Gardner Quad Squad: Bottom Feeding Trailer Trash (Part 11)
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I've mostly stopped watching the vlogs, but I looked at their Snapchat yesterday.
Those girls looked like zombies standing around Santa while The Perv yelled stupid shit at them.
I've never seen such blank looking children in all my life!
Way to suck the fun out of everything Greedners.
Those girls looked like zombies standing around Santa while The Perv yelled stupid shit at them.
I've never seen such blank looking children in all my life!
Way to suck the fun out of everything Greedners.
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Also, Gedda, I agree the kids could be interesting little characters. I'm rooting for them. That age is so much fun to joke with. You can just see their minds turning. I'd love to see their personalities allowed to shine.
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At 2:54, "Indie, can you smile for Mommy?"
Blank stare as usual.
Pan away.
This girls are expression-less
And what what was with her choosing Evie and Scarlett to be the ones on Santa's lap, front and center?
And also the two poor commenters on YT that dared to to question T&A for 1) using "cited" instead of "excited" and 2) production placement/promotions totally got attacked by the the KADs. OMG.
Blank stare as usual.
Pan away.
This girls are expression-less
And what what was with her choosing Evie and Scarlett to be the ones on Santa's lap, front and center?
And also the two poor commenters on YT that dared to to question T&A for 1) using "cited" instead of "excited" and 2) production placement/promotions totally got attacked by the the KADs. OMG.
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I have never seen those girls so silent and docile and robotic they had to have given them something in order for them to behave that way. I don’t have a vlog photo shoot to compare to. But I’m thinking back to their behavior when they went to Los Angeles on ET and other shows remember the biting and crying and horrible behavior. They certainly weren’t docile then. And I don’t think it’s because they are older. I think you guys are right. I think they drugged them.
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I am kind of dopey and expressionless too if I've taken Benadryl.
I'll stop. Now with one of the girls mentioning medicine and how often they're "sick" I wonder how often the lack of expression\zombie effect is that.
I'll stop. Now with one of the girls mentioning medicine and how often they're "sick" I wonder how often the lack of expression\zombie effect is that.
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Arghhh... I just noticed my own poor grammar. *these girls. (Not *this girls).
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Sadly., I think you're right.DoodleBop wrote:I am kind of dopey and expressionless too if I've taken Benadryl.
I'll stop. Now with one of the girls mentioning medicine and how often they're "sick" I wonder how often the lack of expression\zombie effect is that.
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I don't know if it's a vlogger thing or what. There are a couple of others who have kids who have obvious speech delays. One of them has bad torticollis. His parents blocked the words "neck" and "torticollis" from the vlog comments. Both his parents and the other kids' delete comments about speech. One of the moms went on a Snapchat rant about how her son was so advanced, but they just never managed to catch it on camera. There is nothing wrong with having a child who needs some help. There is something wrong with ignoring it to the point where (in the torticollis case) the kid needed a little surgery, when physical therapy would have probably taken care of it, or getting pissed when someone suggests your precious angel might have a "flaw", and not taking them to get help. I just don't get it.
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Kids that age are a blast. Another vlogger, Cullen and Katie, have a daughter who is just past 3 and pretty advanced in her language. She is hilarious. My son cracked me up all the time. It's one of the big joys having kids. Watching how their minds work, and seeing them make connections. And these idiots are missing out. It's sad for all of them.Morning Glory wrote:Also, Gedda, I agree the kids could be interesting little characters. I'm rooting for them. That age is so much fun to joke with. You can just see their minds turning. I'd love to see their personalities allowed to shine.
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I don't get it either. I guess I never will. I'm glad that I got the help my child needed and I still do to this day. Always will.lmmomSD wrote:I don't know if it's a vlogger thing or what. There are a couple of others who have kids who have obvious speech delays. One of them has bad torticollis. His parents blocked the words "neck" and "torticollis" from the vlog comments. Both his parents and the other kids' delete comments about speech. One of the moms went on a Snapchat rant about how her son was so advanced, but they just never managed to catch it on camera. There is nothing wrong with having a child who needs some help. There is something wrong with ignoring it to the point where (in the torticollis case) the kid needed a little surgery, when physical therapy would have probably taken care of it, or getting pissed when someone suggests your precious angel might have a "flaw", and not taking them to get help. I just don't get it.
