alym0326 wrote:Motheringthem wrote:Ha ha ha. I actually adore HelloSweetie and haven't been annoyed by her at all. I find it crazy that some of you are complaining about things she does, yet you're guilty of the same things. Lol, okay. Crawl back inside the hole you came out of, hypocrite.
But am I ever glad this has been created because my one issue is with one user Alym, who actually does constantly disagree and makes it known that she disagrees with HS. She quotes her posts, literally tries to push her buttons and I can see this very clearly. She's constantly in the E+J threads defending Ellie on the regular. I don't even know why she's here because she disagrees with everyone who doesn't praise Ellie. But she's mostly targeted HS. I can see her trying to pick arguments. She will actually argue until HS says ''I won't argue with you'' and then she's all like ''yeah, no arguing!'' even though she was just doing that.
I find it unbelievable that some of you have targeted HS when she's not even the annoying 24/7 poster, the crazy vlogger lover (Alym), that user who needs a fucking therapist, that user who loves arguing with other users, that personal story advocate user, that ''pity me'' user, that ''my child does this and yours doesn't so he has issues!'' user, that user who likes to diagnose... etc.
She states her opinions. She can be sassy when a user (*cough*alym*cough) pushes her buttons and craves an argument but we ALL can/will get sassy when someone is ticking us off. Same goes for alym, if she feels ticked off by someone, go ahead and get sassy but don't moan and complain when someone does the same.
Shocked that this even exists because I think HS is one of the sweetest, most valuable users. It'd be a real damn shame if she left, in my opinion.
And alym, this boxing thread was named HelloSweetie, when you liked it. Did you really think nobody would notice? Stop trying to make yourself look like a damn angel.
Uh, I usually don't even look at who posted what - I definitely don't search out HS and only comment on things she's done - also, I've never tried to push HS's buttons, I've even asked a mod to go look through my posts and to tell me if I'm being argumentative because it's not my intention - ask Kryptonite if you want and please go look through the e and j thread again and tell me if anything I've said the last two days is praising them. You seriously must miss every post where I say that I AGREE WITH MOST OF WHAT IS SAID and only comment when there's something I disagree with that's said - i don't know how many times I have to say that for you to understand. And uh, I've been the first to say agree to disagree many times when discussing things. I comment when I disagree with something I don't search out HS's comments to disagree with - If I was so into looking for an argument I would have done what Kryptonite told me to do yesterday which was to create this exact thread - but I didn't because I told her I'm not on this site to argue - just because your interpreting my words as "sassy" doesn't mean that's my meaning behind them. Yesterday I'll admit I was being sassy but most of my other posts are NOT meant to be argumentative - I usually freaking start it with I respectfully disagree and state my reasoning on why - I've never attacked someone for their opinion. HS has been rude to me many times in her responses whenever I say ANYTHING negative about Bonnie - even when it's something that's justified in getting hate like letting your 2 year old son outside with no supervision or letting him play with scissors unsupervised. I've never intentionally been rude though.
Also when have I complained over someone gets sassy with me....... I've never complained or gone to a MOD over my dislike for a poster and I'm sure Kryptonite could confirm that.
Also just because I liked a post from however many hours ago doesn't mean I liked it when it was posted. for your damn information I liked it today at around 5pm when I made my own post after going through and reading all the posts before mine - thank you for the assumption though. I wish there was a way to show when a damn post was liked.
Anyways I'm over this thread - my problem isn't solely with HS like I said in my original thread.
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You quote her posts and always, always start with ''I disagree...'' It's okay to constantly disagree with a user, sure but when you constantly quote their posts and state why you think they are wrong or ''out of line'' it gets really annoying. I don't even understand why you are on a gossip site because you disagree with everyone who basically insults, criticizes, complains about Ellie.
I remember one situation VERY clearly from just a few days ago.
