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Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Boredomatitsfinest » Sat Sep 30, 2017 8:59 am

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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby HelloSweetie » Sat Sep 30, 2017 10:12 am

Continuing off of the Julie and Joel would make a great couple discussion on the other thread...

Opposites often attract for a reason. I believe that relationships need balance, and have seen many relationships go wrong because the couples were too similar (but also too different). Pair two passive partners and nothing gets done, and feelings are never expressed. Two lazy partners and there is no drive. If a relationship has two career driven partners, then often the relationship itself takes a backseat and becomes a business deal of its own. It's interesting how we often need a partner that challenges the way we see the world, and the ideals we grew up with. For example, my husband is incredibly frugal, whereas I'm more inclined to spend. Over the years he has learned to lighten up a bit and have some flexible spending, and I have learned to save more.

Specifically to Julie and Joel then, from what I've seen of them they are nurturers who want those around them to be happy and taken care of. Spouse, parents, children, etc. If Julie and Joel were both together they would spend all their time taking care of others, and not taking care of themselves. Joel wouldn't think to fulfill Julie's needs as he does Bonnie's because Julie wouldn't reveal she needed anything. Similarly, Julie with Joel. I think it could be a combination where both were struggling, and just never able to express that out of fear of disappointing the other and disrupting their happy home.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Boredomatitsfinest » Sat Sep 30, 2017 10:53 am

^^^ came here to say the same thing. Haha

J&J's personalities may mesh well, but that's the type of pairing that would only thrive in friendship. In a marriage, there needs to be balance. Opposites definitely attract for a reason!
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Namm » Sat Sep 30, 2017 11:04 am

Both of you are so right on everything! Good you ended the idea of them as a couple before the fantasies got a little bit out there ;)
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby alexandriablue » Sun Oct 01, 2017 9:22 pm

HelloSweetie wrote:Continuing off of the Julie and Joel would make a great couple discussion on the other thread...

Opposites often attract for a reason. I believe that relationships need balance, and have seen many relationships go wrong because the couples were too similar (but also too different). Pair two passive partners and nothing gets done, and feelings are never expressed. Two lazy partners and there is no drive. If a relationship has two career driven partners, then often the relationship itself takes a backseat and becomes a business deal of its own. It's interesting how we often need a partner that challenges the way we see the world, and the ideals we grew up with. For example, my husband is incredibly frugal, whereas I'm more inclined to spend. Over the years he has learned to lighten up a bit and have some flexible spending, and I have learned to save more.

Specifically to Julie and Joel then, from what I've seen of them they are nurturers who want those around them to be happy and taken care of. Spouse, parents, children, etc. If Julie and Joel were both together they would spend all their time taking care of others, and not taking care of themselves. Joel wouldn't think to fulfill Julie's needs as he does Bonnie's because Julie wouldn't reveal she needed anything. Similarly, Julie with Joel. I think it could be a combination where both were struggling, and just never able to express that out of fear of disappointing the other and disrupting their happy home.


This is a great point. I think Joel and Bonnie really balance each other out and adore each other. I could never EVER picture Joel and Julie together. I think Joel loves that Bonnie is a little firecracker :D
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Caisflame » Sun Oct 01, 2017 11:01 pm

I haven't watched them in a while (or any vloggers really, been tired of youtube lately) can anyone explain what the new title is referencing?
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby RecklessDisregard » Mon Oct 02, 2017 4:44 am

Defuego wrote:I haven't watched them in a while (or any vloggers really, been tired of youtube lately) can anyone explain what the new title is referencing?


Lincoln's attempt to say "backpack" - he almost got it right, lol. And he wore that backpack all day. He loves it, hahah. Quite endearing.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Boredomatitsfinest » Mon Oct 02, 2017 8:20 am

Ehhhh. I like Bonnie a lot and I really love Joel, but I definitely did not need to hear him fart multiple times in today's vlog lol. Gross.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby boredmamaneedsdrama » Mon Oct 02, 2017 9:24 am

I like the blooper videos but couldn't finish this one. By 30 secs it wad already driving me nuts because of the horrible editing. Bloopers are already random clips, there is no need to split each individual "blooper" into a bunch of 3 second clips and mix-and-match them. It was very confusing and annoying to watch, I had no idea what was happening.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby calliepaige » Mon Oct 02, 2017 9:55 am

I thought the bloopers were funny at first and a nice addition every month but now they just show how often they refilm something and how set up some things are


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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby FakingIt_MakingIt » Mon Oct 02, 2017 10:07 am

Ive never been a fan of the bloopers, but Im not even going to try and watch todays. I have no desire to see a video of them farting.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby natalka81 » Mon Oct 02, 2017 10:33 am

I made it about a minute in- maximum.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Caisflame » Mon Oct 02, 2017 2:03 pm

I hate how Bonnie makes 6 year old Cody out to be a wimp because he's scared to kill spiders, yet she's a grown woman and freaks out worse than him when it comes to spiders. Adult up and kill it yourself, or at the very least change your attitude so your child doesn't think he should be scared of spiders. When you act terrified in front of a 6 year old, they're going to feel the same way.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby chatty » Mon Oct 02, 2017 9:37 pm

These were actually the first bloopers I enjoyed, i laughed out loud multiple times. Especially at 7.13 when Lincoln inadvertently said ‘you bitch’


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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Boredomatitsfinest » Tue Oct 03, 2017 6:37 am

