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Yogabbagabbat wrote:Omg at another pic + chris' caption......
Don't they feel any guilt? I know pictures don't always show everything but damn
When my second son was born I posted way more pics of him for like the first 2 weeks of his life. I felt soooo bad after and maybe it's stupid but I'm always trying to balance the pictures I post.
I know pictures aren't a measure of love and blah blah blah. However, I don't get how parents don't notice how bad it looks when they post 1 child way more than the other.
I don't have kids so maybe I don't fully understand how it works but it looks awful to me. I'm glad you had common sense and noticed it before it got too bad.
Yogabbagabbat wrote:Omg at another pic + chris' caption......
Don't they feel any guilt? I know pictures don't always show everything but damn
When my second son was born I posted way more pics of him for like the first 2 weeks of his life. I felt soooo bad after and maybe it's stupid but I'm always trying to balance the pictures I post.
I know pictures aren't a measure of love and blah blah blah. However, I don't get how parents don't notice how bad it looks when they post 1 child way more than the other.
I don't have kids so maybe I don't fully understand how it works but it looks awful to me. I'm glad you had common sense and noticed it before it got too bad.
I understand when people post photos or take a lot of the new baby because they only stay that small for short time, and everyone loves a new baby. The older ones some don't hold still and want run a muck. You eventually find a balance. Though I have people of Facey who barely post pics of their kids except for birthdays or the odd one. Depends what kind of parent you are I guess.
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I feel sad for the twins and even Landen in the respect that Lilia gets to go do fun things like see Lego Batman with her dad, and presumably comes home talking about it, and the boys miss out on those experiences.
Not everyone here follows Daily Bumps, but Bryan Lanning never knew his father as a child, and talked about how sad he was that his half sister got to go and have fun with her dad while he stayed at home. I was always struck by how sad that was (even though he's still a d-bag).
I can just see Lilia coming home and gushing about the cool new movie she saw while the other kids get to sit at home with mom and watching the same old dvds because going to the movies with two adults and four/six kids is a huge waste of money. I hope that Drake can step up and provide them with fun memories, but I don't have that much faith in him. Tommy and Caden will have a similar experience when seeing and hearing about their dad interacting with his step kids more genuinely than with them.
I make it a point to try and balance out my kids pics too. Believe it or not, it matters. My parents used to fill up photo albums of mostly my younger siblings. My sister and I noticed when we got a little older and we were bothered by it. It really can hurt kids.
I don't understand how Messss continues her blatant favoritism of AdBlock - I get it in the first few weeks, after my second was born I posted a lot more photos of him than my first but that's because they're only so tiny for so long. I'm sure she goes through her camera roll and I can't fathom how it doesn't bug her that 70% of her photos are Adderall!?!?
Maybe it's that this is her super girl and the other kids no longer get her Super Magic Cure-All Breastmilk so they're not interesting anymore
Yogabbagabbat wrote:Omg at another pic + chris' caption......
Don't they feel any guilt? I know pictures don't always show everything but damn
When my second son was born I posted way more pics of him for like the first 2 weeks of his life. I felt soooo bad after and maybe it's stupid but I'm always trying to balance the pictures I post.
I know pictures aren't a measure of love and blah blah blah. However, I don't get how parents don't notice how bad it looks when they post 1 child way more than the other.
I don't have kids so maybe I don't fully understand how it works but it looks awful to me. I'm glad you had common sense and noticed it before it got too bad.
I understand when people post photos or take a lot of the new baby because they only stay that small for short time, and everyone loves a new baby. The older ones some don't hold still and want run a muck. You eventually find a balance. Though I have people of Facey who barely post pics of their kids except for birthdays or the odd one. Depends what kind of parent you are I guess.
Yeah, this makes sense. Again, I'm not a parent so I'm sure parents have their reasons. I just think people should be mindful of how it appears to others.
What Jess and Chris do is disgusting. And I highly doubt it's only pictures.
Someone like Britney at least makes it seems like she hasn't forgotten about her older kids. There's a balance in her videos and social media that we don't see in Jess' or Chris'. Sad.
I thought it was so rude how Chris didnt bother to get lilia a card. She made them a card and included both he and jess in it because "they have to be together" lol. He could have gotten her some candy and wrote her a little note at least. Its not like Addie even realizes whats going on and appreciates her card right now.
If i was jessica that would have pissed me off. She does so much to include his kids and he doesnt do the same.
Annavi04 wrote:I thought it was so rude how Chris didnt bother to get lilia a card. She made them a card and included both he and jess in it because "they have to be together" lol. He could have gotten her some candy and wrote her a little note at least. Its not like Addie even realizes whats going on and appreciates her card right now.
If i was jessica that would have pissed me off. She does so much to include his kids and he doesnt do the same.
I wonder if lilia saw Addies card and felt bad
He's a weirdo. Only seems to care about himself, Jess, Addie and Landen when he is bored.
