I mean... I'm in a very fortunate situation where my parents live 3 miles from our house and can watch our 5 month old on days when my husband and I work.RiceKrispieJoJo wrote:Agree with you. I wouldn't do it and couldn't imagine leaving behind my baby at 4 months old. I guess it is an easy concept for her since her mom will fly in and she just leaves the kids with them. Very unrealistic world she lives in.olivialinnea101 wrote:I'm all for alone time with your significant other, it's crucial for a healthy relationship, but leaving when your baby is 4 months old doesn't seem like good parenting. The baby is still a tiny infant and needs mom, especially if he/she is a breastfed baby. The only way I would leave a baby that small would be for 1) emergency circumstance or some other circumstance I would have no control over and 2) I would only be gone for a few days max. I honestly feel like Aaryn isn't done with her youthful partying days, I can't blame her because I forget that she's still in her 20s (in those cruise vlogs the girl could drink!) I just don't understand why she rushed another baby. I feel like she felt bored and figured, ehh we have the money and it's all picturesque to be a #2under2 mom so let's have another. I have a very high maintenance 1 year old similar to Skyla, and given the patience and other requirements required to care for a fussier child we are waiting another year or two before we even try for baby number 2.RiceKrispieJoJo wrote:Anyone else see the snap like a week ago when Aaryn was taking about the free trips Nick gets through work. She was bummed she couldn’t go recently since she is pregnant and is 100% going to Hawaii with him alone when Adeline is 4 months old. Free trips are awesome and I don’t blame her but I feel like she has no reality of what it’s going to be like having 2 kids, especially with a winey one.
Even then, I RARELY ask them to watch him overnight because I know how much of a handful he can be and how much he loves his bedtime routine.
I just can't see asking my parents to watch our infant (PLUS a fussy toddler) for an extended period of time while my husband and I went on vacation. I would feel guilty, not to mention I'd miss him like crazy!
If you choose to have kids, you have to put certain aspects of your life on hold for a while until they get a little bit older. At four months, a baby still needs their mommy everyday!
Going buckwild on Mai Tais on a free vacation sounds pretty awesome, but it's not the right time to do it with two babies at home. If she can't realize that, she needs to grow up.
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