Man, this thread has been dead lately. Haha *tumbleweed rolls by*

I just wanna put it out there that, while watching today's vlog, I realized how biased I am (duh) and had to laugh at myself for it. As I watched the clip where Bonnie and Julie bump mouths, I was thinking about how Bonnie is probably going to get hell for it here, and how I actually thought the clip was funny. But, then I imagined if Bonnie would've done the same thing with Ellie, how grossed out and irritated I would have been.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Kaylor1 » Tue Oct 03, 2017 6:56 am

It still was gross. I am very close to my sister but nope would never do that. I can laugh at bonnie and Julie though. I think they are just more likeable people. Now if Ruby and Ellie did that..........barf

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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Boredomatitsfinest » Tue Oct 03, 2017 7:33 am

^ Haha I totally agree. It definitely was still gross, but I think the, "I feel so alive!" comment afterward is what made it funny.

Omg...Ruby & Ellie bumping mouths... *shudder*
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby HelloSweetie » Tue Oct 03, 2017 7:39 am

Boredomatitsfinest wrote:^ Haha I totally agree. It definitely was still gross, but I think the, "I feel so alive!" comment afterward is what made it funny.

Omg...Ruby & Ellie bumping mouths... *shudder*


I can hear the screaming from Ellie already!

But I agree. I wasn't bothered by things like this from Ellie in the beginning either. For example, I used to think it was sweet how she'd kiss Jared, but now I can't help but honk she's trying to Hoover his face offer suck out his soul. I also used to think Jared was sweet and funny. I guess maybe it's a fine line between funny and obnoxious and after awhile you just start to get annoyed by the same things you used to think were amusing. It's like overusing a joke
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby menehune » Tue Oct 03, 2017 10:44 am

I agree about the short cuts on the blooper vlog. I would have preferred to have just seen the whole clip at one time. I also didn't need the farting, but I don't think I would have even realized that was what was happening if I hadn't read it here first. They should have just left that out. Not everyone finds potty humour that funny.

Lincoln saying "bitch" was just adorable though! I also like the little bloopers of the kids. Seeing them start over and set up some of their talks didn't bother me because it makes sense for sponsorships and things. I didn't feel we were seeing a change in personality between takes, so it didn't make me think they were being fake like Jared's famous playdate scene. I totally thought the thumbnail of Boston was Cody!
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Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby littlebaby » Tue Oct 03, 2017 12:00 pm

I honestly love how much Bonnie laughs in vlogs. I think she has a lot of genuine joy in her life and can find happiness in the simplest of things. I also love her wheezy laugh because I laugh the same!


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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby boredmamaneedsdrama » Tue Oct 03, 2017 8:39 pm

Y'all think kissing Julie was the gross part. No. I do not need to see you sucking on your husband face. Just no. Today's vlog title was very accurate.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Caisflame » Tue Oct 03, 2017 10:55 pm

Oh Lincoln. If that boy was my son I would never be able to tell him no. He is just the most precious thing.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby KaterTot » Wed Oct 04, 2017 10:48 am

Lincoln is the cutest. Just something about that kid!
I am not as familiar with Julie and her family so I am kind of interested in them moving back home and the dynamics. It's almost like getting new characters in a tv show. lol. They are moving by Ruby though right? That should be interesting.
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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby Kay91_ » Thu Oct 05, 2017 11:32 am

This is probably an unpopular opinion because it's Bonnie. But I didn't like how she told Olivia she doesn't think that it was 12 people teasing her but more like 4. I understand kids can exaggerate but if your kid is telling you people are teasing her about the vlogs maybe be more understanding & don't downplay it. I didn't catch if she was talking about kids at her school or what but it's totally possible that that many kids are teasing her. Telling her that there are thousands of people watching that love them is true but she doesn't see or deal with viewers everyday. She has to go to school & see those kids. I did agree with them saying he proud of what you do & who you are but that's easy for them to say now. I know it was such a small part of the vlog but I was bullied from elementary & jr. high & those years were brutal for me. I couldn't imagine going through that with my life online for everyone to see. Anyways Olivia didn't seem upset in that moment but it stood out to me, sorry for the long rant.


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Re: Bonnie and Joel: Pack-Cacking it | Part 13

Postby menehune » Thu Oct 05, 2017 11:37 am

Kay91_ wrote:This is probably an unpopular opinion because it's Bonnie. But I didn't like how she told Olivia she doesn't think that it was 12 people teasing her but more like 4. I understand kids can exaggerate but if your kid is telling you people are teasing her about the vlogs maybe be more understanding & don't downplay it. I didn't catch if she was talking about kids at her school or what but it's totally possible that that many kids are teasing her. Telling her that there are thousands of people watching that love them is true but she doesn't see or deal with viewers everyday. She has to go to school & see those kids. I did agree with them saying he proud of what you do & who you are but that's easy for them to say now. I know it was such a small part of the vlog but I was bullied from elementary & jr. high & those years were brutal for me. I couldn't imagine going through that with my life online for everyone to see. Anyways Olivia didn't seem upset in that moment but it stood out to me, sorry for the long rant.


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I would have the same reaction if my child said that just based off of HOW Olivia said it. She didn't seem affected enough for it to be a group bullying situation or a popular opinion which 12 people would certainly feel like to an 8 year old.

I didn't like that it was shown on the vlog, but I think both Bonnie and Joel handled it well.
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