JesssFam: All Because 5 People Fell in Love (Part 82)

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I would recommend NOT ttc if having one sex or the other would make you truly upset. It's a complete toss up no matter what diet you follow or what cycle day you have sex, and it's not fair to your potential kid to conceive KNOWING that they'll make you depressed if they're a girl/boy. Trust me, kids pick up on more shit than you know, and at some point they'll feel like a huge disappointment. Don't do it.

I wonder if Jess did some special diet or timing to get a girl. They made it super obvious afterward that was their preferred choice. I can just see her googling "sex positions to conceive a girl" barf
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shilohjulia wrote:I don't have kids, but if/when I do I only want boys. I'll seriously be depressed/upset if I have a girl. I mean obviously I would love my child no matter what and I'm sure once she was born I'd be over the moon, but I have zero desire to ever have a daughter. I've even researched how to procreate specifically to have a son lmao just for whenever I'm ready to have kids. I think it's mostly pseudoscience but I will try everything in my power to have a boy/boys. So.. not everyone in our society is obsessed with girls (I'm American).


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That's a bit extreme to be depressed over the possibility of having a girl?
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Really?! Depressed if you have a girl?! Please never have children. That's honestly worse than Jess. It's fine to have a preference but to say what you've said is disgusting imho. I have a boy and a girl, I was just over the moon to finally get pregnant, I didn't give a crap what was between their legs.

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I knew a girl/woman who honest to flowers threw a tantrum when she found out she was having a boy, she had bought girl EVERYTHING, she sobbed and screamed all the way home from the ultra sound I was so shocked, now her son has pink/purple long hair and wears girly clothing which is fine but kind of makes you wonder if she has coaxed him to be that way to suit her preference, I only have boys my exes face fell when the doc told us our second was a boy and his mom told us ah better luck next time, I went on to have a third son and when my ex remarried he had as well a third son, personally I couldn't be happier especially after 5 losses but I believe you are given what you are meant to raise, total boy momma over here
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S_tine05 wrote:I knew a girl/woman who honest to flowers threw a tantrum when she found out she was having a boy, she had bought girl EVERYTHING, she sobbed and screamed all the way home from the ultra sound I was so shocked, now her son has pink/purple long hair and wears girly clothing which is fine but kind of makes you wonder if she has coaxed him to be that way to suit her preference, I only have boys my exes face fell when the doc told us our second was a boy and his mom told us ah better luck next time, I went on to have a third son and when my ex remarried he had as well a third son, personally I couldn't be happier especially after 5 losses but I believe you are given what you are meant to raise, total boy momma over here
I'm so sorry that happened to you! I wonder why people don't value the bond between brothers or the bond between sisters. It's like if you don't have one of both, people think you're "missing out." My mom has one of both, and I've always wondered what it would be like to have a sister. There is no winning the gender game lol.


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Geez. I came here to read any drama about Jess and all I see is people whining about the sex of their nonexistent children. To think there's women like myself who would love the chance to just have a baby, and there people saying they NRED one sex over the other....
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It's actually kind of scary to read that some people would be depressed if they had a girl/boy. I really don't think that anyone that thinks that way should be a parent at all. People are so lucky to have children at all. I can only hope that the people saying those things are young teens and will mature a bit and realise how crazy that is.
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Blackswan wrote:What's with society's fascination with girls? I'm pregnant with my 3rd son and my mom was super excited about my pregnancy up until we found out the gender. After that she hasn't so much as texted me to see how I'm doing. Before she would contact me everyday. I've noticed this from others as well.

My husbands cousin is pregnant at well and she just found out she's having a girl. She got soooo many messages congratulating her on Facebook. I got maybe 2.

Boys don't seem to be as special unfortunately.
We're the exact same. Pregnant with my third and he's my third boy.
Nobody cares about the pregnancy anymore lol.
Like okay, three boys is freaking awesome but thanks for showing your true colors now rather than later.
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broooooke wrote:
Blackswan wrote:What's with society's fascination with girls? I'm pregnant with my 3rd son and my mom was super excited about my pregnancy up until we found out the gender. After that she hasn't so much as texted me to see how I'm doing. Before she would contact me everyday. I've noticed this from others as well.

My husbands cousin is pregnant at well and she just found out she's having a girl. She got soooo many messages congratulating her on Facebook. I got maybe 2.

Boys don't seem to be as special unfortunately.
We're the exact same. Pregnant with my third and he's my third boy.
Nobody cares about the pregnancy anymore lol.
Like okay, three boys is freaking awesome but thanks for showing your true colors now rather than later.
Congratulations as above 3 boys is awesome and all babies should be welcomed and acknowledged as a gift no matter their gender
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Gross. All this talk is worse than Jess and her crazy girl preference. Let's not forget that females are looked at and treated like second class citizens all over the world. Even in fortunate countries like America, girls are inferior. So I highly doubt the general preference is for girls. Young YouTube watchers are kids/teens who played with dolls and imagine that is what children are like. Most dolls are girls. I've only ever experienced boy preference with people I know and my husband was looked at like a freak for being a man desiring daughters. He got some very nasty comments.

Also the whole "oh are you going to try for a boy/girl" happens no matter what sex you have.
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This is really stupid. I'm 21 and last week my doctor told me I have "something" close to my uterus, which could either be a cyst or a tumor, and I'm terrified that I won't be able to have children in the future. And here some of you are complaining about being "depressed" if you had your non preferred gender. This is really getting to me because there are people who can't have children at all who'd be overjoyed to have either!


