Fallonlynn10 wrote:lmmomSD wrote:But the thing is, they have never been encouraged or taught to stand up on their own. Mimi is going to pass away someday, and Missy won't be able to cope.
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How have they not? They have their own house and cars and income.
No one can cope when their mother dies, I promise you that. I was 21 years old and my
Mom still went to doctors appointments with me when I really wanted her to. It was the worst thing that has ever happened to me and missy will grieve and be depressed and she will have every right to be.
I just find this to be the stupidest thing everyone hates on them for.
Hate on them for neglecting Karma, for not discipline Ollie, for spending to much money or crap, but not for having a close family that some people would kill for.
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I'm close with my family. I love a block away from my mom, and a different block away from my grandparents. I even worked with my mom until she recently retired. I get being close.
My mother does not interfere in my marriage. That's my husband and I. Small example. When my son was born my normally non-pushy mother once grabbed him from his dad and said "let me hold him". This irritated my husband and made him feel dismissed. I talked to my mom to make sure it didn't happen again. Missy wouldn't/doesn't. Bryan is clearly dismissed as we've seen so many times.
I also have a husband that works out of town a lot. Do I have my family's help everyday? No. I handle my shit. They would definitely help, but if it ever seemed like I was getting dependent, I know they would call me on it.
Missy isn't the only YT mom crippled by her parents help though. I will at least give her that but when you yourself realize it's problem enough to start hiding them in your videos or act like you repeatedly bump into them, then yeah it's gone a bit far.
Hey though, that's just my opinion.