I am so sorry you are going through that. I am, as well. Its not easy for people who don't deal with it to understand. I have been working on it as best I can but without being able to afford therapy, it is not easy because I feel like I have to try to work it out on my own. Its rough! And I feel like her OCD/anxiety is way worse than mine so I can't even imagine what it is like for her._809lovely wrote:I agree with you. As i mentioned in my post i can relate to her. I also think i have OCD... i don't think she wants to be like that on purpose..i know I don'tLynnGLOVE8989 wrote:I am starting to feel bad for her. It used to annoy me when she would complain, but after her twitter post this morning about it not being her morning or whatever, I really think she has anxiety and/or OCD which really is a daily struggle. That could be why she doesn't take the kids out - she needs everything to be perfect and it is probably a lot of work to get two kids to look perfect, her hair and makeup looking perfect, the house perfect before they leave, and meals done. Not to mention her car is always PERFECTLY clean too. I can't imagine putting that much effort into making everything appear perfect. I'm really thinking that is what it is and it makes me sad for her. I mean like everyone has mentioned, her photos are edited to look "perfect" (in her head) and even that is very time consuming. I have never seen her post just a plan cell phone shot without filters of anything. MAYBE her townhouse one time but even that, I'm not so sure. I wonder if putting her life on YouTube has made her this way or if she has always been like this.
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I think if britt does have anxiety or ocd she could make a nice vlog about it. It would help her and her channel. I think that's why I like bunny and Rachel so much. They admit their weaknesses and those who have the same weaknesses (anxiety) follow them. Also in comments section everyone is there for each other.
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People think it's that simple, but it's not. Im glad im not alone in this! Hopefully i can get help with thisLynnGLOVE8989 wrote:I am so sorry you are going through that. I am, as well. Its not easy for people who don't deal with it to understand. I have been working on it as best I can but without being able to afford therapy, it is not easy because I feel like I have to try to work it out on my own. Its rough! And I feel like her OCD/anxiety is way worse than mine so I can't even imagine what it is like for her._809lovely wrote:I agree with you. As i mentioned in my post i can relate to her. I also think i have OCD... i don't think she wants to be like that on purpose..i know I don'tLynnGLOVE8989 wrote:I am starting to feel bad for her. It used to annoy me when she would complain, but after her twitter post this morning about it not being her morning or whatever, I really think she has anxiety and/or OCD which really is a daily struggle. That could be why she doesn't take the kids out - she needs everything to be perfect and it is probably a lot of work to get two kids to look perfect, her hair and makeup looking perfect, the house perfect before they leave, and meals done. Not to mention her car is always PERFECTLY clean too. I can't imagine putting that much effort into making everything appear perfect. I'm really thinking that is what it is and it makes me sad for her. I mean like everyone has mentioned, her photos are edited to look "perfect" (in her head) and even that is very time consuming. I have never seen her post just a plan cell phone shot without filters of anything. MAYBE her townhouse one time but even that, I'm not so sure. I wonder if putting her life on YouTube has made her this way or if she has always been like this.
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Maybe she doesn't know it? Im not saying it to be rude or anything =) im pretty sure i've been dealing with this for a long time, but NOW is when i sat down and started to think "this is not normal"crs2015 wrote:I think if britt does have anxiety or ocd she could make a nice vlog about it. It would help her and her channel. I think that's why I like bunny and Rachel so much. They admit their weaknesses and those who have the same weaknesses (anxiety) follow them. Also in comments section everyone is there for each other.
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Agree. That is the only reason I still watch her. She is definitely not a hot mess like other YT teen moms. She keeps house clean and arranged. She does have shortcomings and yes they are enabled. But it's , well their good luck I guess. But she does annoy me !!olemama wrote:I feel hopeful when I see Britney and Ean. I'm sure most people here know the statistical outcomes for children born to teenage unwed parents. And it's not pretty. But Britney and Ean look like they are beating the odds. They are staying together. They appear to have a decent middle-class income which enables them to provide a nice home for Nolan and Aria. They have assistance from relatives as well but so what? That just means Aria and Nolan live a better life. These kids are innocent and they deserve the best. (All children do!) I see so much crappy parenting from other youtubers, usually because of unstable relationships and low income, that it is refreshing to see a youtube couple making it.
As for her mental issues, I personally don't think she has any but I may be wrong. I consider my self to be a borderline OCD ( not medically diagnosed ) and she comes NO where near that !! Yes she is a clean freak but many are. She does have a shopping problem and stays home most of the time. I don't have anxiety so I cannot tell for sure , but she doesn't look like she has anxiety. She is just plain lazy when it comes to a few things. Like someone else above said, she has to push her boundaries farther and loosen up a bit. Also she is very snobby and arrogant. Probably which is why she has zero social interaction. She cannot handle criticism well. From what I've seen she cannot stand mess and hence why no play dates happening at her place.
