Yeah. I am taking a wait and see tack. He can tweet and talk until he's blue in the face. We'll see if he changes anything. I am sure he got a lot of tweets back saying how wonderful he is, and what a great husband and father. For some of these people, Twitter seems to be the latest manipulation tool. "Love me! Tell me I'm amazing!" Shay is doing it right now. Bryan is a master at it. Cullen and Katie talk a good game. They're good at seeing what their issues are. But I haven't seen a whole lot of action. Possible skin cancer? Still laying out at the beach. Disorganized? "We'll do better when we get into the new house". Still disorganized? "Now that the kids are in MDO, we'll get organized" Not happening yet.HelloSweetie wrote:I suppose I'm less optimistic about Cullen's tweet than everyone else. Cullen could easily vlog his feelings and convey them in a more forward and clear way for everyone, but instead he writes a disjointed tweet about it. If we don't see him vlog about it, or any changes right away, then I'll assume he had a sentimental moment after a night of drinking. I don't think it's the church counselling that's helping because things have seemed to be getting worse instead of better since that started. I think he's taking a page out of Shay's book and all the tweets he's made over the past day or two, and he's making a play for his own sympathy.
Personal: my ex read "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus", and thought it was _amazing_. Thing was though, he used it to excuse his behavior, rather than learning anything about how to approach me. He seemed to have missed that part. So when I said something he did bothered me, he would come back with "It's just how I am, because I am a guy. See? Says so right here" (paraphrasing). Don't know what that has to do with anything, except that the tweets kinda sounded like that to me. "I didn't have a good role model!" But now he has Granddoc, and you learn and change. I don't blame my horrible housekeeping on my mom's. Although I suppose growing up in a messy house made me less bothered by it. At a certain point you have to say it's your own responsibility to act the way you should. There are plenty of resources for those who don't have role models.
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