Sapphire's 18 Personalities~
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Awww, thanks for answering. Didn't expect so much of what I knew beforehand to be true. Just goes to show in a skewed kinda way, you've been quite honest this whole time.
Glad you're getting help for all this stuff. It's... heavy. Wow. And I do wish you all the best through your therapy and a healthy pregnancy!
Glad you're getting help for all this stuff. It's... heavy. Wow. And I do wish you all the best through your therapy and a healthy pregnancy!
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After faking a conversation and lying about that, it's definitely understandable that people would question everything I have said. I don't know if I'm going to say is going to make much sense, but it's easier to lie about a conversation I had than it is to lie about awful things. It's one thing to lie about having a conversation with a YouTuber. It's an entirely different thing to lie about losing children.maplecross wrote:Awww, thanks for answering. Didn't expect so much of what I knew beforehand to be true. Just goes to show in a skewed kinda way, you've been quite honest this whole time.
Glad you're getting help for all this stuff. It's... heavy. Wow. And I do wish you all the best through your therapy and a healthy pregnancy!
I have lied about not having family. My partner is family yes, but he's just one person. I don't have my children and I don't have my parents. Besides my partner, there is nobody.
I could easily prove that I have had a stillbirth. With just one picture. But while that is triggering, I also don't want a personal picture of my baby out on the internet. People could take that, edit it, etc. Not that I think anybody here would do that but still. A picture of a pregnancy test and a few documents proving a pregnancy is much different than showing a still baby.
I'm just really hoping for a healthy pregnancy. I do have a health issue though. But I had that issue even when I was pregnant with my first. I don't just have a health concern to be worried about. I lost my first because of the umbilical cord and I'm going to be paranoid about that until I finally have him/her in my arms.
Anyways, sorry for the novel but thank you for asking and thank you for the well wishes, it means a lot.
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Sapphire, are you getting seen by a high risk Doctor?? I hope so! It's a good thing you're getting help. What's your EDD so I can kind of put it in the back of my head to try and remember. I was way off on where cgl is in her pregnancy lol.
Anywho... Happy, healthy thoughts for you and your baby. Also, so strength in your relationship with your partner.
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Anywho... Happy, healthy thoughts for you and your baby. Also, so strength in your relationship with your partner.
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Yes, I am!PostyMcPosterston wrote:Sapphire, are you getting seen by a high risk Doctor?? I hope so! It's a good thing you're getting help. What's your EDD so I can kind of put it in the back of my head to try and remember. I was way off on where cgl is in her pregnancy lol.
Anywho... Happy, healthy thoughts for you and your baby. Also, so strength in your relationship with your partner.
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I actually had my first ultrasound today and I'm measuring at almost 11 weeks and my due date is November 16th. The baby looked good.
Thank you so much for the happy and healthy thoughts, it means a lot!
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My first sons due date was 11/16! He came on 11/25... JERK. but he was the best baby ever.SapphireIn2016 wrote:Yes, I am!PostyMcPosterston wrote:Sapphire, are you getting seen by a high risk Doctor?? I hope so! It's a good thing you're getting help. What's your EDD so I can kind of put it in the back of my head to try and remember. I was way off on where cgl is in her pregnancy lol.
Anywho... Happy, healthy thoughts for you and your baby. Also, so strength in your relationship with your partner.
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I actually had my first ultrasound today and I'm measuring at almost 11 weeks and my due date is November 16th. The baby looked good.
Thank you so much for the happy and healthy thoughts, it means a lot!
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Those late babies are evil, lol. My daughter was due September 4, and came the 17th! And we were having a heat wave. I was very crabby and miserable those last two weeks. Hoping all goes beautifully for you, Sapphire!PostyMcPosterston wrote:My first sons due date was 11/16! He came on 11/25... JERK. but he was the best baby ever.SapphireIn2016 wrote:Yes, I am!PostyMcPosterston wrote:Sapphire, are you getting seen by a high risk Doctor?? I hope so! It's a good thing you're getting help. What's your EDD so I can kind of put it in the back of my head to try and remember. I was way off on where cgl is in her pregnancy lol.
