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Kryptonite wrote:I think Bryan'sfamoly doesn't visit as often due to inconvenience and lack of money.

If it's their choice to stay in a hotel that's fine but there's no real reason why they shouldn't stay with M&B. They clearly have no trouble letting other guests stay with them.

When is the last time Bryan's dad visited?
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OMG He looks like Jimmy's twin!!!
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lmmomSD wrote:
lurkymclurkerston wrote:Did I miss news that Bryan's mom is visiting? Or is this just discussion on that subject?


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No, we're just discussing it because she has a new grandchild, and it would be expected for her to visit in a normal household.

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[quote="violet-kelsey black"]I'm going to Hell. Goodbye.

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Aww yes the sprinkle the hairdressers put on. That hair dresser goes above and beyond her job for this family holy cow


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Bryan would have looked much better in a Mr Potato Head costume

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lmmomSD wrote:^^I totally see that. When he gave her the purse for Mother's Day, he kept saying, "Did I do good?".
My daughter just showed me the IG picture of Finn. He looks like a demon baby! And what does he mean by "Ahoy!"? There's nothing remotely nautical about that picture!

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Sweet456 wrote:At 25/26 years old he should be adult enough to get over whatever issues he had with his mom when he was younger. Especially now that he has kids of his own. Life is too precious to withhold those kiddo's from their grandma and aunt.


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No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
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Theirmom wrote:
Sweet456 wrote:At 25/26 years old he should be adult enough to get over whatever issues he had with his mom when he was younger. Especially now that he has kids of his own. Life is too precious to withhold those kiddo's from their grandma and aunt.


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No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
Honestly he's what, 26? He needs to get over it and let her see her Grandchildren. He's a grown man and you can't also blame his sister for it.

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twomommies wrote:
Theirmom wrote:
Sweet456 wrote:At 25/26 years old he should be adult enough to get over whatever issues he had with his mom when he was younger. Especially now that he has kids of his own. Life is too precious to withhold those kiddo's from their grandma and aunt.


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No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
Honestly he's what, 26? He needs to get over it and let her see her Grandchildren. He's a grown man and you can't also blame his sister for it.

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Give her access to grandchildren that she could potentially hurt and disregard like she did her own child?
No.
Being genetically linked to someone doesn't entitle them to a relationship.
You obviously weren't raised by a toxic person if you think that anyone should just "get over" being abandoned by a parent. His mother chose a temporary love interest over her child. Can you imagine doing that, as a mother? She's lucky he talks to her at all. I am in awe of the forgiveness he's managed to show her.
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^^^^ Unless you have more details than what we've seen, I think you have a ton of assumption there. He FOUGHT with his stepdad, had a temper tantrum and moved in with his piece of ass girlfriend.... probably mostly because he COULD. What teen wouldn't do that. Maybe Nancy was trying to have rules and be firm with B, and he liked Missy's I own my family lifestyle better? We don't know. We do know Bryan is a "storyteller" and diva though, so I'm not so sure He didn't embellish to get what he wanted/make it sound less sinful.

But really, why are we debating the Nancy thing again anyway?This has been done MANY times. People argue Bryan is upset with his mom, only for her to come visit and it be obvious he's fine with her.... it's Missy's issue.

Bryan also moved away from his beloved Gram, and Missy acts irritated if she's ever brought up (which she rarely is anymore). Plus I'm his Still Standing article he talks about how hard his mom worked and how she did a good job raising him and his sister.

I think this is just the Hollisters finding outsiders threatening. They don't like Bev either (she isn't even referred to as Ollie's aunt... always Bryan's sister) and Missy was passive aggressive AF about the car thing by having other things to do than go shopping with them.

Bryan is the one spinning the tale about how his mom's husband was mean to him. He has enough attitude now, can you imagine him as a teen!
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I agree.its incredibly difficult to just "get over" when you were chosen over some man.I think you really need to experience it to actually understand.


