2011teenagemom - Part 6
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Sorry double post on her IG the picture she tolk in the purple shirt I lmao becuz her to look this good oh poor V.
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Blackswan wrote:That face shes making in the top right is not attractive! Why does she do that?
On instagram?
It's like that pic that is usually her thumbnail closed mouth smile with her head tilted to the side.
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guest wrote:She posted a greys anatomy pic on IG and basically spoiled the surprise for everyone. People were NOT happy.
I hate when people do that I am a huge WALKING DEAD fan and I didn't get to watch one night and someone straight up said something about it I was furious!
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It just seems to me like she's always bringing up how horrible the pregnancy was and how she could have aborted but didn't. I understand that it was a traumatic experience but she uses every opportunity available to bring it up. She should be happy it all worked out fine instead of wanting praise or pity? idk why she does it. Did she have to include the fact that she could've had an abortion but chose not to in her declaration of love for David on Facebook?gypsophila wrote:Last time we discussed this, someone here said they had a similar situation where no one gave them any positive reinforcement during their pregnancy, and it still hurt years down the line. So I respect that this is only 2 years down the line for Vanessa. She totally missed out on what most moms get during pregnancy: positive attention and happiness. I didn't think Vanessa was having a pity party, and I wasn't throwing one. ?? I can understand her point of view. It was a negative emotional and physical experience. It had lasting effects on her. I think that's a normal cause and effect situation. At least she didn't rush out to have another baby just to get the right experience, like other teen moms have done. She's allowed to grieve her experience.Dumbledore wrote:More pity parties for Vanessa. Her family was just trying to prepare her for the worst by not getting her all excited about Lily, it seems like the practical thing to do when the doctors say the child has a 1% chance of surviving. Its not the easiest thing to talk about but maybe David and her parents thought, ok Vanessa is going to carry the baby until it decides to go away on its own, but it never happened. I don't know if any of them thought Lily was going to make it, or how they were going to deal with all the complications/surgeries she had after birth. Lily is now here and healthy, idk why Vanessa dwells on not having the ideal pregnancy (she was a "teen" living at home, it wasn't going to be ideal regardless). Seems like she resents everyone that though Lily wasn't going to make it. Maybe it has to do with Vanessa's strange optimism, somehow she thinks everything is going to end up perfectly for her.gypsophila wrote:No one knew if Lily would live, be born alive, or not be born at all. It's kind of unfair to say that David thought oh damn, she's alive, now I'm stuck! Seriously? That sounds so immature and offensive given the circumstances and the fact that no one was happy about the pregnancy at all and ignored it because they didn't expect a good outcome. David obviously stuck by her. He didn't have to, he chose to and is still there. They are not perfect. They are growing up together.
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Exactly. She didnt need to bring up the word ABORTION in her love letter. She fishes every chance she gets. She is constantly looking for both praise AND pitty. Its embarrasing.Dumbledore wrote: It just seems to me like she's always bringing up how horrible the pregnancy was and how she could have aborted but didn't. I understand that it was a traumatic experience but she uses every opportunity available to bring it up. She should be happy it all worked out fine instead of wanting praise or pity? idk why she does it. Did she have to include the fact that she could've had an abortion but chose not to in her declaration of love for David on Facebook?
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that's what everyone else was saying. Plus some I think had to wait to see it until later everyone kept saying to put spoiler. Me I'm weird I wanted to know even though I knew.msliss wrote:guest wrote:She posted a greys anatomy pic on IG and basically spoiled the surprise for everyone. People were NOT happy.
I hate when people do that I am a huge WALKING DEAD fan and I didn't get to watch one night and someone straight up said something about it I was furious!
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She makes herself look stupid sometimes. She tries to hard to look Nd just makes herse2 look weirdBlackswan wrote:That face shes making in the top right is not attractive! Why does she do that?
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Yea she totally gave away Greys Anatomy for me last night. I always wait until after my daughter goes to bed to watch my shows and I hadn't watched it yet. I don't care that much but it was a bit annoying.
Did anyone watch Brittany from Britandkoreys new video about her stillbirth? She was talking about how Vanessa was there with her at the ultrasound when they found out and how she was so supportive. I'm glad V could be there for her. I hate that the outcome was not the way she had hoped for but it was sweet of V to be there for her through that time. Brits video just broke my heart.
Did anyone watch Brittany from Britandkoreys new video about her stillbirth? She was talking about how Vanessa was there with her at the ultrasound when they found out and how she was so supportive. I'm glad V could be there for her. I hate that the outcome was not the way she had hoped for but it was sweet of V to be there for her through that time. Brits video just broke my heart.
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Last time we discussed this, someone here said they had a similar situation where no one gave them any positive reinforcement during their pregnancy, and it still hurt years down the line. So I respect that this is only 2 years down the line for Vanessa. She totally missed out on what most moms get during pregnancy: positive attention and happiness. I didn't think Vanessa was having a pity party, and I wasn't throwing one. ?? I can understand her point of view. It was a negative emotional and physical experience. It had lasting effects on her. I think that's a normal cause and effect situation. At least she didn't rush out to have another baby just to get the right experience, like other teen moms have done. She's allowed to grieve her experience.
I personally had a very traumatic pregnancy where I was told that my child wouldn't make it.. I was also given the advice to terminate or stay hours away from home to give my daughter the best chance of life, she was born atleast a month earlier lily was, her hospital stay was 6x longer (if not more) and way more medical problems. I would love to have a nice normal pregnancy experience, actually go into labor but if it doesn't happen its not the end of the world.It just seems to me like she's always bringing up how horrible the pregnancy was and how she could have aborted but didn't. I understand that it was a traumatic experience but she uses every opportunity available to bring it up. She should be happy it all worked out fine instead of wanting praise or pity? idk why she does it. Did she have to include the fact that she could've had an abortion but chose not to in her declaration of love for David on Facebook?
