JesssFam: BippityBoppityBunheads:TutuManyChildren (Part 96)

[julietpreston]

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Drake DOES still need to wear a condom, no need to bring Jess into it. Its almost like you're using Jess's poor life choices to excuse Drake. Both of them need to stop having kids lol. Whatever I think of her parenting choices, she is a better parent than Drake.[/quote]
Yeah, I keep on seeing comments saying that Jess needs to keep her legs closed, but at least Jess takes care of her children. If Drake isn't going to put forth the effort to be a good dad for any of his kids, he should get a vasectomy.[/quote]

Hmm no I said they both are shit lol.


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But you said "people say why doesn't drake just wear a condom?, well why didn't jess just stop opening her legs?" When that has nothing to do with it. Yes i think she should stop having kids, but what does that have to do with what was said about Drake? And its not just Jess he has children with. He also had a baby with another woman and doesn't see that child either.

[missy-1010]

Actually it has everything to do with it. But whatever I'm not going to rehash the same argument over and over again


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[soma31]

Okay, leaving the spine cyst for a year was a lot but in her defense, the first few times she may have thought it was a fluke. And she also said it only happened when he fell asleep so she may have just tried to keep him awake for a while so the incidents may have been really spread apart. She may have thought it was growing pains. And if when he road in Mimi's car seat it didn't happen, she could have thought it was just the car seat. And I thought she did try a different carseat at one point, I could be wrong though. Plus, she mentioned that bag of fluid to her pediatrician when Landen was born and then brushed it off. No mom, I don't care how great you are, is going to assume their child has a huge spinal cyst making them cry in their carseat. And Addie also had all her emergency stuff shortly before Jess took Landen to the doctor so it may have delayed her taking him in and then it took even longer for her to get the MRI.

Are you ANOTHER whattheactual account? I'm sorry but your usernames and opinions are just too similar...


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[Mamafirst]

Okay, leaving the spine cyst for a year was a lot but in her defense, the first few times she may have thought it was a fluke. And she also said it only happened when he fell asleep so she may have just tried to keep him awake for a while so the incidents may have been really spread apart. She may have thought it was growing pains. And if when he road in Mimi's car seat it didn't happen, she could have thought it was just the car seat. And I thought she did try a different carseat at one point, I could be wrong though. Plus, she mentioned that bag of fluid to her pediatrician when Landen was born and then brushed it off. No mom, I don't care how great you are, is going to assume their child has a huge spinal cyst making them cry in their carseat. And Addie also had all her emergency stuff shortly before Jess took Landen to the doctor so it may have delayed her taking him in and then it took even longer for her to get the MRI.

Are you ANOTHER whattheactual account? I'm sorry but your usernames and opinions are just too similar...


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Lol I was thinking the same thing!


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[NewEnglandGirl]

Jess actually said she bought the crib at 6 weeks pregnant not 8 which is fucking insane.. some don't even know they're pregnant at 6 weeks let alone buy a crib.. She also said she found out she was pregnant at 3 weeks isn't that really early? Most wouldn't test for pregnancy or even think they're pregnant at 3 weeks..unless they're trying to get pregnant..Jess is horrible at lying

[Mamafirst]

Am I the only one here who quietly backs away whenever anyone talks about Jess' messy/dirty house? I would hate for any of you to see my place. I guess I'm like Jess in that way - I would rather spend my time doing other things and I don't care if I have washing waiting to be folded or marks on the walls.

There's a difference between being messy and being dirty. I'm sure your house isn't DIRTY. Maybe "untidy"
Like I know rn my sink is full of dishes because I'm cuddling my boyfriend and watching a movie. But I also know I can take a bath without catching a fungus in my tub ya know?


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Lol this. When people talk about Jess' house being nasty, it's because her house is literally, nasty. Not just messy. The whole thread of her dirty house shows what we're talking about. We've seen filthy carpet/rugs that look like they haven't been vacuumed in days/weeks, floors that haven't been swept, moldy toilets and bathtubs, dirt caked doors and walls, etc. Those things really aren't excusable imo.
I keep a pretty clean house, but I understand how easy it is to just let the toys stay scattered around the house for far too long or to let laundry pile up here and there, so I really don't judge people on that. But Jess... Ew. She needs to deep clean her entire house and figure out some way to keep it decent.


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[nineteenninety3]

Why did she even bother to buy a sun hat if she's not going to put it on her? Oh no wait, she's got a bow on, that's obviously more important.

