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Postby ACarATorchAJess » Wed Oct 04, 2017 12:33 pm

OMG Levi making Alaya laugh in the latest vlog is so stinking cute. I definitely needed those adorable baby giggles today.

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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby ACarATorchAJess » Wed Oct 04, 2017 12:34 pm

Also, Kyra asked for carseat advice.. I wonder if she'll take it. I'm still shocked they have Levi forward facing.

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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby ckks » Wed Oct 04, 2017 12:37 pm

waitwhat wrote:
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mydietsucks_1 wrote:$300 a session is a lot but they could afford one session a week. She is always showing off new clothes and shit on snapchat and Oscar is always buying shit so it is a pretty lame excuse to quit. Is she seeking out a different therapist or quitting all together did she say?

I feel this. There was a time when Oscar bought a drone, BoostedBoard, and XBox within a pretty short time frame. I feel like Oscar is making her feel bad about spending that much money every week, but he's out here spending money on dumb shit. Obviously, he bought those things a while ago, but even now you'd think they're more financially well off? It just makes me sad because she really needs to sort herself out, her kids can't handle having 2 parents that are a total mess


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So, I thought about whether to say this or not and here it is: I seriously wonder if part of Kyra's problems are caused by Oscar and his attitude or at least amplified. Think about it: you have PPD/OCD/anxiety and two kids and have to edit videos most of the time and a husband who sleeps all day, plays video games and vlogs a bit and sometimes edits the videos and then all the comments he's making. You know what? When I'm wrong, I'm wrong and I can admit it: I now understand why Kyra has a babysitter several times a week. It's likely because she's mostly, by all appearances, a single mother who struggles with some mental issues as well and she is understandably overwhelmed. Yes, I think she got herself into this when she planned another kid (the overwhelming state not the mental state) but what's done is done and now, for the sake of the kids she has to do what she can and if that means a sitter, I get it now. What I don't get is why the hell she's planning two more kids.


I thought she said they weren't planning anymore as of now and they might not want more anymore and may consider adopting later but they hadn't made any decisions yet? She mentioned that a few vlogs back. Has she changed her mind again?


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby waitwhat » Wed Oct 04, 2017 1:07 pm

ckks wrote:
I thought she said they weren't planning anymore as of now and they might not want more anymore and may consider adopting later but they hadn't made any decisions yet? She mentioned that a few vlogs back. Has she changed her mind again?


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I haven't watched vlogs in quite some time so I didn't know she said that recently.
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby staceybrax » Wed Oct 04, 2017 2:20 pm

soul_in_a_earthsuit wrote:I honestly think they should just admit that theyre bored of youtube and their hearts arent in it anymore and just dial down on uploading or quit altogether. it's clear theyre just half- a**ing it now and the quality shows. get real jobs and get your life together if this is too much for you


I think that Kyra is really trying with YouTube but Oscar doesn’t care for it anymore. She does most of the vlogging now and probably most of the editing but she probably finds it hard to look after both kids, vlog, study, clean, edit etc with no help from Oscar who is sleeping off his late night video game binge. I actually think kyra would be totally fine as a single mom, she basically is now.


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby nebula » Wed Oct 04, 2017 2:40 pm

They both are bored of yt and over it. That comment of the day said it all. They are not at all enthusiastic and interested in vlogging. I mean they reached their goal, they bought a house and they have savings.
Just don't make it seem like you are doing us a favor uploading every 2 days about the events that occured 5 days ago. Its stupid and people lose interest.
As for the views compared between them and KK, I'm sure Keren is happy because she is (unsuccesfully) competitive, its in her nature. Kyra does not give a fuck about anything anyway



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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby mydietsucks_1 » Wed Oct 04, 2017 3:22 pm

Because of the mass backlash I feel I need to ask a question so I can re-evaluate my opinion. Im an Australian with a family full of people with Mental Health issues (mostly anxiety and depression). So when I began developing social anxiety at 15 it was recognised quickly and all I had to do was visit the doctor for medication and a refferal to a therapist (10 visits for free). It wasn't a massive deal to us all. Maybe my opinion has been skewed by the fact that I didnt experience any stigma and it was easy and cheap to recieve care for my issues. Is it hard in America? How expensive is it? Is there a massive stigma that Kyra would have faced? Do therapists and physicians not care about helping? Any point on view would be appreciated so that I can get a wider view (I never want to be the asshole whose whole opinion on something is based on their personal experience without recogising people in different situations) . By the way, I am mainly talking about back in Montana when she knew and had talked about how she was struggling but hadnt done anything to get help, I recognise that now she has made steps to help her mental health.
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby teddyandmommy » Wed Oct 04, 2017 5:45 pm

