OKWeDontDeserveAMillion. Part #14
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Someone just commented in the latest vlog telling Kyra she showed her address in a recent vlog! I never noticed it and she didn't mention the vlog, but that would freak me out.
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Good on her, ocd, or any mental illness is incredibly hard and I do appreciate her being so open especially with younger viewers. There's still so much stigma surrounding mental illness and it's so important to have an open dialogue.
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Re: OKWeDontDeserveAMillion. Part #14
I'm glad Kyra is getting help and making sure she is mentally healthy. I've actually really been liking kyra lately, she seems to have grown up a lot and she's definitely improved as a mother.
I am glad Oscar is supporting her with going to therapy and everything too. That's very mature of him. I do think it's sad that they are paying someone to come and watch the kids while Kyra goes to therapy instead of Oscar doing it though. You would think considering they're both stay at home parents he could watch the kids for 3 hours in the middle of the day.
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I am glad Oscar is supporting her with going to therapy and everything too. That's very mature of him. I do think it's sad that they are paying someone to come and watch the kids while Kyra goes to therapy instead of Oscar doing it though. You would think considering they're both stay at home parents he could watch the kids for 3 hours in the middle of the day.
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He is too busy sleeping half of the day away.staceybrax wrote:I'm glad Kyra is getting help and making sure she is mentally healthy. I've actually really been liking kyra lately, she seems to have grown up a lot and she's definitely improved as a mother.
I am glad Oscar is supporting her with going to therapy and everything too. That's very mature of him. I do think it's sad that they are paying someone to come and watch the kids while Kyra goes to therapy instead of Oscar doing it though. You would think considering they're both stay at home parents he could watch the kids for 3 hours in the middle of the day.
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I think it's been months since i've last watched one of their vlogs but i was curious about this one and at the end my only question was "who kept the kids while Kyra was away since Oscar was sleeping? I mean it's such a waste of money to hire a babysitter when Oscar was there and i said that when i know that my sisters and i stayed with a nanny when we were little when my mom as at work even when my father was home she liked (andprobably still do) to sleep during the day...(her always sucked at being a dad) anyway for the rest i think it's a good thing that Kyra is trying to overcome her fears (or at least manage them), i never had this kind of fear so i don't really understand but am aware that some persons have them and when i saw the vlog where she was in panic because it was raining badly (i don't remenber exactly what was going on but she showed a part of this vlog) she looked so terrified (i know some people thought she was being dramatic but it looked "too dramatic to be fake" if you see what i mean si it's good she is doing something i think)daisy1000 wrote:He is too busy sleeping half of the day away.staceybrax wrote:I'm glad Kyra is getting help and making sure she is mentally healthy. I've actually really been liking kyra lately, she seems to have grown up a lot and she's definitely improved as a mother.
I am glad Oscar is supporting her with going to therapy and everything too. That's very mature of him. I do think it's sad that they are paying someone to come and watch the kids while Kyra goes to therapy instead of Oscar doing it though. You would think considering they're both stay at home parents he could watch the kids for 3 hours in the middle of the day.
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Re: OKWeDontDeserveAMillion. Part #14
Maybe that's the real reason Kyla moved in with them... she's a live in nanny/babysitter. Doesn't make sense for Oscar to just sleep all day and do whatever he wants when he could be taking care of his kids.
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No, they have another babysitterflightlessbird wrote:Maybe that's the real reason Kyla moved in with them... she's a live in nanny/babysitter. Doesn't make sense for Oscar to just sleep all day and do whatever he wants when he could be taking care of his kids.
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What kind of responsible parent stays away the whole night for no particular reason and then sleeps the whole day. I would never let my partner sleep until 3pm while I get up feed breakfast to our children then go to COUNSELLING. Oscar should be like right know what would make Kyra feel better, coming home to us playing as a family in a nice tidy home with dinner on the go. Pathetic parenting on Oscars behalf, poor Kyra.
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Kyra is really growing on me lately. Just watched the OCD vlog and have a few thoughts:
1) I'm confused why when they explained why they stopped because its too expensive oscar was totalling up for the year --- i thought it was just a 4-6 weeks of going a ton/course?
2) Oscar is such a dick for sleeping all day - like if Kyra is that affected (like in the hailstorm vlog) how do they know she will be okay to drive after exposure therapy. If that was my SO and i didn't have work and i would damn well be driving them to appointments --- if they have a sitter can he not edit in a coffee shop while she had the appointment?
