Snow White wrote:I totally missed her comment about missing 2 weeks for school & her learning delay. Gosh love how that learning delay makes an appearance when it's convenient for Vanessa. Like every time she wants to ditch Lily & travel without her. Otherwise, you never hear of it.
Ugh.
Blackswan wrote:But your replying to my comment lolYue195 wrote:Lol girl I don't really care. I have things to do outside of this site.Blackswan wrote:Waiting on Yue to defend this one somehow
Within 2 minutes too.Blackswan wrote:But your replying to my comment lolYue195 wrote:Lol girl I don't really care. I have things to do outside of this site.Blackswan wrote:Waiting on Yue to defend this one somehow
and to top it off her first child is so different It is truly sad...I feel like V is still very much feeling like the "unpopular girl" in highschool. She is still young so she has time to grow into her own and develop a healthy sense of confidence in herself. It just seems like with D gone she has lost a sense of who she is and is trying to fill that in with her "friends",random errands and sitting on her bed.Annavi04 wrote:I know its taboo to admit you dont think your own child is cute. I feel like Vanessa has a huge complex about Lily's looks and delays. For example, she's photoshopped her eyes, and hands, doesnt neaten the front of her hair and used to hide her ears with wide headbands. She mentioned she was eager to see what Charlie would look like because he doesnt have Turner's Syndrome. She was excited to have the "normal" cute baby. It seems mean but maybe she subconsciously just wants to show off her "normal" baby to her friends because before she probably worried about people thought of Lily's looks or development, especially if they had "normal" kids of their own to compare her to. Vanessa seems to care about her weight and looks as well (despite not dressing up often lol) and she equally cares about how her kids are seen. Maybe she's embarrassed about her friends seeing Lily and thinking bad things of her, or about her friends kids not being very nice to her. For example, Aria has full blown conversations, understands whats going on and is quite good at following directions (baking). Meanwhile Lily mainly parrots whatever last couple of words Vanessa says and seems to be in her own world most of the time. Im sure that has to hurt Vanessa :/
Maybe she wants to feel like she has one child that looks like other babies to finally feel like she fits in. She does so many things to "fit in" and people always complain or it doesnt work out like she tries to do her eyebrows but they end up looking like triangles. she tries to wear "grown up shoes" and she picks weird ones that make tons of noise. she wanted a pretty wedding dress and people pointed out their grandma had the same dress for church. She tried getting into yoga to be "inspiring" or whatever and people made fun of her poses. She tried to be sexy on that movie date with david but her bra was showing and ruined the outfit.. there are SOOO many examples.
Im not saying she is right at all. Its sad, and i hope she gets help to learn to accept Lily as she is.
HOWEVER, many moms may be able to secretly relate to Vanessa.
I laughed a little when I saw this, she likes her too much to criticize her when she does something wrongBlackswan wrote:Waiting on Yue to defend this one somehow
Nope. I had my baby dec 26th & we got to claim him. We were told it was because we did take care of him all year by buying necessities & such.Blackswan wrote:Doesn't it have to be 6+ months living in the home?webby wrote:Charlie was born in December
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Lol my life doesn't revolve around this site like it does for some people. I check on my work break and checked at the right moment apparently. I don't care because I'm not surprised she's left Lily with Davids parents and Nona. She's done it before and she will probably do it again, its not shock horror.blackroses wrote:I laughed a little when I saw this, she likes her too much to criticize her when she does something wrongBlackswan wrote:Waiting on Yue to defend this one somehow
I'm so sorry lol I read the first part of your post in such a serious manner because it's about Lily and I kinda agree with you but when I got to this part I didn't know what I was about to read so I still had a serious tone and busted out laughing at the triangle eyebrows and the fact that I read that so seriously LOL and her noisy HOOVE boots!Annavi04 wrote:She does so many things to "fit in" and people always complain or it doesnt work out like she tries to do her eyebrows but they end up looking like triangles. she tries to wear "grown up shoes" and she picks weird ones that make tons of noise. she wanted a pretty wedding dress and people pointed out their grandma had the same dress for church. She tried getting into yoga to be "inspiring" or whatever and people made fun of her poses.
This! Was this trip necessary? Why don't her YT "friends" ever visit her? Kassidee didn't even know she was coming (at least not that soon). She can rant all she wants, but all she does is contradict herself.talkingtrash wrote:Vanessa, it's not about you not bringing Lily, it's more about why the hell you took the trip in the first place..seriously, what's the point? You talk to kassidee every night on video chat anyway, right?
Lily already has to deal with David leaving but hey lets run off to colorado and make things even harder for her.
