HAYLEE AND BABY PART # 3

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staceybrax wrote:I am DYING to know what randy did that’s unforgivable. She seems sadder about the fact she had to move out of the house than she is about the divorce, she kept going on about her home and having to move in with her parents. She is really lucky she has supportive parents to move in with, a lot of single parents don’t have that support and would have to just land on their feet in this situation


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idk. He was ALWAYS on his phone though which irked me. Maybe he did it cause he’s awkward on camera but every damn time?
I wonder if he was cheating. I can only think of that and being abusive. But if he was abusive, I don’t think haylee would let him stay in hazzels life.


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Exactly, theres not many unforgivable thing I can think of that would still allow him to be in hazzel’s still, everything I can think of is violent and obviously haylee wouldn’t let him stay in hazzel’s life if he was violent. But who would he cheat with? Maybe a porn addiction? Emotional cheating online? A gambling addiction?


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Echox3 wrote:
staceybrax wrote:I am DYING to know what randy did that’s unforgivable. She seems sadder about the fact she had to move out of the house than she is about the divorce, she kept going on about her home and having to move in with her parents. She is really lucky she has supportive parents to move in with, a lot of single parents don’t have that support and would have to just land on their feet in this situation


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idk. He was ALWAYS on his phone though which irked me. Maybe he did it cause he’s awkward on camera but every damn time?
I wonder if he was cheating. I can only think of that and being abusive. But if he was abusive, I don’t think haylee would let him stay in hazzels life.


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Exactly, theres not many unforgivable thing I can think of that would still allow him to be in hazzel’s still, everything I can think of is violent and obviously haylee wouldn’t let him stay in hazzel’s life if he was violent. But who would he cheat with? Maybe a porn addiction? Emotional cheating online? A gambling addiction?


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I don’t know why but I immediately thought of porn addiction. I remember a live they did he said something about a hot girl (like an actress or something idr exactly) and she got VERY jealous, possessive and bitchy.

I’m pretty surprised by her post. I don’t check her thread often because nothing ever happens so didn’t see the poster that saw her or the speculation. Interest is def piqued now lol

I do hope Hazzel can process everything okay and can move forward having a good relationship with Randy like Haylee is hoping.


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staceybrax wrote:
Echox3 wrote:idk. He was ALWAYS on his phone though which irked me. Maybe he did it cause he’s awkward on camera but every damn time?
I wonder if he was cheating. I can only think of that and being abusive. But if he was abusive, I don’t think haylee would let him stay in hazzels life.


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Exactly, theres not many unforgivable thing I can think of that would still allow him to be in hazzel’s still, everything I can think of is violent and obviously haylee wouldn’t let him stay in hazzel’s life if he was violent. But who would he cheat with? Maybe a porn addiction? Emotional cheating online? A gambling addiction?


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I don’t know why but I immediately thought of porn addiction. I remember a live they did he said something about a hot girl (like an actress or something idr exactly) and she got VERY jealous, possessive and bitchy.

I’m pretty surprised by her post. I don’t check her thread often because nothing ever happens so didn’t see the poster that saw her or the speculation. Interest is def piqued now lol

I do hope Hazzel can process everything okay and can move forward having a good relationship with Randy like Haylee is hoping.


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Yeah I hope so too, he’s the only father hazzel has ever really known, she wouldn’t remember Albert. I don’t think randy ever legally adopted hazzel did he? Hopefully they can be amicable for hazzel’s sake and let her choose if she wants randy to be in her life because he doesn’t have any legal rights.


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Lucky-one wrote:Whatever happened to Jake? She was spending a lot of time with him for a while there. He was very good looking too lol. I have a feeling things aren’t good with randy and her. She was so young when she married him...


