Nchollywood Part 4
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The whole unassisted pregnancy thing, I am not too sure of. IMO I think no matter the woman or situation you should always have someone, whether it be a doctor, midwife or doula, throughout the pregnancy.HowAboutNo wrote:Lol girl take a step back and realize how ridiculous it is to ask for more than we've already gotten. Allyshia is not capable of pranking us like that in a million years. Don't stoop to her level of crazy.fortwendy wrote:I believe that the paragraph before my accusation/suspicion painted Alex in a very, very generous light, so I'd like to think you're not talking about me, also since there were more than one of us.Yue195 wrote:This happens everytime someone who ACTUALLY knows them comes here to give information, one person gets their knickers in a wad and has to bitch them out.
Every question and request so far has been answered except for Allyshia's mom's opinion, unless he's missed it at least twice.
I'm interested in what sort of police paper work Allyshia has. An expected return date of the laptop, charges pressed, court date... if she even went, if the police have contacted Alex...
Alex, I have another question. How do you feel about this whole "unassisted pregnancy" thing? Is it because she's really that delusional that she thinks she needs no medical supervision, or is she just lazy because she can't find a midwife or doula or whatever?
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There has been no charges laid as far as I know. My laptop had been seized and is being examined. That is the only proof of any action being taken. I have yet to hear anything from the people who were contacted on the situation.Thatonegirl555 wrote:I too have been wondering Alex is there actual proof she pressed charges?
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So do you know for sure your laptop was seized or was it just what allyshia told you?
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She's an idiot if she does unassisted. She was training as a doula she knows you need a medical professional there or on the way. Its the first thing we are taught, drilled it into our skulls over and over.yesimthatguy wrote:The whole unassisted pregnancy thing, I am not too sure of. IMO I think no matter the woman or situation you should always have someone, whether it be a doctor, midwife or doula, throughout the pregnancy.HowAboutNo wrote:Lol girl take a step back and realize how ridiculous it is to ask for more than we've already gotten. Allyshia is not capable of pranking us like that in a million years. Don't stoop to her level of crazy.fortwendy wrote: I believe that the paragraph before my accusation/suspicion painted Alex in a very, very generous light, so I'd like to think you're not talking about me, also since there were more than one of us.
Every question and request so far has been answered except for Allyshia's mom's opinion, unless he's missed it at least twice.
I'm interested in what sort of police paper work Allyshia has. An expected return date of the laptop, charges pressed, court date... if she even went, if the police have contacted Alex...
Alex, I have another question. How do you feel about this whole "unassisted pregnancy" thing? Is it because she's really that delusional that she thinks she needs no medical supervision, or is she just lazy because she can't find a midwife or doula or whatever?
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If nothing's been found by now, there's probably nothing to find.yesimthatguy wrote:There has been no charges laid as far as I know. My laptop had been seized and is being examined. That is the only proof of any action being taken. I have yet to hear anything from the people who were contacted on the situation.Thatonegirl555 wrote:I too have been wondering Alex is there actual proof she pressed charges?
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I know for sure my laptop has been seized.Thatonegirl555 wrote:So do you know for sure your laptop was seized or was it just what allyshia told you?
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It's so dangerous to proceed with a pregnancy and delivery like that. I can't wrap my mind around why she despises modern medicine. Like she thinks she knows better.yesimthatguy wrote:The whole unassisted pregnancy thing, I am not too sure of. IMO I think no matter the woman or situation you should always have someone, whether it be a doctor, midwife or doula, throughout the pregnancy.HowAboutNo wrote:
Alex, I have another question. How do you feel about this whole "unassisted pregnancy" thing? Is it because she's really that delusional that she thinks she needs no medical supervision, or is she just lazy because she can't find a midwife or doula or whatever?
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Her, with her problem-free labor and deliveries. Bitch needs to check her privilege.HowAboutNo wrote:It's so dangerous to proceed with a pregnancy and delivery like that. I can't wrap my mind around why she despises modern medicine. Like she thinks she knows better.yesimthatguy wrote:The whole unassisted pregnancy thing, I am not too sure of. IMO I think no matter the woman or situation you should always have someone, whether it be a doctor, midwife or doula, throughout the pregnancy.HowAboutNo wrote:
Alex, I have another question. How do you feel about this whole "unassisted pregnancy" thing? Is it because she's really that delusional that she thinks she needs no medical supervision, or is she just lazy because she can't find a midwife or doula or whatever?
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Has she been going to her doctors appointments for this pregnancy Alex?