Anywho... Happy, healthy thoughts for you and your baby. Also, so strength in your relationship with your partner.
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I actually had my first ultrasound today and I'm measuring at almost 11 weeks and my due date is November 16th. The baby looked good.
Thank you so much for the happy and healthy thoughts, it means a lot!
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NO! Oh god, I can barely handle ANY heat, lol! The summers where I am are completely insane. It's the humidity here that makes it disgusting. I could NOT handle being in late pregnancy in the summer here. I would probably die. Plus I have heat strokes so no thanks! Glad I'm due in colder season.
I'm so sorry that you went through a heat wave WHILE being heavily pregnant! That sounds awful! Lol!
And thank you! So far, everything's awesome and I could not be any happier.
I'm so sorry that you went through a heat wave WHILE being heavily pregnant! That sounds awful! Lol!
And thank you! So far, everything's awesome and I could not be any happier.
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I have no issue with Sapphire, just wanting to chime in on pregnancy and heatwaves...
I had my son in June 2015 (BRB crying about how he will be 1 next month LOL) and from the beginning of May until I had him in mid-June, it was horrendously hot. I went to a wedding, a birthday party, and a graduation party in a month and a half span and felt like I wanted to die between the heat and my SPD/PGP (think of that as two people pulling your legs apart for roughly 5 months). My husband wants to TTC #2 after my birthday in August and all I'm thinking is "I'm totally gonna end up with a summer baby again or a fall baby" LOL. I have my heart set on a spring baby but I don't think he'll want to conceive starting next month haha!
I had my son in June 2015 (BRB crying about how he will be 1 next month LOL) and from the beginning of May until I had him in mid-June, it was horrendously hot. I went to a wedding, a birthday party, and a graduation party in a month and a half span and felt like I wanted to die between the heat and my SPD/PGP (think of that as two people pulling your legs apart for roughly 5 months). My husband wants to TTC #2 after my birthday in August and all I'm thinking is "I'm totally gonna end up with a summer baby again or a fall baby" LOL. I have my heart set on a spring baby but I don't think he'll want to conceive starting next month haha!
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Brought the convo here as Hellosweetie suggested.
Sapph, I really like how I feel I know you and I hope you read this as a friend.
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Yes it's changed (though I still enjoy lurking) but how people argue on that thread has always made you twitchy:
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Complaints about the thread are absolutely legitimate, Sapph. I mean, I was shocked the day it got locked by the mods for the first time since I joined! (Wow, yeah...)
But when it's you... people think it's not "an okay thread becoming worse" complaint. It's "I've always hated the way people on this thread talk about B&M, especially when they're not even as bad as [insert]" complaint.
Which is a fair belief to have, sure, (and I agree with some of it!) but that's why people push back against your thoughts (even when they are true now).
It'd be great if you came in to chat about what you saw in the vlogs and steer the convo away from the stuff that's tired. (Like theirmom rejuvenated the convo a month or so ago.)
I also miss the veteran posters (though, again, I still enjoy lurking). I wonder if older posters can drown out the newer posters and thus change the tone of the thread.
Like Gandhi said (did he really say it, the Internet lies): Be the poster you want to see in the Daily Bumps thread.
Sapph, I really like how I feel I know you and I hope you read this as a friend.
I love your contributions on the E&J thread. But the DB thread has always been a trigger for you. It's bothered you in particular enough to go off on the posters in the past:SapphireIn2016 wrote:I'm not sure why when another more '' popular '' veteran poster tells people to chill out, it's okay but when I do it, it's not. I'm not the only one who's frankly annoyed.
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Yes it's changed (though I still enjoy lurking) but how people argue on that thread has always made you twitchy:
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Complaints about the thread are absolutely legitimate, Sapph. I mean, I was shocked the day it got locked by the mods for the first time since I joined! (Wow, yeah...)