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When the greedturds are confronted by teachers, because teachers are mandated, that their kids need extra help.... we told them years before.
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Re: Gardner Quad Squad: Bottom Feeding Trailer Trash (Part 1
This is why people feel the need to say sorry to me for being disabled or having special needs kids. Why are you saying sorry? We're not sorry. Yet then there are people who act like it's a dirty secret and these kids grow up living in a world where someone about them in taboo. That's got to feel pretty awful. Eventually the girls will begin to realize their parents are embarrassed about their speech etc but instead of getting them help they just heavily edit the comments. What will they do IRL?
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Oh that vlog today was heart wrenching; it's hard to imagine what the world looks like through the eyes of those kids.
I was thinking about a novel I read one time of a girl raised by an unstable mother and the effect it had on her, her anger at the father who was the most stable one and should have protected her but abandoned the family leaving her alone with the unstable mother. The mother had these very high highs and very low lows and consequently the daughter was pulled out of bed in the middle of the night for amazing adventures; then the mother would cycle into lows of not getting out of bed for days so the daughter had to learn to fend for herself early on. I searched on google and can't find the name of the book. I can't remember the diagnosis of the mother; I think it was some type of borderline personality disorder with psychotic features.
But in searching I ran across this:
Understanding the Borderline Mother (I didn't know there were four types of borderline mothers)
https://www.borderlinepersonalitytreatm ... -book.html
High-Functioning BPD Mothers; The Witch and The Queen
Low-Functioning BPD Mothers; The Waif and The Hermit
Here is a bit about the "Queen":
Queens need to be the center of attention and view others as a means to serve that craving. Children are mere reflections of the mother and must validate and agree with her in order to assure her that she has their respect. Queens can be manipulative and vindictive. They cross boundaries without recognition or regret. Children of Queens are not permitted to have their own needs or opinions, and are not encouraged to become individuals in their own right. Later in life, these children may begin to show signs of BPD themselves. At the very least, they suffer severe self-esteem issues.
http://outofthefog.website/personality- ... ther-types
The Queen Typical Thoughts:"I want more attention. I deserve more attention. And, by the way, what have you done for me lately?" Also, "My children should fulfill my needs, not the other way around. They don't love or respect me if they disagree with me, go against my wishes, or have needs of their own."
The Queen Typical Feelings: These include entitlement, deprivation, emptiness, anger, frustration, or loneliness from the deprivation they felt as children. Queens are impatient and have a low tolerance for frustration. They also push others' boundaries without regret or recognition.
Typical Actions and Central Dilemma: Driven by feelings of emptiness and unable to soothe themselves, Queens do what it takes to get what they feel they so richly deserve--including vindictive acts like blackmail. Initially they may impress others with their social graces. But when "friends" can no longer deliver, the Queen cuts them off without a thought. Queens are capable of real manipulation (vs. more primitive BP defenses) to get what they desire.
Typical Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions of Family Members
"I can't meet this person's needs; my best isn't enough."
"Don't I ever get to have any needs? (Better not say that or the Queen will leave me.)"
"Why is everything always about her?"
"If people only knew what an act the Queen puts on, they'd sure be shocked."
Family members who the Queen shames, ignores, or gives superficial attention learn that their worth depends on external things (cars, important titles).
Non-BPs' self-esteem also suffers--especially among those who become isolated or who had a Queen parent.
Over time, non-BPs feel used, manipulated and angry--anger at the BP and at themselves for capitulating so much they no longer recognize themselves.
Non-BPs give in to her wishes because it's easier than maintaining personal limits.
Less assertive non-BPs are vulnerable to distortion campaigns, unwilling or unable to protect themselves or their children.
Consequences to Children with a Queen Parent: To the Queen, children are a built-in audience expected to give love, attention and support when the Queen needs it. Children feel confused and betrayed when their normal behavior is sometimes punished (according to the Queen's needs of the moment). Since Queens don't allow or help children become individuals (autonomy is discouraged--even punished) kids mimic the behavior they do see: the Queens'. Thus, a new generation of BPs is born.
As kids grow, conflict with the Queen increases. Underneath, these kids long for approval, recognition, consistency, and to be loved unconditionally for who they are, not what they achieve.
