of a child gone missing JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A STEPMOM is such an ignorant thing to say. And to top it off you're using some TV show as proof?! How unbelievably rude, ignorant, jaded, shallow and stupid to say. Shame on you!! There is a lot more I want to call you and believe me none of it is clean, but I am better than to curse at somebody with the mental age of a fucking ostrich.

You got me so angry I registered here for the sole reason that I can tell you what an idiotic thing to say that was.
I agree the stepmom=murder is a horrible assumption. However anyone that sleeps for 3 hours instead of watching a child they are responsible for that does =murder in my book.

I am also technically a stepmom who is raising my daughter since she was 3 weeks old. No involvement of her birth mom so to think if something was to happen to my child and people to automatically blame me because of my title is horrifying.

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Mischa wrote:
Namm wrote:
alym0326 wrote:Sorry for the off topic post.

There’s a missing 5 year old boy in Wichita, right now. Step mom was taking a nap yesterday and woke up 3 hours later with the back door open and the boy gone. It couldn’t help but make me think of that time Cody & Boston got out and knocked down a lot of the garbage bins on their street- they didn’t even stay on their side of the road. They did the houses across the street too. I’m very happy and Bonnie and Joel (and quite honestly most YouTube families) are so incredibly lucky to never have anything sinister like their children going missing.

Ps anyone in Wichita, his name is Lucas Hernandez and he is 5 years old.


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"Stepmom", says it all to me +I've watched to many episodes of Dateline ID where normal looking people aren't always who they appear to be on the surface. I really hope they find that poor child.


How dare you say something like that?! "Stepmom says it all to me" is an unbelievably horrible thing to say. I am a stepmom and I was raised by a stepmom! I love both my children the same and my stepmom was/still is one of the most beautiful human beings that existed in my life after my mother passed away, and for you to imply that a "stepmom" is the cause of a child gone missing JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A STEPMOM is such an ignorant thing to say. And to top it off you're using some TV show as proof?! How unbelievably rude, ignorant, jaded, shallow and stupid to say. Shame on you!! There is a lot more I want to call you and believe me none of it is clean, but I am better than to curse at somebody with the mental age of a fucking ostrich.

You got me so angry I registered here for the sole reason that I can tell you what an idiotic thing to say that was.
It wasn't meant to you or any other "good" step mom out there in the world so why even care if you know that you're one of the good ones. This was meant to those who share the same horrible experience as me and many others I know. I have the right to express what I've experienced in life and I can't change it so allow others experiences be just like you have yours. If you're a good one then fine, be proud/happy!
Please try not to turn this thread into your own personal lives women, it's not that deep because there are real issues out there in the world to be angry about and engage in, hopefully. But if this is something you needed to register an account for than I guess you're one of the luckier ones with minor problems.
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