Annavi04 wrote:I thought it was so rude how Chris didnt bother to get lilia a card. She made them a card and included both he and jess in it because "they have to be together" lol. He could have gotten her some candy and wrote her a little note at least. Its not like Addie even realizes whats going on and appreciates her card right now.
If i was jessica that would have pissed me off. She does so much to include his kids and he doesnt do the same.
I wonder if lilia saw Addies card and felt bad
Jessssss is the problem for not stepping up and saying something to him, but then again she does the same shit with her own kids
Random19 wrote:
I know pictures aren't a measure of love and blah blah blah. However, I don't get how parents don't notice how bad it looks when they post 1 child way more than the other.
I don't have kids so maybe I don't fully understand how it works but it looks awful to me. I'm glad you had common sense and noticed it before it got too bad.
I understand when people post photos or take a lot of the new baby because they only stay that small for short time, and everyone loves a new baby. The older ones some don't hold still and want run a muck. You eventually find a balance. Though I have people of Facey who barely post pics of their kids except for birthdays or the odd one. Depends what kind of parent you are I guess.
Yeah, this makes sense. Again, I'm not a parent so I'm sure parents have their reasons. I just think people should be mindful of how it appears to others.
What Jess and Chris do is disgusting. And I highly doubt it's only pictures.
Someone like Britney at least makes it seems like she hasn't forgotten about her older kids. There's a balance in her videos and social media that we don't see in Jess' or Chris'. Sad.
I said it before and I'll say it again- how sad that a mothers love for her kids is judged by how many photos she posts. I personally think it's silly to say that they pushed them aside for the new baby.
But in J and C's case, yes they are not bright bulbs and showing favouritism to their Valentine day conceived, invincible, red headed (not really) Jess look alike daughter and it's gross. I feel bad for Caden and Tommy that their dad dropped them like hot cakes for Addie and I hope Addie doesn't receive any resentment from her older siblings when she's older because her parents are morons.
In the name of the moon, I shall gossip about you.
I said it before and I'll say it again- how sad that a mothers love for her kids is judged by how many photos she posts. I personally think it's silly to say that they pushed them aside for the new baby.
But in J and C's case, yes they are not bright bulbs and showing favouritism to their Valentine day conceived, invincible, red headed (not really) Jess look alike daughter and it's gross. I feel bad for Caden and Tommy that their dad dropped them like hot cakes for Addie and I hope Addie doesn't receive any resentment from her older siblings when she's older because her parents are morons.
I don't think it's a big deal if it's subtle. In her case, not so much. I feel so bad for the other kids. Mimi should take the twins. She seems to enjoy them and gives them attention.
Annavi04 wrote:I thought it was so rude how Chris didnt bother to get lilia a card. She made them a card and included both he and jess in it because "they have to be together" lol. He could have gotten her some candy and wrote her a little note at least. Its not like Addie even realizes whats going on and appreciates her card right now.
If i was jessica that would have pissed me off. She does so much to include his kids and he doesnt do the same.
I wonder if lilia saw Addies card and felt bad
I have to disagree with that statement. They had T&C this weekend, and the only thing I saw she did with them was have a movie night on a Sunday. I don't have her on SC (I don't add strangers), so idk if she took them to Disney on Ice too or something, but they were definitely tossed aside when she took Chris and Addie to Fifty Shades. Throwing a Pinterest-vomit birthday party and inviting kids they don't know hardly counts as doing so much, and she doesn't even spend time with them individually. They get them one weekend a month. She could at least try to treat them like family rather than weekend visitors.
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one thing that fucks me up is the fact that if Lilia was darker, she probably wouldn't be so favoured. not in any way suggesting that Jessica is a racist, but if Lilia was an even mix between her parents and had more a caramel skin tone and had taken after Gabe's family more, then she would be ruining Jess's masquerade of "the perfect family" and everyone would know that they were blended. she likes to put Chris in the daddy role to the twins and Landen, and she's got Adderall to lock him down and Tommy and Caden to play stepmom with and it's 100% believable that if they all went out, that all the kids are Jess and Chris's. what with Jess having red hair and Chris having brown hair, the kids could just be crosses. and Lilia fits RIGHT into that.
but if Lilia was darker, she would literally be the black sheep. so fucking sad and messed up.
it's honestly surprising that Lilia isn't darker! Gabe is considerably darker and his family for the most part are as well, but Lilia came out blue eyed and blonde. weird.
haizy wrote:does anyone know Gabe and Jess's custody agreement? like how long they each get her per week?
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As far as I last remember he had every other weekend, and Wednesday nights for 2 hours? I'm not 100% sure. I do remember Jess saying it was rare if he ever took them Wednesdays, or weekends but especially wednesdays. It would be nice if she would do a video talking about everyone's custody arrangement, and how it affects their family plans ect. Like a nice sit down video with her and Chris (yeah Jess, you know him your husband?) and not with like Gabe and Amber and stuff.
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The fact that they participate in her videos is weird. I bet they're just doing it so she doesn't snap and try to take Lilia away or blast them on the internet.