mydietsucks_1 wrote:Because of the mass backlash I feel I need to ask a question so I can re-evaluate my opinion. Im an Australian with a family full of people with Mental Health issues (mostly anxiety and depression). So when I began developing social anxiety at 15 it was recognised quickly and all I had to do was visit the doctor for medication and a refferal to a therapist (10 visits for free). It wasn't a massive deal to us all. Maybe my opinion has been skewed by the fact that I didnt experience any stigma and it was easy and cheap to recieve care for my issues. Is it hard in America? How expensive is it? Is there a massive stigma that Kyra would have faced? Do therapists and physicians not care about helping? Any point on view would be appreciated so that I can get a wider view (I never want to be the asshole whose whole opinion on something is based on their personal experience without recogising people in different situations) . By the way, I am mainly talking about back in Montana when she knew and had talked about how she was struggling but hadnt done anything to get help, I recognise that now she has made steps to help her mental health.


Therapy is very expensive in America. The sessions she was going to were $300 a session, and she was supposed to go 5 times a week. That's $1500 a week for like six weeks. That's a crap ton of money no matter how well off you are. Another example is speech therapy which my son is in, it's $300 a week (luckily our insurance covers that). And there is a very big stigma around mental health. Often mother's that are diagnosed with any kind of mental health problem are seen as unfit to take care of a child. It's really sad. Custody cases are won because a mother/father has a mental issue that doesn't effect their parenting but is seen as something that would make them the less capable parent.
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby workinprogress » Wed Oct 04, 2017 7:04 pm

mydietsucks_1 wrote:Because of the mass backlash I feel I need to ask a question so I can re-evaluate my opinion. Im an Australian with a family full of people with Mental Health issues (mostly anxiety and depression). So when I began developing social anxiety at 15 it was recognised quickly and all I had to do was visit the doctor for medication and a refferal to a therapist (10 visits for free). It wasn't a massive deal to us all. Maybe my opinion has been skewed by the fact that I didnt experience any stigma and it was easy and cheap to recieve care for my issues. Is it hard in America? How expensive is it? Is there a massive stigma that Kyra would have faced? Do therapists and physicians not care about helping? Any point on view would be appreciated so that I can get a wider view (I never want to be the asshole whose whole opinion on something is based on their personal experience without recogising people in different situations) . By the way, I am mainly talking about back in Montana when she knew and had talked about how she was struggling but hadnt done anything to get help, I recognise that now she has made steps to help her mental health.

Like someone else has said, therapy is insanely expensive. When I was looking into being an art therapist at Children's Hospital for terminally ill children, I realized that most of the money goes straight to the high-up pharmaceutical companies, not to the actual therapist. You're basically paying for someone to give you "happy" pills, and occasionally listen to your issues in the USA. Because the pay for so many therapists is low compared to what they should be making, the drive to help is lower. Of course, there are some incredible therapists out there, but it's tough to get a good job in that field so they're limited. There's a big issue with MH in the USA, especially because of our president. Many people think that mental health is a joke, and people are being too sensitive (the term "snowflake" floats around here pretty often) etc. Luckily, this is slowly changing and more people are realizing that mental health is a big issue.


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby doveminibites » Wed Oct 04, 2017 7:39 pm

I'm just wondering because I haven't been watching the vlogs for to long but had Oscar always been this uninvolved with the kids? And has he always treated and made comments like he does now to Kyra? I don't think she is the best mom in the whole world but she geninuely seems to love and care about Levi and Alaya while Oscar is always refering to them as bothersome and it just makes me sad. Levi is a sweet kid and in my opinion him putting tuperwear in the microwave (and he knows not to start it too) just shows that he is a smart boy and sees the similarities between things while Oscar is just like "wow kids always giving you suprises and I thought it stopped when they go to sleep" ... what a great attitude. I think Kyra would have benefitted more by being with someone more supportive and caring like Khoa.
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby teddyandmommy » Wed Oct 04, 2017 7:46 pm

doveminibites wrote:I'm just wondering because I haven't been watching the vlogs for to long but had Oscar always been this uninvolved with the kids? And has he always treated and made comments like he does now to Kyra? I don't think she is the best mom in the whole world but she geninuely seems to love and care about Levi and Alaya while Oscar is always refering to them as bothersome and it just makes me sad. Levi is a sweet kid and in my opinion him putting tuperwear in the microwave (and he knows not to start it too) just shows that he is a smart boy and sees the similarities between things while Oscar is just like "wow kids always giving you suprises and I thought it stopped when they go to sleep" ... what a great attitude. I think Kyra would have benefitted more by being with someone more supportive and caring like Khoa.