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countrygirl wrote:This is really stupid. I'm 21 and last week my doctor told me I have "something" close to my uterus, which could either be a cyst or a tumor, and I'm terrified that I won't be able to have children in the future. And here some of you are complaining about being "depressed" if you had your non preferred gender. This is really getting to me because there are people who can't have children at all who'd be overjoyed to have either!


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Sorry to go off Jess, but is it possibly a fibroid? They grow in, between the walls and out the uterus. I got diagnosed with one and saw a specialist because I was in your boat about losing my chance for kids at 21. He said to me until I start experiencing really bad symptoms or it grows rapidly my reproductive future is safe. Fingers crossed for you that its nothing.
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future_wifey wrote:
S_tine05 wrote:I knew a girl/woman who honest to flowers threw a tantrum when she found out she was having a boy, she had bought girl EVERYTHING, she sobbed and screamed all the way home from the ultra sound I was so shocked, now her son has pink/purple long hair and wears girly clothing which is fine but kind of makes you wonder if she has coaxed him to be that way to suit her preference, I only have boys my exes face fell when the doc told us our second was a boy and his mom told us ah better luck next time, I went on to have a third son and when my ex remarried he had as well a third son, personally I couldn't be happier especially after 5 losses but I believe you are given what you are meant to raise, total boy momma over here
I'm so sorry that happened to you! I wonder why people don't value the bond between brothers or the bond between sisters. It's like if you don't have one of both, people think you're "missing out." My mom has one of both, and I've always wondered what it would be like to have a sister. There is no winning the gender game lol.


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Im not sure why but I think bonding is completely based on the child and not gender, my older two compete for everything and their personalities clash so badly but then my oldest and youngest have the sweetest bond from birth that I have ever seen.

when people give me snide comments I like to remind them that in ancient times I would have been given a kingdom for producing only male heirs =), girls are still largely thought of as second rate in many cultures though so I dont think its that people think one is better than the other in many cases it is simply that they cannot understand why a mother wouldn't want a daughter and father a son or vice versa and therefore to have one or more of each would be the best?
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countrygirl wrote:This is really stupid. I'm 21 and last week my doctor told me I have "something" close to my uterus, which could either be a cyst or a tumor, and I'm terrified that I won't be able to have children in the future. And here some of you are complaining about being "depressed" if you had your non preferred gender. This is really getting to me because there are people who can't have children at all who'd be overjoyed to have either!


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Sorry to go off Jess, but is it possibly a fibroid? They grow in, between the walls and out the uterus. I got diagnosed with one and saw a specialist because I was in your boat about losing my chance for kids at 21. He said to me until I start experiencing really bad symptoms or it grows rapidly my reproductive future is safe. Fingers crossed for you that its nothing.
That's really good to hear! I'm seeing a specialist for it tomorrow, so hopefully it's not anything bad! Thanks for the encouraging words! (And sorry for this non-Jess related post)


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I find when you have all boys or all girls you always get "So when are you trying for a girl/boy?" because apparently you have to keep trying to have both genders. But then when you have both genders you always get (including myself) "You have a boy and a girl now, the perfect family so don't have anymore kids". Why do people feel the need to try and make this decision theirs? It's just bizarre, you wouldn't tell people how to take a shit so you shouldn't think it's ok to make this kind of decision either.

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I'm due in 12 days with baby #3 (Team Green) and one reason I didn't find out the gender is I didn't want people's comments/opinions. I already have two boys and could care less if I have another boy, I have an intuition It's another boy. But especially working retail, I don't want people to be "sorry" for me because I didn't get a girl. With my second, once I found out it was another boy (which didn't surprise me) I could tell people lost interest in my pregnancy.
I could see people wanting a specific gender to a point, but not like Jess. As soon as she found out Landen was a boy, she didn't care about her pregnancy anymore. It would have been the same if Addie had been born a Jackson instead. The thing that gets me is most people act that way after having a bunch of boys or girls. She literally acted like she never had a daughter. It blows my mind how she tries to say screw stereotypes but it's obvious that she thinks there are only things that she can do with a girl or boy.

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I grew up with only sisters, and people would joke about my parents trying for a boy and making comments like, "Your poor dad!" I often wondered what it would be like to have a brother, but I love my sisters. If I ever have kids, while I would like to have at least one of each, I'm going to be so happy no matter what happens. My plan is to find out the gender and not tell anyone because people will be judgmental either way.
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Ceirsten8676 wrote:Yikes.... doesn't look like it was the Snapchat filter.[img]//uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/2017011 ... 1c18b9.png[/img]


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Not surprised. The only time I saw jessss taking some veggies into the house it was carrots for Santa's reindeer, and she had to explain the kids what carrots are. Looks like a diet composed of eggs, chicken, pasta, rice, pizza, whipped cream, little fruit and no veggies at all gave its results. Not feeling sorry at all.

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I think Jesss blocked me on Instagram. Her page is not showing up for me. Isn't it jesssfam?
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All I know is I'm happy with my boys but just disappointed in people's reaction to my son. I mean look how everyone in Jesss birth video were acting. They acted like she didn't already have a girl. They would have been so bummed if she given birth to Jesus because he's a boy.
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