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dramaforthismomma wrote:Didn't she just get a new computer right before her and Alex split up?
IIRC she bought his sisters.
Which was confiscated by police and she probably didn't get back.

Here's an idea Allyshia, don't spend your tax return until you NEED to. Or buy diapers for your son, and store them. Then you won't have to ask for hand outs on Facebook (again) in 6 months.
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Hmm I thought they had separate computers either way It's stupid. A computer isn't a necessity
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Wasn't she looking to get a car a few weeks ago?
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So my friend posted an ultrasound picture as a joke for april fool's day and look what Allyshia said in response to it

http://imgur.com/oq94qrf

The entire thread afterwards is just people flipping out on Allyshia and talking about what a horrible mother she is.
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Classic sanctimommy

I wanna see the comments!
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Hey Allyshia. People who have losses or miscarriages can make April Fool's Day jokes. They can make jokes about babies and pregnancy. I personally draw the line at dead baby jokes BUT I don't stop people from telling them. I handle my own feelings and don't expect others to change their actions to prevent my "suffering" - though if someone asks why I'm not laughing or giving glances/stares I'll tell them. You can't change others, even by guilt or shame ("You shouldn't have..." "Don't you feel bad..." "Don't you ever think..."). The only control you have over anything is your reactions to things, and trying to "call someone out" when they don't care and don't need to shows a lack of (self)control. I'm sorry you can't learn better.

In other words: if you're triggered by miscarriage/loss (on social media it appears) perhaps it's best you find ways to cope with that within yourself instead of trying to find ways to shut everyone else's feelings/thoughts/jokes/opinions/lives down. It would be nice if all of our triggers went away but they don't - life's not fair, so you'd best get to finding/using those coping skills.

Also, if you think someone is a jerk/makes a joke in poor taste then accept that person/judge them/write them off and move on. Trying to change people is like trying to make bananas purple. It's unnatural, a lot of work.. and for what?

/soapbox
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Allyshia, your entire life is a joke, so you might want to step off your soap box girl.
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fortwendy wrote:Hey Allyshia. People who have losses or miscarriages can make April Fool's Day jokes. They can make jokes about babies and pregnancy. I personally draw the line at dead baby jokes BUT I don't stop people from telling them. I handle my own feelings and don't expect others to change their actions to prevent my "suffering" - though if someone asks why I'm not laughing or giving glances/stares I'll tell them. You can't change others, even by guilt or shame ("You shouldn't have..." "Don't you feel bad..." "Don't you ever think..."). The only control you have over anything is your reactions to things, and trying to "call someone out" when they don't care and don't need to shows a lack of (self)control. I'm sorry you can't learn better.

In other words: if you're triggered by miscarriage/loss (on social media it appears) perhaps it's best you find ways to cope with that within yourself instead of trying to find ways to shut everyone else's feelings/thoughts/jokes/opinions/lives down. It would be nice if all of our triggers went away but they don't - life's not fair, so you'd best get to finding/using those coping skills.

Also, if you think someone is a jerk/makes a joke in poor taste then accept that person/judge them/write them off and move on. Trying to change people is like trying to make bananas purple. It's unnatural, a lot of work.. and for what?

/soapbox
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Allyshia, your entire life is a joke, so you might want to step off your soap box girl.
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blackbettybamf wrote:Classic sanctimommy

I wanna see the comments!

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Lol. Looks like she took down the other status.
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Look how grody floor is. She disgusts me.
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Bahahahaha [FACE WITH TEARS OF JOY] where is the " taking a professional's advice" when it comes to standard medical care?
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CuppyKakeTM wrote:Bahahahaha [FACE WITH TEARS OF JOY] where is the " taking a professional's advice" when it comes to standard medical care?
Like THE most hypocritical thing she's ever said. Her professional advice probably comes from an herb healer or an astrologist or whatever the whack jobs are into these days ffs
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HowAboutNo wrote:Look how grody floor is. She disgusts me.
What the fuck is on her floor?!?!
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I think it's a design. Look around the edges.

Looks like spilled coffee.
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blackbettybamf wrote:I think it's a design. Look around the edges.

Looks like spilled coffee.
No not the design, the stuff closer to the bottom of the photo. Needs vacuuming. Crumbs and dirt everywhere on that carpet. That those kids crawl and play and sleep on. Ew.
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Ew yeah you're right.

Why don't people check the background when they post pics? I'd never post a pic of my house looking dirty
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blackbettybamf wrote:Ew yeah you're right.

Why don't people check the background when they post pics? I'd never post a pic of my house looking dirty

I'm also sure none of us let our house get that dirty either. She lives in a pigsty.
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I'm embarassed of my house right now cause I have a broken leg and not able to keep up but even mine isn't that bad. What's your excuse, Allyshia?
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