Yes indeed. Nia presents herself, always, as the SUPER BUSY mama of THREE. It's offensive, if you ask me. She lives a comparative life of leisure for god's sake. She doesn't do what I would consider the bare minimum to keep up her household. And the "cooking". A couple of days ago she filmed making a typical Rader dinner. She opened a can of turkey chili, making a big deal about topping it with "healthy chips, not fritos), spooned it into disposable plastic bowls (while bitching about haters calling her out on using paper plates...but don't you know? They are soooo BUSY!), covered it with cheese and called it dinner. And the fanbasic said "oooh! that looked so good! Can we have the recipe? Nia, you need to have a cooking channel". SMH.
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Yes! It drives me insane how they let the kids act inside the homes. And Abram will be 6 in September so I guess he will be able to watch her home alone before long! (Radar logic)Liz_444 wrote: ↑Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:11 pm I can't believe the way they treat the homes they are walking through! You don't let your kids run around the house and let them play with the home owners toys. Believe it or not, Sam......the playhouse in the backyard was not put there so your kids can play on it. You also don't open the door to let your 2 and 4 year old out into the backyard and tell your 4 year old to watch his sister. OMG, do they have any sense at all?????????????
Nia, you can stop acting for the camera. Nobody cares to see you walking around your house talking to the camera like you are talking to an audience. You look like an imbecile.
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I'm also wondering about the ethics of the realtor here. Little kids should not be allowed to run roughshod over a property that is for sale or use toys/play equipment. Also, wonder if the owners of these houses have to sign a release to have their property filmed and posted on YT.KaterTot wrote: ↑Mon Mar 11, 2019 11:03 pmYes! It drives me insane how they let the kids act inside the homes. And Abram will be 6 in September so I guess he will be able to watch her home alone before long! (Radar logic)Liz_444 wrote: ↑Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:11 pm I can't believe the way they treat the homes they are walking through! You don't let your kids run around the house and let them play with the home owners toys. Believe it or not, Sam......the playhouse in the backyard was not put there so your kids can play on it. You also don't open the door to let your 2 and 4 year old out into the backyard and tell your 4 year old to watch his sister. OMG, do they have any sense at all?????????????
Nia, you can stop acting for the camera. Nobody cares to see you walking around your house talking to the camera like you are talking to an audience. You look like an imbecile.
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My phone keeps changing Rader to Radar. I do know how their last name is spelled.
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Where has Sam's sister been? She hasn't posted anything on IG since November and even then it was an old photo because her face looked normal, symphony looked younger. Also, why no mention of aunt Stephanie?
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JLPC wrote: ↑Mon Mar 11, 2019 11:15 pmYes, if I were a homeowner, I would be reporting the realtor to the board. It also shows that Sam and Nia are just so inconsiderate, kids running and playing in someone elses house, and with their toys, rude. Plus them shoving the camera in everyone's face all the time.....they basically don't care about anyone, but themselves.KaterTot wrote: ↑Mon Mar 11, 2019 11:03 pmYes! It drives me insane how they let the kids act inside the homes. And Abram will be 6 in September so I guess he will be able to watch her home alone before long! (Radar logic)Liz_444 wrote: ↑Mon Mar 11, 2019 7:11 pm I can't believe the way they treat the homes they are walking through! You don't let your kids run around the house and let them play with the home owners toys. Believe it or not, Sam......the playhouse in the backyard was not put there so your kids can play on it. You also don't open the door to let your 2 and 4 year old out into the backyard and tell your 4 year old to watch his sister. OMG, do they have any sense at all?????????????
Nia, you can stop acting for the camera. Nobody cares to see you walking around your house talking to the camera like you are talking to an audience. You look like an imbecile.
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A few kind of random thoughts...
Someone mentioned here about a week ago that Bebo was head of the household growing up. I can't confirm this as I don't watch enough- but I sort of get this sense as well. I was doing some thinking as to why Nia chooses to be in a relationship where she is considered the lesser half and under her husband- and I think its due to her experience growing up with Bebo. She watched Bebo have to shoulder everything and she feels terrified if she is in a healthy marriage where she is considered an equal that she could end up in that same position. (Ironically what she doesn't see is she IS shouldering most of the life stress in the marriage shes in.)
The thing is- I don't even have a problem necessarily with Nia wanting a more old fashioned marriage- but that does not work with someone as personality disordered as Sam! In 2019 it doesn't work for many people- but it especially doesn't work with an out of control narcissist.