3) Is anyone else wondering if he is sleeping all the time because of his new diet/exercise? I'm betting he isn't getting sufficient calories and thats why he is sleeping a ton, couple that with feeling tired from shocking his body with such high levels of exercise (like he didn't seem to build up at all, just went straight into crazy trialathon training..)
1) I'm confused why when they explained why they stopped because its too expensive oscar was totalling up for the year --- i thought it was just a 4-6 weeks of going a ton/course?
2) Oscar is such a dick for sleeping all day - like if Kyra is that affected (like in the hailstorm vlog) how do they know she will be okay to drive after exposure therapy. If that was my SO and i didn't have work and i would damn well be driving them to appointments --- if they have a sitter can he not edit in a coffee shop while she had the appointment?
3) Is anyone else wondering if he is sleeping all the time because of his new diet/exercise? I'm betting he isn't getting sufficient calories and thats why he is sleeping a ton, couple that with feeling tired from shocking his body with such high levels of exercise (like he didn't seem to build up at all, just went straight into crazy trialathon training..)
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Re: OKWeDontDeserveAMillion. Part #14
im not surprised levi has a blocked tear duct...they never seem to clean their kids properly.
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I'm so glad Kyra is finally getting the help she deserves! Good for her!
( I've been gone for nearly a year and a half feels good to be back)
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I'm really glad that Kyra has a diagnosis and has some help in place. I was a little disappointed towards the end when they talked about reducing therapy. Mental health is extremely important and she should do the course recommended to her because if her mh gets worse its more than money Oscar will have to worry about. Massive props for getting herself sorted.
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Re: OKWeDontDeserveAMillion. Part #14
Does anyone know if Katelyn (I think that's her name) is still babysitting for them, or have they actually hired like a "professional" sitter that isn't a friend?Ilovecats wrote:No, they have another babysitterflightlessbird wrote:Maybe that's the real reason Kyla moved in with them... she's a live in nanny/babysitter. Doesn't make sense for Oscar to just sleep all day and do whatever he wants when he could be taking care of his kids.
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I follow Katelyn on IG and she hasn't posted with the kids lately on her story and she used to literally every time she was w them so I feel like it's a noworkinprogress wrote:Does anyone know if Katelyn (I think that's her name) is still babysitting for them, or have they actually hired like a "professional" sitter that isn't a friend?Ilovecats wrote:No, they have another babysitterflightlessbird wrote:Maybe that's the real reason Kyla moved in with them... she's a live in nanny/babysitter. Doesn't make sense for Oscar to just sleep all day and do whatever he wants when he could be taking care of his kids.
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Did anyone else notice the GIANT rip in the headrest on the drivers seat of the cx9
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As someone with severe anxiety/OCD, you don't need someone to drive you to and from exposure therapy. When you do this type of therapy, it's in a controlled setting and your therapist only exposes you to your trigger as much as you can handle in an outpatient setting. They always make sure you're ok before you go home. If you're having a panic attack and your appointment time has passed, they'll help you through it until you're able to take care of yourself again. It's also better for you to do this type of therapy on your own. If you lean on someone else for this, it's easy to convince yourself that you are only able to get through it because you have a significant other/family member there. You need to go on your own in order to gain confidence in yourself.Dusty_Sidebar wrote:Kyra is really growing on me lately. Just watched the OCD vlog and have a few thoughts:
1) I'm confused why when they explained why they stopped because its too expensive oscar was totalling up for the year --- i thought it was just a 4-6 weeks of going a ton/course?
2) Oscar is such a dick for sleeping all day - like if Kyra is that affected (like in the hailstorm vlog) how do they know she will be okay to drive after exposure therapy. If that was my SO and i didn't have work and i would damn well be driving them to appointments --- if they have a sitter can he not edit in a coffee shop while she had the appointment?
3) Is anyone else wondering if he is sleeping all the time because of his new diet/exercise? I'm betting he isn't getting sufficient calories and thats why he is sleeping a ton, couple that with feeling tired from shocking his body with such high levels of exercise (like he didn't seem to build up at all, just went straight into crazy trialathon training..)
Panic attacks also can't last more than a short amount of time. You can have a bunch of panic attacks consecutively, but you won't be acting the way Kyra was in that hailstorm video for hours on end. They might look scary, but panic attacks are actually relatively harmless physically. Once the panic passes, your body goes back to normal (although you might feel more anxious than normal or a bit tired).
