WheresMyCoffee wrote:Silentbob wrote:Mamafirst wrote:
She's going to remember because she will have video looking back on of her freaking mother saying her kids are too much to handle she leaves then with other people while on trips. She's going to remember because her freaking mother leaves everyone but Harlow for major vacations,so far. Yes, those are vacations. She's also going to remember because her mother has mental and emotional issues she refuses to get help for and this will continue to flow into her children's lives and get worse and worse until she does get help.
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I guess I just dont understand why at the end of the day you dont want the best for your kids, including making memories with them. I would want to go to see my family without all my kids. I wouldnt want to take only one child on a really fun day trip. I like being with my kids and I understand and value how quickly this time goes by. They are only little for so long. Once they start school you lose time with them, most people work so that is also time away from them... I WANT to make memories with my kids and while I dont think there is anything wrong with "mom time" I do think there is something wrong with consistently leaving your two older kids out of things.
I've already said Brit should have taken all three to Ohio. Quite a few times actually.
Going places for yourself and your spouse doesn't equal not making memories with your kids. It's possible to do both things AND still make fun memories with your kids, while valuing the time you share with them.
Going on a few trips isn't going to make it impossible to do things with them and give them a nice childhood.
I already spend every second with kids, being as I'm a SAHM and my husband is gone for 6-8 weeks at a time for his job. We do everything together. All the normal day to day stuff, errands, things like that and almost all fun trips. Plus I'll be homeschooling my almost 5 year old this year as well, so she'll still be home all the time. I'm not gonna not take time to myself when I get the very rare chance out of fear of them "not getting the best". I have an identity outside of my kids, I'd go insane if I never took the opportunity to go somewhere fun or do something fun with my husband or my best friends.
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Ok... Cool. However, we aren't talking about you we are talking about Britney. Who rarely takes her kids anywhere, not even all 3 of them to the grocery store. I wouldnt judge any other moms for doing.. well pretty much anything bcause I dont see their day to day but we do see/know Britneys day to day. We know because she has told us that Harlow was 6 months old before she took all 3 kids to the grocery store. We know because she shows us/told us that Aria and Nolan didnt get to go to Ohio because it was too much for her. We know the majority of the kids lives is spent indoors, on their ipads. We aren't pulling shit out of thin air because we are "haters".