xkatka wrote:Annavi04 wrote:excited_nugget wrote:Kyra has said that Kyla used to live with Kyra and her dad.
And I'm sure if you used to live with someone you'd keep in contact over the years. Don't have to constantly see them...
I haven't seen a friend for years but I was recently so close to having her move In with me (she got her shit all figured out though, thankfully).
So it's really not that weird, guys...
Friends helps friends when they're in need.
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It is weird because there isnt a goal for when she needs to move out by, Oscar isnt super comfortable around her and doesnt know her well, plus they arent in high school anymore! In high school you can have friends spend the night and stay with you but when youre a couple with kids its different.
Kyla being with kyra and her dad is no big deal.. living with kyra and Oscar shes like a 3rd wheel
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Sorry for double poat but why you can have friends over to spend a night in high shcool but once you have partner and kids its different? So you shouldn't have friends over overnight just coz u have partner and kids? Why? What is different?
If you wouldnt want to have friend over its ok but it doesnt make us who like having friends over weird lol
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I didnt mean to thank/agree with the comment lol.
Of course its rude to tell a person "move out by Sept 13" or whatever but there seems to be no timeline. Kyra said she could be staying there a couple months or over a year.
Helping is great, like i said, Kyra is VERY nice for providing kyla with food and etc for free. She even decorated the area will she will sleep and that mirror looks expensive.
I do believe its different to have someone over when youre in high school for a night or week vs when youre living with your partner in kids. In high school you dont pay bills, and you likely have a to of free time plus no one else is relying on you and youre "free" alone in your bed at night. In kyras case, she may often want alone time with Oscar, having a friend around too much may cause them to dislike each other because theyve changed since they last lived together, oscar may want to talk to Kyra about something privately or make a certain comment and wont be able to because kyla is there, oscar may feel like he needs more time with kyra or kyra may feel she needs more time with oscar, kyra may feel the need to entertain her guest and make food or whatever meanwhile she is busy with her kids, etc. i mean if i spent all day every day for months or a year living with my friend and her bf i would definitely feel like i am imposing and like a burden. Id feel like i am not letting them do what they need to do and like they have to filter themselves around me. Its uncomfortable to not be able to say/do what you want in your own house because a guest is there. Also, i think it isnt a smart move on kyras part to bring another woman in her home, especially for that long. It can stir problems, and i dont just mean that kyla and oscar will do things behind kyras back. Many things can happen! For example, maybe kyla will like oscar, maybe kyla will be jealous of kyra and give them bad vibes, maybe kyla will always take kyras side in her fights with Oscar and create even more problems with o&k, maybe oscar will want kyra to be more like kyla, maybe kyla will be very messy or have certain annoying habits thatll piss oscar off and hence create tension between him and kyra, maybe kyla will try to do too much with the kids and itll annoy kyra because shes the mom, etc.. its endless.
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