gemmie wrote:Omg, it is so delish, but so bad for you and insanely high in calories. It should be treated like candy. I'm honestly really surprised that her kids are all skinny.nicoleojo wrote:I've never had Nutella ( I also pronounce it like jess), but seeing her kids eat it, make me want it even less now! It just got caked on Lilia's teeth! Eww
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Welcome to ytmommadrama where everyone reads way too much into EVERYTHING.sarahelizabeth_1 wrote:Lol just because your parents didn't plan you, doesn't mean you'll (necessarily) feel bad about it. My parents were 18 and 19 and conceived me in the back of circle k. It does not affect me in any way that my birth wasn't planned. You're reading way too much into this.Lyanna wrote:Anyone else thinks the way she pretends all of her kids were not planned is disturbing?
Not only because she's not honest with herself and with her followers (including very young girls who think she's a rolemodel), not only towards her babydaddies (except Chris because he probably wanted a baby himself) who were trapped, but towards her own kids?
For example Lilia is her first born, her mother was still a teen in high school and was living a normal life but she had to stop her education to have her. Lilia's parents split up a few weeks after she was born. Her mother then "had" to find another man and went from a boyfriend to another and had 4 kids after her. I mean this can cause Lilia some issues when she will be a teenager. She can end up blaming herself for being born in those circumstances, for being an "unwanted" child from a dysfonctional high school relationship or from being the reason why her parents who were together for 5 years suddenly split up.
Jess could save her from these psychological issues by being honest and telling her she planned her so the girl could understand her mother had a strong and deep desire to have her when she had her.
I know someone in my family who was an unplanned child and her parents used to always tell her that, she blamed herself for years for that and always thought she was not really loved by her parents (even if she was, indeed, loved). I just can't understand why a mother who in fact planned her kid would deliberately make her believe she was not planned. Especially considering her mom was still in high school back then and her parents split up when she was a little baby.
I don't know if that makes sense but I feel bad for those kids.
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I'm the product of rape and I don't feel bad. I know my mom loves me just as much as the of the rest of my siblings.Lyanna wrote:Anyone else thinks the way she pretends all of her kids were not planned is disturbing?
Not only because she's not honest with herself and with her followers (including very young girls who think she's a rolemodel), not only towards her babydaddies (except Chris because he probably wanted a baby himself) who were trapped, but towards her own kids?
For example Lilia is her first born, her mother was still a teen in high school and was living a normal life but she had to stop her education to have her. Lilia's parents split up a few weeks after she was born. Her mother then "had" to find another man and went from a boyfriend to another and had 4 kids after her. I mean this can cause Lilia some issues when she will be a teenager. She can end up blaming herself for being born in those circumstances, for being an "unwanted" child from a dysfonctional high school relationship or from being the reason why her parents who were together for 5 years suddenly split up.
Jess could save her from these psychological issues by being honest and telling her she planned her so the girl could understand her mother had a strong and deep desire to have her when she had her.
I know someone in my family who was an unplanned child and her parents used to always tell her that, she blamed herself for years for that and always thought she was not really loved by her parents (even if she was, indeed, loved). I just can't understand why a mother who in fact planned her kid would deliberately make her believe she was not planned. Especially considering her mom was still in high school back then and her parents split up when she was a little baby.
I don't know if that makes sense but I feel bad for those kids.
Or even an online class. Gasp! What's her excuse there?gemmie wrote:It wouldn't kill her to take at least one class..
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Same. I've never noticed who does it each time, but I'm so thankful for them. I've never been able to stand watching Jess, yet I still find myself curious. I really appreciate the recaps because I don't have to suffer through lol.Maddy320 wrote:I'm not sure if you are the one who does the recaps every time or if it's multiple people. But I really appreciate it lol. I'm 5 months pregnant and working 50+ hours a week and I just can't find the time to watch these videos on my own. Especially since she's switched to M-F. I just can't justify watching them myself since she annoys me so much lol. So thank you!MamaJoAnna wrote:"OUR NEW COMMITMENT." Recap
Starting out the vlog in the afternoon at Costco, getting diapers because they are "110% out." Experimenting with greeting us as "Fam." No. Just. No.
Jess does some weird editing with some balloon thing.
She stubs her toe while talking about how Costco diapers are on sale. Landen mocks her.
Lilia sings "How Far I'll Go" since they have Moana playing in the car, and Addie coos along, "trying to sing." Honestly a cute moment IMO.
Taking Kyson, Kaden, and Landen to get haircuts. Kyson gets a fauxhawk and Kaden and Landen get trims. Joking with Addie about getting her (basically nonexistent) hair cut.
Going to gymnastics. Footage of the boys in gymnastics set to music and footage of Addie.
Going to Cub Scouts (Boy Scouts for boys under 6th grade). Backstory - went to a meeting last week because she wanted to get the boys in Boy Scouts. Cub Scouts doesn't start until 1st grade. Leader emailed her and asked if she wanted to be the leader of the Lions' Den. Tonight is first meeting, she and Chris will be in charge of it. Mimi is going to go as well.