I think Nia desperately wants that cool and collected, wise, mature decision maker of a husband- and she doesn't have that so she's clinging to the idea of patriarchy in her closest attempt to get that. What she doesn't realize or refuses to admit if you can't put lipstick on a pig. What she is craving, due to her irrational childhood philosophies, is not possible with Sam.
Nia needs to go to therapy to deal with her childhood issues and her fear of ending up with too much of the burden of life and then deal with it in a healthy way. Although admittedly that might include leaving Sam's ass on the curb.... which she will never do. Maybe she would if he had another huge cheating scandal...
Another random thought. I am SHOCKED they only have 3 kids so far. I figured between trying to be the perfect Christian family and the vlogging that they would go for more like 5 kids. Do you think they're done? Or another kid is coming eventually? Hopefully not - but I would be shocked if they stop at 3!
Someone mentioned here about a week ago that Bebo was head of the household growing up. I can't confirm this as I don't watch enough- but I sort of get this sense as well. I was doing some thinking as to why Nia chooses to be in a relationship where she is considered the lesser half and under her husband- and I think its due to her experience growing up with Bebo. She watched Bebo have to shoulder everything and she feels terrified if she is in a healthy marriage where she is considered an equal that she could end up in that same position. (Ironically what she doesn't see is she IS shouldering most of the life stress in the marriage shes in.)
The thing is- I don't even have a problem necessarily with Nia wanting a more old fashioned marriage- but that does not work with someone as personality disordered as Sam! In 2019 it doesn't work for many people- but it especially doesn't work with an out of control narcissist.
I think Nia desperately wants that cool and collected, wise, mature decision maker of a husband- and she doesn't have that so she's clinging to the idea of patriarchy in her closest attempt to get that. What she doesn't realize or refuses to admit if you can't put lipstick on a pig. What she is craving, due to her irrational childhood philosophies, is not possible with Sam.
Nia needs to go to therapy to deal with her childhood issues and her fear of ending up with too much of the burden of life and then deal with it in a healthy way. Although admittedly that might include leaving Sam's ass on the curb.... which she will never do. Maybe she would if he had another huge cheating scandal...
Another random thought. I am SHOCKED they only have 3 kids so far. I figured between trying to be the perfect Christian family and the vlogging that they would go for more like 5 kids. Do you think they're done? Or another kid is coming eventually? Hopefully not - but I would be shocked if they stop at 3!
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I am in complete agreement with these thoughts. As for more children, Nia has had 3 c-sections; maybe that's a factor. Also it may be that there is no longer an intimate relationship there. I hope for everyone's sake that there will be no more babies. Nia seems so brittle and forced lately. If she is indeed "acting" it has to be exhausting.skyblueandblack wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2019 12:24 pm A few kind of random thoughts...
Someone mentioned here about a week ago that Bebo was head of the household growing up. I can't confirm this as I don't watch enough- but I sort of get this sense as well. I was doing some thinking as to why Nia chooses to be in a relationship where she is considered the lesser half and under her husband- and I think its due to her experience growing up with Bebo. She watched Bebo have to shoulder everything and she feels terrified if she is in a healthy marriage where she is considered an equal that she could end up in that same position. (Ironically what she doesn't see is she IS shouldering most of the life stress in the marriage shes in.)
The thing is- I don't even have a problem necessarily with Nia wanting a more old fashioned marriage- but that does not work with someone as personality disordered as Sam! In 2019 it doesn't work for many people- but it especially doesn't work with an out of control narcissist.
I think Nia desperately wants that cool and collected, wise, mature decision maker of a husband- and she doesn't have that so she's clinging to the idea of patriarchy in her closest attempt to get that. What she doesn't realize or refuses to admit if you can't put lipstick on a pig. What she is craving, due to her irrational childhood philosophies, is not possible with Sam.
Nia needs to go to therapy to deal with her childhood issues and her fear of ending up with too much of the burden of life and then deal with it in a healthy way. Although admittedly that might include leaving Sam's ass on the curb.... which she will never do. Maybe she would if he had another huge cheating scandal...
Another random thought. I am SHOCKED they only have 3 kids so far. I figured between trying to be the perfect Christian family and the vlogging that they would go for more like 5 kids. Do you think they're done? Or another kid is coming eventually? Hopefully not - but I would be shocked if they stop at 3!
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I had never thought about it this way, but I think you have hit the nail on the head. She probably grew up seeing Bebo in charge and then the subsequent separation of her parents and thought maybe if I do the exact opposite in my marriage it will work out. Nia is desperate for her marriage to last, and so I can totally see her taking on subservient roles where Sam doesn't feel challenged at all in an effort to appease him.skyblueandblack wrote: ↑Tue Mar 12, 2019 12:24 pm A few kind of random thoughts...
