whys0seri0us wrote:I'm sorry. I'm all for ragging on the bumps. but i think this is one thing that shouldn't be commented on here. you wanna talk about their lack luster parenting or their poor choices when it comes to spending money or how shitty they eat, fine. but to talk shit and speculate about THIS, nah, thats wrong. it's not our place to decide how or when she grieves. not to long ago i saw someone make a post about how they never talk about it and who thats messed up so now she brings it up and yous jump down her throat.
funny enough i came here to talk about how weird bryan is around is family but now it's like pointless.
Agreed. My viewing of their channel falls somewhere between hate watching, morbid curiosity, and a deep-seated need to gawk at how frigging cute Finn is. Somehow I wound up I mostly think they're pretty ridiculous, but don't get quite as rabid as a lot of people here seem to.
Yes, they have expressed a lot of conflicting feelings about this. But that's probably the most authentic emotion I've ever seen from them. It's a complicated thing to have lost a child before you ever got to meet him, I imagine. I don't necessarily agree that it shouldn't be commented on here, but I am also pretty perplexed by the level of vitriol at what seems to be perceived as "the wrong way to grieve." I'm a new viewer (as of early-mid July, I'd say) and haven't watched any of her videos (except for the one about Finn because -- omg socute!) ... but I can absolutely understand how it could be a huge part of why they started vlogging -- only to realize that they kind of wanted to talk about it less after a few years. I can understand how you might feel somewhat at peace one year but more conflicted the next. There's plenty of things about them that I find super duper obnoxious; this just isn't one of them.