It's funny because it seems the only people who are obsessed with my weight is all of you. The last time I talked about a thigh gap was months ago. It's not what I want and I know I can't have one. I am working out now but only because I want to be toned and in shape. Not skinny or slim. I am short and bulcky and that's my body type. If you all looked at my Instagram and read the posts I put then you'd notice that none of them say skinny or talk about my weight.LizLee30 wrote:I'm not about to attack a person's weight, but I think Vanessa needs to address the issues she clearly has with her body image. It is obvious that Vanessa's not a size XS or even S and it's also obvious that Vanessa will never achieve the "skinny" look; she can starve herself and over-exercise all she wants but it's clear that her weight distribution and bone structure is going to prevent her from ever achieving the look she is going for. Vanessa, you need to address those issues ASAP because it seems to me that you're obsessed with an ideal you will never achieve. There is nothing wrong with being bigger but wearing clothes to flatter your shape and clothes that are the correct size will make you look and feel 100x better.
You all are stuck on my idea of being skinny months ago and I've seen the light.
I've said this too many times an this will be the last. I am not an XS or S I'm teen section. I buy clothes in the woman's section and am a small in shirts and M in shorts. I am a 4-5 in pants.
Lol I have had a battle my whole life with this and after several diets have now realized that I can't get any thinner then I am now. But I sure as he'll can tighten up what I've got.