HelloSweetie said: Did anyone else notice in yesterday's vlog that Jared and Joel were eating their sloppy joe's on napkins and not plates? I get that Ellie likes the dishes done after lunch and probably would have had a fit if she came home to dishes in the sink, but can't Jared use a couple plates when he has company?
Alym, you said: I don't see why Jared choosing to use napkins instead of dishes is Ellie's fault? Jareds a grown man. He can make his own choices of dinnerware - they use dishes after lunch all the time...? Pretty much daily? I just don't see why Ellie is getting faulted for Jareds choice of using napkins instead of plates - I've never heard her complain about coming home to dishes or her telling Jared not to use dishes after lunch...
I see that as more of a Jared problem and less of an Ellie problem considering Ellie had nothing to do with it?
HelloSweetie said: Obviously Jared could have used a couple plates and washed them before Ellie came home. He has hands. I wasn't blaming Ellie for that one, just pointing out she is the one that always has the dishes done because they have traditional gender roles (as they have said). I just think making a guest eat sloppy joe's (of all things) on a napkin is poor hospitality.
But hey, that's just my opinion. I'm not going to argue about this.
You said: I'm not arguing but your first post seemed to be blaming Ellie because you said "I get that Ellie likes the dishes done after lunch and probably would have had a fit if she came home to dishes in the sink, but can't Jared use a couple plates when he has company?". To me that just seemed a lot like blaming Ellie for it.
I agree that sloppy joes should be used with plates and Jared should be the one faulted for poor hospitality - not Ellie considering she's never really complained about dishes being an issue lol. No arguing though, your opinion is your opinion.
I could be wrong and others may not agree with me, but that is argumentative. HelloSweetie clarified what she meant but you didn't/wouldn't drop it. I've seen circumstances like this quite a few times.
May I just add, that after seeing the posts,
I said: Holy crap, just drop it (a few people liked that post so I'm only assuming that others agreed with the just drop it, rather than carrying on and on.
Then, you said: Woah, there were a few comments made... I'm not sure why you're acting all annoyed as if it were pages of napkin discussion.
And again, you said: I apologize for the double post but I just went back to look and see if I missed the discussion about the napkins, and I noticed that I didn't and that there is a total of 6 comments about it. We can have pages of talk about rocks, but 6 comments about something else is unacceptable? If you aren't interested in the conversation you don't have to participate - But I don't think it's fair to tell other uses to stop the discussion if there have only been a few comments made... We are allowed to comment and make our point within 2-3 comments... no one has exceeded that with this discussion.
My point, was you wouldn't just drop it. You commented again criticizing HelloSweetie's post even though she clarified what she said. Even after she clarified, you posted again arguing with her and then you cover up with ''yeah, no arguing''. It always takes HelloSweetie to say ''I'm not going to argue with you'' before you agree with that, even though you continue to complain about her post because you interpreted it a different way. It doesn't matter what you think her post meant, she clarified what she meant in a polite manner in my opinion.
So, in my opinion. You are argumentative. You have been argumentative especially with HelloSweetie.
You wondered why I was annoyed as ''if there was pages of discussions'' about it, however there doesn't need to be pages of it, all it takes is a few posts from you disagreeing with how/what HS posted. You could have just dropped it when she clarified, you didn't. I told you to drop it instead of quoting her disagreeing and arguing even though she clarified.
Then you made a long post about how you don't think it's fair I told you to stop. It was fair, because you didn't stop. You still, even after clarification, argued with HS. You still decided to quote her, saying you interpreted her message in a different way than intended, with ''To me, it just seemed like a lot of blaming Ellie for it''. Even though she clarified.
I find you fairly argumentative and I've grown increasingly annoyed when seeing your posts whether you are disagreeing with someone (mainly HS) which you always seem to and you defending Ellie.
PS: To Kryptonite, if you want the actual page where this discussion took place, it was: Re: E+J: Calvin the 6-month-old newborn Part 7 page 38.