I hope I don't offend anyone in my talking about this; that is not my purpose of bringing it up. I don't know a great deal of borderline disorder; though I have a childhood friend who was diagnosed with it as an adult. I did have a very unstable mother and I searched long and hard to find out what was going on in the house I grew up in. The truth be told; my reason for beginning to watch the Greedners was to watch normal healthy children grow up with loving parents; that would have been very healing for me. As everyone else here we saw that drop away short of the first year. Instead I watch and try to understand their family dynamics. I know the entire blame of the dysfunction is not just the 'mom'; the 'dad' has something I don't recognize either; he is pervy and controlling and everything that others have brought up. I don't think he is staying home to stabilize the mom; I don't think he is capable of holding down a job or he would have went on a mission.
I was thinking about a novel I read one time of a girl raised by an unstable mother and the effect it had on her, her anger at the father who was the most stable one and should have protected her but abandoned the family leaving her alone with the unstable mother. The mother had these very high highs and very low lows and consequently the daughter was pulled out of bed in the middle of the night for amazing adventures; then the mother would cycle into lows of not getting out of bed for days so the daughter had to learn to fend for herself early on. I searched on google and can't find the name of the book. I can't remember the diagnosis of the mother; I think it was some type of borderline personality disorder with psychotic features.
But in searching I ran across this:
Understanding the Borderline Mother (I didn't know there were four types of borderline mothers)
https://www.borderlinepersonalitytreatm ... -book.html
High-Functioning BPD Mothers; The Witch and The Queen
Low-Functioning BPD Mothers; The Waif and The Hermit
Here is a bit about the "Queen":
Queens need to be the center of attention and view others as a means to serve that craving. Children are mere reflections of the mother and must validate and agree with her in order to assure her that she has their respect. Queens can be manipulative and vindictive. They cross boundaries without recognition or regret. Children of Queens are not permitted to have their own needs or opinions, and are not encouraged to become individuals in their own right. Later in life, these children may begin to show signs of BPD themselves. At the very least, they suffer severe self-esteem issues.
http://outofthefog.website/personality- ... ther-types
The Queen Typical Thoughts:"I want more attention. I deserve more attention. And, by the way, what have you done for me lately?" Also, "My children should fulfill my needs, not the other way around. They don't love or respect me if they disagree with me, go against my wishes, or have needs of their own."
The Queen Typical Feelings: These include entitlement, deprivation, emptiness, anger, frustration, or loneliness from the deprivation they felt as children. Queens are impatient and have a low tolerance for frustration. They also push others' boundaries without regret or recognition.
Typical Actions and Central Dilemma: Driven by feelings of emptiness and unable to soothe themselves, Queens do what it takes to get what they feel they so richly deserve--including vindictive acts like blackmail. Initially they may impress others with their social graces. But when "friends" can no longer deliver, the Queen cuts them off without a thought. Queens are capable of real manipulation (vs. more primitive BP defenses) to get what they desire.
Typical Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions of Family Members
"I can't meet this person's needs; my best isn't enough."
"Don't I ever get to have any needs? (Better not say that or the Queen will leave me.)"
"Why is everything always about her?"
"If people only knew what an act the Queen puts on, they'd sure be shocked."
Family members who the Queen shames, ignores, or gives superficial attention learn that their worth depends on external things (cars, important titles).
Non-BPs' self-esteem also suffers--especially among those who become isolated or who had a Queen parent.
Over time, non-BPs feel used, manipulated and angry--anger at the BP and at themselves for capitulating so much they no longer recognize themselves.
Non-BPs give in to her wishes because it's easier than maintaining personal limits.
Less assertive non-BPs are vulnerable to distortion campaigns, unwilling or unable to protect themselves or their children.
Consequences to Children with a Queen Parent: To the Queen, children are a built-in audience expected to give love, attention and support when the Queen needs it. Children feel confused and betrayed when their normal behavior is sometimes punished (according to the Queen's needs of the moment). Since Queens don't allow or help children become individuals (autonomy is discouraged--even punished) kids mimic the behavior they do see: the Queens'. Thus, a new generation of BPs is born.
As kids grow, conflict with the Queen increases. Underneath, these kids long for approval, recognition, consistency, and to be loved unconditionally for who they are, not what they achieve.
