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NewEnglandGirl wrote:Not a Jess fan at all but the kids are lucky to have her at least because its not just dads that up and leave theres moms that do that too and unlike Drake Jess has never left her kids so I gotta give her that
Honestly I don't give her any credit for not 'leaving her kids'. she wanted them so badly that she was willing to plan them unbeknownst to the fathers. she got what she wanted out of drake.
Huh? what do you mean "it's not worth it"???[/quote]
^^^ exactly! His kids are not worth it?
This isn't about Jessica or Drake, this is about the kids. They are the only ones suffering. I'm not gonna sit here and defend Drake because he's a POS dad, but Jessica hasn't exactly been an example to follow.[/quote]
I NEVER said his kid's are not worth it, but he never made an effort to see his son's or pay any kind of child support towards them to begin with, why should it be any different now? And what I meant by " worth it " is the fact that he will only see them two day's per a calender month for a couple of hours, how can the boys be able to form some kind of bond with him if he chooses not to and him having barley any time with them. I also said time and time again no I do not agree with some of the things Jessica make's or does but CLEARLY she's the better parent.[/quote]
Kids have relationships with plenty of people who they see less than two times a month. My son is the same age as the twins and he adores my grandfather who lives 2 hours away in a retirement home and on average we see him once a month. He talks about his last visit each time for weeks, tells me how much fun my grandpa is etc... The only way the kids will be seriously hurt is if Drake shows up sometimes, not the other times etc.... They need consistency but that consistency/amount of time doesnt really matter. Of course they will have issues about it when they grow up but I think at this point that will happen regardless, they have had a hectic childhood. Knowing Drake loves them regardless of the amount of time they spend with him is important. Not seeing him at all wont benefit anyone. (Obviously goes without saying that his visist with the kids would have to be good influences and he would need to be present during those visits not on his phone and not pawning them off on Natalie but if he is willing to be a dad to them even for just a few hours two days a month I dont see why that is a waste of time).. Is it a waste of time for Chris to see his kids?
smom12 wrote:I read somewhere where he was writing on his Facebook page a defense as to how Jess wouldn't let him see the kids... Maybe that's why? If she doesn't let him see them, but just shows proof that he doesn't visit, could that be enough for the court to announce a decision like that?
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If his reason for not seeing his kids is because Jessica wouldn't let him, he is even more pathetic. All he would need to do is go down to the police station and show a cop the court ordered visitation schedule and the cop would escort him to pick the kids up. He could also easily take her back to court for something like that. If his visitation days didn't work well with his schedule, he could have gotten his days switched. I can't think of any reason or excuse one could have to explain seeing your children less than a dozen times in about a year when you live in the same area that they do.
The police will not get involved in a civil matter like child custody (at least in my area they done) A father I know has an ex who actually hiding his children from him right now. He called the police and they said they can't do anything about it. This guy works hard full-time and then some, still doesn't have the extra money for court and court costs money. Parents who alienate other parents are often very very good at it.
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One time when my mom and dad werent on good terms and i didnt want to go to my dads house my mom told him and he didnt believe her so he went to the police station and got a cop to come with him so he could get me. You Just shouldnt call 911.
No I think jess is excited drake lost almost everything. She seems to be a spiteful baby momma. She never went through any of that with gabe, their split was mutual and healthy. She's spiteful of all the things drake did and continues to do and probably because he went off and had another kid. She will probably rub it in his face forever.
atr1252 wrote:No I think jess is excited drake lost almost everything. She seems to be a spiteful baby momma. She never went through any of that with gabe, their split was mutual and healthy. She's spiteful of all the things drake did and continues to do and probably because he went off and had another kid. She will probably rub it in his face forever.
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especially since his other baby is a girl that probably pissed Jess off the most
I have to say (and I don't like it) that I am Jess side for this one. Drake is seemingly around Natalie and his baby ( air baby however her name is spelled) everyday. He has THREE other children that he only sees a handful of times a year? I'd be a spiteful baby momma too. At some point in the boy's lives they will realize that thier father didnt make them a priority in his life while also realizing that thier half sister (air baby whatever) gets to be a priority....and they will resent him. So I agree I think those boys (while having daddy issues) would be better off not knowing drake and not having to know how little they mean to him.
atr1252 wrote:No I think jess is excited drake lost almost everything. She seems to be a spiteful baby momma. She never went through any of that with gabe, their split was mutual and healthy. She's spiteful of all the things drake did and continues to do and probably because he went off and had another kid. She will probably rub it in his face forever.
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She also wasn't married to Gabe, didn't split and remarry Gabe, didn't have three kids with Gabe...need I go on?
Hopefully he will make some effort to actually have the boys for those 2 days a month. He probably spends more than 2 days a month playing or practicing softball. He should give that up and make that time for his boys. Just for example.
Honestly, I can't blame her for being spiteful. He left her when she was about to have another baby and I truly believe he did just leave out of the blue. And he got another girl pregnant like five minutes later. And then he never sees his boys. And then he never pays child support. And then she has to waste time going to court to deal with his bullshit. Jess isn't perfect, we all know that. But Drake is the poster child for dead beat dad. I'd be happy if I wasn't forced to subject my kids to that. If he gets consistent and shows up twice a month every month for a while, then the custody situation will change. But as long as he is being a POS, I don't blame her for being happy that she doesn't have to deal with him anymore.
literallywhat wrote:Honestly, I can't blame her for being spiteful. He left her when she was about to have another baby and I truly believe he did just leave out of the blue. And he got another girl pregnant like five minutes later. And then he never sees his boys. And then he never pays child support. And then she has to waste time going to court to deal with his bullshit. Jess isn't perfect, we all know that. But Drake is the poster child for dead beat dad. I'd be happy if I wasn't forced to subject my kids to that. If he gets consistent and shows up twice a month every month for a while, then the custody situation will change. But as long as he is being a POS, I don't blame her for being happy that she doesn't have to deal with him anymore.
I would be mad too lol but remember the beginning of their relationship? Jess got with drake while he had that pregnant ex girlfriend who didn't know who the father was. She was dumb enough to get with a dude that had baby momma drama so she can't really be surprised
literallywhat wrote:Honestly, I can't blame her for being spiteful. He left her when she was about to have another baby and I truly believe he did just leave out of the blue. And he got another girl pregnant like five minutes later. And then he never sees his boys. And then he never pays child support. And then she has to waste time going to court to deal with his bullshit. Jess isn't perfect, we all know that. But Drake is the poster child for dead beat dad. I'd be happy if I wasn't forced to subject my kids to that. If he gets consistent and shows up twice a month every month for a while, then the custody situation will change. But as long as he is being a POS, I don't blame her for being happy that she doesn't have to deal with him anymore.
I would be mad too lol but remember the beginning of their relationship? Jess got with drake while he had that pregnant ex girlfriend who didn't know who the father was. She was dumb enough to get with a dude that had baby momma drama so she can't really be surprised
I agree. She made a terrible choice being with him. That is 100% true and she is responsible for that. But he is a grown ass man who is responsible for his own actions and should be responsible for his own damn children. She can't control that.