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Very well said LynnGLOVE.LynnGLOVE8989 wrote: It seems simple to people who don't deal with mental health issues, but its not. Truly, it is not as easy as it seems. She should see a therapist but its not always easily accessible. Also, its not always easy to admit or even realize you have a problem. I can't fault Britney for that.
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I'm just going to say this because it's bugging me. I think it's wrong to call Britney a "Frizzy bitch", and to call Nolan "Norman". This place is so immature sometimes. Whatever, my bad, I guess I'm having a bad day. /rant
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I don't think Britney suffers from any mental disorders. I think she just thinks herself high and mighty BECAUSE she's beating the teen mom odds. And IMO her and Ean have zero chemistry. I don't see their relationship lasting for the long run. That guy is NEVER around. When and if they break up she will just be another statistic.
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The thing with mental health disorders is that they are really hard to diagnose from the outside. Many people look at someone and think, "Wow! She is lazy!" or "She seems so stuck up." When in reality, they are depressed, socially anxious, etc. I don't think Britney seems stuck up. I think she just doesn't have very good social skills, which could be a result of how she was raised or some other factor we don't know about. I think it is really sad for her to be labeled a bitch and whatnot when she may just be socially awkward. Some people are more outgoing when they are alone. Some people aren't super social and it isn't a mental health issue. The thing is that we do not know for sure. This is a gossip site. Not a place to call people names. If she is a little unhealthy mentally (which there is NOTHING wrong with but hopefully she can find some help), its kind of effed up that people are calling her nasty names. That is uncalled for.
And I agree with whoever said she should use it on her channel if she is having some anxiety/ocd/other issue. She could REALLY help someone. I know those are some videos I would definitely watch and support.
And I agree with whoever said she should use it on her channel if she is having some anxiety/ocd/other issue. She could REALLY help someone. I know those are some videos I would definitely watch and support.
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Then why did she and that other yt mom diss Vanessa if it has nothing to do with her thinking she's better than others? I don't like Vanessa but how Britney and the other friend excluded her like its fucken high school was messed upLynnGLOVE8989 wrote:The thing with mental health disorders is that they are really hard to diagnose from the outside. Many people look at someone and think, "Wow! She is lazy!" or "She seems so stuck up." When in reality, they are depressed, socially anxious, etc. I don't think Britney seems stuck up. I think she just doesn't have very good social skills, which could be a result of how she was raised or some other factor we don't know about. I think it is really sad for her to be labeled a bitch and whatnot when she may just be socially awkward. Some people are more outgoing when they are alone. Some people aren't super social and it isn't a mental health issue. The thing is that we do not know for sure. This is a gossip site. Not a place to call people names. If she is a little unhealthy mentally (which there is NOTHING wrong with but hopefully she can find some help), its kind of effed up that people are calling her nasty names. That is uncalled for.
And I agree with whoever said she should use it on her channel if she is having some anxiety/ocd/other issue. She could REALLY help someone. I know those are some videos I would definitely watch and support.
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Ean isn't home because he's working to support his family.... Which a lot of dads and moms do.Blackswan wrote:I don't think Britney suffers from any mental disorders. I think she just thinks herself high and mighty BECAUSE she's beating the teen mom odds. And IMO her and Ean have zero chemistry. I don't see their relationship lasting for the long run. That guy is NEVER around. When and if they break up she will just be another statistic.
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I know a lot of moms and dads do that but he's gone 95% of the time which is more than likely IMO to support Britney's expensive taste in homes.anglover2 wrote:Ean isn't home because he's working to support his family.... Which a lot of dads and moms do.Blackswan wrote:I don't think Britney suffers from any mental disorders. I think she just thinks herself high and mighty BECAUSE she's beating the teen mom odds. And IMO her and Ean have zero chemistry. I don't see their relationship lasting for the long run. That guy is NEVER around. When and if they break up she will just be another statistic.
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It can still be related to a mental health issue. I don't know anything about that but you can't say just because she "dissed" someone one time means she can't have other issues going on in her life. Maybe she was clinging onto Vanessa because she finally had a friend she felt comfortable with and was trying to fit in. I don't know. It really doesn't say a lot about her mental health. Not to mention, she and Vanessa are no longer friends. That could have something to do with it. I don't know.Blackswan wrote:Then why did she and that other yt mom diss Vanessa if it has nothing to do with her thinking she's better than others? I don't like Vanessa but how Britney and the other friend excluded her like its fucken high school was messed upLynnGLOVE8989 wrote:The thing with mental health disorders is that they are really hard to diagnose from the outside. Many people look at someone and think, "Wow! She is lazy!" or "She seems so stuck up." When in reality, they are depressed, socially anxious, etc. I don't think Britney seems stuck up. I think she just doesn't have very good social skills, which could be a result of how she was raised or some other factor we don't know about. I think it is really sad for her to be labeled a bitch and whatnot when she may just be socially awkward. Some people are more outgoing when they are alone. Some people aren't super social and it isn't a mental health issue. The thing is that we do not know for sure. This is a gossip site. Not a place to call people names. If she is a little unhealthy mentally (which there is NOTHING wrong with but hopefully she can find some help), its kind of effed up that people are calling her nasty names. That is uncalled for.