I hope I don't offend anyone in my talking about this; that is not my purpose of bringing it up. I don't know a great deal of borderline disorder; though I have a childhood friend who was diagnosed with it as an adult. I did have a very unstable mother and I searched long and hard to find out what was going on in the house I grew up in. The truth be told; my reason for beginning to watch the Greedners was to watch normal healthy children grow up with loving parents; that would have been very healing for me. As everyone else here we saw that drop away short of the first year. Instead I watch and try to understand their family dynamics. I know the entire blame of the dysfunction is not just the 'mom'; the 'dad' has something I don't recognize either; he is pervy and controlling and everything that others have brought up. I don't think he is staying home to stabilize the mom; I don't think he is capable of holding down a job or he would have went on a mission.
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I dont think ive ever seen any of the girls say anything that was hilarious that wasn't prompted. How sad. They should be by now.
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The really sad thing is, they probably have. All kids do.Night lady wrote:I dont think ive ever seen any of the girls say anything that was hilarious that wasn't prompted. How sad. They should be by now.
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But Trashley screeches so much and scripts what she wants them to say that no one (least of all their parents) hears it.
Good job.
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Did any of them know any of the words to It's A Small World? Didn't sound like it.
And it's 12:30 and they've been running around all morning but the girls aren't even dressed?
Lots of the comments are brutal. Someone very politely said that they are clearly delayed and she's sure the Gardners are getting them help. Not expecting that comment to last long.
And it's 12:30 and they've been running around all morning but the girls aren't even dressed?
Lots of the comments are brutal. Someone very politely said that they are clearly delayed and she's sure the Gardners are getting them help. Not expecting that comment to last long.
Re: Gardner Quad Squad: Bottom Feeding Trailer Trash (Part 1
A post and 41 comments just deleted. Including some great advice from a speech therapist.
You are doing your girls no favours Greedners. I can forgive the selling of stuff, the lack of discipline, the bs about you being so busy, the date nights as abhorrent as all that is.
But you deliberately time and time again ignoring advice from professionals to get your girls assessed is unforgiveable. Get them assessed. You can afford it. If there is nothing wrong then the reports will reflect that. But you know there is so you are avoiding it. You should be ashamed. All that time this week that you spent at Rodworks and or travelling and being at Minky Couture could have been spent with professionals. Dismiss me as a hater. If that was true I wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be advocating for those girls you apparently love so much. Get them some help.
You are doing your girls no favours Greedners. I can forgive the selling of stuff, the lack of discipline, the bs about you being so busy, the date nights as abhorrent as all that is.
But you deliberately time and time again ignoring advice from professionals to get your girls assessed is unforgiveable. Get them assessed. You can afford it. If there is nothing wrong then the reports will reflect that. But you know there is so you are avoiding it. You should be ashamed. All that time this week that you spent at Rodworks and or travelling and being at Minky Couture could have been spent with professionals. Dismiss me as a hater. If that was true I wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be advocating for those girls you apparently love so much. Get them some help.
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It angers me as well they refuse to get the girls assessed and ignore professional advice. I guess they'll find out the hard way. PURE NEGLECT!!AthenaA wrote:A post and 41 comments just deleted. Including some great advice from a speech therapist.
You are doing your girls no favours Greedners. I can forgive the selling of stuff, the lack of discipline, the bs about you being so busy, the date nights as abhorrent as all that is.
But you deliberately time and time again ignoring advice from professionals to get your girls assessed is unforgiveable. Get them assessed. You can afford it. If there is nothing wrong then the reports will reflect that. But you know there is so you are avoiding it. You should be ashamed. All that time this week that you spent at Rodworks and or travelling and being at Minky Couture could have been spent with professionals. Dismiss me as a hater. If that was true I wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be advocating for those girls you apparently love so much. Get them some help.
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Re: Gardner Quad Squad: Bottom Feeding Trailer Trash (Part 1
There’s no way they can send them to preschool as the first thing the teacher is going to say is speech therapy . They are in denial
It’s so much harder as they get older . My sil trying to fix speech issues now in her daughter at 7 instead of at 3 . The earlier the better their is nothing to be ashamed of lots of kids have speech issues.
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It’s so much harder as they get older . My sil trying to fix speech issues now in her daughter at 7 instead of at 3 . The earlier the better their is nothing to be ashamed of lots of kids have speech issues.
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Speech therapists are amazing I’m very grateful for the help my son got . He loved going as well
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Re: Gardner Quad Squad: Bottom Feeding Trailer Trash (Part 1
Where is Madison ? Maybe she said something about the girls
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