But when it's you... people think it's not "an okay thread becoming worse" complaint. It's "I've always hated the way people on this thread talk about B&M, especially when they're not even as bad as [insert]" complaint.
Which is a fair belief to have, sure, (and I agree with some of it!) but that's why people push back against your thoughts (even when they are true now).
This is going to shock but I'm going to ask you to post more! When you have the time, of course. You know Alym who seems to only posts on the E&J thread to defend them on things "because calling them out would be "repetitive" "? I believe you and I both hate that. It's frustrating when someone lurks the thread, doesn't build a rapport with the other posters, then comes out only to disagree. Things end up sounding passive aggressive when they do speak up, even if their points are valid.SapphireIn2016 wrote:And as far as taking a step back, I have. I barely post. It's not like I'm spending much time here. But when I do lurk the DB thread and all I'm reading is insanity and ridiculousness, yeah, I'm going to say something.
It'd be great if you came in to chat about what you saw in the vlogs and steer the convo away from the stuff that's tired. (Like theirmom rejuvenated the convo a month or so ago.)
I also miss the veteran posters (though, again, I still enjoy lurking). I wonder if older posters can drown out the newer posters and thus change the tone of the thread.
Like Gandhi said (did he really say it, the Internet lies): Be the poster you want to see in the Daily Bumps thread.
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Maplecross, I love the way you expressed all of that and I thank you!
I totally see your point. I stopped posting about them and only came in to seem as though I'm defending them, which I'm not but I can see how it would be interpreted that way. When I don't post or give insight and only come in to tell people to chill, it wouldn't be taken too very well.
And about being the poster I want to see, what a good quote. And you're absolutely right.
I get really annoyed by Alym's post when it seems like she only comes in to defend them but I was unknowingly kind of doing the same thing but in the DB thread. So, yeah. I got it completely.
It doesn't help that I can be... abrasive and fairly blunt and harsh seemingly which makes me come off as a bitch who doesn't care but I do. I don't want to insult anyone.
Thank you maplecross. You were very polite but got your point across and I understand it. Thank you!
I totally see your point. I stopped posting about them and only came in to seem as though I'm defending them, which I'm not but I can see how it would be interpreted that way. When I don't post or give insight and only come in to tell people to chill, it wouldn't be taken too very well.
And about being the poster I want to see, what a good quote. And you're absolutely right.
I get really annoyed by Alym's post when it seems like she only comes in to defend them but I was unknowingly kind of doing the same thing but in the DB thread. So, yeah. I got it completely.
It doesn't help that I can be... abrasive and fairly blunt and harsh seemingly which makes me come off as a bitch who doesn't care but I do. I don't want to insult anyone.
Thank you maplecross. You were very polite but got your point across and I understand it. Thank you!
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Okaaaay.Kryptonite wrote:The bottom line is this: veteran members who are telling people to calm down usually have the go ahead from moderators. Those are users we trust and don't mind stepping in for us when needed. I want to be frank with you, Sapphire.
You have previously been controversial so you need to simply accept that no matter what you do here will be side eyed. You have to rebuild your reputation here before people will begin to take direction from you, or even take you seriously. Does this mean you're in the wrong? Not always. But that's just how it is for now, no use in arguing about it.
I agree with Maple Cross so I don't feel the need to repeat what she's already said.
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I'm going to be honest Sapphire. You're lucky that Kryptonite and HelloSweetie have stuck up for you so much. The rest of us are nice out of respect for them. You'd better learn your place after how you treated people here before. We haven't forgotten and you are not yet forgiven.
Sorry it had to be said.
Sorry it had to be said.
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I don't have any back up accounts.Kryptonite wrote:Honestly, she would have been banned a long time ago but I know she'll continue to create account after account so I am giving her the benefit of the doubt. So far she's been doing okay...
I'd rather her stay on one account where we can control it. I am sure she still has backup accounts but at least we can identify her on this one.
