She's just given up on Lilia's hair. When they were getting ready she was like "I don't know how to braid hair this short" Um, do french braids and you're set. I can't handled the constant "I can't do short hair" comments to Lilia. She is her own person and that hair cut looks so much better than her feet long hair style did.Gumballerina wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 10:53 am If I was Tommy and Caden's mum I'd be pissed if they came home covered in mosquito bites and unclean. She hasn't been showing much of Caden; I think he's completely done with being lugged to boring activities, appalling diet, no bed of his own and not being able to wash. Did the kids even brush their teeth? Their diet consists of sugary snacks and fizzy pop and Jess wonders why they have a mouth full of metal before they're even out of the toddler stage. Addie will probably set a new record for that.
Also, Lilia's hair at the end. If you're not gonna clean your kids at least run a brush through their hair.
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Remember vlogs ago when Jess made a comment about Tommy needing a haircut and it sounded like shade to his mom how it was said. If her boys grew their hair like tommy can she would be talking about how it came out of her so it was her hair to. She obsesses over Lilia and Addies hair but then was rude about his being long?
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On Chris's post about the haircuts, I saw a comment insinuating that T+C's mother forces him to have long hair because that's her preference and the only chance when he gets to cut it is at Jess's. The minions haven't even met their mother (who I'm guessing establishes a proper routine and nutritious diet) and are still trying to make her look awful.MiloandMax1 wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 12:09 pm Remember vlogs ago when Jess made a comment about Tommy needing a haircut and it sounded like shade to his mom how it was said. If her boys grew their hair like tommy can she would be talking about how it came out of her so it was her hair to. She obsesses over Lilia and Addies hair but then was rude about his being long?
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But they are ok that she made Lilia have long hair. Or when she liked Kaden's hair long and blamed it on the clipped trauma with Drake. If his mom forced him to have long hair then wouldn't Caden have had long hair as well.Gumballerina wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 12:21 pmOn Chris's post about the haircuts, I saw a comment insinuating that T+C's mother forces him to have long hair because that's her preference and the only chance when he gets to cut it is at Jess's. The minions haven't even met their mother (who I'm guessing establishes a proper routine and nutritious diet) and are still trying to make her look awful.MiloandMax1 wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 12:09 pm Remember vlogs ago when Jess made a comment about Tommy needing a haircut and it sounded like shade to his mom how it was said. If her boys grew their hair like tommy can she would be talking about how it came out of her so it was her hair to. She obsesses over Lilia and Addies hair but then was rude about his being long?
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I'm hoping it's an issue of Tommy wanting to please Chris. Chris clearly has ideals on genders. He seems as obsessed as Jesss is when it comes to Addy's hair length (he recently posted a photo of Addy's hair, though I guess it could have been Jesss) so I wouldn't be surprised if they made enough comments to the point where Tommy finally asked for a hair cut. Similar to Lilia, I'm sure they didn't do anything to help Tommy manage his preferred hair length but will always help him manage their preferred hair length on him.MiloandMax1 wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 1:02 pmBut they are ok that she made Lilia have long hair. Or when she liked Kaden's hair long and blamed it on the clipped trauma with Drake. If his mom forced him to have long hair then wouldn't Caden have had long hair as well.Gumballerina wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 12:21 pmOn Chris's post about the haircuts, I saw a comment insinuating that T+C's mother forces him to have long hair because that's her preference and the only chance when he gets to cut it is at Jess's. The minions haven't even met their mother (who I'm guessing establishes a proper routine and nutritious diet) and are still trying to make her look awful.MiloandMax1 wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 12:09 pm Remember vlogs ago when Jess made a comment about Tommy needing a haircut and it sounded like shade to his mom how it was said. If her boys grew their hair like tommy can she would be talking about how it came out of her so it was her hair to. She obsesses over Lilia and Addies hair but then was rude about his being long?
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I said when she first got her hair cut short that Jess gave up on it and doesn't even brush it and someone jumped down my throat and disagreed. Lol seems I was right all along. She hates that Lilia has shorter hair now and that Addie can't seem to grow any.
Girl needs to stop worrying about the appearance they can't control and take better care of them.
I'm seriously surprised that CPS hasn't got involved with some of the shit she shows on her vlogs. They are always dirty, clearly don't eat very well, let's them play in the middle of the road unsupervised, shows them naked in her videos.
Just cause you CAN pop out kids left and right doesn't mean you should.
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Girl needs to stop worrying about the appearance they can't control and take better care of them.