Someone mentioned here about a week ago that Bebo was head of the household growing up. I can't confirm this as I don't watch enough- but I sort of get this sense as well. I was doing some thinking as to why Nia chooses to be in a relationship where she is considered the lesser half and under her husband- and I think its due to her experience growing up with Bebo. She watched Bebo have to shoulder everything and she feels terrified if she is in a healthy marriage where she is considered an equal that she could end up in that same position. (Ironically what she doesn't see is she IS shouldering most of the life stress in the marriage shes in.)
The thing is- I don't even have a problem necessarily with Nia wanting a more old fashioned marriage- but that does not work with someone as personality disordered as Sam! In 2019 it doesn't work for many people- but it especially doesn't work with an out of control narcissist.
I think Nia desperately wants that cool and collected, wise, mature decision maker of a husband- and she doesn't have that so she's clinging to the idea of patriarchy in her closest attempt to get that. What she doesn't realize or refuses to admit if you can't put lipstick on a pig. What she is craving, due to her irrational childhood philosophies, is not possible with Sam.
Nia needs to go to therapy to deal with her childhood issues and her fear of ending up with too much of the burden of life and then deal with it in a healthy way. Although admittedly that might include leaving Sam's ass on the curb.... which she will never do. Maybe she would if he had another huge cheating scandal...
Another random thought. I am SHOCKED they only have 3 kids so far. I figured between trying to be the perfect Christian family and the vlogging that they would go for more like 5 kids. Do you think they're done? Or another kid is coming eventually? Hopefully not - but I would be shocked if they stop at 3!
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I like your theory about her crazy thoughts on her marriage.
As for more kids: Sam has been very clear that he wants more. He was saying he wanted a fourth when Juliette was like 4 months old. Nia seemed to say Jules was their last. She has had 3 c-sections and generally, that's the limit for most doctors. Lately though, it's been sounding like she is considering more. If that is the case I hope she talks to her doctors about the risk of a fourth pregnancy/c-section.
Kind of off topic: I just remembered Nia's justification video for her scheduled c-section. She called natural birth a "fad." That was a hot mess. The adultery and miscarriage were still very fresh. It was uncomfortable to say the least, and now I must go rewatch it.
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As for more kids: Sam has been very clear that he wants more. He was saying he wanted a fourth when Juliette was like 4 months old. Nia seemed to say Jules was their last. She has had 3 c-sections and generally, that's the limit for most doctors. Lately though, it's been sounding like she is considering more. If that is the case I hope she talks to her doctors about the risk of a fourth pregnancy/c-section.
Kind of off topic: I just remembered Nia's justification video for her scheduled c-section. She called natural birth a "fad." That was a hot mess. The adultery and miscarriage were still very fresh. It was uncomfortable to say the least, and now I must go rewatch it.
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I'm newish. Who's Bebo?
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Bebo is Nia's mom.Avocado[31] wrote:I'm newish. Who's Bebo?
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Shes actually Nia's maternal grandmother. Nia's mom died (?) when she was really young, and Bebo basically raised Nia. So she is essentially Nia's mom.
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It seems like alot of the Rader family has been missing from the vlogs lately. Andrew was gone for a while, I feel like Matthew hasn't been in vlogs in a while either. His wife Andrea only recently made an appearance to cut Nia's hair. They were supposed to go see aunt Stephanie a while ago but didn't and never mentioned why. Sams sister was in the vlog titled do we get drunk together? And Symphony was showing them something Rachel got her and called her auntie and sams mom was like auntie?! You mean Rachie? I thought that was strange, she is her aunt after all. Sams family was around quite often and now it's kinda rare.flightlessbird wrote:Where has Sam's sister been? She hasn't posted anything on IG since November and even then it was an old photo because her face looked normal, symphony looked younger. Also, why no mention of aunt Stephanie?
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Jesus Christ....Nia on her Instagram stories screaming at the top of her lungs. You're 30 years old. Calm down, if the decorations at a Bachelor watch party are THAT exciting, then you need to reevaluate.
I'm not judging her for going to the party because like I went to one, but come on. The constant screaming was a little over the top.
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I'm not judging her for going to the party because like I went to one, but come on. The constant screaming was a little over the top.
