Sassysea wrote:Do you think the photographer gave her a little bit of a discount because of her internet presence I'm just saying it'd be a smart idea for the photographer to have her pictures exposed to that many Instagram followers it would really help her client base and networking
My concern, and what I think most people here are concerned about, is that she and Chris won't last forever. I'm still skeptical of them because she swore that both of her past serious relationships were her soulmates as well. She severely rushed into major steps of the relationship with Chris just like she did with Drake and probably tried to do with Gabe. She also cheated on Drake, so I don't think her doing it again is a completely far-fetched possibility. We don't know how their future will play out, and with her history, she's stupid to think that her current husband getting a vasectomy will mean she never has to worry about birth control again.mrsbarnaby wrote:I'm really not trying to bash anyone because I totally get why people distrust Jess. You want Jess to get her tubes tied instead of Chris having a vasectomy, even though it's a much simpler procedure. Then, you want her to get the Nexplanon because it's more effective than having your tubes tied, yet a vasectomy is more effective than having your tubes tied. She can't win.
My husband is happy to have a vasectomy, woman go through enough and I'm sure Chris is happy with it too. I've had enough done to my vagina and I've had 6 surgeries and birthed two children, the least my husband can do is pop into the doctors surgery and walk out 10 minutes later.
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I've been asking and asking. Those poor boys.ForeverGauc01 wrote:Who was talking about her not having the boys on her social media?
HI JESS!!
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I don't want to be mean but kaden looks really bad in that pic.ForeverGauc01 wrote:Who was talking about her not having the boys on her social media?
HI JESS!!
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My whole thing is that the Nexplanon is more effective than BOTH the permanent options and in my opinion, there's less chance of something going wrong. I mean, say Chris got a vasectomy and turned out to have that problem where he's in excruciating pain whenever he sits down or say there was some complication during the tubal... Like heavy blood loss or heaven forbid Jessica still gets pregnant but with a ectoptic pregnancy. That's scary and too risky for me and I wouldn't put myself in that position when I have 5-7 kids that depend on me. But maybe that's just me.mrsbarnaby wrote:I'm really not trying to bash anyone because I totally get why people distrust Jess. You want Jess to get her tubes tied instead of Chris having a vasectomy, even though it's a much simpler procedure. Then, you want her to get the Nexplanon because it's more effective than having your tubes tied, yet a vasectomy is more effective than having your tubes tied. She can't win.
My husband is happy to have a vasectomy, woman go through enough and I'm sure Chris is happy with it too. I've had enough done to my vagina and I've had 6 surgeries and birthed two children, the least my husband can do is pop into the doctors surgery and walk out 10 minutes later.
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For me the worst part was like said before the numbing, it was like getting a shot and your arm burned for a minute. But then when the nurse came back I turned my head for a second and she said "alright, all done." I turned back and said "Really?" I didn't feel a thing, not even any kind of pressure from the insertion site.AnonymousSource wrote:To the person who asked, no. The most painful thing about getting the Nexplanon is when they give you the local anesthetic, which isn't TOO bad. I think it feels like your arm is on fire for maybe a minute, tops. I had HORRIBLE bruising with my first and second implant but the third that I just got in August... They've made some changes to how they insert it and whatnot and.. I didn't bruise whatsoever. There was a pinching feeling under the skin where it was placed for about 3 days. I have no complications, no bleeding, no unwanted pregnancies, and my mood is stable.mrsbarnaby wrote:I'm really not trying to bash anyone because I totally get why people distrust Jess. You want Jess to get her tubes tied instead of Chris having a vasectomy, even though it's a much simpler procedure. Then, you want her to get the Nexplanon because it's more effective than having your tubes tied, yet a vasectomy is more effective than having your tubes tied. She can't win.
My husband is happy to have a vasectomy, woman go through enough and I'm sure Chris is happy with it too. I've had enough done to my vagina and I've had 6 surgeries and birthed two children, the least my husband can do is pop into the doctors surgery and walk out 10 minutes later.
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I understand that not every birth control works the same for every woman but I at least think this is an option she should pursue and research more about.
Yeah I remember some story about Nicole (her sister) "grabbing her arm" because of the arm implant.kittypurry wrote:Wasn't Natalie on the implant when Bella was conceived?
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I completely agree, jess needs to stop talking to them in that hideous baby voice. They're not babies anymore. You can speak English with them jess.Captain Smooth wrote:Kaden may have something of his mothers nature. I think she's not helping by always having this overexcited tone in her voice, that eggs his behaviour on. I watched a few of her previous vlogs (I think it was pre-Addy pregnancy), you could clearly see her behaviour rubbing off on Lilia. All of a sudden Lilia was completely hyper, though she normally seems rather quiet and controlled. You could see it again, when Chris was vlogging the kids for a short periode of time. At least when the camera was on, he talked rather quietly to the children and surprise, surprise nobody screamed, or acted out as much. Except for Kaden, who had to scream while eating, but else he was also rather quiet compared to his usual screaming running self. So I think it has something to do with their everyday interaction as well, after all kids often emulate their parents.luci417 wrote:
It really bothers me when people are like this over Kaden because 'everything he does is about him' - yeah, he's a four year old! no shit!
i really do think kaden needs someone more than any of the other kids because he's clearly behind in a lot of things. he runs around wild, screams, interrupts etc. because he has no discipline and doesn't get enough attention. it also suggests a lack of control over emotions - getting so overwhelmed like that is a toddler thing and by 4, kids are usually a lot less prone to that kind of behaviour. it's the result of bad/negligent parenting and that's not his fault at all. i think maybe it's hard to appreciate if you've never had a kid but he's a textbook case of acting out for attention, and of behaving badly because of inconsistent correction and discipline. also his speech is SO FAR BEHIND it genuinely worries me. i totally call bullshit on jess saying 'oh i took him to a doctor and they said he's where he needs to be'. i believe the doctor might have told jess that one or two years ago but they'll be going into kindergarten next year and his speech is nowhere near good enough for that. the behaviour and the speech delay together would make me really concerned if i was his mom.
i think jess and chris sort of write kaden off as a problem child. he struggles with speech? oh kyson's the more dominant twin who speaks for both of them. he behaves the worst out of all the kids? boys will be boys. i generally don't think of jess as a bad mom but the way she is with kaden really makes me reconsider.