Oscar is great with kids. As in, 5+. It's like he can't comprehend that kids younger than that like to play differently and explore the world and he finds that annoying apparently. Like he doesn't get why Levi doesn't already understand everything. It's so irritating to watch
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby soul_in_a_earthsuit » Wed Oct 04, 2017 8:12 pm

doveminibites wrote:I'm just wondering because I haven't been watching the vlogs for to long but had Oscar always been this uninvolved with the kids? And has he always treated and made comments like he does now to Kyra? I don't think she is the best mom in the whole world but she geninuely seems to love and care about Levi and Alaya while Oscar is always refering to them as bothersome and it just makes me sad. Levi is a sweet kid and in my opinion him putting tuperwear in the microwave (and he knows not to start it too) just shows that he is a smart boy and sees the similarities between things while Oscar is just like "wow kids always giving you suprises and I thought it stopped when they go to sleep" ... what a great attitude. I think Kyra would have benefitted more by being with someone more supportive and caring like Khoa.


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby KerrieL » Wed Oct 04, 2017 8:58 pm

soul_in_a_earthsuit wrote:
mydietsucks_1 wrote:Read carefully. Kyra knew she had PPD, she mentioned it multiple times throughout the vlogs. She knew and she didnt seek help. She knew and she tried to conceive with a four month old. This isn't you. This isn't your friend or family member. This is Kyra and Kyras situation alone which we are commenting on. Im sorry to all the people in the deep thows of mental illness, I have been there and believe me there is a light at the end no matter how dark it may seem right now. But commenting on Kyras illness is not unlike commenting on someones diet, try not to take it personally. I think some people are frustrated because Kyra has made a few changes and people are up her ass all of a sudden and this thread is fucking shit to read now.


nah it's just bc you're being a dick about it all and everyone is disagreeing with you and the way that you are phrasing things. she didnt seek help bc she didnt have support to do so. They also didnt have money back then. Should she have planned alaya so soon? No. But she did things to improve during that pregnancy--eating better, keeping active, and then she did go see a therapist during the time she was pregnant, i remember clearly. Even so, she isnt a millionare like you are claiming her to be. Not even close. Regardless therapy is SO expensive and many times the therapist doesnt even really care, they just want their money and it doesnt really help. been there. I helped regain decent control of my anxiety through self help books, exercises, yoga and meditation, etc bc i didnt wanna go see a therapist who would just tell me that i should go on anti-anxiety meds and drug me up till i forgot about my problems but didnt work to fix them. big pharma is a b***h. Therapy isnt always the best route for everyone. And she cant say she didnt try! It just didnt work for her long term. Stop shaming/hating on her. Geez. NOONE is excusing her crappy behavior bc of her mental health. get THAT through your thick head as that was yr argument and it was wrong.



Ok get off the topic! Please end the arguments :)


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby staceybrax » Wed Oct 04, 2017 9:33 pm

Levi making Alaya laugh in the car was so adorable


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby Highlighter » Wed Oct 04, 2017 11:32 pm

teddyandmommy wrote:
doveminibites wrote:I'm just wondering because I haven't been watching the vlogs for to long but had Oscar always been this uninvolved with the kids? And has he always treated and made comments like he does now to Kyra? I don't think she is the best mom in the whole world but she geninuely seems to love and care about Levi and Alaya while Oscar is always refering to them as bothersome and it just makes me sad. Levi is a sweet kid and in my opinion him putting tuperwear in the microwave (and he knows not to start it too) just shows that he is a smart boy and sees the similarities between things while Oscar is just like "wow kids always giving you suprises and I thought it stopped when they go to sleep" ... what a great attitude. I think Kyra would have benefitted more by being with someone more supportive and caring like Khoa.


Oscar is great with kids. As in, 5+. It's like he can't comprehend that kids younger than that like to play differently and explore the world and he finds that annoying apparently. Like he doesn't get why Levi doesn't already understand everything. It's so irritating to watch
Yeah I agree. I think once the kids get a bit older Oscar will be a very involved dad. His family seems lovely and hopefully he isn't the polar opposite. It's just now he doesn't seem to know what to do with younger kids except meet their basic needs, he'd rather do his own thing. It's quite sad I guess but it isn't surprising considering his age. At least they have Kyra though and she seems to have got over her "I don't know how to help kids thrive" mindset. Levi seems to be doing just fine and I'm sure Alaya will too.