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I watched the recent Mike & Drea vlogs. They have been in San Diego for weeks now and Aunt S has been in the vlogs. It's very sad; she is not doing well at all. Andrew was there for a few days. I would think that Sam's mom would want to be there. It is very odd that Sam and Nia never say anything about this situation. Seems rather heartless to me.CurlyQ121 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 13, 2019 5:40 amIt seems like alot of the Rader family has been missing from the vlogs lately. Andrew was gone for a while, I feel like Matthew hasn't been in vlogs in a while either. His wife Andrea only recently made an appearance to cut Nia's hair. They were supposed to go see aunt Stephanie a while ago but didn't and never mentioned why. Sams sister was in the vlog titled do we get drunk together? And Symphony was showing them something Rachel got her and called her auntie and sams mom was like auntie?! You mean Rachie? I thought that was strange, she is her aunt after all. Sams family was around quite often and now it's kinda rare.flightlessbird wrote:Where has Sam's sister been? She hasn't posted anything on IG since November and even then it was an old photo because her face looked normal, symphony looked younger. Also, why no mention of aunt Stephanie?
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Sam confirmed for idiot: "This is the stupidest thing I've ever read in my life: The iron in our blood was formed in stars, billions of years ago, trillions of miles away."
Yeah, Sam. Maybe you should listen to Joni Mitchell. We are literally stardust, we are billion year old carbon. You can't believe that, but you believe dinosaurs were on the ark. Hooooly shit, these children are never going to learn anything. Maybe don't go to a nature and science museum if you can't handle it.
Yeah, Sam. Maybe you should listen to Joni Mitchell. We are literally stardust, we are billion year old carbon. You can't believe that, but you believe dinosaurs were on the ark. Hooooly shit, these children are never going to learn anything. Maybe don't go to a nature and science museum if you can't handle it.
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I’m so disgusted by the fact that they are leaving in footage with the youngest not wearing a shirt considering everything going down on YouTube right now. And they have acknowledge everything that is going on with YouTube, so they are fully aware of what they are participating in. How awful for those kids to have parents that care more about the money rather than their well being. I personally hope that they get the reality check that they deserve and their channel gets shut down.
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Yea I watch Mike & Drea too. Sam and Nia mentioned once that Aunt Stephanie wasn't doing well and they were going to go see her for Thanksgiving and that was it. It's sad. They seemed close with her and Jessica. I wonder if something happened or if they're just being selfish as usual and don't want to go. I wonder if Andrew will be around more often now that he's back.JLPC wrote:I watched the recent Mike & Drea vlogs. They have been in San Diego for weeks now and Aunt S has been in the vlogs. It's very sad; she is not doing well at all. Andrew was there for a few days. I would think that Sam's mom would want to be there. It is very odd that Sam and Nia never say anything about this situation. Seems rather heartless to me.CurlyQ121 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 13, 2019 5:40 amIt seems like alot of the Rader family has been missing from the vlogs lately. Andrew was gone for a while, I feel like Matthew hasn't been in vlogs in a while either. His wife Andrea only recently made an appearance to cut Nia's hair. They were supposed to go see aunt Stephanie a while ago but didn't and never mentioned why. Sams sister was in the vlog titled do we get drunk together? And Symphony was showing them something Rachel got her and called her auntie and sams mom was like auntie?! You mean Rachie? I thought that was strange, she is her aunt after all. Sams family was around quite often and now it's kinda rare.flightlessbird wrote:Where has Sam's sister been? She hasn't posted anything on IG since November and even then it was an old photo because her face looked normal, symphony looked younger. Also, why no mention of aunt Stephanie?
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All we can do is report, report, report. YT wants people to report using the "child abuse" option. I hope they get shut down too. Today was a total disregard to his son's privacy.GollyItsMollie wrote: ↑Wed Mar 13, 2019 5:13 pm I’m so disgusted by the fact that they are leaving in footage with the youngest not wearing a shirt considering everything going down on YouTube right now. And they have acknowledge everything that is going on with YouTube, so they are fully aware of what they are participating in. How awful for those kids to have parents that care more about the money rather than their well being. I personally hope that they get the reality check that they deserve and their channel gets shut down.
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I reported it for sure and I hope something happens to them. I just feel so bad for their poor children. I want to be a fly on the wall in that house when the kids are older and they realize how screwed up their parents are.Liz_444 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 13, 2019 5:42 pmAll we can do is report, report, report. YT wants people to report using the "child abuse" option. I hope they get shut down too. Today was a total disregard to his son's privacy.GollyItsMollie wrote: ↑Wed Mar 13, 2019 5:13 pm I’m so disgusted by the fact that they are leaving in footage with the youngest not wearing a shirt considering everything going down on YouTube right now. And they have acknowledge everything that is going on with YouTube, so they are fully aware of what they are participating in. How awful for those kids to have parents that care more about the money rather than their well being. I personally hope that they get the reality check that they deserve and their channel gets shut down.