She really shouldn't have an unassisted birth. Just because you have two healthy babies doesn't mean this pregnancy will be ok, particularly when you've had two miscarriages and your babies are so close in age at 20 years old. I know she thinks she knows a lot about pregnancy and birth but I'm studying midwifery even when I graduate and decide to have babies I will still have a midwife there for my labour. It's unsafe and unfortunately you or the baby could die during an unassisted birth whereas if you're being monitored this could be prevented.
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She really shouldn't have an unassisted birth. Just because you have two healthy babies doesn't mean this pregnancy will be ok, particularly when you've had two miscarriages and your babies are so close in age at 20 years old. I know she thinks she knows a lot about pregnancy and birth but I'm studying midwifery even when I graduate and decide to have babies I will still have a midwife there for my labour. It's unsafe and unfortunately you or the baby could die during an unassisted birth whereas if you're being monitored this could be prevented.
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Yet she doesn't want to "endanger her child" by vaccinating. That shows how selfish her priorities are.josie wrote:Has she been going to her doctors appointments for this pregnancy Alex?
She really shouldn't have an unassisted birth. Just because you have two healthy babies doesn't mean this pregnancy will be ok, particularly when you've had two miscarriages and your babies are so close in age at 20 years old. I know she thinks she knows a lot about pregnancy and birth but I'm studying midwifery even when I graduate and decide to have babies I will still have a midwife there for my labour. It's unsafe and unfortunately you or the baby could die during an unassisted birth whereas if you're being monitored this could be prevented.
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Please do not let this topic derail discussing/arguing/debating vaccines. If you want to debate about it, take it to the Off Topic Forum please.
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^this. I think she's just so blindly opposed to medicine that she doesn't understand that it serves a purpose and without it maternal and infant mortality rates would be so much higher.
It's exactly like what anti-vaccers believe. They think that there's no need for vaccines because the various viruses vaccines prevent haven't been around. That's because vaccines are stopping people from being infected by them.
Similarly I'll bet Allyshia thinks that because infant/maternal mortality rates are low in Canada, she doesn't need to see medical professionals. But it's because of these medical professionals and interventions that rates are so low.
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It's exactly like what anti-vaccers believe. They think that there's no need for vaccines because the various viruses vaccines prevent haven't been around. That's because vaccines are stopping people from being infected by them.
Similarly I'll bet Allyshia thinks that because infant/maternal mortality rates are low in Canada, she doesn't need to see medical professionals. But it's because of these medical professionals and interventions that rates are so low.
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She will just go on believing what she wants to believe with no regard for her children because, like every good mom, "it's my life."josie wrote:^this. I think she's just so blindly opposed to medicine that she doesn't understand that it serves a purpose and without it maternal and infant mortality rates would be so much higher.
It's exactly like what anti-vaccers believe. They think that there's no need for vaccines because the various viruses vaccines prevent haven't been around. That's because vaccines are stopping people from being infected by them.
Similarly I'll bet Allyshia thinks that because infant/maternal mortality rates are low in Canada, she doesn't need to see medical professionals. But it's because of these medical professionals and interventions that rates are so low.
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February 14 at 4:01pm ·
Most women by 13 weeks would have had 2 or 3 prenatal visits by now and I have had zero. I like not worrying about appointments! I'm glad I don't have to do pointless appointments, procedures and tests
Guess what. They aren't "pointless appointments" if your doctor finds out something is WRONG with your pregnancy and classifies it as high-risk. She is an idiot. She lives in Canada where she gets FREE healthcare. You're always looking for free shit, Allyshia, since you can't afford anything anyways. You are stuck in your mum's basement with no money to your name. Take whatever medical advice you can get. What if there WAS something wrong and she needed to deliver at a hospital that was more equipped for her? She'd have no idea because she'd be doing her unassisted birth and have to deal with those problems when her baby is delivered. It could die in her mum's tiny house because she has her head so far up her own ass that she thinks she's invisible to medical problems. What happens if you pass out in labor? Or start to bleed too much? What if you need stitches? What if your baby isn't breathing? She is just too much. She thinks her shit don't stink and nothing would EVER go wrong for her. She had 2 deliveries already so she might as well be an effing doctor, right!? I can't even with this chick. LOL
February 14 at 4:01pm ·
Most women by 13 weeks would have had 2 or 3 prenatal visits by now and I have had zero. I like not worrying about appointments! I'm glad I don't have to do pointless appointments, procedures and tests
