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I don't even know where to start with this shitshow. "I'm a DAMN GOOD MAWM"... Reminds you of anyone? Anyone? Yeah. Tayler Tragedy.

-She mentions in the Draw my life (or something) vid she did not know her biological father and when she was told about it as a teenager, she acted out. Went and lost her virginity. And was grounded for a fucking year. I don't know in what world is that normal. Around that time, she became a biblehumper. I think she legit just wanted to belong somewhere. She was and is insecure AF.

-For being such a biblehumper, she sure as hell hasn't acted in that way. Religion is about values and morals and ethical code and empathy. She has shitty people skills, slept around, had kids out of wedlock.. Which none of those matter to me as a non religious person, but she makes it out to be that she's a devoted Christian but acts the complete opposite. Again. Insecure AF.

-She changes her values and views according to what's popular around the internet. Veganism, minimalism, adopting.. She has zero fucking clue what she wants and who she is. No personality what so ever. What she cares about is what others care about. She is beautiful and thin, but that doesn't matter any if you're just empty inside. I think even she knows that which is why she is so desperately clinging to her image, it's the only thing she has even some resemblance of control over.


To conclude, she's a mess and if it wasn't for Jimbot, hate to think how much worse off those kids would be. I don't think she is a bad person necessarily, but I honestly don't think she is mentally sound.
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Guys cut her some slack, I mean I cant handle hen I get the runt of everything either.... :D
Haha, I am kidding but seriously... a homeschooling former RN and she uses "runt" instead of "brunt"?
I found her to be genuine in this last video, her voice wasnt the low squeek it usually is which is further proof she puts that on for the camera. I could appreciate her waaay more if she was just her authentic self. I saw this about all youtubers but it i harder to criticize someone who is being themselves and owns it and way easy to pick apart someone who is lying, putting on an act etc... Why cant she just admit the adoption was biting off more than she can chew, she is having a hard tim adjusting/bonding and they made a mistake by not cocooning etc... That doesnt mean you regret the adoption, dont love "Hux" etc...

as for the kids names, I am assuming Kovas middle name is after someone? What is Jakas middle name? Thank the lord they have middle names they can go by in the future.
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So she purposely didn't speak about Huxley's medical condition till now so she could do a big clickbaity reveal and get some $$$
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lurking10 wrote:So she purposely didn't speak about Huxley's medical condition till now so she could do a big clickbaity reveal and get some $$$
Probably. But they also mentioned he has not been seen by US doctors yet, so the fact is Hux doesn't have any official diagnosis yet. Medical files from China are 50/50 on whether they are reliable or not. Many provinces where orphanages are located, are well known for fudging medical files to make kids "more adoptable."

I'm going through adoption right now and just realized Myka is in the same fb support group I am.
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You guys should post links to this page in the comments on her video and see how long until she deletes it. The deleting of the negative comments is ridiculous
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Can I ask why people say that Kova is scared of Myka? I mean I would be too with her crazy eyes but I've never really noticed it?


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New here. Posted before but, it's not showing? Anyways, I just started watching them and finished the Hux series. I really don't agree with how they claim to be bonding with him. It just seems like he's an extra floating in the background. I can tell J is trying but, M seems totally vacant. Off topic but, does M have thyroid issues? Her eyes bulge more when she's upset. Maybe that's why she does nothing? My aunt had thyroid problems and had the same type of eye bulge and she had no energy to do anything like M.

I don't get why they're fussing over going out or staying in. Didn't M rave about how she and J are home bodies back in China? Now they're all about going out to shop and whatnot. Seems like M puts her needs/wants ahead of her kids.
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I can't find my first post so, I'll just sum it up again.

My parents adopted my sisters when I was around 5 or 6. My parents made sure to always include us all in everything by asking us questions and trying to get everyones input. (ie: "what do you think___ would like? do you like it?" etc.) I don't see that type of interaction with M and Hux. The cookie thing was upsetting. She could have sat everyone at the table and then asked: "what type of cookie do you think Hux would like?" That way it's incorporating all the kids and some-what helping with the language barrier (since he doesn't know English). Body language is huge too. Just bc Hux doesn't know English doesn't mean he doesn't pick up on M's bad vibes... It's annoying how she uses the "he doesn't know English so, I don't do this and that for him" crutch...

