JesssFam: She's a GIRL in Case You Didn't BOW (Part 93)

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I think all the man chasing is just because she wants her kids to have a 'normal' upbringing. She knows her life is a shit show. She wishes all her kids had the same father and she was happily married to him. Drake x 2 and Chris were just increasingly desperate attempts to put some kind of traditional family together.
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Jess is a shitty person but what bothers me the most is that she thinks her shit don't stink. She has a hollier than thou attitude where she's NEVER wrong. She bashed Gabe and he "wronged" her, she bashes Drake and he "wronged" her as well, yet each one of them has stayed in the same relationship, after Jess, for years now. All the while she's hopped from dick to dick and has three marriages under her belt along with FIVE kids from THREE different dads... that's very telling. She needs to realize that SHE is the issue. But then she found someone as shitty as her in Chris and he validates all of her mistakes just like her family does, so she sees no wrong doing from her part.


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Saw this commercial today and had to look it up online to see if it was a clip from her video of the kids seeing the old house her and Chris rented at 11 seconds
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Ooops I hit sent. But I also meant to say how shitty of a dad Chris is so him and Jessica need to stfu about Drake asap. Drake IS a shitty dad for making excuses not to see his sons, but Chris VOLUNTARILY moved six hours away from his sons, NEVER takes a day off just to go to a school activity or anything else his kids are involved in. It's bullshit him and Jessica don't see the hipocrisy there, but they're too proud to admitt it. Chris is not father of the year because he sees his kids a few times a year. No. Just no. His sons need him there 24/7 just like Kyson and Kaden need their dad 24/7.


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I 100% believe that Jess's holier than thou attitude is because her family acts like the sun shines out of her ass. Jess is an angel who can do no wrong, according to herself. And now Chris acts the same towards her. I'd like to see her face if the twins called Nat mum. Or if Lilia called Amber mum. Lilia sees Amber almost daily, Caden and Tommy see Jess about 12 times a year. I think mimi loves them to death but if she really cared about Jess and the kids wellbeing she would've pulled her aside after Drake left, told her to focus on her 3 kids and her "career", and put men aside for the time being. Even maybe before Drake came along she should've told her to focus on her baby, be the best mother she could be to Lilia before finding her a new dad and popping out more kids. She must have known it would end in heartbreak for Jess and Lilia. I don't fully blame mimi for Jess's mess of a life- she is an adult who should know how to make decisions- but I think mimi shouldn't have been so lenient. Jess walks all over her. She made her live in the garage so she could take her house. If my daughter got pregnant at 17 no way in hell would I give her our house.
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Jess doesn't see anything wrong with the chronic baby daddy acquiring and these shame validation marriages. Anyone can get married! It doesn't prove anything. Staying married does. But mimi ruined her I think. Her "unconditionally supportive mom/friend" attitude created a pregnancy/breastfeeding addicted monster. Jess does what she wants and minimally takes care of her responsibilities if no one else will do it.


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Lmao Mimi is definitely an enabler! Whatever Jess does Wendy will just be right there to nod and smile and say WOWWW HOW GREAT. If she divorced Chris, got baby daddy number 4 and had 3 more kids, Mimi would still be singing her praises! Her whole family think the sun shines out of her behind. Thank god Ben finally got out!!
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Did she just post a picture on Facebook of caden?? wearing his school tshirt?
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missy-1010 wrote:I don't understand the people who think Jess is a good mom. If she was a good mom she wouldn't have added 4-12 new kids after having Lilia. She would've finished school, got a stable job, and done right by Lilia. But no, she's a useless POS who popped out more kids to fuel her milk producing addiction and pushed her first born to the corner. That is NOT being a good mom. It's not hard to not get pregnant