I'm seriously surprised that CPS hasn't got involved with some of the shit she shows on her vlogs. They are always dirty, clearly don't eat very well, let's them play in the middle of the road unsupervised, shows them naked in her videos.
Just cause you CAN pop out kids left and right doesn't mean you should.
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Sorry, maybe it’s not the point of your comment, I don’t understand why CPS always gets thrown around on these boards just because they don’t agree with their parenting. I don’t agree with Jess’ parenting at all, but she’s not abusing or starving her children and that’s obvious. CPS caseworkers are already stretched so thin helping children that actually need it without opening a bogus case against Jess because she doesn’t wipe them down when they camp. Is it gross and inconsiderate? Yeah. Is it negligent and abusive? No.SouthernGal wrote:I said when she first got her hair cut short that Jess gave up on it and doesn't even brush it and someone jumped down my throat and disagreed. Lol seems I was right all along. She hates that Lilia has shorter hair now and that Addie can't seem to grow any.
Girl needs to stop worrying about the appearance they can't control and take better care of them.
I'm seriously surprised that CPS hasn't got involved with some of the shit she shows on her vlogs. They are always dirty, clearly don't eat very well, let's them play in the middle of the road unsupervised, shows them naked in her videos.
Just cause you CAN pop out kids left and right doesn't mean you should.
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She is so over dramatic in her videos I can barely stand to watch anymore. Like calm TF down, none of it is as serious as she makes it out to be. It’s all for the clickbait.
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That's what I've thought the whole them. Especially since they don't even clean out the camper when they're done. She's shown a few times the pantry still full of food from months earlier, the milk last time. You know for a Damn fact those beds aren't getting washed. It makes me so angry coz I would LOVE a camper like that and id take such good care of it!chelsieross7 wrote:Not just the kids but the beds in the camper get gross too. And you know jess doesn't properly clean that thing, it probably smells or will smell soon. Shes gross
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I would actually like to see her battle.MommaMia3 wrote:I think most parents have had moments like that, but the difference is that it's not an everyday thing. I hate that Jess uses the whole "you have to pick your battles" thing as an excuse to not parent and let her kids do whatever they want.strikeaposie wrote:I can only imagine how gross they really are. I feel like if she's this comfortable being this gross on video then it has to be far worse behind the scenes.dailyblahblahblah wrote: ↑Thu Jul 18, 2019 10:21 am Ugh why is she so openly gross? We camp & idgaf my kids are getting some type of shower/wipe down because they do get so dirty playing outside. And you know damn well she isn’t washing the sheets & blankets after every trip cause she’s nasty.
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I will admit I've sent a kid to bed dirty when I know I should have forced a bath, but they were tired, I was tired, and the fight wasn't worth it. But I always make sure to change the sheets the next day and make them bathe as soon as they wake up.
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megangold27 wrote:Sorry, maybe it’s not the point of your comment, I don’t understand why CPS always gets thrown around on these boards just because they don’t agree with their parenting. I don’t agree with Jess’ parenting at all, but she’s not abusing or starving her children and that’s obvious. CPS caseworkers are already stretched so thin helping children that actually need it without opening a bogus case against Jess because she doesn’t wipe them down when they camp. Is it gross and inconsiderate? Yeah. Is it negligent and abusive? No.SouthernGal wrote:I said when she first got her hair cut short that Jess gave up on it and doesn't even brush it and someone jumped down my throat and disagreed. Lol seems I was right all along. She hates that Lilia has shorter hair now and that Addie can't seem to grow any.
Girl needs to stop worrying about the appearance they can't control and take better care of them.
I'm seriously surprised that CPS hasn't got involved with some of the shit she shows on her vlogs. They are always dirty, clearly don't eat very well, let's them play in the middle of the road unsupervised, shows them naked in her videos.
Just cause you CAN pop out kids left and right doesn't mean you should.
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I agree Jessica may be stupid and we not like her, but she loves her kids, provides, and takes care of them. Maybe not perfectly but no need to even mention CPS. I was taken by CPS rightfully so and spent half my childhood in foster care. You have to think would taking someone’s kids from them hurt the kids more or help them. In cases of drugs, abuse, and neglect obviously yes it’s better for the kids. For petty stuff like mentioned you would be damaging her kids more by removing them and opening them up to potential abuse. The emotional trauma alone from that damages children. The foster care system has flaws which include some bad people being foster parents and all the troubled kids in the system. So people who throw CPS around need to seriously think beforehand.
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I agree with you. These kids are not in danger, they’re just being raised with different standards than we would like.