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Dang, I would not be speaking to a mod that way when they've defended your presence here... Help yourself out, girl. o___oSapphireIn2016 wrote:Okaaaay.Kryptonite wrote:The bottom line is this: veteran members who are telling people to calm down usually have the go ahead from moderators. Those are users we trust and don't mind stepping in for us when needed. I want to be frank with you, Sapphire.
You have previously been controversial so you need to simply accept that no matter what you do here will be side eyed. You have to rebuild your reputation here before people will begin to take direction from you, or even take you seriously. Does this mean you're in the wrong? Not always. But that's just how it is for now, no use in arguing about it.
I agree with Maple Cross so I don't feel the need to repeat what she's already said.
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Okay, no.
Since it's been made clear over and over and over by mod's and other users that I'm very clearly hated and unwanted, I'm done here. I'm not going to stay around when I'm only going to be picked apart.
Despite my efforts, it's clear nothing I ever do is going to be good enough so really, what the fuck is the point in even bothering with anything anymore. I'm done. I'm officially right back down, I won't post anymore. Leave me alone.
Since it's been made clear over and over and over by mod's and other users that I'm very clearly hated and unwanted, I'm done here. I'm not going to stay around when I'm only going to be picked apart.
Despite my efforts, it's clear nothing I ever do is going to be good enough so really, what the fuck is the point in even bothering with anything anymore. I'm done. I'm officially right back down, I won't post anymore. Leave me alone.
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I think then opposite has been made clear. Even though you don't deserve it, people have stood up for you and worried about you and supported you.SapphireIn2016 wrote:Okay, no.
Since it's been made clear over and over and over by mod's and other users that I'm very clearly hated and unwanted, I'm done here. I'm not going to stay around when I'm only going to be picked apart.
Despite my efforts, it's clear nothing I ever do is going to be good enough so really, what the fuck is the point in even bothering with anything anymore. I'm done. I'm officially right back down, I won't post anymore. Leave me alone.
But enjoy your tantrum, and good luck trying to make everyone but yourself look like the villain.
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[quote="SapphireIn2016".[/quote]
I have had a stillbirth and I have had a miscarriage. .[/quote]
Ok,I post VERY rarely but had to say something here as I've been following the Sapphire posts and trying to give her the benefit of a doubt.
Ok, Sapphire, you say above you've had a stillbirth and a miscarriage and also that you're pregnant now.
Your medical papers state otherwise. G2, para 1, means you've had two pregnancies and para 1 means one delivery. Gravida (G) is as it looks, how many times you've been "gravid"/pregnant, no matter the outcome, so this includes prior pregnancies with miscarriages, current pregnancies, etc.
In other words, your papers should say G3, para 1. Either the doctor is mistaken or something isn't adding up. Just had to say this...
I have had a stillbirth and I have had a miscarriage. .[/quote]
Ok,I post VERY rarely but had to say something here as I've been following the Sapphire posts and trying to give her the benefit of a doubt.
Ok, Sapphire, you say above you've had a stillbirth and a miscarriage and also that you're pregnant now.
Your medical papers state otherwise. G2, para 1, means you've had two pregnancies and para 1 means one delivery. Gravida (G) is as it looks, how many times you've been "gravid"/pregnant, no matter the outcome, so this includes prior pregnancies with miscarriages, current pregnancies, etc.
In other words, your papers should say G3, para 1. Either the doctor is mistaken or something isn't adding up. Just had to say this...
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I was going to suggest the miscarriage was early a and perhaps more something she went through without medical confirmation, but reading old posts stated that both were dealt with medically.
That said she has proven she is pregnant now and stated that she suffers with mental illness so Sapphire try to stay calm
for the health of your unborn child who will mean so much more to you than YTMD
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That said she has proven she is pregnant now and stated that she suffers with mental illness so Sapphire try to stay calm
for the health of your unborn child who will mean so much more to you than YTMD
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I see no point in bringing up Saph's past posts in this current discussion. This discussion is about her current behavior and I think relatively new users bringing in her past on this site is just going to make things worse.
For her and Baby Saph.
For her and Baby Saph.