Jesss: Vlogmas Edition Part 66
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Since they barely know him no they shouldn't be calling him dad.
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Just because Drake contributed his DNA to the creation of Kaden doesn't mean he deserves respect from Kaden or anybody else. He abandoned the twins and Landen and occasional visits by the children to his home are not going to make up for the damage he inflicted on those kids. Eventually the twins and Landen are going to call Chris "Dad" if they don't already because Chris is ,in fact, the boys' father right now. He plays with them, he feeds them, he helps put them to bed, he takes them to the park, he dresses them, etc..... And he does it everyday.
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I think Kyson is the cutest and the sweetest of her boys, and definitely the way she always labels him the "naughty one" or the "future heartbreaker" isn't cool. He's gonna grow up with a complex.nela7 wrote:I feel so bad for Kyson, I think she's harder on him because he looks like Drake.shilohjulia wrote:Long time lurker, first time posting. Lilia doesn't seem overly close to Chris.. I don't think she dislikes him or anything, but just has a healthy step-child/step-parent relationship with him. She seems really bonded to her dad (Gabe). Landen I think is extremely close to Chris and IF Chris/Jess stay together I think he'll eventually just see Chris as his dad and Drake as the "bio" dad that he doesn't really know. The twins probably have it the worst, because i don't think they feel either Chris or Drake is really "dad". It's just sad that wherever these kids go, they have half or step siblings. It must be so confusing. Caden and Tommy calling Jess "mom" is a bit weird since they spend so little time over there and live with their actual mother full time. It wouldn't surprise me if Jess and Chris tell them to call her that, but they do seem to genuinely love her. I could see Lilia and Landon growing up into well-adjusted teens/adults, even Caden & Tommy will be fine.. Just regular kids of divorced parents. Like I said I fear the most for the twins.
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Re: Jesss: Vlogmas Edition Part 66
While I will not argue with you that Chris is the best father figure the boys have right now (because that is true, unfortunately), Kaden is three and needs to learn to respect his elders. If Drake wants to be called Dad by his sons (or at least Kyson and Kaden), Jess should encourage him to respect his father's wishes. Somewhere down the line if Drake seriously makes no efforts in spending time with his sons, THEN it would be acceptable if Kaden wanted to refer to his bio father as Drake or his birth dad. If Kaden actually did say 'Drake' in that video, it was either an accident (I think most kids are guilty of calling their parents by their first names. I once called my mom by her first name and she corrected me with, "That's Mommy to you!") or Jess is ingraining disrespect for their biological father into their brains (which wouldn't surprise me because Jess is obviously still bitter, but her sons don't deserve that at all! She does realize that without Drake, she wouldn't have her boys, right? You're the one who wants to be an effective co-parent. Put your grudge aside and do it for Kyson, Kaden, and Landen).olemama wrote:Just because Drake contributed his DNA to the creation of Kaden doesn't mean he deserves respect from Kaden or anybody else. He abandoned the twins and Landen and occasional visits by the children to his home are not going to make up for the damage he inflicted on those kids. Eventually the twins and Landen are going to call Chris "Dad" if they don't already because Chris is ,in fact, the boys' father right now. He plays with them, he feeds them, he helps put them to bed, he takes them to the park, he dresses them, etc..... And he does it everyday.
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The title of mother or father has to be earned. Drakes kids don't OWE him anything. He's the one who owes them.
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Chris has barely been in their lives for a year, he doesn't deserve to be called "daddy" by the twins either. He should stay as Chris until the boys can make up their own minds. Drake has his faults but he didn't move six hours away from his bio kids for a piece of psycho ass he barely knew two weeks via as Chris did. It's almost as bad as Jess encouraging 1 year old Lilia to call Drake dad and snuff out Gabe.
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I wasn't talking about Chris, I was talking about drake. And not only has it been over a year, the twins are only 3. Landen is what - not even 2? Chris is mostly all they know.
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I'm disappointed there was no pregnancy announcement. Not because I want her to be pregnant but because.... Drama. Lol.