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I don't agree with cps exactly but it is surprising neighbors haven't complained or something. You don't see other kids just playing in their street. When Chris was loading the truck in that camping vlog Addis took off for the road. No way an adult would've gotten to her had a car been coming down. The sad thing is Jess blames everyone else and what will it take for her to realize she needs to protect them.
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I didn't say that I would like to see CPS step in. I'm saying I'm surprised they haven't with the content she puts out there. There is plenty there to give them the impression they need to do a house check.prettyll wrote:megangold27 wrote:Sorry, maybe it’s not the point of your comment, I don’t understand why CPS always gets thrown around on these boards just because they don’t agree with their parenting. I don’t agree with Jess’ parenting at all, but she’s not abusing or starving her children and that’s obvious. CPS caseworkers are already stretched so thin helping children that actually need it without opening a bogus case against Jess because she doesn’t wipe them down when they camp. Is it gross and inconsiderate? Yeah. Is it negligent and abusive? No.SouthernGal wrote:I said when she first got her hair cut short that Jess gave up on it and doesn't even brush it and someone jumped down my throat and disagreed. Lol seems I was right all along. She hates that Lilia has shorter hair now and that Addie can't seem to grow any.
Girl needs to stop worrying about the appearance they can't control and take better care of them.
I'm seriously surprised that CPS hasn't got involved with some of the shit she shows on her vlogs. They are always dirty, clearly don't eat very well, let's them play in the middle of the road unsupervised, shows them naked in her videos.
Just cause you CAN pop out kids left and right doesn't mean you should.
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I agree Jessica may be stupid and we not like her, but she loves her kids, provides, and takes care of them. Maybe not perfectly but no need to even mention CPS. I was taken by CPS rightfully so and spent half my childhood in foster care. You have to think would taking someone’s kids from them hurt the kids more or help them. In cases of drugs, abuse, and neglect obviously yes it’s better for the kids. For petty stuff like mentioned you would be damaging her kids more by removing them and opening them up to potential abuse. The emotional trauma alone from that damages children. The foster care system has flaws which include some bad people being foster parents and all the troubled kids in the system. So people who throw CPS around need to seriously think beforehand.
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I was taken from my biological parents at 6 weeks old, I don't loosely throw around CPS. I'm just surprised is all.
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Why does Chris remind me ciaobella’s husband rat lmaoo. Anyone watch her
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Im not trying to seem argumentative but again, I think it just comes down to that we don’t agree with her parenting and some people can’t distinguish that from something that is actually harmful. What exactly would warrant a CPS check in your eyes? Because I can’t think of one truly negligent/dangerous/abusive thing she’s doing.SouthernGal wrote:I didn't say that I would like to see CPS step in. I'm saying I'm surprised they haven't with the content she puts out there. There is plenty there to give them the impression they need to do a house check.prettyll wrote:megangold27 wrote: Sorry, maybe it’s not the point of your comment, I don’t understand why CPS always gets thrown around on these boards just because they don’t agree with their parenting. I don’t agree with Jess’ parenting at all, but she’s not abusing or starving her children and that’s obvious. CPS caseworkers are already stretched so thin helping children that actually need it without opening a bogus case against Jess because she doesn’t wipe them down when they camp. Is it gross and inconsiderate? Yeah. Is it negligent and abusive? No.
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I agree Jessica may be stupid and we not like her, but she loves her kids, provides, and takes care of them. Maybe not perfectly but no need to even mention CPS. I was taken by CPS rightfully so and spent half my childhood in foster care. You have to think would taking someone’s kids from them hurt the kids more or help them. In cases of drugs, abuse, and neglect obviously yes it’s better for the kids. For petty stuff like mentioned you would be damaging her kids more by removing them and opening them up to potential abuse. The emotional trauma alone from that damages children. The foster care system has flaws which include some bad people being foster parents and all the troubled kids in the system. So people who throw CPS around need to seriously think beforehand.
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I was taken from my biological parents at 6 weeks old, I don't loosely throw around CPS. I'm just surprised is all.
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**This is not including showing her kids half naked on camera/intentional suggestive shots/etc...I think we can all agree this is morally wrong given the current climate of YouTube and her wide reach in social media. But posting a video of your kid in a bathtub isn’t illegal.
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The comments on Lilia’s hair make me sad.
That kid was so stoked when she got it cut. Now she’s going to think about every single comment her dumb mother has made and never want short hair again.
Great way to instil body image issues.
Especially when you add on all the comments about how tiny Lilia is.
That kid was so stoked when she got it cut. Now she’s going to think about every single comment her dumb mother has made and never want short hair again.