Addie playing with a ball while kids play in the background. Jess joins in on the fun and Lilia builds a pyramid of paper cups because...entertainment?
Counting the kids coming out of the car. Lilia, Kyson, and Kaden come out. Landen didn't seem to want to and Addie obviously can't yet.
Jess and Chris are the new Lions' Den leaders (Chris is the main leader since he's a guy). Getting uniforms and stuff. Jess asks if the boys are going to be Boy Scouts.
Changing Addie and hooking up her monitor. Complaining about her having "regular cute PJs" with the probes. Going to ignore the obvious there...
She's nervous about the wires choking her? What?
Getting the probes to stay on is a challenge unless she's in a regular onesie and if the probes fall off, the alarm goes off.
Bathing Sadie.
Poking fun at people who comment about how bathing cats is cruel. Seriously...you're an idiot.
Talking about how the baths do well. Okay.
End of vlog
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That's the whole reason this page exists, because people here can read between the lines, critical thinking, I think it's awesomewhattheactual wrote:Welcome to ytmommadrama where everyone reads way too much into EVERYTHING.sarahelizabeth_1 wrote:Lol just because your parents didn't plan you, doesn't mean you'll (necessarily) feel bad about it. My parents were 18 and 19 and conceived me in the back of circle k. It does not affect me in any way that my birth wasn't planned. You're reading way too much into this.Lyanna wrote:Anyone else thinks the way she pretends all of her kids were not planned is disturbing?
Not only because she's not honest with herself and with her followers (including very young girls who think she's a rolemodel), not only towards her babydaddies (except Chris because he probably wanted a baby himself) who were trapped, but towards her own kids?
For example Lilia is her first born, her mother was still a teen in high school and was living a normal life but she had to stop her education to have her. Lilia's parents split up a few weeks after she was born. Her mother then "had" to find another man and went from a boyfriend to another and had 4 kids after her. I mean this can cause Lilia some issues when she will be a teenager. She can end up blaming herself for being born in those circumstances, for being an "unwanted" child from a dysfonctional high school relationship or from being the reason why her parents who were together for 5 years suddenly split up.
Jess could save her from these psychological issues by being honest and telling her she planned her so the girl could understand her mother had a strong and deep desire to have her when she had her.
I know someone in my family who was an unplanned child and her parents used to always tell her that, she blamed herself for years for that and always thought she was not really loved by her parents (even if she was, indeed, loved). I just can't understand why a mother who in fact planned her kid would deliberately make her believe she was not planned. Especially considering her mom was still in high school back then and her parents split up when she was a little baby.
I don't know if that makes sense but I feel bad for those kids.
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Meh. If they are not getting any protein in their diet or anything else of nutritional value, what difference does it make?WheresMyCoffee wrote:Her kids are really active though.
Of course not. But I saw many people who felt bad about it and had to seek help from a psychologist to overcome it so it happens often (I'm not saying it's always the case and that unplanned babies will all be depressed and stuff, just that it happens for some people). If it's the truth it's one thing, but if it's not I just don't understand why a mother would deliberately lie to her kids about that and pretend she was on birth control and didn't want to conceive at that time when clearly she was trying her best to conceive and had a strong desire to have that baby. Just be real and tell the truth to the kidssarahelizabeth_1 wrote:
Lol just because your parents didn't plan you, doesn't mean you'll (necessarily) feel bad about it. My parents were 18 and 19 and conceived me in the back of circle k. It does not affect me in any way that my birth wasn't planned. You're reading way too much into this.
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) Yeah, you're right actually. After I posted that I was thinking about it and I don't think it matters necessarily if you were planned or not, it's really how your parents treat you about it. I can't imagine having a parent who talks about me being unwanted. But in Jess's case, I don't see any of her kids feeling that way based on her videos and how she interacts with them. That's not to say I know how she treats them off camera or what will happen down the road. There's issues I have with Jess but I don't think any of her kids will feel badly about being born.Lyanna wrote:Of course not. But I saw many people who felt bad about it and had to seek help from a psychologist to overcome it so it happens often (I'm not saying it's always the case and that unplanned babies will all be depressed and stuff, just that it happens for some people). If it's the truth it's one thing, but if it's not I just don't understand why a mother would deliberately lie to her kids about that and pretend she was on birth control and didn't want to conceive at that time when clearly she was trying her best to conceive and had a strong desire to have that baby. Just be real and tell the truth to the kidssarahelizabeth_1 wrote:
Lol just because your parents didn't plan you, doesn't mean you'll (necessarily) feel bad about it. My parents were 18 and 19 and conceived me in the back of circle k. It does not affect me in any way that my birth wasn't planned. You're reading way too much into this.
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It's like the first time giving a child chocolate or sweets. Goes downhill after that, especially if you've hyped it up.Captain Smooth wrote:I didn't understand why she wanted to get her kids Nutella, everybody knows that, for most people it's a lifelong addiction XD I know it's bad, but it's good