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Theirmom wrote:
No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
Yeah. I think this is one of those situations where we can't judge how he reacts unless you've been through something similar yourself. I could only imagine what Bryan felt as a kid,or teen, when his mother made that decision. I think he's managed to forgive his mother, and that's amazing, but we also can't expect him to forget everything. If he chooses to stay a bit distant from her I think that's understandable. The problem would be if this decision is based on something Missy is encouraging and not something he genuinely feels


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Also to add.... the time he went off with his Gram was when he and Bev were younger. It was just them then, no stepdad. He has said she worked 2 jobs, so is possible they went to live with her for awhile so Nancy could prepare to move closer. We don't know.

She was a single mom, and there's no shame in needing help. I'm not about to judge her for that. Heck, Missy couldn't handle Ollie alone when B was in Cambidia, but Nancy shou so handle the 2 perfectly while working 2 jobs?
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twomommies wrote:
Theirmom wrote:
Sweet456 wrote:At 25/26 years old he should be adult enough to get over whatever issues he had with his mom when he was younger. Especially now that he has kids of his own. Life is too precious to withhold those kiddo's from their grandma and aunt.


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No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
Honestly he's what, 26? He needs to get over it and let her see her Grandchildren. He's a grown man and you can't also blame his sister for it.

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The type of mom that does that has other flaws. It didn't end at abandonment. If she's a complete witch off camera or something then no she isn't entitled to anything. We've probably seen 20 minutes of total footage of his mom and sister. We really don't know a thing about them.

My mom has a similar surface personality to his mom and trust me it's totally different when she isn't "on." There's no way of telling how his mom really acts.
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I don think anyone is judging the fact she wanted help.It's just not easy to get over your own mother will choosing a man over their own child,and even if he was fighting with him enough for him to leave why wouldn't his mother just leave the guy?I mean this your CHILD,men are replaceable.


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Theirmom wrote:
Sweet456 wrote:At 25/26 years old he should be adult enough to get over whatever issues he had with his mom when he was younger. Especially now that he has kids of his own. Life is too precious to withhold those kiddo's from their grandma and aunt.


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No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
Honestly he's what, 26? He needs to get over it and let her see her Grandchildren. He's a grown man and you can't also blame his sister for it.
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twomommies wrote:
Theirmom wrote: No. You don't just "get over" your mother choosing a piece of ass over her own child. As a mother, I'd throw my own husband in front of a train if it meant saving my children. What Nancy did was unforgivable and she should thank whatever deity she believes in that her son allows any relationship at all.
Life is too precious to force children to have toxic relationships for the sake of faaaamily. Yuck. Blood doesn't entitle anyone to a relationship.
Honestly he's what, 26? He needs to get over it and let her see her Grandchildren. He's a grown man and you can't also blame his sister for it.

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Give her access to grandchildren that she could potentially hurt and disregard like she did her own child?
No.
Being genetically linked to someone doesn't entitle them to a relationship.
You obviously weren't raised by a toxic person if you think that anyone should just "get over" being abandoned by a parent. His mother chose a temporary love interest over her child. Can you imagine doing that, as a mother? She's lucky he talks to her at all. I am in awe of the forgiveness he's managed to show her.
They can at least have her there, letting her see them doesn't mean she's alone when them. I had parents who would verbally and physically abuse me, but when I have kids I already decided they can see them, but only with me around. You don't need to fully forgive, but when it comes to her passing they'll feel sorry.

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Wow, all logic and facts have left this thread. Maybe everyone go back and rewatch the "Draw My Life".

There are a ton of people inserting their own experience into this debate. It's getting a bit "fan fiction". We know what we see, and Bryan seems comfortable and happy when his mom is around.
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There's no need to be nasty because we think it's wrong


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I don't think Bryan still has mommy issues, (obviously he does spend time and seems to be very close to her when she comes visits), it's Missy and the hollisters who still have issues with Bryan's mom. I think THEY'RE the ones who still haven't forgiven for whatever reason there is. Clearly some major drama happened between both families.
As for Bryan's dad, the last we've seen him was during Missy's sprinkle. My guess is that they asked Bryan to not film around them which is why we don't see them as much anymore.
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