Great way to instil body image issues.
Especially when you add on all the comments about how tiny Lilia is.
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I'm speaking on strictly seeing her videos.megangold27 wrote:Im not trying to seem argumentative but again, I think it just comes down to that we don’t agree with her parenting and some people can’t distinguish that from something that is actually harmful. What exactly would warrant a CPS check in your eyes? Because I can’t think of one truly negligent/dangerous/abusive thing she’s doing.SouthernGal wrote:I didn't say that I would like to see CPS step in. I'm saying I'm surprised they haven't with the content she puts out there. There is plenty there to give them the impression they need to do a house check.prettyll wrote:
I agree Jessica may be stupid and we not like her, but she loves her kids, provides, and takes care of them. Maybe not perfectly but no need to even mention CPS. I was taken by CPS rightfully so and spent half my childhood in foster care. You have to think would taking someone’s kids from them hurt the kids more or help them. In cases of drugs, abuse, and neglect obviously yes it’s better for the kids. For petty stuff like mentioned you would be damaging her kids more by removing them and opening them up to potential abuse. The emotional trauma alone from that damages children. The foster care system has flaws which include some bad people being foster parents and all the troubled kids in the system. So people who throw CPS around need to seriously think beforehand.
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I was taken from my biological parents at 6 weeks old, I don't loosely throw around CPS. I'm just surprised is all.
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**This is not including showing her kids half naked on camera/intentional suggestive shots/etc...I think we can all agree this is morally wrong given the current climate of YouTube and her wide reach in social media. But posting a video of your kid in a bathtub isn’t illegal.
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House a mess,they never get packed nutritional food, always dirty, playing in the road unsupervised. Sure I don't agree with her parenting. But like I said, I didn't say I would like to see them step in. I'm saying STRICTLY seeing her videos, I'm surprised it hasn't happened.
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Whatever happened,it's dumb to leave a generator in the back where it's easily stolen.
CPS standards are very low anymore,so no reason for them to investigate.They have food..although it could be better,clothes,roof over their heads...could be cleaner and tidier but that's enough;in addition to some moderate health care..again,could be better but it's enough.Playing in street,not unheard of. Jesss would just say they were watching them if something happened
CPS standards are very low anymore,so no reason for them to investigate.They have food..although it could be better,clothes,roof over their heads...could be cleaner and tidier but that's enough;in addition to some moderate health care..again,could be better but it's enough.Playing in street,not unheard of. Jesss would just say they were watching them if something happened
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Yeah agreed! Because what would CPS even DO? My parents had CPS come investigate them I think twice and my sister and I were never removed from the home. It wasn’t a great environment but it was largely a better one than any place we could have been sent otherwise.prettyll wrote:megangold27 wrote:Sorry, maybe it’s not the point of your comment, I don’t understand why CPS always gets thrown around on these boards just because they don’t agree with their parenting. I don’t agree with Jess’ parenting at all, but she’s not abusing or starving her children and that’s obvious. CPS caseworkers are already stretched so thin helping children that actually need it without opening a bogus case against Jess because she doesn’t wipe them down when they camp. Is it gross and inconsiderate? Yeah. Is it negligent and abusive? No.SouthernGal wrote:I said when she first got her hair cut short that Jess gave up on it and doesn't even brush it and someone jumped down my throat and disagreed. Lol seems I was right all along. She hates that Lilia has shorter hair now and that Addie can't seem to grow any.
Girl needs to stop worrying about the appearance they can't control and take better care of them.
I'm seriously surprised that CPS hasn't got involved with some of the shit she shows on her vlogs. They are always dirty, clearly don't eat very well, let's them play in the middle of the road unsupervised, shows them naked in her videos.
Just cause you CAN pop out kids left and right doesn't mean you should.
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I agree Jessica may be stupid and we not like her, but she loves her kids, provides, and takes care of them. Maybe not perfectly but no need to even mention CPS. I was taken by CPS rightfully so and spent half my childhood in foster care. You have to think would taking someone’s kids from them hurt the kids more or help them. In cases of drugs, abuse, and neglect obviously yes it’s better for the kids. For petty stuff like mentioned you would be damaging her kids more by removing them and opening them up to potential abuse. The emotional trauma alone from that damages children. The foster care system has flaws which include some bad people being foster parents and all the troubled kids in the system. So people who throw CPS around need to seriously think beforehand.
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All these YT parents are not great. Their kids will likely suffer as a result and that SUCKS. But the alternative is not necessarily better and it’s not necessarily a “fix.”
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