2011YearsofPregnancy- part 32
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How is feeding your infants weird?
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I have a cousin who was molested and chose not to breastfeed because her breasts are a trigger for her. Sorry, but that doesn't make her a shitty mom.
Some moms have PPD and can't tolerate nursing. Having a child with disabilities raises the chance of having some form of PPD so who knows?
I hate the judgment formula moms get, it's really sad. Being called a selfish asshole? Really? The user who said vanessa said she needed space isn't even 100% sure she even said that, so idk why people are dwelling on it. I think she's made a lot of poor decisions but she loves lily so much so I don't think that's fair to say at all. Obviously nursing is best, but in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter if you were a formula or breastfed baby.
Some moms have PPD and can't tolerate nursing. Having a child with disabilities raises the chance of having some form of PPD so who knows?
I hate the judgment formula moms get, it's really sad. Being called a selfish asshole? Really? The user who said vanessa said she needed space isn't even 100% sure she even said that, so idk why people are dwelling on it. I think she's made a lot of poor decisions but she loves lily so much so I don't think that's fair to say at all. Obviously nursing is best, but in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter if you were a formula or breastfed baby.
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I never said you're an asshole I CALLED VANESSA AND ASSHOLE. If you chose NOT to breastfeed your mot an asshole if you are PERFECTY MENTALLY STABLE and stop breastfeeding your very fragile preemie because you want some fucking space that's selfish. I never ever called anybody else out JUST Vanessa stop taking shit so personally. I even stated that some people make a decision beforehand and that's great for them, I never shamed formula moms.
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blackroses wrote:I never said you're an asshole I CALLED VANESSA AND ASSHOLE. If you chose NOT to breastfeed your mot an asshole if you are PERFECTY MENTALLY STABLE and stop breastfeeding your very fragile preemie because you want some fucking space that's selfish. I never ever called anybody else out JUST Vanessa stop taking shit so personally. I even stated that some people make a decision beforehand and that's great for them, I never shamed formula moms.
You don't need to be typing in capitals because I never thought you called me an asshole. My comment of "Being called a selfish asshole?" was about vanessa, but you must have misunderstood.
I didn't take anything personally because I breastfed my kids. I didn't quote you because I wasn't singling you out.
You say you aren't shaming formula moms, but in the same paragraph you call her selfish because she stopped breastfeeding. I would constitute that as shaming, but okay. What's the difference between choosing beforehand not to nurse and trying then giving up? Why is it better to choose not to breastfeed from the beginning? At least she could say she tried.
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She did say the personal space thing. It's on the controversial parenting tag that she did with David.
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Okay for the third time: I. Did. Not. Shame. Her. For. Formula. feeding. She did it because she wanted some personal space, that's selfish. If you wanna try that's great but if you stop because you just don't like a kid sucking on your boobs without any reasoning other than personal space I think it's selfish. If you're a busy working mom or if you have mental health issues like me and have to take and run for your medications at different parts of the day then that's a good reasoning to stop.Yogabbagabbat wrote:blackroses wrote:I never said you're an asshole I CALLED VANESSA AND ASSHOLE. If you chose NOT to breastfeed your mot an asshole if you are PERFECTY MENTALLY STABLE and stop breastfeeding your very fragile preemie because you want some fucking space that's selfish. I never ever called anybody else out JUST Vanessa stop taking shit so personally. I even stated that some people make a decision beforehand and that's great for them, I never shamed formula moms.
You don't need to be typing in capitals because I never thought you called me an asshole. My comment of "Being called a selfish asshole?" was about vanessa, but you must have misunderstood.
I didn't take anything personally because I breastfed my kids. I didn't quote you because I wasn't singling you out.
You say you aren't shaming formula moms, but in the same paragraph you call her selfish because she stopped breastfeeding. I would constitute that as shaming, but okay. What's the difference between choosing beforehand not to nurse and trying then giving up? Why is it better to choose not to breastfeed from the beginning? At least she could say she tried.
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Just for the record I'm not shaming any one person because they've formula fed. Obviously a fed baby is the best doesn't matter where it comes from. But Vanessa didn't breast feed for selfish reasons. She didn't have any problems with personal space when they were making lily. Kinda reminds me of Kaitlyn wilcher, if anyone follows her. She didn't breastfeed because she thinks her breasts are for herself and her husband and that she was formula fed and she turned out fine (she's not fine). If you wanna formula feed that's great, just don't judge BF woman because you think it's "weird". It's a totally natural, encouraged process
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here's the video where she talks about the personal space. It starts at 5:00
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I wonder if she'll be happy for a Christmas baby or she'll be mad cause he ruined her Christmas plans. I feel like this ones gonna be overdue
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I never said it is weird for anyone to breastfeed, but that it makes *me* feel weird. Please go back and read my post next time.ForeverGauc01 wrote:Just for the record I'm not shaming any one person because they've formula fed. Obviously a fed baby is the best doesn't matter where it comes from. But Vanessa didn't breast feed for selfish reasons. She didn't have any problems with personal space when they were making lily. Kinda reminds me of Kaitlyn wilcher, if anyone follows her. She didn't breastfeed because she thinks her breasts are for herself and her husband and that she was formula fed and she turned out fine (she's not fine). If you wanna formula feed that's great, just don't judge BF woman because you think it's "weird". It's a totally natural, encouraged process
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And I'm not even attempting to shame mothers who BF. On the contrary I'm trying to defend any mother, however they feed their child instead of calling them selfish assholes.