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Fact is, Jess chose Drake to get her pregnant TWICE, fact is, he is their biological father whether she likes it or not despite choosing him knowing what he was like, fact is, Chris isn't and doesn't get that title from the kids. She needs to reap what she sow.youmustbecrazy wrote:I wasn't talking about Chris, I was talking about drake. And not only has it been over a year, the twins are only 3. Landen is what - not even 2? Chris is mostly all they know.
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shilohjulia wrote:Long time lurker, first time posting. Lilia doesn't seem overly close to Chris.. I don't think she dislikes him or anything, but just has a healthy step-child/step-parent relationship with him. She seems really bonded to her dad (Gabe). Landen I think is extremely close to Chris and IF Chris/Jess stay together I think he'll eventually just see Chris as his dad and Drake as the "bio" dad that he doesn't really know. The twins probably have it the worst, because i don't think they feel either Chris or Drake is really "dad". It's just sad that wherever these kids go, they have half or step siblings. It must be so confusing. Caden and Tommy calling Jess "mom" is a bit weird since they spend so little time over there and live with their actual mother full time. It wouldn't surprise me if Jess and Chris tell them to call her that, but they do seem to genuinely love her. I could see Lilia and Landon growing up into well-adjusted teens/adults, even Caden & Tommy will be fine.. Just regular kids of divorced parents. Like I said I fear the most for the twins.
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All of the kids are still really young, plus Jess, Chris etc are yet to face adult challenges like paying bills and working. Who knows how many step parents these kids will go through in the next 15 years. It's way too soon to think that any of them will grow up to be well adjusted adults.
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DNA doesn't make a family. However you have to remember this is a gossip forum about Jessica. She has tricked 2 guys into getting her pregnant, yes they should have taken partial responsibility and worn a condom because it takes two to make a baby, but that doesn't take away from the fact that she's manipulative. In general, I don't care what you call your bio parent or step parent. This is about Jess and her situation that she created for herself. Did she chose for Drake to leave or cheat on her? Absolutely not. But think back to when Lilia was a baby. All Jess did was bash Gabe in order to make Drake look good so he could have the perfect image to complete her idea of a family. The situation with Chris isn't much different. How can Jessica go and bash Drake every chance she gets when the boys "new daddy" CHOSE to move 6 hours away from his kids to go and play house with Jess. Chris is shit too. This isn't a matter of "are step parents any less and shouldn't be called dad or mom" this is a matter of Jessica (what this whole thread is) being a manipulative lying stinky human. If the boys wanted to call Chris dad, fine. But that wasn't the case. Jessica is being manipulative and it's only gonna hurt those kids. If Jess actually wants Drake in the boys' life then she'd make sure they called him dad and not Chris. (That's IF that was what Kaden said. I still hear 'Drake' I have no idea how how others are hearing 'truck'.) Rant is over
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Jess asked Kaden if he got presents at Dads house and Kaden said "Yes" She then asked Kaden what he got and he replied "A truck"
Then just after that, I'm almost positive he says "Drake took me over there but I didn't go to the doctors."
Then just after that, I'm almost positive he says "Drake took me over there but I didn't go to the doctors."
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I absolutely agree with this. How sad it is that so many people are comfortable with children disrespecting their biological parent and calling them by their first name. Chris is no hero, he's being used by Jesssssss for the moment until something better comes along and vice versa. To this this blended family crap Chris will last more than 6-7 years at best is ridiculous. Then it'll be Chris who? I doubt anyone in Jesssss' house will bother driving those 12 hours to see Chris' sons after they split which makes this entire situation sickening.Context101 wrote:DNA doesn't make a family. However you have to remember this is a gossip forum about Jessica. She has tricked 2 guys into getting her pregnant, yes they should have taken partial responsibility and worn a condom because it takes two to make a baby, but that doesn't take away from the fact that she's manipulative. In general, I don't care what you call your bio parent or step parent. This is about Jess and her situation that she created for herself. Did she chose for Drake to leave or cheat on her? Absolutely not. But think back to when Lilia was a baby. All Jess did was bash Gabe in order to make Drake look good so he could have the perfect image to complete her idea of a family. The situation with Chris isn't much different. How can Jessica go and bash Drake every chance she gets when the boys "new daddy" CHOSE to move 6 hours away from his kids to go and play house with Jess. Chris is shit too. This isn't a matter of "are step parents any less and shouldn't be called dad or mom" this is a matter of Jessica (what this whole thread is) being a manipulative lying stinky human. If the boys wanted to call Chris dad, fine. But that wasn't the case. Jessica is being manipulative and it's only gonna hurt those kids. If Jess actually wants Drake in the boys' life then she'd make sure they called him dad and not Chris. (That's IF that was what Kaden said. I still hear 'Drake' I have no idea how how others are hearing 'truck'.) Rant is over
Jesssss bashes her baby daddy's according to how they're currently making her feel. Right now Drake has Jesssss all in her feelings and she can't even acknowledge him seeing his sons as a positive experience in their life. Why doesn't she want the best for her sons? Oh, because it's better to compete with their dad and get into these shallow relationships that lead nowhere than deal with the serious issues at hand like visitation and discipline.