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[marshmellow]

Okay, leaving the spine cyst for a year was a lot but in her defense, the first few times she may have thought it was a fluke. And she also said it only happened when he fell asleep so she may have just tried to keep him awake for a while so the incidents may have been really spread apart. She may have thought it was growing pains. And if when he road in Mimi's car seat it didn't happen, she could have thought it was just the car seat. And I thought she did try a different carseat at one point, I could be wrong though. Plus, she mentioned that bag of fluid to her pediatrician when Landen was born and then brushed it off. No mom, I don't care how great you are, is going to assume their child has a huge spinal cyst making them cry in their carseat. And Addie also had all her emergency stuff shortly before Jess took Landen to the doctor so it may have delayed her taking him in and then it took even longer for her to get the MRI.

Are you ANOTHER whattheactual account? I'm sorry but your usernames and opinions are just too similar...


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Lol I was thinking the same thing!


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Me too.

[julietpreston]

Actually it has everything to do with it. But whatever I'm not going to rehash the same argument over and over again


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Not trying to argue but I still don't see it. Somebody said "Drake should wear a condom if he doesn't want kids" which is true. You said "well why doesn't Jess close her legs, she has more kids than Drake" which has nothing to do with it. Just because she has more kids than him doesn't excuse his actions. As I said, its like you're using Jess's poor life choices to excuse Drakes poor life choices.

[hellcatspangled]

Addie's whole body looks sunburnt in her latest snap. Your 7 month old baby doesn't need to wear a bikini or what ever other ugly fashion spaghetti strap crap you put her in. She keeps going on about how pale and "redhead" she is, cover her up!

[dazzled]

Am I the only one here who quietly backs away whenever anyone talks about Jess' messy/dirty house? I would hate for any of you to see my place. I guess I'm like Jess in that way - I would rather spend my time doing other things and I don't care if I have washing waiting to be folded or marks on the walls.

I'm not a very tidy person—I don't care if someone's apartment or house isn't super neat and tidy all the time, but Jess's house looks like a pig sty and I'm honestly not gonna show understanding for anyone who keeps their place as messy as Jess's. Plus, it's not just simply that it's untidy, it looks straight up dirty and unhygienic at times.

[MamaJoAnna]

Okay, leaving the spine cyst for a year was a lot but in her defense, the first few times she may have thought it was a fluke. And she also said it only happened when he fell asleep so she may have just tried to keep him awake for a while so the incidents may have been really spread apart. She may have thought it was growing pains. And if when he road in Mimi's car seat it didn't happen, she could have thought it was just the car seat. And I thought she did try a different carseat at one point, I could be wrong though. Plus, she mentioned that bag of fluid to her pediatrician when Landen was born and then brushed it off. No mom, I don't care how great you are, is going to assume their child has a huge spinal cyst making them cry in their carseat. And Addie also had all her emergency stuff shortly before Jess took Landen to the doctor so it may have delayed her taking him in and then it took even longer for her to get the MRI.

Are you ANOTHER whattheactual account? I'm sorry but your usernames and opinions are just too similar...


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I figured someone would ask this so I took the opportunity to do an IP check. They are not from the same area.

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[fudgeitup]

Addie's whole body looks sunburnt in her latest snap. Your 7 month old baby doesn't need to wear a bikini or what ever other ugly fashion spaghetti strap crap you put her in. She keeps going on about how pale and "redhead" she is, cover her up!

As a red head myself, Jess needs to realize that if she SOOO badly wants a red head child, she needs to take on the responsibility of applying sunscreen every 2 hours to her, until addie is able to do it herself. And then once addie can apply her own sunscreen, she needs to remind her to put more on every few hours. That's the only way she is going to avoid painful burns and skin cancer in the future.

[Captain Smooth]

To the Drake-Jess parenting situation:
I think I know what the misunderstanding is. Jess might be a little airhead when it comes to lifeplanning and dealing with her kids (no surprises there), but what some here try to say is that the kids stay with her, she has to assume responsibility, financially and otherwise. If she can't support them, she has to try to find another way, whether she goes to her (very enabling) parents, or seek govenment asisstance (parents don't live forever), or take on a shitty job (since it's also her responsibility to find work), call a socialworker in for help, whatever, but she has to deal with the consequences of her actions (not ony now but the next 18-21 years). Drake on the other hand, looses exactly nothing by leaving his (ex)wife, fiancée and his 4 children completely alone (hypothetically, since we don't know about his daughter), except that he has to pay childsupport, which he neglected for the most part (the only thing I believe her on 100%) together with his visitationrights and nobody can do anything about it. Yeah sure, Jess can drag him to court for it, but again it's on her to do it and in the end, the court can't help out either, if he's unemployed, or just doesn't earn enough and won't show up at scheduled meetings. So technically he escapes any responsibility when it comes to his children, since taking it on would mean he can't do what he wants anymore, there are days fixed in the month for two woman and their children, he has to work his butt off for the childsupport and at 25 he would need to behave like a 35 year old. Stable job, stable income, planning for the future, etc.
Judging by that, I wouldn't differentiate between good and bad parent, but between being a parent and not being a parent. Drake does not behave like a parent should, he behaves like the nice uncle, that shows up from time to time, but goes on to travel for the rest of the year.