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I didn't know you wrote the rules of who can and cannot BF without being shamed.blackroses wrote:Okay for the third time: I. Did. Not. Shame. Her. For. Formula. feeding. She did it because she wanted some personal space, that's selfish. If you wanna try that's great but if you stop because you just don't like a kid sucking on your boobs without any reasoning other than personal space I think it's selfish. If you're a busy working mom or if you have mental health issues like me and have to take and run for your medications at different parts of the day then that's a good reasoning to stop.Yogabbagabbat wrote:blackroses wrote:I never said you're an asshole I CALLED VANESSA AND ASSHOLE. If you chose NOT to breastfeed your mot an asshole if you are PERFECTY MENTALLY STABLE and stop breastfeeding your very fragile preemie because you want some fucking space that's selfish. I never ever called anybody else out JUST Vanessa stop taking shit so personally. I even stated that some people make a decision beforehand and that's great for them, I never shamed formula moms.
You don't need to be typing in capitals because I never thought you called me an asshole. My comment of "Being called a selfish asshole?" was about vanessa, but you must have misunderstood.
I didn't take anything personally because I breastfed my kids. I didn't quote you because I wasn't singling you out.
You say you aren't shaming formula moms, but in the same paragraph you call her selfish because she stopped breastfeeding. I would constitute that as shaming, but okay. What's the difference between choosing beforehand not to nurse and trying then giving up? Why is it better to choose not to breastfeed from the beginning? At least she could say she tried.
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Honestly no one is going to win the BF vs formula so just move on.
How bout them maternity pics eh
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I never said I wrote the rules I stated my opinion and my beliefs. As Elsa once said "Let it go".
Those maternity pics are trash but there was one she posted that I actually really liked. Someone posted it on here earlier
Those maternity pics are trash but there was one she posted that I actually really liked. Someone posted it on here earlier
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blackroses wrote:Okay for the third time: I. Did. Not. Shame. Her. For. Formula. feeding. She did it because she wanted some personal space, that's selfish. If you wanna try that's great but if you stop because you just don't like a kid sucking on your boobs without any reasoning other than personal space I think it's selfish. If you're a busy working mom or if you have mental health issues like me and have to take and run for your medications at different parts of the day then that's a good reasoning to stop.Yogabbagabbat wrote:blackroses wrote:I never said you're an asshole I CALLED VANESSA AND ASSHOLE. If you chose NOT to breastfeed your mot an asshole if you are PERFECTY MENTALLY STABLE and stop breastfeeding your very fragile preemie because you want some fucking space that's selfish. I never ever called anybody else out JUST Vanessa stop taking shit so personally. I even stated that some people make a decision beforehand and that's great for them, I never shamed formula moms.
You don't need to be typing in capitals because I never thought you called me an asshole. My comment of "Being called a selfish asshole?" was about vanessa, but you must have misunderstood.
I didn't take anything personally because I breastfed my kids. I didn't quote you because I wasn't singling you out.
You say you aren't shaming formula moms, but in the same paragraph you call her selfish because she stopped breastfeeding. I would constitute that as shaming, but okay. What's the difference between choosing beforehand not to nurse and trying then giving up? Why is it better to choose not to breastfeed from the beginning? At least she could say she tried.
Okay, and for the third time, you deciding she's selfish for her own reasons to formula feed actually is shaming her whether you see it that way or not.
There are moms that have mental health issues that still breastfeed. Does that give them the right to call you selfish for not nursing your child? No.
Did you have a child born with health problems? Who knows what frame of mind she was in at that time.
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Lol maybe she just couldn't breast feed because she ran out of milk or whatevs but she didn't want to say that. So she made up this reason to make it sound like it was her own decision.
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I think everyone was shaming her solely for saying she wanted her baby out of her personal space, because what kind of mother says that. That's disgusting. Butthurt formula moms need to chill out, and I'm pretty sure calling breastfeeding weird or repulsive counts as shaming.
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Sounds like Vanessa, to make up a lie to try to cover something up thinking it's a smart move but in the end it makes her look even more worsesadie wrote:Lol maybe she just couldn't breast feed because she ran out of milk or whatevs but she didn't want to say that. So she made up this reason to make it sound like it was her own decision.
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After watching the video, it's actually worse than I thought.amykay wrote:
here's the video where she talks about the personal space. It starts at 5:00
We all have different opinions about BF and the discussion has gone long enough really but IN MY OPINION not BF because "it felt weird" "not a happy experience to me" "I like my personal space, it's my bubble" is 100% selfish. You wanna be selfish, go right ahead, it's your choice. It is what it is though.
SO STRANGE how she went from that to being so exited to BF this time around.
Also may I add, ya no let's not talk about your future sons private organs but yes let's talk about your daughters prolapse rectum. Ok Vanessa.
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I hope she gives birth soon. It's been boring lately in the yt mom world. Even with Jessssss.
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Why did she feel the need to get a bunch of stuff lol breastfeeding doesn't require a smorgasbord of items. Just you, your baby, and maybe a nursing pillow and nursing cover if you want. She's so strange. Maybe she should wait until she actually has the baby and starts breastfeeding and then make a video about the experience and what she's using so far....
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