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She was really young and I think she rushed into the marriage. I’ve always thought that she loves the idea of randy more than randy. She loves that he loves hazzel and that he can give her the family unit she craves and stability. But I don’t think she’s ever really been in love with randy and they have never seemed very well suited. I also think that since she’s lost weight she’s probably getting more attention from other men and she likes the validation and maybe she’s starting to think she can do better than randy, let’s be honest he isn’t very attractive. (Pure speculation of course)


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I live in their area and have seen them in public several times. Haylee looks exactly the same in person and Randy looks even more unattractive. I completely agree with her losing weight she may be getting more attention and feeling more loved. I think she rushed things with Randy because she wanted love and father figure for Hazzel.
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heygurlhey wrote:So this guy potentially starts his relationship with her July 11th, he starts his instagram on the same day too and has it public even tho she warned him that people on this site will try to talk to him. And he actually responds to someone messaging him from here.... What are the odds that new user that saw them at the mall is actually dann trying to out their relationship...he seems to like stirring the pot and follows all her social media so I'm sure he is reading here too since he knows about it
Lol I had that thought too. Hi Dann
Or the account is Randy!
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Kjaysmommy999 wrote:Wait a minute. I thought they bought the house? Why do they have 9 days to move out?
They were renting that house. That actually reminds me that that's one of the reasons they gave for why they got married at that time was for some legality so that they would be able to build a house together. I don't remember them ever mentioning it since though.

I think she's the most sad that Hazzel won't have the happy family home with a father figure anymore. Shit happens though and I honestly think she does a great job with the circumstances that life throws her.
Actually Randy owner that house, not Haylee. Also, Haylee never changed her last name when they got married.. fun fact.
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Kjaysmommy999 wrote:Wait a minute. I thought they bought the house? Why do they have 9 days to move out?
They were renting that house. That actually reminds me that that's one of the reasons they gave for why they got married at that time was for some legality so that they would be able to build a house together. I don't remember them ever mentioning it since though.

I think she's the most sad that Hazzel won't have the happy family home with a father figure anymore. Shit happens though and I honestly think she does a great job with the circumstances that life throws her.
Actually Randy owner that house, not Haylee. Also, Haylee never changed her last name when they got married.. fun fact.
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Lolislol26 wrote:
cat77 wrote:
Kjaysmommy999 wrote:Wait a minute. I thought they bought the house? Why do they have 9 days to move out?
They were renting that house. That actually reminds me that that's one of the reasons they gave for why they got married at that time was for some legality so that they would be able to build a house together. I don't remember them ever mentioning it since though.

I think she's the most sad that Hazzel won't have the happy family home with a father figure anymore. Shit happens though and I honestly think she does a great job with the circumstances that life throws her.
Actually Randy owner that house, not Haylee. Also, Haylee never changed her last name when they got married.. fun fact.
how do you know all of this?


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Lolislol26 wrote:
cat77 wrote: They were renting that house. That actually reminds me that that's one of the reasons they gave for why they got married at that time was for some legality so that they would be able to build a house together. I don't remember them ever mentioning it since though.

I think she's the most sad that Hazzel won't have the happy family home with a father figure anymore. Shit happens though and I honestly think she does a great job with the circumstances that life throws her.
Actually Randy owned that house, not Haylee. Also, Haylee never changed her last name when they got married.. fun fact.
how do you know all of this?


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I live near them. Haylee and I went to the same middle school but a different high school. I see them out in public pretty often. I’ve never been a huge fan of videos her but when I read on B&B’s thread about the divorce and her possibly having a new boyfriend I came over to this thread.
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I was wrong, they were renting that house. The address Randy is registered to vote at is actually 45mins to an hour away! I’m pretty sure that’s his families address.
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Randy was never supportive of Haylee. I remember a few videos she made about her anxiety and how it was getting really bad, losing weight, really depressed, etc. In one of the videos she mentioned how she had not cleaned her house in 2 weeks. There was hardly any clean laundry, no clean dishes, etc. Where the hell was Randy when all of this was going on? Why wasn’t he cleaning the house, doing dishes, laundry, cleaning the bathroom, etc. She obviously was really struggling mentally at that time, where was he to support her?! When she was working ON and was exhausted mentally and physically ALL the time, where was he? Where was he when she had mental breakdown after mental breakdown regarding her old job, why didn’t he go out and find a better paying job so she could quit or really cut back on her hours? She’s said that she worked that job and all of the hours because she couldn’t say no and felt bad; we all know how stubborn Haylee is, she CAN say no.
I’m positive he was only with Haylee because he loved/ had a connection to Hazzel. He didn’t care at all about Haylee or else he would have done something about it and he did nothing.
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Lolislol26 wrote:Randy was never supportive of Haylee. I remember a few videos she made about her anxiety and how it was getting really bad, losing weight, really depressed, etc. In one of the videos she mentioned how she had not cleaned her house in 2 weeks. There was hardly any clean laundry, no clean dishes, etc. Where the hell was Randy when all of this was going on? Why wasn’t he cleaning the house, doing dishes, laundry, cleaning the bathroom, etc. She obviously was really struggling mentally at that time, where was he to support her?! When she was working ON and was exhausted mentally and physically ALL the time, where was he? Where was he when she had mental breakdown after mental breakdown regarding her old job, why didn’t he go out and find a better paying job so she could quit or really cut back on her hours? She’s said that she worked that job and all of the hours because she couldn’t say no and felt bad; we all know how stubborn Haylee is, she CAN say no.
I’m positive he was only with Haylee because he loved/ had a connection to Hazzel. He didn’t care at all about Haylee or else he would have done something about it and he did nothing.