And we really have no idea how often Drake see's his sons because Jessssss lies about everything. I bet Drake see's those boys more often than anyone of us could even fathom. Jesss is just good at playing the victim.
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I really think she wasn't even gonna mention Drake taking the kids. She vloged it at the very end probably after being told about Natalie s picture on Instagram. She had no other choice but add that little clip there saying how she was oh so happy Drake took them... for an hour at most. Bitch
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Chris was once a full-time parent to Tommy and Caden because he was unemployed and his ex brought in the income for the household. Then they divorced and he was reduced to seeing his boys every other weekend. That loss of the daily parenting role can be devastating; I have witnessed friends go through it. Even if Chris had never moved, his role in his children's life would lessen with time because twice-monthly visitation is not a substitute for daily parenting. It's just a painful fact of life in many divorces.
His marriage to Jess is ideal for him. She is the primary breadwinner and he gets to be a full-time father to a cute baby boy, adorable twins, and Lilia. And he seems to like being with the children. He's not father of the year and I do feel sorry for Tommy and Caden. But he is doing the hard job of parenting the 4 kids with Jess and sooner or later they are all going to call him Dad and he will become the most important male role model in their lives.
His marriage to Jess is ideal for him. She is the primary breadwinner and he gets to be a full-time father to a cute baby boy, adorable twins, and Lilia. And he seems to like being with the children. He's not father of the year and I do feel sorry for Tommy and Caden. But he is doing the hard job of parenting the 4 kids with Jess and sooner or later they are all going to call him Dad and he will become the most important male role model in their lives.
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I think this "you should respect your biological parents no matter what" stuff must be cultural. It's absolutely bizarre to me. Personally I don't even see the first name as being disrespect. Again, cultural I guess. Where I live, kids usually call their teachers by their first names too. And that's how the teacher was introduced. Nothing to lose your marbles over. *shrug*
Anyway, I heard jess say something about going to their dad's. Kaden knew who she was talking about, so that suggests that she does refer to drake as "dad" enough that they know who that is (and it's not Chris). But then I heard Kaden say "drake took me over there but I didn't go to the doctor". I thought her reaction was fine if that is in fact what he said. But refer to my comment on culture.
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Anyway, I heard jess say something about going to their dad's. Kaden knew who she was talking about, so that suggests that she does refer to drake as "dad" enough that they know who that is (and it's not Chris). But then I heard Kaden say "drake took me over there but I didn't go to the doctor". I thought her reaction was fine if that is in fact what he said. But refer to my comment on culture.
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she asked what did you get at dads house and he said "a truck" it wouldnt even make sense if he replied "drake" to what did you get at dads house. I think they still remember drake and know hes dad but they probably think all of moms bfs are also called dad. Kyson looked grumpy, he looked fine in natalies pic though
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I don't think they're talking about that part. It's about a couple of seconds after that. Kaden clearly says Drake.MyGuiltyPleasure wrote:she asked what did you get at dads house and he said "a truck" it wouldnt even make sense if he replied "drake" to what did you get at dads house. I think they still remember drake and know hes dad but they probably think all of moms bfs are also called dad. Kyson looked grumpy, he looked fine in natalies pic though
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I think Kaden said "they took me over there but I didn't go to the doctor" (they being Drake and Natalie). That's my 2 cents lol
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