And I agree with whoever said she should use it on her channel if she is having some anxiety/ocd/other issue. She could REALLY help someone. I know those are some videos I would definitely watch and support.
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Most jobs don't allow you to just pick and choose what hours you work because they don't want to have to pay you overtime. He could be salaried for all we know, and forced to work all those hours because he is paid to work until the job gets done.Blackswan wrote:I know a lot of moms and dads do that but he's gone 95% of the time which is more than likely IMO to support Britney's expensive taste in homes.anglover2 wrote:Ean isn't home because he's working to support his family.... Which a lot of dads and moms do.Blackswan wrote:I don't think Britney suffers from any mental disorders. I think she just thinks herself high and mighty BECAUSE she's beating the teen mom odds. And IMO her and Ean have zero chemistry. I don't see their relationship lasting for the long run. That guy is NEVER around. When and if they break up she will just be another statistic.
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But it's ok to call to call people "sheep"?gypsophila wrote:I'm just going to say this because it's bugging me. I think it's wrong to call Britney a "Frizzy bitch", and to call Nolan "Norman". This place is so immature sometimes. Whatever, my bad, I guess I'm having a bad day. /rant
"Norman" came about from a funny autocorrect and it just kind of stuck. I might be completely mistaken when I say this but I believe I've even seen a Mod refer to Nolan as "Norman."
And the "Frizzy bitch" thing? Meh, I've seen worse on these threads. But I guess it's like you always say, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Hope your day gets better!
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But like you said...mental disorders are hard to diagnose base on what see plus we are not doctors. Just because she doesn't go out doesn't mean she HAS mental disorder.
I suffer through a lot mentally and emotionally. I don't want to say my diagnoses but from my experience I wouldn't be caught dead filming myself and posting it on the Internet for the world to see and judge. I assume it takes someone with a normal level of confidence to film themselves, edit, and post the contents that include your whole being. I can't even have a picture taken of me without freaking the F out.
I suffer through a lot mentally and emotionally. I don't want to say my diagnoses but from my experience I wouldn't be caught dead filming myself and posting it on the Internet for the world to see and judge. I assume it takes someone with a normal level of confidence to film themselves, edit, and post the contents that include your whole being. I can't even have a picture taken of me without freaking the F out.
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There are many different health disorders and people experience them to different degrees. For example, not all depressed people stay in bed all day but some do. Not all socially anxious people are unable to cope with talking to people in day to day conversations, but some are. They are difficult to diagnose and yet we can still see when something is wrong. I think it is better to be OVER concerned about mental health than not concerned at all. I'm not saying all people withmental health issues become murderers, but a lot of the people we see shooting up schools do it because of the lack of support they had in handling there mental health problems. So we shouldn't sweep it under the rug and call her names. Maybe we all need to be a little more supportive and kindly offer advice. I get that this is a gossip website but with all the mental health issues going on, maybe we can gossip in a less harmful way (because we all know Brit reads here).
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Yeah you're right but I still think we shouldn't assume/diagnose her with a mental disorder.LynnGLOVE8989 wrote:There are many different health disorders and people experience them to different degrees. For example, not all depressed people stay in bed all day but some do. Not all socially anxious people are unable to cope with talking to people in day to day conversations, but some are. They are difficult to diagnose and yet we can still see when something is wrong. I think it is better to be OVER concerned about mental health than not concerned at all. I'm not saying all people withmental health issues become murderers, but a lot of the people we see shooting up schools do it because of the lack of support they had in handling there mental health problems. So we shouldn't sweep it under the rug and call her names. Maybe we all need to be a little more supportive and kindly offer advice. I get that this is a gossip website but with all the mental health issues going on, maybe we can gossip in a less harmful way (because we all know Brit reads here).
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I agree that we shouldn't assume/diagnose her with a mental disorder. That is extremely disrespectful to her. It is definitely a possibility though and we should be aware it could be an issue, before we call her lazy or bitchy or whatever because that is disrespectful to her as well.Blackswan wrote:Yeah you're right but I still think we shouldn't assume/diagnose her with a mental disorder.LynnGLOVE8989 wrote:There are many different health disorders and people experience them to different degrees. For example, not all depressed people stay in bed all day but some do. Not all socially anxious people are unable to cope with talking to people in day to day conversations, but some are. They are difficult to diagnose and yet we can still see when something is wrong. I think it is better to be OVER concerned about mental health than not concerned at all. I'm not saying all people withmental health issues become murderers, but a lot of the people we see shooting up schools do it because of the lack of support they had in handling there mental health problems. So we shouldn't sweep it under the rug and call her names. Maybe we all need to be a little more supportive and kindly offer advice. I get that this is a gossip website but with all the mental health issues going on, maybe we can gossip in a less harmful way (because we all know Brit reads here).