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I don't think she is necessarily a good mom, more like an ehh kinda mom. Like she might mean well in some of the things she does but it ends up being a bad decision (like delayed vaccinating her kids). I don't see anything wrong with having a lot of kids, I am one of 8, but each kids needs to be loved and cared for EQUALLY, and you need to be able to financially, emotionally and physically support them all and love them all.
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kalakala wrote:Did she just post a picture on Facebook of caden?? wearing his school tshirt?
Yup, and with a quick google search now I know pretty much exactly where Caden and Tommy live, and their school. :? :?
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kalakala wrote:Did she just post a picture on Facebook of caden?? wearing his school tshirt?
Yup, and with a quick google search now I know pretty much exactly where Caden and Tommy live, and their school. :? :?
How hard is it to blur out a logo, Jess? I know for a fact there is creeps following her. Just last week I saw a weird creepy comment on one of her videos (asking Jess if she would wear a diaper and post a pic), clicked on the guys profile and he had a bunch of her videos (mostly births, breastfeeding or ones with kids in the bath or getting diapers changed as a thumbnail) in a playlist along with basically porn. I've seen other creeps too. And with all the information she puts out (kids full names, birthdays etc) someone like that could easily approach the kids at school and pretend they knew them. Imagine if one of those poor kids were hurt because she doesn't see any good reason to hide where they live and go to school or anything.
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New video is up. I'll have the recap up hopefully later today. They aren't adopting, it's the FAQ Friday about Chris adopting the boys. She basically says what we already know, that Chris can't legally adopt the boys unless their other parental unit (her words) signs away rights. She "doesn't want to bash him" but then goes on to say he has his own set of priorities...just leave it at Chris doesn't have rights unless Drake signs them away. Easy as that.

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julietpreston wrote:I 100% believe that Jess's holier than thou attitude is because her family acts like the sun shines out of her ass. Jess is an angel who can do no wrong, according to herself. And now Chris acts the same towards her [...] I don't fully blame mimi for Jess's mess of a life- she is an adult who should know how to make decisions- but I think mimi shouldn't have been so lenient. Jess walks all over her. She made her live in the garage so she could take her house. If my daughter got pregnant at 17 no way in hell would I give her our house.
I cut out a bit of your post just to avoid this one being super long!

Whilst I generally agree with everything you said I tend to cut Wendy some slack because, honestly, I believe Jessica is gonna do what Jessica's gonna do. I can't imagine how hard it must be to persuade her to do something she doesn't want to.

Wendy was noticeably disappointed when Jessica announced she was pregnant with twins, I always wondered if she did try and prevent her having a second baby and just failed..

What I don't understand is, like you mentioned, this weird adoration of Jessica by her entire family. I cant figure out why this would be the case unless they all do it on purpose because they know there's no other way to deal with her?
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Many minions keeps asking Chris to adopt the boys, because they don't know the boys still see their father. I'm sure some of them think Landen has never seen him and thinks Chris is his biological dad and that the twins had not seen him since buzzgate.
I don't see Drake signing his rights away anytime soon and I don't think it would be a good thing for the boys if he does it.
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Mazement wrote: I cut out a bit of your post just to avoid this one being super long!

Whilst I generally agree with everything you said I tend to cut Wendy some slack because, honestly, I believe Jessica is gonna do what Jessica's gonna do. I can't imagine how hard it must be to persuade her to do something she doesn't want to.

Wendy was noticeably disappointed when Jessica announced she was pregnant with twins, I always wondered if she did try and prevent her having a second baby and just failed..

What I don't understand is, like you mentioned, this weird adoration of Jessica by her entire family. I cant figure out why this would be the case unless they all do it on purpose because they know there's no other way to deal with her?
I kind of have this feeling too, she knows her daughter is boy crazy and that she will always do her best to find another man and make a baby with him so she just says ok because she loves her grandkids and want to be involved in their life regardless of their mother's stupid decisions. But the thing that bugs me is how she totally accepted Jess' first pregnancy. Her daughter was still in high school, was 17 and got pregnant and all Wendy said was how she was excited.
What kind of normal mother is excited when her 17yo announces a pregnancy? Something is definitely wrong with Wendy as well.
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Sparklingdee wrote:Lmao Mimi is definitely an enabler! Whatever Jess does Wendy will just be right there to nod and smile and say WOWWW HOW GREAT. If she divorced Chris, got baby daddy number 4 and had 3 more kids, Mimi would still be singing her praises! Her whole family think the sun shines out of her behind. Thank god Ben finally got out!!
I don't entirely blame Mimi; she did after all raise Ben, who graduated, got training as a firefighter and is now pursuing his career. (Good for him!). She set a good example for the kids by persisting in getting her college degree in spite of the betrayal by Jess's bio dad. But I agree she was way too easy on Jess after Lilia. She should have never allowed Drake and Jess to hang out after Lilia was born. If Jess wanted to date Drake, Mimi should have insisted that Jess obtain and pay for her own housing. If my daughter had a baby at that age and wanted our support, she would have had to adhere to strict house rules (like no hanging out with guys!).
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I feel like there is more to the whole custody situation that nobody knows. Like past what Jess and Drake have both said about it, I feel like there is even more that goes on.
At least we know Drake isn't on drugs now, lol.
In Ca, parental rights actually can be terminated if the parent has provided no financial support; had little or no contact with your child for over a year; and had intent to abandon your child. But i don't think it would all play to drake at this point.
Glad she set the record straight tho.
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msgmiscc wrote:Ooops I hit sent. But I also meant to say how shitty of a dad Chris is so him and Jessica need to stfu about Drake asap. Drake IS a shitty dad for making excuses not to see his sons, but Chris VOLUNTARILY moved six hours away from his sons, NEVER takes a day off just to go to a school activity or anything else his kids are involved in. It's bullshit him and Jessica don't see the hipocrisy there, but they're too proud to admitt it. Chris is not father of the year because he sees his kids a few times a year. No. Just no. His sons need him there 24/7 just like Kyson and Kaden need their dad 24/7.


