To be completely fucking honest, Jessss is just about the only person in this world who I'd criticize for what she's wearing or who she sleeps with because she's reckless and messy as fuck and she now is impacting 7 children by her decisions.LilaLavender wrote:jcait00 wrote:We get it, Jess! You've shown us how good you are at spreading your legs during your three different baby daddies, .Okay guys I've been wanting to mention this for a while, but; why the sex-shaming and body-shaming? "Her boobs look bad, she shouldn't flaunt them" is literally no different than Chris' "Girls with muffin tops shouldn't wear crop tops" in my book. And regarding the spreading of legs: I don't think Jessica has "spread her legs" more the past 6 years than a person in a committed relationship would have in that time, which makes it seem the insulting part of it is that Jessica's had multiple partners? Which is not something to insult someone for. Introducing different guys to their kids in a short time, sure, that's dumb, but the sex itself shouldn't be shamed imo.Bambi_ wrote: I also couldn't help but notice in the snap where she's crawling around how bad her boobs look, she needs to stop flaunting them.
There's so much stuff to complain about her for but I think insulting her for her weight and her having had multiple sexual partners is unnecessary and low.
I don't care if someone is 500 pounds and is in a bodycon dress, or if they have FFF boobs and are wearing a bralette. If you got it, flaunt it, if you like it, that's cool. I would never say or think someone can't wear something, but that doesn't mean that I think it looks good... This is a forum, so I'm gonna voice my opinions. I wouldn't say shit out loud to random people to devalue their confidence. Most random people don't share every aspect of their life (and cooch) online.
I think women shouldn't be shamed for their sexuality, I support all my friends for getting dicked down whenever they please, but they also don't have 7 kids, haven't been married 3 times, don't have 3 baby daddies, don't have to manage three custody schedules, don't fuck people's boyfriends for revenge on something completely unrelated, and, most importantly, don't openly talk about all these adventures online or record their babies slipping out of their vagina for the world to see. They don't purposely post videos they know cater to creepy old men with breastfeeding or pedo fetishes on the internet.
It's a huge difference. What Jesssss does is exploitative and is gonna make the lives of her children ROUGH. Can you imagine in 15 years when some of the kids are proper adults, getting serious about dating, and their date googles their name and shit documenting everything about their life pops up?
Jessss can sleep with whoever she wants, but she shouldn't have been so careless to the point where we all know about it and her motives behind each foray. She's not a celebrity, it's not like she has millions that will offset any ill effects of her behavior. She portrays herself as wholesome and innocent when she's not, so we discuss the contradictions of her actions. What's wrong with that? It's far from shaming the shaming you're accusing people of.