There are also different types of treatment for anxiety and OCD. Some therapists do a 6-12 week course of exposure therapy (CBT), but as another form of treatment, you might also see a therapist for talk therapy for weekly sessions with no set time to it. From what Kyra said, it sounds like she's doing an intensive CBT program at the moment, so there's a set amount of time for the heavy duty course. It didn't sound to me like they stopped therapy because it was too expensive. It seemed more like Kyra is just trying this new type of therapy (which I think is great. CBT is highly effective and should really help her.)
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I just finished watching her YouNow, and it seems she's not their babysitter anymore because she's busy with school. OK hired a new one from care.com and apparently she's the "best babysitter ever" and has been teaching Levi a lotworkinprogress wrote:Does anyone know if Katelyn (I think that's her name) is still babysitting for them, or have they actually hired like a "professional" sitter that isn't a friend?Ilovecats wrote:No, they have another babysitterflightlessbird wrote:Maybe that's the real reason Kyla moved in with them... she's a live in nanny/babysitter. Doesn't make sense for Oscar to just sleep all day and do whatever he wants when he could be taking care of his kids.
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I feel like Oscar has always had a horrible sleep schedule, remember when they would let Levi take a nap at like 7pm? This was before the new baby, I think with 2 Kyra stepped up.
They don't even vlog every day so I don't get what Oscar's excuse is, he could set an alarm and stand to lose a few hours of sleep for a few nights until his schedule is more normal!
They don't even vlog every day so I don't get what Oscar's excuse is, he could set an alarm and stand to lose a few hours of sleep for a few nights until his schedule is more normal!
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Re: OKWeDontDeserveAMillion. Part #14
In today's vlog did kyra leave the babies outside while she went inside to talk to oscar ??
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btw i wasn't suggesting oscar went to the therapy with her, just drive her. But thanks for info, was interesting to know a bit more about it.puzzledbyit28 wrote:As someone with severe anxiety/OCD, you don't need someone to drive you to and from exposure therapy. When you do this type of therapy, it's in a controlled setting and your therapist only exposes you to your trigger as much as you can handle in an outpatient setting. They always make sure you're ok before you go home. If you're having a panic attack and your appointment time has passed, they'll help you through it until you're able to take care of yourself again. It's also better for you to do this type of therapy on your own. If you lean on someone else for this, it's easy to convince yourself that you are only able to get through it because you have a significant other/family member there. You need to go on your own in order to gain confidence in yourself.Dusty_Sidebar wrote:Kyra is really growing on me lately. Just watched the OCD vlog and have a few thoughts:
1) I'm confused why when they explained why they stopped because its too expensive oscar was totalling up for the year --- i thought it was just a 4-6 weeks of going a ton/course?
2) Oscar is such a dick for sleeping all day - like if Kyra is that affected (like in the hailstorm vlog) how do they know she will be okay to drive after exposure therapy. If that was my SO and i didn't have work and i would damn well be driving them to appointments --- if they have a sitter can he not edit in a coffee shop while she had the appointment?
3) Is anyone else wondering if he is sleeping all the time because of his new diet/exercise? I'm betting he isn't getting sufficient calories and thats why he is sleeping a ton, couple that with feeling tired from shocking his body with such high levels of exercise (like he didn't seem to build up at all, just went straight into crazy trialathon training..)
Panic attacks also can't last more than a short amount of time. You can have a bunch of panic attacks consecutively, but you won't be acting the way Kyra was in that hailstorm video for hours on end. They might look scary, but panic attacks are actually relatively harmless physically. Once the panic passes, your body goes back to normal (although you might feel more anxious than normal or a bit tired).
There are also different types of treatment for anxiety and OCD. Some therapists do a 6-12 week course of exposure therapy (CBT), but as another form of treatment, you might also see a therapist for talk therapy for weekly sessions with no set time to it. From what Kyra said, it sounds like she's doing an intensive CBT program at the moment, so there's a set amount of time for the heavy duty course. It didn't sound to me like they stopped therapy because it was too expensive. It seemed more like Kyra is just trying this new type of therapy (which I think is great. CBT is highly effective and should really help her.)
I got the impression from the end of their 'diagnosed with OCD' vlog at 16:30 that she had stopped because it was too expensive without insurance, but maybe she is talking about stopping weekly therapy after her course..