I know people all grieves differently but I don't bring up my pregnancy or our terribly long hospital stay and it really grinds my gears that she does... and to throw the abortion thing in their as an act of love, when shes said in her videos shes against abortion/it wasn't for her and that she didn't want to listen to the doctors because she wanted to fight for her daughter.
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I love how pissed people get over tv show spoilers. If you don't want a spoiler, stay off social media. Someone somewhere will spoil it for you I can 100% guarantee that.
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Is there any particular reason why she doesn't do anything with her hair ? I think it would look pretty in a ponytail or some kind of updo . She just kinda flat irons it and wears it down . Then her shirts always seem like they are too short , like if she raises her arms to high her belly will show . Why does she ALWAYS wear shirts like that ? Did someone tell her she looks good in them , cause if so she needs to slap them and stop doing that .
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pitbulllove wrote:I love how pissed people get over tv show spoilers. If you don't want a spoiler, stay off social media. Someone somewhere will spoil it for you I can 100% guarantee that.
This !!
I actually enjoy Vanessa more now that I know we share a common obsession over characters on a TV show lol
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Tumblr spoiled Frozen for me. Its inevitable.mpetrie8 wrote:pitbulllove wrote:I love how pissed people get over tv show spoilers. If you don't want a spoiler, stay off social media. Someone somewhere will spoil it for you I can 100% guarantee that.
This !!
I actually enjoy Vanessa more now that I know we share a common obsession over characters on a TV show lol
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So her and britneyandbaby and kilee took the girls to the zoo and she had shorts on lily , pretty short shorts and someone commented saying it was like 40-50 degrees there . Why wouldn't she put pants on her if its kinda chilly outside ? In the video it seemed like a cloudy kinda day , lily was probably cold . So she knew it was cold enough for a jacket but not cold enough for pants I guess . She should really do somne cute hairstyles with lilys hair . She would look so cute with a ponytail or pigtails or a little messy bun , just something besides her little mullet she has going on . Not trying to make fun of lily because its not her fault , its her mothers fault .
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I live in the same area she does. It is a warmer day today but not warm enough to put shorts on a small child. I guess she is under the impression that the temperatures are rising (tomorrow is supposed to be warm). I think it would look cute if Lily got her hair done as well but maybe it's had to do with her hairline or something? I know she has her hair further down her back and not as much hair in the front. Also, I think she just doesn't know how to dress her body. I think she's insecure with her size so she likes to try to fit in smaller clothes. She almost took pride all those times in reading off "small" on the tags in clothing hauls. Her hair did look nicer in the instagram picture though!
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Oh wow aria has a sweater, what looks like nice warm pants and a blanket. Lilly must have been supper cold. She'll be lucky if she doesn't get sick....
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Vanessa probably had Lily's outfit planned and instead of changing it when the weather didn't get warm enough just decided to throw a jacket on her. She seems to care more about "cute outfits" than practicality. And she likes putting too small clothes on Lily just like she likes putting too small clothing on herself.
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V might be too poor to buy clothes that fit well and retain their shape after multiple wash cycles. She may wear clothes from high school and pre-pregnancy when she was smaller. Thrift stores are stocked with random sizes. Shoppers rarely find identical jeans in size 2, 4, 6, and 8 like they would at Target or Kohls. V can afford to shop less often for herself if she supports Lilly financially without child support from David.
Poverty would also explain why Lilly wears outfits that she has outgrown.
David started to provide childcare ONLY AFTER V threatened him with a child support filing and actively researched how to file for child support? V's actions may have induced David's reaction. David is trapped.
Poverty would also explain why Lilly wears outfits that she has outgrown.
David started to provide childcare ONLY AFTER V threatened him with a child support filing and actively researched how to file for child support? V's actions may have induced David's reaction. David is trapped.
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aqualung wrote:V might be too poor to buy clothes that fit well and retain their shape after multiple wash cycles. She may wear clothes from high school and pre-pregnancy when she was smaller. Thrift stores are stocked with random sizes. Shoppers rarely find identical jeans in size 2, 4, 6, and 8 like they would at Target or Kohls. V can afford to shop less often for herself if she supports Lilly financially without child support from David.
Poverty would also explain why Lilly wears outfits that she has outgrown.
David started to provide childcare ONLY AFTER V threatened him with a child support filing and actively researched how to file for child support? V's actions may have induced David's reaction. David is trapped.
Not even 6 months ago V spent all that money on clothes remember it was like 500-600 dollars she said? she also recently said in a video that she is making the most money she ever has.
She can afford longer shirts....
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[quote="aqualung"]V might be too poor to buy clothes that fit well and retain their shape after multiple wash cycles. She may wear clothes from high school and pre-pregnancy when she was smaller. Thrift stores are stocked with random sizes. Shoppers rarely find identical jeans in size 2, 4, 6, and 8 like they would at Target or Kohls. V can afford to shop less often for herself if she supports Lilly financially without child support from David.
Poverty would also explain why Lilly wears outfits that she has outgrown.
David started to provide childcare ONLY AFTER V threatened him with a child support filing and actively researched how to file for child support? V's actions may have induced David's reaction. David is trapped.[/quote
She is no where near poverty. She chooses to dress Lilly this way and she should check the weather before putting on some shorts. I bet she had some jeans on not shorts..
Poverty would also explain why Lilly wears outfits that she has outgrown.
David started to provide childcare ONLY AFTER V threatened him with a child support filing and actively researched how to file for child support? V's actions may have induced David's reaction. David is trapped.[/quote
She is no where near poverty. She chooses to dress Lilly this way and she should check the weather before putting on some shorts. I bet she had some jeans on not shorts..