honeybear wrote:I don't care how "in love" you are. You do NOT know someone after three months. You are still in the honeymoon phase! How can she in her right mind get a loan with someone she barely knows?
In the beginning of my relationship with my husband, we planned a trip together after we had been dating for about three months. The trip was planned about three months in advance. I was really worried that we had planned the trip as far out as our relationship had been so far, because who knows what could happen in that time span? Now Britney is planning a house to be finished six/seven months out, twice the amount of time she has been in a relationship! A lot can change when a relationship is new. The honeymoon phase can even last well over a year. I also thought "When you know, you know" at the beginning of my relationship, and my relationship has been successful for over 8 years, but at the beginning I really did not anticipate all we would go through together. It's a gamble at that stage whether or not you can endure certain changes, no matter how much you love the person. Love doesn't determine how successful a relationship would be. There are times I thought about ending the relationship because of how much I loved him! (thinking he didn't deserve me, etc.).