I remember that! I remember she also was crying because she fed her family macaroni and cheese for dinner and felt like such a failure. I was like “where the fuck is RANDY? Is he that useless that he can’t make dinner?!”
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Yeah he should have helped more but I think he was also already working over nights during that time? So they weren't often awake at the same time for long which I imagine would be tough on a relationship. I don't know a ton about it but I've heard that always working over nights (and basically becoming nocturnal which is unnatural for humans) can mess with your brain chemistry and affect your behavior.
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cat77 wrote:Yeah he should have helped more but I think he was also already working over nights during that time? So they weren't often awake at the same time for long which I imagine would be tough on a relationship. I don't know a ton about it but I've heard that always working over nights (and basically becoming nocturnal which is unnatural for humans) can mess with your brain chemistry and affect your behavior.
If I remember correctly her working the ON was when they lived in the apartment, before the house and before they even got married. Haylee would come home from work and sleep for 3-4 hours and then wake up to take care of Hazzel. Randy worked during the day at the time, all Randy really had to do with Hazzel was put her to bed if Haylee hadn’t before she went to work. I remember Haylee said the only thing keeping her awake and somewhat functioning was redbull and monster, that was said several times. I also remember she had a complete melt down at work and her boss told her to take a week off for her mental health; I believe that was before they even lived together! Also, I thought Randy working ON was somewhat new.
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Oh, I was talking about during the most breakdown that led to quitting her job. She made it sound like she’s mostly relying on youtube for income now and working less - she was always against that so I wonder if she’s just starting to do so temporarily since she just split from Randy or if she’s planning on permanently doing youtube full time.
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Does anyone follow randy on social media? Im wondering if hes posted anything about all this.

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cat77 wrote:Oh, I was talking about during the most breakdown that led to quitting her job. She made it sound like she’s mostly relying on youtube for income now and working less - she was always against that so I wonder if she’s just starting to do so temporarily since she just split from Randy or if she’s planning on permanently doing youtube full time.
During the breakdown that led her to walk out of her job I believe a vendor upset her. I want to say he called her the C word if I remember correctly? That may have been the video where she broke down about not cleaning the house for 2 weeks and making mac and cheese for dinner. Honestly, I mainly watch her breakdown videos because A. There’s several of them and B. I think she’s boring otherwise and Randy makes me want to pull my hair out. Also, she had been out of work for 3-4 months before she announced it in a video and when she got a new job she only worked 10am-2pm because she would walk Hazzel to and from the bus stop everyday. I just think Randy should have stepped up more as a husband and should have been a better support system for Haylee. She deserves better and so does Hazzel. I think she’s going to start making videos more regularly for the money. She said in her divorce video that she racked up a good amount of debt when she first moved out so she wants to pay all of that off while living with her parents which I think is a great idea considering getting a divorce is expensive too! The thing that bothered me the most about her divorce video other then when she called herself weak was how she kept referring to the basement as unfinished. Whether the basement you’re staying in is finished or not is really the least of your problems at this time. She said that she hopes Randy will still want a relationship with Hazzel but also mentioned that Hazzel and her are sharing a bed. Did she not get to take Hazzel’s bedroom furniture?!
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I can understand why she is emphasizing that the basement is unfinished. In this time of transition and uncertainty, she probably wants a constant in her life to cling to, and the comforts of home, and she's not getting them. An unfinished basement is a symbol of something temporary, and after confronting her hardships, at the end of the day she has to come "home" to something that will never feel like a home. Hopefully she can get her own place soon. I would not want to go from a four-bedroom house that was my own and then to an unfinished basement in my parents' house all while going through a divorce.
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