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dramaforthismomma wrote:Didn't she just get a new computer right before her and Alex split up?
IIRC she bought his sisters.
Which was confiscated by police and she probably didn't get back.
Here's an idea Allyshia, don't spend your tax return until you NEED to. Or buy diapers for your son, and store them. Then you won't have to ask for hand outs on Facebook (again) in 6 months.
Hey Allyshia. People who have losses or miscarriages can make April Fool's Day jokes. They can make jokes about babies and pregnancy. I personally draw the line at dead baby jokes BUT I don't stop people from telling them. I handle my own feelings and don't expect others to change their actions to prevent my "suffering" - though if someone asks why I'm not laughing or giving glances/stares I'll tell them. You can't change others, even by guilt or shame ("You shouldn't have..." "Don't you feel bad..." "Don't you ever think..."). The only control you have over anything is your reactions to things, and trying to "call someone out" when they don't care and don't need to shows a lack of (self)control. I'm sorry you can't learn better.
In other words: if you're triggered by miscarriage/loss (on social media it appears) perhaps it's best you find ways to cope with that within yourself instead of trying to find ways to shut everyone else's feelings/thoughts/jokes/opinions/lives down. It would be nice if all of our triggers went away but they don't - life's not fair, so you'd best get to finding/using those coping skills.
Also, if you think someone is a jerk/makes a joke in poor taste then accept that person/judge them/write them off and move on. Trying to change people is like trying to make bananas purple. It's unnatural, a lot of work.. and for what?
fortwendy wrote:Hey Allyshia. People who have losses or miscarriages can make April Fool's Day jokes. They can make jokes about babies and pregnancy. I personally draw the line at dead baby jokes BUT I don't stop people from telling them. I handle my own feelings and don't expect others to change their actions to prevent my "suffering" - though if someone asks why I'm not laughing or giving glances/stares I'll tell them. You can't change others, even by guilt or shame ("You shouldn't have..." "Don't you feel bad..." "Don't you ever think..."). The only control you have over anything is your reactions to things, and trying to "call someone out" when they don't care and don't need to shows a lack of (self)control. I'm sorry you can't learn better.
In other words: if you're triggered by miscarriage/loss (on social media it appears) perhaps it's best you find ways to cope with that within yourself instead of trying to find ways to shut everyone else's feelings/thoughts/jokes/opinions/lives down. It would be nice if all of our triggers went away but they don't - life's not fair, so you'd best get to finding/using those coping skills.
Also, if you think someone is a jerk/makes a joke in poor taste then accept that person/judge them/write them off and move on. Trying to change people is like trying to make bananas purple. It's unnatural, a lot of work.. and for what?
CuppyKakeTM wrote:Bahahahaha [FACE WITH TEARS OF JOY] where is the " taking a professional's advice" when it comes to standard medical care?
Like THE most hypocritical thing she's ever said. Her professional advice probably comes from an herb healer or an astrologist or whatever the whack jobs are into these days ffs
blackbettybamf wrote:I think it's a design. Look around the edges.
Looks like spilled coffee.
No not the design, the stuff closer to the bottom of the photo. Needs vacuuming. Crumbs and dirt everywhere on that carpet. That those kids crawl and play and sleep on. Ew.