[Bsveach15]

Okay, leaving the spine cyst for a year was a lot but in her defense, the first few times she may have thought it was a fluke. And she also said it only happened when he fell asleep so she may have just tried to keep him awake for a while so the incidents may have been really spread apart. She may have thought it was growing pains. And if when he road in Mimi's car seat it didn't happen, she could have thought it was just the car seat. And I thought she did try a different carseat at one point, I could be wrong though. Plus, she mentioned that bag of fluid to her pediatrician when Landen was born and then brushed it off. No mom, I don't care how great you are, is going to assume their child has a huge spinal cyst making them cry in their carseat. And Addie also had all her emergency stuff shortly before Jess took Landen to the doctor so it may have delayed her taking him in and then it took even longer for her to get the MRI.

Are you ANOTHER whattheactual account? I'm sorry but your usernames and opinions are just too similar...


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Ya know I was thinking the same thing


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[Bsveach15]

Am I the only one here who quietly backs away whenever anyone talks about Jess' messy/dirty house? I would hate for any of you to see my place. I guess I'm like Jess in that way - I would rather spend my time doing other things and I don't care if I have washing waiting to be folded or marks on the walls.

There's a difference between being messy and being dirty. I'm sure your house isn't DIRTY. Maybe "untidy"
Like I know rn my sink is full of dishes because I'm cuddling my boyfriend and watching a movie. But I also know I can take a bath without catching a fungus in my tub ya know?


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Lol this. When people talk about Jess' house being nasty, it's because her house is literally, nasty. Not just messy. The whole thread of her dirty house shows what we're talking about. We've seen filthy carpet/rugs that look like they haven't been vacuumed in days/weeks, floors that haven't been swept, moldy toilets and bathtubs, dirt caked doors and walls, etc. Those things really aren't excusable imo.
I keep a pretty clean house, but I understand how easy it is to just let the toys stay scattered around the house for far too long or to let laundry pile up here and there, so I really don't judge people on that. But Jess... Ew. She needs to deep clean her entire house and figure out some way to keep it decent.


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Can someone link me to this thread please?


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[whattheactual]

There's a difference between being messy and being dirty. I'm sure your house isn't DIRTY. Maybe "untidy"
Like I know rn my sink is full of dishes because I'm cuddling my boyfriend and watching a movie. But I also know I can take a bath without catching a fungus in my tub ya know?


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Lol this. When people talk about Jess' house being nasty, it's because her house is literally, nasty. Not just messy. The whole thread of her dirty house shows what we're talking about. We've seen filthy carpet/rugs that look like they haven't been vacuumed in days/weeks, floors that haven't been swept, moldy toilets and bathtubs, dirt caked doors and walls, etc. Those things really aren't excusable imo.
I keep a pretty clean house, but I understand how easy it is to just let the toys stay scattered around the house for far too long or to let laundry pile up here and there, so I really don't judge people on that. But Jess... Ew. She needs to deep clean her entire house and figure out some way to keep it decent.


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Can someone link me to this thread please?


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http://ytmommadrama.com/viewtopic.php?f=181&t=8873

[Shawn2011]

Is sun safety not a thing in the US? Where I live people would never let their kids wander ariund in the sun without a hat, sleeves and sunscreen. It doesn't matter if her kids are pale or olive skinned, they are still at risk of skin cancer.

[fudgeitup]

Is sun safety not a thing in the US? Where I live people would never let their kids wander ariund in the sun without a hat, sleeves and sunscreen. It doesn't matter if her kids are pale or olive skinned, they are still at risk of skin cancer.

I can't speak for everyone, but growing up my friends and I always either covered up or wore sunscreen. Even now, kids at the camp i work at wear sunscreen or cover up. Maybe some people just don't give a shit, but the people I know sure do. My grandpa had skin cancer and i sure as heck don't want it.

[webby]

love how she puts those rash guard shirts on the boys but lets Lilia and Medallion wear bikinis

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