staceybrax wrote:I can understand her being insecure in her body as it is now, that post kids body can be a hard one to accept. I personally, think she looked amazing pre-Lincoln when she first started YouTube. She was bigger than in that throwback photo from Instagram but smaller than she is now, and I think she looked amazing at this weight. She looked so healthy and she has such a unique and beautiful face. It must be hard to have 3 sisters who are naturally slim and you're body isn't like that, but I think bonnie is the most beautiful out of the 4 sisters.
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I also think she looks the most beautiful out of the 4. Although I think Julie is very pretty too.
I think with Bonnie her personality makes her look even nicer. She seems like a really nice and happy person. And I think she looked fine when she was younger, not sick looking at all or uglier, just younger and different.
There's not only one right body type or look. I think she looks even prettier now but probably because she looks more mature and content. And to be honest, if Bonnie didn't mention her weight and looks so often, I would never even noticed or paid attention whether she is over, under or whatever weight. Or if her chin is big or anything like that. She looks healthy and fine to me! Like I said, some people are smaller, some are bigger, if you are healthy, what does it matter?
I don't even like commenting about people's appearance and try to avoid it because I feel like society and people put too much importance on that and I absolutely HATE it. For the most part, we can't help how we look. And what does it even matter anyway? I remember being a child and thinking certain people were so beautiful, and looked so perfect. Most of them were people I really liked. Now when I look at the same pictures I see that they were not even average looking, let alone above average like I though. I remember not noticing any flaws on my body, or thinking anything was wrong, even though obviously I am not and never was perfect. Then one day you start paying attention to a person who comments on another person's weight, or hair color, or skin color and you start noticing yourself and others seeing things differently. I feel a little sad that I lost most of that "innocence" , but happy that I still have some of it and never became completely judgmental about how others look even if I am more judgmental with myself. Whenever I hear someone criticize someone's "flaws" and realize I have them too, it makes me feel bad about myself, even if for just a few minutes. I hate that body policing and shaming somehow became the norm.
I think there's a lot more to how you look than just your physical appearance or your weight. Ellie is the perfect example. Even though she really isn't ugly, if you think about it putting aside how you feel about her and her weight, her horrible personality makes it hard to even do that. I can't help but think she is extremely ugly even though if I'm truly honest, she is not nearly as ugly as I feel she is. She is average or even pretty, and not this horrible disgusting sick looking monster a lot of people make her out to be. If she was a nice person, I'm sure I would still think she was pretty like I used to.
Another thing that I like about Bonnie and also Julie, is how their looks are more natural. I hate the obsession some women have with having blond hair and I think it looks fake if you lighten you hair too much beyond your natural color. I don't like the message it sends either. That having blonde hair is somehow more desirable and more beautiful. I wish people would just embrace their features and accept themselves and not try to change them so drastically.