alexandramarie wrote:Why i do not like okbaby.
This has probably been said but there is a lot of stuff on this page to read so apologize.
1. Kyra dropped out of school way before her pregnancy would be an inconvenience which shows she doesn't care about her education and isn't willing to put in the extra work to be the best possible version of herself. Jesssfam graduated from school and university with 4-6 babies.
2. Kyra is not a natural mom and was definitely not ready to be a mom. I don't think Oscar either as he vaped a lot even though they have stepped up to the plate. So saying they have broken stereotypes i wouldn't quite say that.
3. Moving to Utah was stupid. Montana I can understand because kyras nana lived there and it was cheaper to live. But Utah is so random. They have no friends no family buggy socializes with hardly any babies which is going to make him anti social and besides the regular park or mall visits he isn't being exposed to much.
4. Oscar and Kyra do not have a good relationship. I can see Oscar annoys Kyra a ridiculous amount also Kyra does not appreciate him as much as she should. They are not perfect for each other. Oscar waking Kyra up all the time when buggy was a new born pissed me off. (But it could have been late in the day so I don't know) Before Oscar went to work if he fed buggy changed his diaper why did he need to wake Kyra up? Ofcourse if Kyra is half asleep she isn't going to play with buggy which is why I think he doesn't connect with her as much. He probably felt a bit of rejection.
5. Oscar does too much with Buggy. He is "dad goals" But it is not natural for a baby to be more obsessed with his dad than his mom. I'm not trying to define gender roles but Buggy doesn't like to be hold or hugged by Kyra and cries when he's not with Oscar which isn't normal. Most babies aren't around there dads a lot usually because they're working and that's fine
6. Oscar picks up and carries buggy too much I think Kyra should more so that they connect more. Also since he is picked up so much he isn't learning how to walk as fast as normal kids do.
7. Sympathy note I feel sorry for Kyra because she isn't as naturally energetic and bubbly and you can see Buggy responds to that more. Oscar also seems to do most of the fun things with buggy and Kyra does the more serious stuff which is why I think he likes Oscar more..
8. They mostly do absolutely nothing everyday and they are so popular which I don't understand.
9. They spend far too much money. Kyra goes shopping way too often I understand target is cheap but things add up. She would buy Buggy clothes when he had so much already and not that it's a problem because you want to spoil your child but he would grow out of them soon so it was stupid. Also Michael kors bag was very excessive.
10. The car. And still keeping the other one is a bit excessive. They don't do enough for them both to need cars. Surely they should be keeping that money for mini bug and buggys education
11. Them thinking that they are perfect parents and don't need advice is stupid. They are lucky Buggy is a good baby but even the most prepared parents need advice
12. Kyra tweets certain things about Buggy which even I would know what to do like how do you cool a baby with a fever? I know not everyone would know that answer but she didn't have an ounce of a clue.
13. All the blankets and animals in his crib. How he wakes up so sweaty. Have the ever heard of smothering?
14.His ridiculous amount of naps for a 1 year old and waking him up at 9pm?
15. They have no friends! besides kkandbabyj and aspen and Parker who don't live anywhere near them. Seriously what about high school wouldn't they have made friends there? They never speak about friends or ever socialize with anyone.
16. Kyras lack of hygiene. Okay I'm not the cleanest person alive I sometimes have dirty nails and if I happen to drop food on my self I would wipe it up but not necessarily change right away. But I SHOWER EVERY DAY regardless. She does nothing all day it's not like she had any excuse
17. When they were late on their vlogs and everyone was so understanding I was not. Again they do NOTHING!? how do they need a break from it. I have never had a child before so I don't know how much work it takes but most parents/parent work a full day and do other stuff socialize etc. but they basically just sit at home all day and travel here and there.
18. Don't get me started on their weird ass accents and nicknames. My dad has called me "noodle" my entire life which is cute and endearing so I can understand Buggy but all there weird names like tooooshie and bogus and bogus boogie I can't even deal. Baby voice is a thing and it's cute but they take it too far they talk to him in such a hysterical way that I would find it hard for him to understand.
19. Feeding him blueberries when he was younger and could clearly choke and saying how much he loves them. Any child is going to love sweet food! Where's the variety?
20. Ps is it normal in america to call bottles babas?
21. They are lucky AF that Buggy is a good baby let's just see what happens if there daughter is a screamer
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in response to some of these:
1. Yes. I feel like why wouldnt she want to better herself for her own personal gain but also for her kids.
2, True. but she also had PPD and she has stepped up a bit recently while oscar has regressed. also oscar constantly takes levi away from kyra and other people bc he has some ego trip abt levi preferring him so that can have something to do with it too.
3 and 4. Utah was deff a stupid move. They’re totally isolated which is irresponsible and i dont understand how O and K arent sick of each other yet. Deff cant be good for their relationship to be together 24/7.
5. I hardly call oscar dad goals. He is soo irresponsible and treats levi like a little brother. He doesnt do child appropriate activities with him for the most part. Like sledding. You can tell levi hates it and is scared and oscar just continues to push it. same with letting levi crawl near the street while he was busy flying the drone. i agree he can overstimulate buggy and stress him out, but he deff doesnt do enough appropriate activities with him
6. Levi has started walking if you watch the new vlogs. he’s doing allright. kkandbabyj pick up jackson all the time and he walks just fine.
7. True
8. Trueeeeee. i dont get it either. that and why oscar takes forever to edit them doing nothing
9. I really dont think they spend that much money. Oscar seems so stingy. He got so mad at kyra and used to not let her buy any clothes even when they barely had any clothes. He also hated when she bough levi new toys even tho he needed them. I think one nice bag isnt that big of a deal. if oscar can buy himself nice electronics that cost a TOOON more why cant kyra buy nice things for herself and her son? If you wanna get on someone’s case about overspending at target—look at keren. altho the BBW hauls always have wayyyyyy too many of the same things that are hundreds of dollars worth of crap she doesnt even like.
10. True
11. TRUEEEE. That just shows how immature they are that they cannot take real advice from people who may know more than them. That will really hinder their growth as people
12. Kyra and Oscar dont seem very bright. I guess she hasnt heard of google or reading scholarly or medical articles on things..sad.
13. YES. So many risks of suffocation like the millions of stuffed animals in the crib and the blanket over the crib. They’re just dumb.
14. trueeee
15. Ive said it a million times and ill say it again—aspyn and parker are NOT their friends. They are just in the same management and thus hang out when in the same area for views. theyre polar opposites and there is no way theyd be friends irl. apsyn is a nightmare and doesnt have any friends really bc she is so hard to deal with.
16. Kyra’s lack of hygiene is actually disgusting and dangerous! Yeast infections, Uti’s, fungal infections, the list goes on and on. that could affect mini bug too. I just dont get why she is so against showering—it’s nasty and weird.
17. that one is ridiculous. I think oscar is just lazy and add or SOMETHING that he cant get it done. For claiming they LOOOVE their job..oops i mean hobby so much, they sure dont seem like it if its so hard for them to edit and upload on time. when you love something you generally put effort into getting it done.
18. AGREED. Bogus is such an awful name and insulting >< Poor kid.
19. They claimed it was “baby led weaning” and would give him pieces he could actually choke on. that isnt the point of baby led weaning. the kid will choke on big pieces bc they put it all in their mouth bc they dont know any better. dont think kyra ever actually read about what BLW is and what it entails. Then when levi couldnt chew and swallow the meat they claimed he doesnt like it. CUT IT INTO LITTLE PIECES IDIOTS.
20. Yes. Many people call bottles babas in america.
21. LOL yup.