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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby sasperillo » Thu Oct 05, 2017 5:32 am

Oscar was always like that. Even when Levi was an infant the only way he interacted with him was by saying "he is soooo cute" or by bothering him when he was asleep in the morning. Then he started endangering him by taking him to activities that were absolutely not age appropriate. He didn't even have age appropriate toys until his family bought them for his first birthday. The negative comments we see are the ones they choose to put in the vlog which makes me think that they go on all day. Levi was a "crybaby" for the longest time - uhm.. yeah.. he's crying and he's a baby. That's what babies do. He expects him to express himself like an adult and understand things like one as well... It is so sad to watch.
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby Stellar » Thu Oct 05, 2017 5:44 am

Maybe it's just me but I find it strange Kyra sent him to Florida alone for his birthday. Especially to see their "best friends" At least she will get some Oscar free time.


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby Ilovecats » Thu Oct 05, 2017 7:48 am

Stellar wrote:Maybe it's just me but I find it strange Kyra sent him to Florida alone for his birthday. Especially to see their "best friends" At least she will get some Oscar free time.


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I thought it was weird too. You think she would go since her and Keren are closest. It's just weird she sent Oscar

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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby soul_in_a_earthsuit » Thu Oct 05, 2017 8:01 am

sasperillo wrote:Oscar was always like that. Even when Levi was an infant the only way he interacted with him was by saying "he is soooo cute" or by bothering him when he was asleep in the morning. Then he started endangering him by taking him to activities that were absolutely not age appropriate. He didn't even have age appropriate toys until his family bought them for his first birthday. The negative comments we see are the ones they choose to put in the vlog which makes me think that they go on all day. Levi was a "crybaby" for the longest time - uhm.. yeah.. he's crying and he's a baby. That's what babies do. He expects him to express himself like an adult and understand things like one as well... It is so sad to watch.


totally agree. and oscar's always been a dick to kyra. if you can believe, it was even worse back in the old vlogs.
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby excited_nugget » Thu Oct 05, 2017 6:04 pm

Ilovecats wrote:
Stellar wrote:Maybe it's just me but I find it strange Kyra sent him to Florida alone for his birthday. Especially to see their "best friends" At least she will get some Oscar free time.


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I thought it was weird too. You think she would go since her and Keren are closest. It's just weird she sent Oscar

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Tbh, she's probably sick of Oscar and it's easier if she doesn't have to look after a third child.
She can study without someone trying to make her feel bad about it.

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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby fingusername » Thu Oct 05, 2017 6:46 pm

Does anyone secretly hope that Kyra is changing the locks while stupid Oskar is on Florida? lol That would be so freaking hilarious......
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby workinprogress » Thu Oct 05, 2017 7:05 pm

soul_in_a_earthsuit wrote:
doveminibites wrote:I'm just wondering because I haven't been watching the vlogs for to long but had Oscar always been this uninvolved with the kids? And has he always treated and made comments like he does now to Kyra? I don't think she is the best mom in the whole world but she geninuely seems to love and care about Levi and Alaya while Oscar is always refering to them as bothersome and it just makes me sad. Levi is a sweet kid and in my opinion him putting tuperwear in the microwave (and he knows not to start it too) just shows that he is a smart boy and sees the similarities between things while Oscar is just like "wow kids always giving you suprises and I thought it stopped when they go to sleep" ... what a great attitude. I think Kyra would have benefitted more by being with someone more supportive and caring like Khoa.


petition for khoa to leave keren and marry kyra instead. Keren and oscar deserve each other. CAN YOU IMAGINE lol

IM CRYING AT THE THOUGHT OF THIS HAPPENING IT WOULD BE COMEDY GOLD. Keren and Oscar would both sleep until 3pm, leaving the kids in their cribs all day. Videos would be late, they'd both feed off of each other' unhealthy eating habits (in different ways lol). I wish wife swap was still a thing because that would be HILARIOUS


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby Louzah » Fri Oct 06, 2017 12:08 am

Ilovecats wrote:
Stellar wrote:Maybe it's just me but I find it strange Kyra sent him to Florida alone for his birthday. Especially to see their "best friends" At least she will get some Oscar free time.


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I thought it was weird too. You think she would go since her and Keren are closest. It's just weird she sent Oscar

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I'm sure it has to do with her class


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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby Ohthehumanity » Fri Oct 06, 2017 8:42 am

Lol at the fact that they still haven't registered there car in Utah, or gotten plates for it. Also the fact that it's a lease, they don't own it, and Oscars dad had to co-sign for it! I like they are more frivolous spenders then they lead on...
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Re: OkOscarSleepsAllDay

Postby KaterTot » Fri Oct 06, 2017 11:15 am

A little part of me is hoping Kyra has an epihany while he is gone and sees how little he really does and then realizes she's had the power all along. She can raise those kids and take care of the house alone...almost just like when he is home. :D
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