STF2000 wrote:
Don't be sorry. Everyone is immature at one point in their lives. There is no handbook in life that says "By the time you are X age you can't be immature anymore." I know someone is going to throw the "he's a parent" card out there but you live and you learn. Every parent makes mistakes. Another thing I notice is a lot of people on here seem to be cool with Gabe... He seems to have no problem having his daughter around Chris & he's actually met him. Also it's a police report, the ex could have exaggerated the whole thing. You don't know. I'm not saying there is no way he isn't a psycho... but all you guys have is a police report from 2 years ago.
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Pulling a knife on someone is not only immature, but it's violent behavior. A mentally healthy person, even when they are raging, is not going to pull a knife on someone just because they wronged them. What was Chris trying to prove with the knife anyway? It wasn't in self defense, it was to show how big and bad he was, how tough he is that he has a knife and isn't afraid to use it. Why else did he pull it out? It was to purposefully scare Ashley and to make a bold statement: Don't fuck with me.
That is scary.[/quote]
Maybe he wasn't mentally healthy. People can get treatment for things like that. I guess I have just been around a lot of crazy in my life & seen people change for the better. I have seen people snap like that & then get help for it. If someone has a mental/personality disorder it doesn't mean they are damaged goods & don't deserve love. This is one report, there isn't multiple. Keep in mind there are multiple friends/loved ones around Jess & her kids that don't seem to have a problem with him.
I feel like I have to keep saying this but I'm just playing devils advocate... He could really murder their whole family in their sleep.
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