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From what I've heard from people here, Chris didn't really move voluntarily far away from his kids, he didn't have a job so he went back to leave with his parents so, on this point I wouldn't bash him (but I also heard he threatened his ex with a knife so if that's true, this guy is crazy AF! How after that, he managed to be able to see his kids without supervision is beyond my understanding but whatever... Plus I don't get why he didn't try to look for a job around where his children are living but instead met Jess and decided to marry her a minute after meating her...)
Personally I don't see the point each time someone say something bad about Drake to have another person say "yes Drake sucks BUT Chris is living far away from his boys", it's not as if saying something bad about Drake negate the fact that Chris is not the father of the year. It's not a competition, for me they BOTH suck as fathers (they just suck at it differently I guess...) The only positive point I have about Chris is that at least he is doing the trip to get to see his sons but even that is not really a "positive" point, it's the bare minimum he should do for his children when he lives so far away from them!! So yes, both Drake and Chris suck at being father, I don't get why the minions are talking about Chris adopting Jess' boys when Jess and Chris are likely to get a divorce next year! If they've been together and raising children together for like 10 year while Drake was being a shitty dad, yes I could understand but talking about that right now is just ridiculous. I thin we can at least all agree that Jess has a terrible taste in men!
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Midia wrote:
msgmiscc wrote:Ooops I hit sent. But I also meant to say how shitty of a dad Chris is so him and Jessica need to stfu about Drake asap. Drake IS a shitty dad for making excuses not to see his sons, but Chris VOLUNTARILY moved six hours away from his sons, NEVER takes a day off just to go to a school activity or anything else his kids are involved in. It's bullshit him and Jessica don't see the hipocrisy there, but they're too proud to admitt it. Chris is not father of the year because he sees his kids a few times a year. No. Just no. His sons need him there 24/7 just like Kyson and Kaden need their dad 24/7.


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From what I've heard from people here, Chris didn't really move voluntarily far away from his kids, he didn't have a job so he went back to leave with his parents so, on this point I wouldn't bash him (but I also heard he threatened his ex with a knife so if that's true, this guy is crazy AF! How after that, he managed to be able to see his kids without supervision is beyond my understanding but whatever... Plus I don't get why he didn't try to look for a job around where his children are living but instead met Jess and decided to marry her a minute after meating her...)
Personally I don't see the point each time someone say something bad about Drake to have another person say "yes Drake sucks BUT Chris is living far away from his boys", it's not as if saying something bad about Drake negate the fact that Chris is not the father of the year. It's not a competition, for me they BOTH suck as fathers (they just suck at it differently I guess...) The only positive point I have about Chris is that at least he is doing the trip to get to see his sons but even that is not really a "positive" point, it's the bare minimum he should do for his children when he lives so far away from them!! So yes, both Drake and Chris suck at being father, I don't get why the minions are talking about Chris adopting Jess' boys when Jess and Chris are likely to get a divorce next year! If they've been together and raising children together for like 10 year while Drake was being a shitty dad, yes I could understand but talking about that right now is just ridiculous. I thin we can at least all agree that Jess has a terrible taste in men!
She jumps too fast!! Specially if Chris threatened his ex with a knife?? That's scary shit she should consider.

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