I think J tries as much as he can. I like J when he's not kissing M's ass... seems like he's a "M pleaser". But, kuddos to him for raising Kova as his own too. I wouldn't have known if someone didn't say. I also love how loving Kova is towards all of her siblings. She's such a good big sister. I really liked it when J was trying to be neutral about the boys playing with the ornaments and Kova outted Radley saying he was the one messing them up! Love love love her honesty!

Who knows what really goes on behind the cam. I think M just sits around all day doing nothing except buying useless stuff and doting over Radley. Seems like he's the only kid she gives a tsp amount of attention to. Other than that, I wouldn't be surprised if she was regretting adopting Hux. She puts the blame on him but, really... he's just a baby... he knows nothing. It's like moving to an alien planet where no one looks like you, speaks your language and you have nothing to relate to... on top of that, Hux is a special needs baby. I feel so bad for him. As adults, they should be putting in all the effort and not try to shift any blame on him. Just bc Hux rejects her hugs doesn't mean she needs to stop trying. Hugging is a huge trust thing- I don't think she should have started off with that. It's the small things that count. Building up to that point should be her goal... did she really expect him to open up in a day? Like the cookie, she could have asked Hux first and handed it to him instead of porking it down and then handing one to J ONLY AFTER J asked her to give one to Hux.

As for the bonding: my parents shared their bedroom with us for a few months when my siblings first arrived. I think it helped a lot. It was a ton of fun for us all too. A great way to bond as well. You'd think it's nothing special since it's just a place to sleep but, it's a strong way to forge trust since they'll know that they're not alone anymore. I also felt a new trust in it too. I was the only child up until then and it felt amazing to know that I now had sisters.

I just don't see the effort they say that they're putting in. Hux sleeps alone (even though he shares a room with Radley). He can't communicate. Doesn't even seems like he knew Chinese so, I don't get why M is always mentioning how they can't talk to him because he doesn't know English... My sisters didn't know a single word of English either but, our parents would always try to stimulate some type of response whether it was through pictures, handing them things or even acting it out. I think that's what makes me most upset. I just don't see the effort.
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British25 wrote:Can I ask why people say that Kova is scared of Myka? I mean I would be too with her crazy eyes but I've never really noticed it?

If you watch Kovas body language/facial expressions when interacting with Myka or when Myka is speaking you will pick up on it. If you want to see it clear as day, they did a video together on Mykas Main channel together, and it was very obvious there. There was a ton of edited jump cuts, and Kova was acting very very strange. Almost like she was afraid of displeasing her mom.
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Myka seems like the jealous older child that didn’t want anothe sibling instead of a mother. She’s def regretting his adoption and that’s sad
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZBoqy7eex4

That video shows well how Kova is scared.You can see at around 10 seconds, she gets startled already. At 2 minutes 40, when she whispers excuse me mommy... What child does that. And Myka reaction is cringey. Then she pulls Kova closer and Kova moves back again.

On another note, how beautiful and sweet is Kova?
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blackroses wrote:Myka seems like the jealous older child that didn’t want anothe sibling instead of a mother. She’s def regretting his adoption and that’s sad
And the regret seemed to have started at the hand-off when she was told he was totally non-verbal, which indicates substantial brain compromise. I'm sure she was hoping for a less severe diagnosis and visions of changing a poopy diaper for a 12 year old probably leapt into her mind.
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lara77 wrote:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZBoqy7eex4

That video shows well how Kova is scared.You can see at around 10 seconds, she gets startled already. At 2 minutes 40, when she whispers excuse me mommy... What child does that. And Myka reaction is cringey. Then she pulls Kova closer and Kova moves back again.

On another note, how beautiful and sweet is Kova?
I got two minutes in and stopped watching. An unboxing video with her daughter, who she doesn't interact with at all for the entire time I watched? Even when Kova was saying little comments she barely acknowledged her and just talked over her. Agreed, shes a gorgeous little girl and still so sweet with her siblings


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She was so much more concerned with the viewers and camera than her daughter. At one point Kova asked to open the box Myka bought for her and Myka just ignores her and keeps opening it while talking about "if I sound surprised its because I am blah blah blah!!!" This lady is the worst.

