Cgl33 wrote:Can I suggest that if you want to debate, defend, or tell stories about gender disappointment, that you do it in a different part of the board? I'm not a mod and I am not trying to control the discussion, but I have gone through years of infertility as well as loss. I personally have a very strong (and not nice) reaction to this topic and I know there are other posters on here who have gone through loss and infertility and probably do too. I know some posters found Missy's channel because of loss.
I genuinely apologise for your struggles, wholeheartedly. But there was a discussion here talking about how disgusted people are at Missy for her gender disappointment, her posts on her blog and her disappointment in videos. It's relevant because anything regarding dailybumps can be discussed here and I'm allowed to play the devils advocate to that and explain how common it is (because it is VERY common
), whether or not you personally dislike the topic. If anyone DOES want more information on the topic (as the poster above asked) you can find hundreds of support groups and peer reviewed articles on the topic. It has been studied and is usually covered in nursing courses at some point.
On another note, I noticed Missy removed the softpaws caps and I can't actually see Zuri's front claws. Not trying to speculate but I just wondered why she would take them off if she wasn't declawing her (which is originally why I suspected she might have been declawed, although I have never seen the damage declawing does...and don't really wish to).