Playsinrain wrote:No i found it just as entitled. It really sits badly with me. I feel like a nice print of a fox with something about the room being in memory of Maeve would be more than sufficient. It's really not something i would want to see while i pumped, and it gives off that same vibe to me as her post about the mother that lost her older child, "be thankful you had him/her for so long" . Too me it reads as "you better be thankful for your baby bc look mine is dead, see my dead baby? Shes dead..." It's really hard for me to feel insensitive for someone in Joan's shoes, and in my heart i do feel horribly for her.. but the way she acts as if she's the only mother in the world that has lost a child and that EVERYONE should know that she's lost a child just doesn't sit well with me. Like how she will work maeve's death into any conversation. It's just not ok to me. But then again, i have never been in her situation, so i also feel not ok about judging her as well.TheOneWhoBlogs wrote:Am i the only one who found that entire explanation very..Entitled? I Mean,i understand,she lost her child.but it isnt fair for people to have to stare at a picture of a dead kid while they pump.that's sick.MommaLindsey2 wrote:Let me get this straight. The moms pumping at her work had to sit and stare at a picture of a dead baby while they pump milk for their babies? .
Also I'm glad that Joan's scan went well I hope she continues to have a healthy pregnancy.
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As someone who's a loss mom,I do not go around showing photos of my daughter to ANYONE,They do not see the light of day.They are for ME and my family,and i'd have to be forced at gunpoint to put a picture of her in my work place.