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Went back to watch their pre-Hux vlogs and... there's not much of a difference.

I feel so bad for all the kids. J takes care of them and cooks all the time. What does M do? I think she adopted just for the sake of getting attention. Since that's worn off, she's back to being the dismissive and vacant "mom". All of the kids seem to clutch onto J too... go figure.

It's like she feasts off of negative situations in order to make herself seem better and then when she's over it, she couldn't be bothered to look or give any type of attention. She barely says anything unless it's to address the "haters"... then she's completely awake, bug eyed, manic and preaching to an empty room... I don't ever see her that passionate and alert when she's helping with the kids or cooking... only when she wants to bitch and go shopping.

So selfish!
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My youngest daughter is adopted from China. Her file stated that she was non-special needs, NSN. We did all the required medical tests/appointments in China & she passed every one.
She turned 1 when we were with her in China. Fast forward to her around 2 1/2, & she had very little speech. I had thought she had a hearing problem & would mention it to family & our pediatrician & all disagreed w/ me.
Finally our doc said let's get her hearing checked out.....& sure enough she does have hearing loss & wears hearing aids & went to a special deaf/hearing impaired school from 3 yo & had therapy at home each week until she turned 3. It was heartbreaking to put my little girl on a school bus at 6:30am each morning. The school was far & it provide free transportation w/ aids on the bus to assist the kiddos.
Anyway, what I'm saying hear is China's system is not always on point & she needs to get him to a specialist here asap to provide him w/ the proper therapy.
My daughter is now 8 & in our local mainstream school where she had speech therapy 2x a week until this year, because at the end of 2nd grade, she was graduated from the program because she was on track
But they still monitor her now to make sure she stays on her level.
She is a rip! Total tomboy who loves dragons & video games....
we have fantastic programs in the usa, free! get him into the system..... i was told its soimportant to do this before the age of 2 for the best opportunities. huxley is a doll, its because of him that i watch them.


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I agree with you. The main priority should be getting his health and physical checked ASAP. Instead, she's more fixated on a damn Christmas tree in October...

Our parents took my sisters to specialists the moment they arrived back to the US. I recall them going to at least 5 different doctors to get answers. Even in the US, it's common to see more than one doctor to get varying opinions to try and get to the root of the problem. I just don't get why they're not doing anything. I get that J has a job outside of their channel but, M? She home schools? That's no excuse. She uses that like it's the most exhausting and important thing that she could ever contribute to their family. How hard is it to set an appointment and take Hux to see a few doctors? If he does have a brain cyst/tumor, she needs to get on it quickly. Just because China ruled it to be "non cancerous" doesn't mean it will always stay that way and besides that, it's always good to get an array of opinions.

Lazy, lazy, lazy M... No doubt they'll cart Hux off to a special needs school so she can lull around at home doing nothing but shop online and toss a few math books at Kova to solve bc God forbid she ever did anything for her kids.
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Emmalinelola1 wrote: ...
we have fantastic programs in the usa, free!
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They are not free, taxpayers are paying the bills.
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XYZ wrote:
Emmalinelola1 wrote: ...
we have fantastic programs in the usa, free!
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They are not free, taxpayers are paying the bills.
They ARE free to use. No costless to run. I don't get that "Taxpayers paid for it... ". What did you believe taxes were for...
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lara77 wrote:
XYZ wrote:
Emmalinelola1 wrote: ...
we have fantastic programs in the usa, free!
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They are not free, taxpayers are paying the bills.
They ARE free to use. No costless to run. I don't get that "Taxpayers paid for it... ". What did you believe taxes were for...
i could not have said it any better! lara77 we pay for it thru taxes whether we are going to use it or not, so why not use it if one of ur children can only benefit from the programs? my daughter went from 2letter "sounds" as her language to being able to use some words to communicate & truly hear the world thru her hearing aids in 6 months-ish time. id say thats one great reason for all our taxes.


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