Guess what. They aren't "pointless appointments" if your doctor finds out something is WRONG with your pregnancy and classifies it as high-risk. She is an idiot. She lives in Canada where she gets FREE healthcare. You're always looking for free shit, Allyshia, since you can't afford anything anyways. You are stuck in your mum's basement with no money to your name. Take whatever medical advice you can get. What if there WAS something wrong and she needed to deliver at a hospital that was more equipped for her? She'd have no idea because she'd be doing her unassisted birth and have to deal with those problems when her baby is delivered. It could die in her mum's tiny house because she has her head so far up her own ass that she thinks she's invisible to medical problems. What happens if you pass out in labor? Or start to bleed too much? What if you need stitches? What if your baby isn't breathing? She is just too much. She thinks her shit don't stink and nothing would EVER go wrong for her. She had 2 deliveries already so she might as well be an effing doctor, right!? I can't even with this chick. LOL
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Watch, at the last minute she'll decide on a hospital birth, and then act high and mighty about her "informed decision" and start putting down home birthing mom's, while pretending her stupid decision never happened.ReginaGeorge wrote:Ally Marie
February 14 at 4:01pm ·
Most women by 13 weeks would have had 2 or 3 prenatal visits by now and I have had zero. I like not worrying about appointments! I'm glad I don't have to do pointless appointments, procedures and tests
Guess what. They aren't "pointless appointments" if your doctor finds out something is WRONG with your pregnancy and classifies it as high-risk. She is an idiot. She lives in Canada where she gets FREE healthcare. You're always looking for free shit, Allyshia, since you can't afford anything anyways. You are stuck in your mum's basement with no money to your name. Take whatever medical advice you can get. What if there WAS something wrong and she needed to deliver at a hospital that was more equipped for her? She'd have no idea because she'd be doing her unassisted birth and have to deal with those problems when her baby is delivered. It could die in her mum's tiny house because she has her head so far up her own ass that she thinks she's invisible to medical problems. What happens if you pass out in labor? Or start to bleed too much? What if you need stitches? What if your baby isn't breathing? She is just too much. She thinks her shit don't stink and nothing would EVER go wrong for her. She had 2 deliveries already so she might as well be an effing doctor, right!? I can't even with this chick. LOL
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Oh my god, I was really hoping she had just joined that unassisted home birth group just out of interest.
Prenatal appointments are supposed to stop you from worrying, not cause you more worry. What if your baby has a chromosomal disorder that you could be prepared about?
Honestly she sickens me. Hey Allyshia, did you know that a potential thing that could happen during birth is the baby's shoulder getting caught above your pubic bone? Did you know that if that happens you have about 7 minutes to get that baby out before it dies? Did you know that you could potentially be preeclamptic and end up having seizures that can kill you after your birth? Did you know that some women can haemorrhage after birth and how to make sure all the pieces of your placenta and the baby's sac are out to try prevent this from happening?
What're you gonna do if any of those emergency situations happen to you Allyshia? Because by the time an ambulance gets to you it might be too late.
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Prenatal appointments are supposed to stop you from worrying, not cause you more worry. What if your baby has a chromosomal disorder that you could be prepared about?
Honestly she sickens me. Hey Allyshia, did you know that a potential thing that could happen during birth is the baby's shoulder getting caught above your pubic bone? Did you know that if that happens you have about 7 minutes to get that baby out before it dies? Did you know that you could potentially be preeclamptic and end up having seizures that can kill you after your birth? Did you know that some women can haemorrhage after birth and how to make sure all the pieces of your placenta and the baby's sac are out to try prevent this from happening?
What're you gonna do if any of those emergency situations happen to you Allyshia? Because by the time an ambulance gets to you it might be too late.
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My mother has my sister naturally. First pregnancy, no previous uterine surgeries, no risk factors whatsoever. After about an hour of pushing (no epidural, no pitocin) her uterus ruptured. That's right. Her uterus ripped open, out of nowhere, with no previous activity with her uterus. She lost so much blood, she ended up needing 3 transfusions before they discovered she needed immediate surgery. She's lucky she survived.
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And she really needs to stop telling people they "weren't trying, but weren't preventing" when she told me herself they were actively trying to have a baby. You know, maybe SHE was, but he wasn't?
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So are her kids watching??josie wrote:Oh my god, I was really hoping she had just joined that unassisted home birth group just out of interest.
Prenatal appointments are supposed to stop you from worrying, not cause you more worry. What if your baby has a chromosomal disorder that you could be prepared about?
Honestly she sickens me. Hey Allyshia, did you know that a potential thing that could happen during birth is the baby's shoulder getting caught above your pubic bone? Did you know that if that happens you have about 7 minutes to get that baby out before it dies? Did you know that you could potentially be preeclamptic and end up having seizures that can kill you after your birth? Did you know that some women can haemorrhage after birth and how to make sure all the pieces of your placenta and the baby's sac are out to try prevent this from happening?
What're you gonna do if any of those emergency situations happen to you Allyshia? Because by the time an ambulance gets to you it might be too late.
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